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motivateing, courage and inspire positive trackand a healthier lifestyle. Welcome to Tony
on one podcast. Good afternoon,and welcome to another episode of the Tony
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in one podcast. This is thethird part to a three part series that
I have been working on and itis the impact of sex on the physical
integrity as well as health. Now, if you have not to listen to
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part one and two, please goback and do so and come forward.
Part one we were discussing the impactof sex on women's physical integrity and health
as well as part two the impacton physical integrity and health of men.
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And what we have found is thatthere are changes, there are certain consequences,
and I mean we don't get theconcept of body count, and it's
been a huge debate and we havenot done any bashing and we will not
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do any bashing on either men orwomen because it is unhealthy, but we
will save the facts. It's justlike anything else in life, there's wear
and terror on the physical, themental, the emotional. There are changes
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and so today, which I thinkis the most important part of the series
is the influence of parental sexual behaviorson the development of children's integrity and health.
Cause let's be clear, kids copyeverything their parents or guardians do.
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If they're copying their friends and whatthey see on TV, they're definitely definitely
mocking the parents. And kids wannabe like their parents. I'm not gonna
say all of'em, cause thereare a few who don't, but for
the most part, children strive tobe like their parents. They want to
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do everything you do. So that'swhy I feel this is very important that
we should definitely talk about this,And guys and ladies, leave me your
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know of the next show. Allright, So let's dive into this Now,
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in today's society, parents play acrucial role in shaping their children's values
and beliefs. Now, one aspectof parental influence that needs careful consideration is
their sexual behavior. Because, likeI say, kids want to be like
their parents. They wanna do exactlywhat you do. Yeah, you can
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tell them don't do this, don'tdo that, but they're gonna do what
we do or what they think wedo. Either way, it's for them.
Their perception is it's what we did. They're gonna do it too,
And that makes this very important.Now. Research suggests that parents sexual behaviors
can significantly impact their children's ideas ofintegrity and health, and that does make
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sense. Now. This show aimsat exploring the various ways in which parential
sexual behaviors can influence their children andthe potential effects it may have on their
development. And parents, we dohave to own this, mistakes, the
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good everything, We we have toown it. We do. It doesn't
feel good, but we left ownit and truth hurts, but it help.
So Parental role modeling. Children naturallylook up to their parents as role
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models. They're watching and observing theirparents' sexual behaviors, and it can shape
their understanding of relationships, intimacy,and notations of integrity. So if we've
got the ladies wearing nails, babygirls wanna wearing nails. If that's a
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fisherman, that's what you see himdo, He's gonna wanna be a fisherman.
That's kind of how it works.So dating, they're watching who you
choose, how you act with thatperson, how that person acts with you,
the lies you tell or the thingsyou don't tell, or whether you
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speak up for yourself or not,or speak up for that person or not.
They're all they're watching it all now. According to Ben Dura's social learning
theory, which was done back innineteen seventy seven, individuals learned by observing
and imitating the behavior of others.Children who witness witness respectful, consensual,
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and responsible sexual behaviors from their parentsor more likely to develop a positive understanding
of healthy relationships and sexual integrity.Now. In contrast, children who are
exposed to inappropriate or disrespectful behaviors withintheir family may develop distorted perceptions of intimacy
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and integrity. Like I say,if we've got uncle Jimbo cheating on his
wife or uncle Jimbo's wife cheating onhim and he's you know, not doing
anything. The kids are gonna think, oh, okay, that's okay to
do know, it's not, andthey're not gonna understand that those are mistakes
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that the adults are having to learnconsequences from, but they're gonna pick it
up. Now. This could leadto them learning manipulation, and that's something
none of us want, but it'spossible lack of consent or objectifying are acceptable,
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leading to unhealthy relationship patterns later inlife. And researchers have all also
shown that children raising an environment wheresexual boundaries are consistently violated or more likely
to engage in risky sexual behaviors asadolescents and adults, which does increase their
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you know, to receptibility to sexualtransmitted infections and mental health issues. Because
let's be honest, the things thathappen to us throughout life will definitely have
an impact on the rest of ourlives and how we lead those lives,
the decisions we make, and soforth. Communication and education could open open
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the doors of honest communication between parentsand their children, which is essential and
it includes discussions about sex and sexualityand now, of course, age appropriate
conversations about consent, safe practices,and sexual health can foster a healthier understanding
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of sexuality and integrity. These discussionsshould emphasize the importance of respect, boundaries,
and responsible decision making in sexual relationships. And let's be honest. Back
in the day, there was nota lot of talk of it. It
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was always just flat out guided,So there was never really a lot of
conversation. Maybe a few households hereand there who found it, you know,
a little more comfortable to talk totheir children about sex. Other than
that, people pretty much found outon their own or friends through friends,
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those quote unquote promiscuous friends who weremore open and comfortable with themselves, they
talked about it more. But alot of families didn't. And it's very
important, especially more so now thanever, to have that open communication and
education talking with them, be honesteven about even about some of the mistakes
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you've made, so they know,okay, so I can trust what my
parents are saying because they're being honestabout their flaws as well. And it
all, it all will fall backon what like when we're going through right
now with the debates and the bashingabout body count and all of this.
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It's hard for adults. They areadult women online right now and adult men
online who are clashing. They're havinga hard time dealing with body count and
what they learned or didn't learn asa child. It's affecting them and in
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some who are not knowing how todeal with it, how to cope with
Okay, maybe I've made some baddecisions. Well I don't know. I
just did what mom did or whatdad did. Nobody told me nothing about
this. You'll hear it all.So let's curb that and bring that back
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down because it's hurting. It's hurtingthe children, it really is. They're
watching YouTube, they're listening, they'reon Facebook, they're on Twitter, they're
on you know, well X nowit's not twenty anymore X, but they're
on Instagram, every platform that's outthere that they have access too, which
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is becoming more easy for them todo. It's out there. So we
gotta get ahead of this at home, actually take that time to openly talk
to'em about what's going on,how things really are supposed to go.
But we can't do that without showingthem how it's supposed to go. It
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was gonna make them hard to forthem to listen if they're going, Okay,
you say this, but you're doingthis and somewhere along in life,
all parents have made that mistake causewe're all human. But it's owning it
and going hey, yeah, Idid make that mistake, but I'd rather
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you not make that mistake. SoI'm gonna be honest with you and laid
out this can happen. You cancatch your stg, you can ruin yourself
and nobody you know who might notwant to be with you. There are
consequences in it all and they needto know that. So these discussions should
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emphasize the importance of respect, boundaries, and responsible decision making in sexual relationships.
Parents who shy away from discussing thesetopics, can you know inadvertently contribute
to a lack of sexual knowledge andunhealthy attitudes toward sexuality among their children.
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And again, yes, I'm bigon research because it's information that has been
freely given from people. Research indicatesthat adolescents who do not receive comprehensive sexual
education from their parents are more likelyto engage in risky sexual behaviors and experience
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negative outcomes such as early unprotected sexor even unwanted pregnancies. Parental influence plays
a big part, and it goesbeyond education. So apart from direct conversations,
parents can also shape their children's ideasof integrity and health through their actions
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and attitudes towards sexuality. They learnit. Everything they learn they learn it
from home. First things are taughtin them watching is there? Those are
lessons they're watching. They're watching everything. They're watching and not capable of talking
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yet, but they're watching. Intheir brains are forming, and they're forming
opinions, they're forming, everything's forming. So an open, non judgmental attitude
towards diverse expressions of sexuality can helpchildren develop tolerance, acceptance, and respect
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for others. And on the otherhand, if parents consistently consistently display prejudice
or discriminatory behavior towards individuals with differentsexual orientations or engagement and infidel their children
may internalize these biases and develop negativeattitudes toward intimacy and integrity. So if
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I'm if I'm bashing, if I'mbashing guys, and I have a daughter,
what is she gonna do? She'sgonna bash guys? That's unhealthy.
If I'm a man and I havea son, and I'm bashing women,
treating them dirty. Son is gonnado that. So if I'm dressing in
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a decent way, my daughter's gonnadress in a decent way. And it's
also gonna teach my son that likethat how a woman is supposed to carry
herself. She has integrity in class, and she's got some dignity. She's
not trying to show everything to everybody. She wants to keep things for that
person she wants to be with.But it's choices. Everything about this is
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choice. Is you can choose todo whatever you like. But no,
it's not just affecting you. It'sgonna affect someone else, the children,
your children, your nieces, yournephews, your cousins, all the younger
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generations. And then they're not gonnawanna listen, cause you didn't pretty much
already taught'em all the bad orwhatever it is you're teaching by what we
do. What we do matters,what we say matters, because children are
gonna pick it up. They areconstantly watching and listening. When you think
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you're having a personal conversation with anadult on the phone, and they are
children in the room they're in thatconversation. If children are watching me and
come and go constantly, that's whatthey're learning. If they're watching dagget,
curs, style and cheat on,that's what they learn. It goes both
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ways with men and women, parents, guardians. What we do, how
we act our sexual behaviors, itaffects the children. So, in conclusion,
parental sexual behaviors significantly influence children's ideasof integrity and health. And by
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providing positive role models, engaging inopen communication, and fostering healthy attitudes towards
sexuality, parents can shape their children'sunderstandings of relationships, consent, and sexual
health. Neglecting these responsibilities may leadto detrimental effects on children's development, resulting
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in unhealthy sexual attitudes and behaviors.So let's create a safer environment when it
comes to the impact of sex onthe physical, integrity and health end.
Because these children are watching, they'relistening, they're learning, they're imitating and
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mocking. They're favorite people in thewhole world. So creating a supportive environment
that encourages open and honest discussions aroundsexuality is crucial for ensuring the overall well
being and reproductive health. Of futuregenerations. Without this, we may not
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have future generations. So let's givethis a tribe because these children are watching
what we're doing and the impact ofsex is great on children. Thank you
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guys for going on this exhilarating threepart series of the impact of sex on
physical integrity and health when it comesto women, men, and the influence
of potential sexual behaviors on children andhow it affects them. And it's been
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very important to have this conversation.Most people know it is body count.
We don't judge. We're not hereto judge. We're here to inform,
educate, and inspire a more positivelifestyle. We're all so until next time,
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