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In recent years, the concept of having multiple partners, commonly referred to as non-monogamy or polyamory, has gained significant attention and acceptance. In this episode we will explore the benefits, and disadvantages This lifestyle choice stands in contrast to traditional monogamous relationships, where two individuals enter an exclusive partnership. As society becomes increasingly open-minded, it's essential to explore the dynamics of non-monogamous relationships, including their benefits and disadvantages. It's important to know that it's going on, especially in the dating scene.

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healthier lifestyle. Welcome to Toni on One podcast. This is Daily Help.

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Good afternoon. I hope your day has been going pretty
well so far. I know it's Monday, but hey, we're
going into the new week and whatever's going on will
be all right. Welcome once again, welcome time on the
listeners and all of my day. Once for your daily health,

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We're gonna be talking about something kind of important, the
process of morning and understanding its importance. Now, I know
everybody thinks when you think about morning, you think you
automatically think about the loss of life. That is one
of the top things that people warn is the loss

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of a family member, relative, best friend, cousin, uncle, sister,
brother and mother, father, and the list goes on. But
that is not the only thing that we mourn. We
mourn the loss of our jobs. We mourn the loss
of a car, a house, a marriage, a relationship, and

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sometimes we don't deal with those things because it's not
the loss of a person, and you just think, Okay,
it's just gone. But you're experiencing several things and you're
not quite understanding because it's not the usual loss of
a life, and you automatically know, Okay, this is what
I'm going through a morning. And then there are some

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who don't know what's going on with them. They just
know they're sad. That's all they can say that they're sad.
But mourning is important. Loss is an inevitable part of life,
whether it's the death of a la one, the end

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of a significant relationship, or even a major life change.
Mourning is a natural human response to loss. But what
is mourning and why is it so crucial to our
emotional well being? Well? In this episode, we will explore
the morning process, the emotions involved, and the importance of

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allowing ourselves to grieve, because if we don't grieve we're
going to be in trouble, and that affects us all
the way around. So what is morning? Mourning is the
outward expression of grief, the process through which individuals acknowledge
and process the pain of loss. While grief is a

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personal experience that can manifest in many different ways, ranging
from sadness and anger to confusion and guilt, mourning is
often culturally and socially influenced. It includes the rituals, ceremonies,
and behaviors we engage in too remember and honor what

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we have lost. Morning can include a wide range of activities,
such as attending a funeral, creating memorials, engaging in reflective practices,
or simply allowing oneself to cry and feel. And that's
very important. It's important to note that morning is an

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individual journey. There is no right or wrong way to mourn.
Wood works for one person and not work for another,
and that is okay. So okay, now we know what
morning is, we know what's going on. There are there

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any stages, So I'll go over the stages of grief.
Many psychologists refer to the five stages of grief, a
model that Elizabeth Koopler Ross introduced in her book on
Death and Dying. These stages denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and

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acceptance help to outline a common trajectory of grief, although
they are not always linear and can differ from person
to person. But here are the five stages. One Denial,
I'm sure we all know this one. This initial stage

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serves as a buffer, allowing us to absorb the shock
of our loss. Individuals may feel numb or in disbelief
as they struggle to accept the reality of their situation.
Two Anger. In this stage, individuals may feel frustration and helplessness,

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which often manifests as anger. This anger may be directed
towards others, oneself, or even the person who has died,
as well as broader existential questions about life and fairness.
Three Bargaining. Here, individuals may try to regain control by

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making deals with the higher power or reflecting on what
they could have done differently. This stage often involves feelings
of guilt and regret. Four Depression. As the reality of
the loss sinks in, individuals may feel overwhelmingly sad. This stage

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can be characterized by a sense of emptiness or despair,
where the weight of the loss becomes more pronounced, and
five acceptance. The final stage involves coming to terms with
the loss. Acceptance does not mean forgetting or moving on,
but rather learning to live with the loss and finding

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ways to honor the memory of what was lost, and
those can be Those five stages are a very challenging time,
every last one of them. I've experienced them. My family members,
friends that I've been there for, I've watched them go
through this. It is a lot to handle, but it's doable.

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Never forget that you're stronger than you give yourself credit for.
And if you're suffering grief right now, it's very helpful
to speak with someone that you trust to be there
for you to go through this processes. Now. Some like
to do this alone, and that's fine too, but going

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through it is very important. It helps us in our
future now beyond the stages of grief. Now, this is
an individual variation, and it's crucial to understand that not
everyone will experience these stages in the same way, or
even at all. Some people may skip stages, return to

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earlier ones, or feel multiple emotional emotions simultaneously. The Morning
process is not a checklist. It is a deeply personal
and unique experience. So why is it so important emotional healing.

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One of the most significant aspects of mourning is its
role in emotional healing. Mourning allows people to confront their
feelings rather than suppressing them, which can lead to healthier
processing of grief. Experiencing mourning can create a pathway to
emotional release, helping to alleviate feelings of depression and anxiety

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associated with the loss. And like I said earlier, give
someone you trust that can action and support is very important.
Mourning can also foster connections with others. Shared rituals after
a loss, such as funerals, memorials, and gatherings, offering space

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for communal grief. This con togetherness reminds mourners that they
are not alone in their sorrow. Sharing grief with others
provide emotional support, helps individuals to feel understood and foster
a sense of community. Honoring memory through morning, we create

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opportunities to honor and celebrate the lives of those we've lost.
This can involve storytelling, engaging in memorial activities, or establishing
new traditions in line with the deceased values. These practices
help reinforce the bond with the person lost, keeping their

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memory alive in a constructive way, So how does it
help you in the future? Growth Right emotional healing, of course,
which leads to personal growth and resilience. Facing grief and
engaging in mourning process can lead to significant personal growth.

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It allows individuals to explore their emotions deeply, gain new insights,
and develop resilience. After experiencing profound laws, many fine renewed
perspectives on life, relationships and what truly matters to them,
encouraging future healing. The morning process also lays the groundwork

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for future healing. While absence does not erase a person's impact,
it encourages the mourners to eventually integrate that loss into
their lives. Mourning can transform feelings of grief into a
cherished connection that it evolves over time. Now, some people

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go through things, and it can lead to some very
dark places when morning turns to complicated grief. While mourning
is a healthy response, sometimes individuals may encounter complicated grief
where the process feels prolonged or immobilizing. Symptoms may include

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intense sorrow and inability to resume regular life activities and
persistent thoughts about the deceased. In such cases, seeking professional
help through counseling or therapy can be beneficial. Always seek
help if you feel like it's going too far, or

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someone else has mentioned that it's going too long or
too far or something like that. If it's just debilitating
like that, please get help. It's okay to get help now.
Mourning is a vital aspect of human experience, providing a
structured way to process loss while promoting emotional health and

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well being. It forms the connected thread of our relationships,
both past and present, and allows us to weave our
grief into the tapestry of our lives. In embracing the
morning process, we honor those we have lost and ultimately
allow ourselves the chance to heal and grow. Remember, it's

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perfectly okay to mourn, and doing so might be one
of the bravest things we can do. So allow yourselves
some time to grieve. From time to mourn, it'll be
beneficial in the long run, and in the process do
start new traditions. You don't have to forget the person,

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because you're not going to be able to forget them,
but cherish the time you spent with them, Appreciate it
because you had time with them or whatever it was
that you lost. Loss is not easy, but it's also

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not impossible to deal with. Take your time, don't be
hard on yourself, and don't allow outside negative input to
interrupt the grieving process for you. If someone's being very
negative about your mourning, separate yourself from that person. They're

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going through their own journey and are unable to help
you to grieve with you. Grief is not bad, but
if it goes unusually long, seek help because the grieving
process is important and it does help us. Also find

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something something that maybe that person likes to do, or
something you like to do. If it's not a person
that you lost, something else to add to your hobbies
or that you want to new things you want to try.
It helps with resilience because again, loss is an inevitable

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part of life and it's okay to cycle through those emotions.
It's important, so don't worry about it anybody else's expectation
of grief. Just allow yourself to the time to grief.

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News report, current events, issues and the headlines. It is
time for the news report. So today now we have

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we have one that might be kind of sensitive for
some people. So I'm gonna let you know that now
this is in our news religion slash politics. Now, there's
a bill out that is requiring classrooms to display the

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Ten Commandments at you know, in the classrooms, possibly outside
of the school. And this is coming out of Texas.
And this story here is by Nolan D. McCaskill through
the Dallas Morning News. And this bill was past Sunday,

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meaning it'll return to the Senate before going to Governor
Greg Abbot. I'm not sure how you all might feel
about this, but I think you should know. Now this
has taking place in Austin, and like I said, it's
a beer requiring classroom displays of the Ten Commandments in
public schools. Now, it passed the Texas House on Sunday

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and it was a eighty two to forty six vote,
which sends the proposal back to the Senate before it
goes to Governor Greg Abbot. Now, lawmakers in the House
amended the legislation Sunday to include a provision saying that
state Attorney General must defend public schools in any lawsuits
that arise out of the proposal. Now here's one cause

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on all the taxpayers. We go through a lot, but
taxpayers would foot the bill if litigation results from the law. Interesting.
That part right there is interesting as well. Now, the
underlying measure is among Republicans' efforts this session to experience

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religion in public classrooms. Lawmakers vorder Friday to send a
build a abbot allowing prayer time in public schools. Representative
Candy Noble Are Lucas told colleagues during Saturday's debate that
the Ten Commandments are foundational to America and its educational

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and judicial systems, Which is true. Nothing is more deep
rooted in the fabric of our American tradition of education
than the Ten Commandments. Noble said, the very way we
treat others as a society comes from the principles found
in the Ten Commandments. Members spent more than two and

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a half hours debating the Ten Commandments bill, so they
really kind of bounced it back and forth, with Democrats
raising concerns about the state endorsing a particular faith and
teachers having to explain to students references to adultery and slavery,
which I mean, not only do parents teach it, some

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parents teach it at home. Why not teach it in
school because it is educational and it could help save
lives via one of the commandments, some of this violence
would begin to dwindle down if it is taught in

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school as well. Now we're not trying to make good teachers,
you know, have a bigger load. Cause I know that
may be an argument for some, but let's be honest.
It's easy to print out and it doesn't take long
to reference it to kids. If they can, at at

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three and four years old, pick up cell phones and
know how to get into them, and know how to
go and find what they want online and actually do
it with no help, this is a case walk now.
Representative James Taller Rico, I'm sorry, Representative if I butchered

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your last name. D Austen said. One commandment would convey
to Hindu Buddhist students that their religion is inferior because
it says doubts shall not have no other guys before me.
If the goal of the bill is to create a
whole new generation of Christians, I think this bill would
do the opposite, said tall Rico, a seminary student. So yeah,

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for some people, that's gonna bring up some questions, But
all of this is basically out of love and to
hope we once had this and things were not as bad. Now,
that's my opinion, but he goes on to say, I

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think this bill will create a whole new generation of
atheists who think our religion is more about power than love.
Texas effort to require the Teen Commandments in public schools
mirrors a law Louisiana passed last year. Federal courts have
blocked it from taking effect, and members from both parties

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have said a lawsuit over Texas proposal is likely. The
US Supreme Court on Thursday deadlocked in a case that
effectively blocked the creation of con the country's first public
religion religious charter school in Oklahoma, but some Texas Republicans
have said a twenty twenty two Supreme Court case paved

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the way for the Ten Commandments bill to become law
in the state. In that case, the high court rule
that a public school football coaches midfield prayer after games
was protected by the First Amendment. Now, under Texas proposal,
public schools must display a sixteen x twenty inch durable

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poster or framed copy of the Ten Commandments in every classroom.
The text of the display must be legible, so anyone
with average vision could read it from inside the classroom.
Schools without enough displays would have to accept any private
donations that meet the requirements. They could also purchase displays

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with district funds. Democrats unsuccessfully proposed fifteen amendments to alter
the bills Saturday, including efforts to display alternate versions of
the Ten Commandments, require parental consent notification of the policy
change before the school year, remove references to slavery, provide
a portal for teachers to offer real time feedback for

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analysis and legislative recommendations, and allow school boards to vote
on whether to adopt the policy. He also went to
went on to say I would not want to curse
our local school boys with having to have this debate.
Noble said, in fact, I think that I think that

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is our job to make these kinds of decisions to
save them from having to do those kinds of debates.
What do y'all think about this? Because on Friday, the
House approved the proposal protecting school employees' rights to engage
in religious speech or prayer while on duty. Over the
holiday weekend, the Chamber was expected to vote on a

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bill that would allow religious groups to use public schools
and state college facilities to host events such as worship services,
sermons and assemblies. Are you with this or you not?
What are your feelings on this? Definitely let me know
in the comments below. You can email me uh Tony

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on one podcast, find online social media and just hit
me up and let me know how you're feeling about this,
because this is real. This is definitely real. Now On Saturday,
representing Vicky Goodwin, the Austin Laminated lamented that parents will

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be blindsided by the policy, and represent John Bryant, Democrat
in Dallas, said the legisl leisure is creating an impossible
burden for public school teachers. Other Democrats framed the proposal
as a purely political move that has nothing to do
with education. Let me start right there. It actually does.

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It is education if we can. Somebody gonna get mad
at this, but it's cool. Is your right, and you
can say this is just my opinion. But if we
can force kids to have to see drag queens in

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their schools, tryna force them to teach about transgender and
everything else, which really is not considered education, cause that's
a choice that a person makes once they're of age,
and in my personal opinion, I think in doing so

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and allowing those things to take place. This proposal is
nothing pass it because with the drag queen's going into
the school, that's actually grooming. So will allow drag queens

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to insert these ideas into our children's our small children's mind,
by the way, within the school system and plant these
seeds that these kids were never even thinking about. But
it's being taught and talked about in school. The sh
they're having shows in front of the children and everything else,

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and that scene is okay and healthy. But there's an
issue with passing this bill that if the children learn
these ten commandments they would actually be better people, better
citizens for society. HM makes you wonder, right, So many

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have a problem with this bill, but don't have a
problem with drag queens going into our school and groom
and children. Because this is not like we're talking about
these drag queens going into high schools where the children
are older and who can effectively kind of think for themselves. No,

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we're talking about going into elementary schools and putting on
shows and dancing, and it's provocative, it's sexual. But you
have an issue with a bill that could help them
become good stewards and citizens. Is that not what we

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want good stewards, who are charitable, who love each other,
who treat each other with respect. HM. The commandments will
teach them not to lie and things of that name.
But that's not good, right, that's a bad thing. It

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makes the people that we vote to put in office
very questionable, very very questionable. And these are the people
that we want to quote unquote speak for us, or
like it said in the article, they make the decisions

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for the teachers, so they don't have to even deal
with it, so they're not even aware of it. Basically,
you're gonna take the choice away. If we had this
bill to be passed, I don't think that it would
create a bunch of atheists. I don't think it would

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create a bunch of hostile people, because they're going to
grow to be people. And if you truly want to
educate them, why hide the education from them. Why insert
educational dysfunction and be okay with that. But not something

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like this bill that would actually create a sense of
sensible order within the world. It's questionable. Now, I digress,
and those were my opinions, but I would like to
hear from you to know what you think. Now. Tolerico

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de t attempted to delay Saturday's debate by requesting the
bill's consideration be postponed to fall in line with one
of the ten Commandments, to remember the Sabbath. You can use.
This is questionable. This is what I mean when I
say it's questionable. Okay, So a representative can who doesn't

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want this to be passed, used one of the ten
Commandments in his argument trying to postpone it, postpone getting
the bill voted on. You don't want the bill, but
you use what's can someone make this make sense because

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it does not make sense. It doesn't, It really doesn't.
Your tactic to postpone it is to use one of
the ten commandments about the Sabbath. See if you can
use one of the ten Commandments to get out of

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voting for this bill. There's nothing wrong with the Ten
Commandments and tallerco respectively. You just proved it because you
just used it. Now. He also started action on the

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bill Wednesday, delaying the House vote until the weekend, and
he went into great detail using using one of the
ten Commandments. I mean, seriously, he he went all in

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using it, cause he said part of keeping the Sabbath
holy is not working on the sabbath. He stated, would
you be willing to postpone your bills so that we're
not breaking the Ten Commandments while working on the Jewish
or Christian Sabbath? Like I say, he used it, and

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another r another representative stated, I love that you s
said that, because if we had not had your point
of order the other day, we would have actually already
completed that noble retorted to applause from colleagues. I think

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Nolan D. Mccaskal from the Dallas Morning News for that
news article. A lot of this is very questionable. The
people that we have in office to make decisions for us,
we have to seriously be careful because they will trample

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over citizens' rights. Citizens' rights. Every last one of us
has rights. The children that are born have rights. And
again I'll say, adopting this bill is not going to

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hurt the children, cause this is what this is about
children's education. And like I stayed in earlier, if we
can let the LGBTQ in the elementary schools to perform
drag shows and effectively planting seeds within these small children,

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that could turn out to be very negative and hurtful later.
Children are like sponges. They soak in everything around them,
everything you present to them, everything you teach them. So
why not allow them to learn, learning, tend commandments, and
have good habits versus bad habits. Then we could have

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a generation of adults who actually love and care for
one another, and also them trying to amend it, to
take slavery out. That's a whole other can of worms.
Because you cannot erase history, You cannot erase the bad deeds.

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They are there, it is done, it is known about.
You want the next generations to not know about it,
like it does not exist. In effect, you are not
teaching history. We are talking about the school system right
where history is one of the classes. Like I say,

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make it make sense, because it makes none. We have
to be very careful who we vote to speak for
us and to make decisions for us, because ultimately they
could be making decisions for them, not for us, not
for our children, not for our grandchildren and our great
grands and their education is very very important as well

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as their safety. Pass this bill, Pass it and bring
prayer back to school. It's healthy, it's educational, it's creating peace.

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We don't want to stop peace, right So We're gonna
see if Texas is gonna pass this bill. If you
have any information on this news report, please don't hesitate
to get in contact with me. Let's talk about it,

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ladies and gentlemen. It is at home for hot topic.
The conversation is about to get heated, and we have
come to the section of the twenty in one podcast
entitled hot topic and this one today. Everyone is definitely hot.

(35:13):
This is going to press some buttons. Some people don't
get mad Almighty I They might even try to counsel me.
But you know what, It's all good because I'm gonna
make sure to put this information out there. You can't
make an informed decision without having information you need brain well,
our hot topic for today is exploring the concept of

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having multiple partners, benefits, disadvantages, what it does to your
marriage and also your spiritual journey. Now, in recent years,
the concept that having multiple partners, commonly referred to as
non monogamy or polyamory, it has gained significant attention and acceptance.

(35:58):
This lifestyle choice stands in contrast to traditional monogamous relationships,
where two individuals enter an exclusive partnership. As society becomes
increasingly open minded, it's essential to explore the dynamics of
non monogamous relationships, including their benefits, disadvantages, what it does

(36:20):
to the marriage and your spiritual journey. It's important to
know that it's going on, especially in the dating scene.
Understanding non monogamy, it encompasses a variety of relationship structures,
ranging from polyamory where individuals have emotionally intimate relationships with

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multiple partners, to swinging, where sexual relationship with others occur
without emotional attachment. Supposedly, while the specifics can vary, what
unites these practices is the acceptance of multiple concurrent romantic
and or sexual relationships. So I spoke of benefits, So

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let's talk about the alleged benefits of having multiple partners.
One increased emotional support. One of the most significant advantages
of maintaining multiple relationships is the expanded emotional support network.
With several partners, individuals can turn to different people for insight, comfort,
and understanding, effectively alleviating the potential strain that one partner

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may not be able to shoulder alone, which, again I'll say,
allegedly two diverse experiences. Each partner brings unique qualities and
experiences to a relationship. The diversity inherent in multiple partnerships
can provide deeper insights, promote personal growth, and introduce individuals

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to new activities, perspectives, and lifestyles. Allegedly, and guys, I'm
gonna keep saying this. Communication skills. Navigating non monogamous relationships
require strong communication skills and emotional intelligence. Individuals in non
monogamous setups often develop a heightened ability to communicate their

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needs and emotions, leading to healthier interactions both within and
outside their romantic circles. Allegedly reduced pressure on a single partner.
In non monogamous settings, there may be an implicit pressure
on one partner to fulfill all emotional, intellectual, and sexual needs.

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Non Monogamous relationships allow each partner to contribute their strengths,
reducing individual stress and burden. Allegedly sexual exploration. For many,
having multiple partners opens up opportunities for sexual exploration and experimentation.
This freedom can enhance sexual satisfaction and prevent feelings of

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stagnation often associated with long term monogamous relationships. Allegedly, freedom
and autonomy. The non monogamous approach emphasizes personal choice and autonomy.
Individuals are free to pursue connections that suit their desires
without fear of judgment, which can foster high levels of

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satisfaction and fulfillment in their relationships. Allegedly and guys, I
kept saying allegedly because it's not a fact, it's each
person's belief in this. Who'll get into this now, Let's
talk about the disadvantages of having multiple partners. One Jealousy

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and security. One of the most common sided challenges in
non monogamous relationships is managing jealousy. Even with open communication,
feelings of insecurity can arise as partners engage with other individuals.
Navigating these emotions to require significant self awareness and reassurance,
which can be complex to time management. Balancing multiple relationships

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demands considerable time and energy. Individuals may struggle to meet
the emotional and obligations to each partner, and this can
lead to stress and feelings of inadequacy if partners needs
aren't met. Three Complicated dynamics. Introducing more partners can complicate

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relationship dynamics, leading to misunderstandings and conflicts. Navigating the different expectations, boundaries,
and feelings of multiple partners can be challenging, and conflicts
conflicts can arise more easily social stigma. Despite growing awareness,
non monogamous relationships can still face stigma and misunderstanding from

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broader societal norms. Facing judgment from friends and family or
society can lead to isolation and stress for individuals who
choose non monogamy. Five health risk. The potential for sexually
transmitted infections increase with multiple sexual partners. Responsible practices such
as regular testing, open discussions about sexual health and boundaries,

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and the use of protection are crucial, but can be
difficult to navigate legal and financial complications. In many jurisdictions,
legal and financial systems are built around monogamous relationships. This
can lead to complexities in areas such as inheritance, health
care decisions, and parental rights that may require careful planning

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and consideration in non monogamous setups. So there are a
lot of challenges to this. There are a lot of
problems that come with this. So if you're married and
you're trying to have a polyamorous family, how does it
affect your marital status? Polyamory can introduce significant complications that

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may threaten the stability of a marriage or primary relationship.
While some individuals enter polyamorous arrangements seeking to enhance their
connections or explore new dynamics. It can often lead to
unintended consequences that may jeopardize the foundational aspects of their
main relationship and family structure. So with that, we have

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one emotional conflict. Polyamory can generate feelings of jealousy and security,
and a and inacquacy among partners. Even with open relationships,
the fear of losing emotional intimacy or being replaced can
lead to resentment. As one partner invests time and energy
into multiple relationships, the other may feel neglected, fostering resentment

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that can erode trust and intimacy. Two Communication breakdown. Honest
and open communication is crucial in any relationship, but polyamory
adds layers of complexity. Misunderstandings or lack of transparency can
lead to assumption, secrets, and miscommunication, which may create a

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rift in the primary relationship. As partners juggle expectations and boundaries.
Any failure to articulate needs can deepen divisions. Three. Time
and prioritizing issues. Managing multiple partners requires effective time management
and prioritition. Prioritization pardon me, the need of the primary

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relationship may become secondary as one partner spreads their emotional
resources then across multiple connections. This can lead to feelings
of neglect, abandonment, and undervaluization among partners, jeopardizing the stability
and health of the main relationship. Family dynamics if children

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are involved, introduced in polyamory can complicate family dynamics. The
presence of multiple romantic partners can create confusion for children
regarding relationships and attachments. Additionally, navigating the relationships of extended
family and friends can become increasingly complex, potentially leading to
social stigma or resistance from broader family units. Social pressure

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and stigma engaging in polyamory can expose partners to social
scrutiny and stigma, especially from those who hold traditional views
on relationships. This societal pressure can place additional strain on
a marriage, where external disapproval may lead to arguments or
disagreements about the legitimacy and viability of their arrangement. Six.

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Boundary overload. Establishing and maintaining boundaries in polyamorous relationships is crucial,
but it can also be overwhelming. Conflicting needs and desires
for multiple partners can lead to boundary violation or breaches
of trust, resulting in conflict and emotional turmoil. The failure
to uphold agreements can so distrust and create significant riks

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seven reduce security and commitment. Traditional monogamous relationships often provide
a sense of security and commitment. In a polyamorous setup,
partners may feel that the emotional safety nets that typically
come with exclusivity are compromised. This reduction in perceived stability
can lead to anxiety about the future of the primary relationship.

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While polyamory has the potential to enrich individuals lives and relationships,
it also has inherent risks that can threaten the stability
of a marriage or primary relationship. Emotional complexities, communication challenge
shifting priorities, family dynamics, social pressures, boundary management, and perceived

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security can all contribute to the potential destruction of a
marriage or family unit, highlighting the importance of thorough reflection
and communication before embarking on a non monogamous journey. You
can in effect lose your marriage if you're married or
have been in a long term relationship. Because of this,

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there's so much to think about before you do take
this journey, So what effects would it have on your
spiritual journey. Polyamory can have various effects on an individual's
spiritual development. For some, the openness and honesty required in
polyamorous relationships may foster personal growth, self awareness, and a

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deeper understanding of love and connection. This can lead to
a more profound sense of spirituality and a belief in
the interconnected of all beings. On the other hand, polyamory
may also create challenges that can lead to a sense
of disconnection from one's spiritual beliefs or relationships with God.
The complexities of managing multiple emotional dynamics can lead to stress, jealousy,

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or feelings of inadequacy, which may distract from spiritual practices
or communal worship. Additionally, if polyamory conflicts with one's religious
teachings or beliefs, it may create internal turmoil or a
sense of alienation from one's faith community, leading to further
spiritual disconnection. While people believe that polyamory can promote personal

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growth and a broader understanding of love, it also introduces
challenges that can impact an individual's spiritual journey, potentially leading
to a disconnect from God or their spiritual beliefs. So
there's a lot to think about when it comes to
the concept of having multiple partners, or the non monogamous relationship,

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or the polyamory or polyamorous family. The journey into non
monogamous relationships is believed to be enriching and fulfilling, offering
unique emotional, social, and sexual benefits. However, it also presents
a distinct set of challenges that requires sacrifices open communication, honesty,

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and mutual respect. Ultimately, whether one chooses a non monogamous
lifestyle or a monogamous one, the key to understanding the
key to successful partnership lies in understanding oneself and the
needs of each partner, fostering environments of trust, respect, and
emotional safety. As society continues to evolve, the conversation around

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non monogamous relationships is likely to expand and change, shedding
light on the diverse ways in which people believe love
and connection can be experienced. Regardless of the relationship choice
individuals make. Embracing openness and honesty can pave the way
toward fulfilling healthy connections. This has been our hot topic now.

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If you're in one of these sorts of relationships, I
encourage you to reach out and let us know about
your experience and what happened, how it happened, and all
those things. I enjoy your feedback, and if you're against
this sort of relationship, I welcome your feedback as well.

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If you're curious, you have questions, or you have insight
that you would like to share, don't hesitate to reach
out because this hot topic here is gonna make some
people mad. I already know it, but like someone who
cares about each and every one of you, I want

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you to have the information so you can make an
informed decision. It's hard to make a decision when you
don't have all the information, or you know nothing about
it period, or you're being pushed into it, or you're
getting asked to join it in one and you have
no clue about what it is. So I wanted to

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give you all this information so you can have it
and make a conscious decision about it. But also do
your own research. Always research whatever it is. Research the pros,
the cons and everything in between before you die of
headfirst into something that you may regret later. So be safe.

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If you're in one of these relationships, be safe, Get
tested on the regular, and let me know how you
feel when you get older and wiser, and your feelings
and desires begin to change. Let us know, ladies and John,

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that has been your hot topic. Heated. I know, Ryan,
but hopefully you didn't get brown. Yeah. I by hot topic,
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