May 1, 2024 • 30 mins
🎙️ Dive into the juicy secrets and surprising revelations as Cruz kicks off the show with a shoutout to the tantalizing "PINA LOCA" roasted pineapple-infused Tequila, a local Texas gem. 🍍🥃
💔 Married and miserable or single and lonely? The guys dissect a husband's confession about settling for his wife and spark a lively debate on insecurity versus independence.
🌈 Bisexuality in the spotlight! Explore the complexities as one husband opens up about his identity and sparks a thought-provoking discussion on labels, acceptance, and understanding.
💰 Keeping secrets to keep the budget in check? It's comedy gold as the hosts delve into the hilarious world of financial secrecy in relationships.
🚽 From garage mishaps to toilet tales, buckle up for a rollercoaster of bathroom confessions and Cruz's unforgettable cat litter chronicle.
💔 Struggles with emotional intimacy? Join the conversation as the hosts explore the challenges of maintaining deep connections while navigating the ups and downs of life.
😔 Love, but loathe the routine? Hear one husband's heartfelt confession about longing for more excitement and Cruz's impassioned plea for open communication.
🔥 Taboo fantasies and forbidden desires? Explore the delicate balance between desire and discretion as a husband shares his innermost thoughts about his wife's family and friends.
Tune in for an unfiltered journey into the hidden truths of relationships, and join the conversation! What secrets are you keeping? Share your thoughts with us!
💔 Married and miserable or single and lonely? The guys dissect a husband's confession about settling for his wife and spark a lively debate on insecurity versus independence.
🌈 Bisexuality in the spotlight! Explore the complexities as one husband opens up about his identity and sparks a thought-provoking discussion on labels, acceptance, and understanding.
💰 Keeping secrets to keep the budget in check? It's comedy gold as the hosts delve into the hilarious world of financial secrecy in relationships.
🚽 From garage mishaps to toilet tales, buckle up for a rollercoaster of bathroom confessions and Cruz's unforgettable cat litter chronicle.
💔 Struggles with emotional intimacy? Join the conversation as the hosts explore the challenges of maintaining deep connections while navigating the ups and downs of life.
😔 Love, but loathe the routine? Hear one husband's heartfelt confession about longing for more excitement and Cruz's impassioned plea for open communication.
🔥 Taboo fantasies and forbidden desires? Explore the delicate balance between desire and discretion as a husband shares his innermost thoughts about his wife's family and friends.
Tune in for an unfiltered journey into the hidden truths of relationships, and join the conversation! What secrets are you keeping? Share your thoughts with us!
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(00:00):
Welcome to the Tupash Podcast. Iam Gabrielle. I'm a former New York
Mafia princess originally from Austria. Iam the mother of three and the owner
of Tupash Boutique. And here withmy beautiful co host Marsella, my daughter.
Hello, I'm Marcella. I'm adancer, choreographer, model and designer
(00:22):
for Tupash and I say whatever Iwant. My name is Cruz. I
am a stylist. I also ownthe Society Salon in the Design District.
And I am a short, littleMexican with the big personality. What will
they say next? Welcome to theTupash Podcast. On the twenty five actually
(00:50):
plus husband telling keeping keeping secret anything. God, but they did tell what
secrets they're keeping from their wife.Are you ready for the next one?
Yes, that I'm merely settled forher out of fear of having to support
myself on my own and staying singlefor the rest of my life. Gosh,
(01:14):
but don't you know, isn't itthere's that quote that's like, I'd
rather be miserable alone than miserable withsomebody else. Yes, it's married and
miserable or single and lonely. That'sthe quote. I mean, that's what
(01:34):
they's that's the quote. I didn'tmake it up. Why. I think
there's both of them. But Iwould rather be alone than be with somebody
that's making me miserable. Single AndI mean, what is it married and
miserable or single? And what aboutsingle and ready to mingle? Is that
one? Single and ready to mingle? I think that's way better. Yeah,
I mean, why would you haveto be lonely? I don't know.
(01:57):
I'm just saying people, I don'tlonely, I don't feel low.
I didn't you feel better? I'vemet two thousand Yeah, yeah, you
got two thousand bumble likes and hinges. Cruise and I are sitting down here
with a combined score of twelve.Yeah, you guys, I feel like
(02:19):
what I really kind of want thaton as a gossip segment, what her
dating thing on? We need tohave her plug it to the TV and
we'll go through it. We're goingcan we do that? Yeah? Okay,
we do that. I don't knowI share at the second, not
right now, but okay, therewill be another show, yeah, right
(02:39):
now, stay tuned themselves. Twentyfour hundred likes and twenty four and one
day, one day a cruise attwelve and three years. Yeah. Literally,
guys are so different, so that'sobviously normal. I don't know anything.
I've never been stretching same garden,gardeners, gardening, beginning, gardeners.
(03:05):
All right, here we go,Sorry, next secret? Do you
want more? Oh? Oh?I kind of read that first sentence that
I am by many straight women don'twant by men because there are a lot
of stereotypes that bisexuals are more likelyto cheat in relationships. I am monogamous
and love only my wife. Iknow from past relationships that if I make
(03:30):
my sexuality an issue, it willblow up into a big deal. My
deal coming out would be if oneof our kids was questioning the sexuality,
I'd be like, so what yourdad's by? What's the big deal?
We love you? Surprise, surprise, two for one, two for one.
Life is like, wait, whatgosh is drocked? I like to
(03:51):
put it in and I like youto put it in. Wow. But
you know what. I have afriend who was okay with dating men who
were by if they would just sayit, So, are you bisexual if
you're a monogamous Yeah, because youstill find men attracted. But but you're
monogamous. Yeah, but are youstill straight? If you're a monogamy does
(04:14):
it mean anything? If you're monogamous, I mean if you've been with men
before. But they say, okay, so you're bial, but you're you're
a monogamous So you've only been withthis person, but you with men in
the past both, Okay, Idon't know that's so is it true?
(04:38):
I have asking a question. Idon't want to get judged of people getting
mad at me. It's a question. I have always heard that people say
if a guy has been with aguy at any time in their life,
then they're gay. No, becausethey're still asking, I tell you the
answer. My goodness, how doyou know? Because I have talked to
(04:59):
people who are bisexual and I havean answer, but because they are still
so whether or not. Like,if you're a gay man, you are
only attracted to men, yes,they have no sexual attraction to a woman.
Yes, But a bisexual person hassexual attraction to men and women half
gay. They're bi sexual, whichmakes them gay. Hence they hence the
(05:26):
bisexual because gay means just just yeah, they don't and male by means they're
not turned on by a female andfor any reasons male and female. Listen,
you can. Maybe your opinion isthat they're gay, but all the
gays out there, you do whatyou want. I'm no judgment. Okay,
(05:46):
if you like both, you're gay. That's it has to be the
bisexual. But but you're gay,No, but you're not because you're still
attracted to women. Gay is maleto by is a female female? No?
Well yes, okay, but it'sone to one. It's not too
(06:09):
buy literally, but but by microphonedoesn't work. By literally means to It's
not saying is I will? Iunderstand where people get uncomfortable and a lot
comfortable all done a lot of men, straight men, and I'm not knocking
(06:33):
straight men, but a lot ofstraight men will say, well, that
means you're gay. You're gay,you're gay, and that's fine. That's
your opinion. But the bisexual partis that they are sexually attracted to both
sexes. That is a true definition. Now you can scream that they're still
gay if you want. I'm justsaying, but they are bisexual because they
(06:54):
like both. So that's where youget hence the bye. That's the sexual
like both sexes. And they arestill sexually So this man saying he's bisexual,
he probably still gets sexually turned onby he watches like other kind of
porn and ship, but he's notacting upon it. I am, I
(07:15):
am, actually I want to know. So this is very interesting. I
wonder what our listeners have to sayabout this. I mean, it is
what it is, no judgment,wonder, but there's no wonder to Yeah,
no wonder, there's no question.That is the definition. I find
it a good like teaching tool becausethat is what. Yes, it's always
(07:39):
out there and that's being said.So I have people have said that to
me when they have heard. I'veoverheard, and I think, and you
can be a lesbian and bgay andyou can be a die and be gay,
but it's it's because you're only attractedto the sat sad. But if
you're by sexual, that means you'react to both sex. Got it.
(08:01):
Yeah. They did say though thatit's sad that this person can't feel comfortable.
That is true. That's just that'sjust tell the truth because he's monogamous
and he should be able to speak. But I feel like if you're going
to hold that goes back to earlierand if you're going to hold that am,
But first of all, you shouldhave been saying that ship like when
(08:22):
you're day two, number two afterdate number two. But I totally agree
with you. Day one, daytwo, that's when you need to start
like, you know, yeah,I have kids. But also I think
that there's what's happening I'm telling youabout. It's hard when you're whispering that
(08:43):
A lot of women get a passfor like if oh my god, yeah,
why do you say it out loud? Do you pass? I know,
I'm okay, you wanted more tequila. I was asking that's right there,
Okay, you really like this tequila. But I feel like a lot
(09:11):
of women, if they say they'vebeen with a woman, it's like very
like, oh yes, we lovethat. It's a turn on for guys.
For chickens, it's different. It'sdifferent, and I understand and I
understand that too. I'm just sayingthat women and men can both be bisexual.
They're not just gay because they werewith a man. But here,
(09:35):
thank you, Okay, So II feel cheers g bros, tomb I
feel that it's true that for guysto see two girls like all day,
all day long. But for girlsdo not like that, and that's but
(09:56):
it's an opinion. It is whatit is the right to feel. How
do you feel about that? Yeah, like two girls, I know you
do. I can't. I actuallythink two girls together is very attractive.
I don't even like dick and myporn. Yeah, like I don't.
(10:16):
I like lesbian. You don't watchstraight I don't even really watch porn as
it is. I don't don't either, but if I did, it would
be like straight lesbian porn. Wow, that's very interesting. I just well,
girls are the attractive one. Nooffense guys, But like, girls
are the hot ones. Guys arelike, yeah, guys have ugly bodies
(10:37):
most of the time. Out ofhere. Well, gay and bisexual men
would argue that with you. Noagain, no offense, this is no
offense. Opinion. No, youcan have it. Sorry, it's fine.
Sorry, Yeah, speaking mind,that's the whole point. Next speech,
I take care what do you say? Pineapple? Tequila? Good?
(10:58):
I take care of all the billsand we both get an equal allowance.
She believes we're still making house andvehicle payments. However, we don't actually
have any outstanding debts. I feelthat it keeps her budget in check.
By believing we have these monthly obligations. She would go and is spending frenzy
if she knew what was in oursavings accounts. God buck yea controlling No,
(11:28):
yes, controlling like that? Okay, it's like it's kind of like
that that, like you really haveto be there at nine thirty, but
you tell them to be there atnine so they can be there at nine
thirty. It's like that. It'slike that. It's like that, Babe,
I only got a G but yougot two g's, and you're saving
one and you spending the other becauseyou know if you told her that you
(11:52):
had two, she would blow themboth. Get control of your household crews
control. It's interesting because there's ananswer to that, and someone said,
if this is the only way tocontrol her spending, then we suppose it's
not completely horrible secret. Still,it sounds like they need to have an
honest conversation about financial responsibility because sheclearly doesn't know self control. Yeah,
(12:16):
and that that alone is a disease. Yes, that's a disease. So
so if it's my medicine is totell you that broke and you cool,
with yeah, okay, but youknow what, but you know what,
when we need it? Yeah,okay, bame, guess what? And
(12:41):
I better take lo I got youoff, babe. Guess what this whole
time, I was fucking lie toyou. We got stacks, baby,
don't worry. Were good. Weregood. You don't why because I fucking
lied to you and told you wewere broke. But we're good. I
got you, bab. I betit takes a lot of stress off of
(13:03):
him daily. Yeah, which Ican understand. Yeah, I mean that's
so funny. I concurr, Iconcur with you, home boy, I
got you, all right. Thisis very disturbing. I once pooped in
(13:24):
the garage because I was waiting forher to come home and let me in.
I blamed it on the raccoons.What I do even nowhere to go
with that one? Oh my god? I mean you really couldn't hold it.
I don't even know what to say, Like, I mean, why
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would you blame it on the raccoon? Why would I had to poop?
I had to poop? This Thatone's just I don't understand. The whole
thing was he's not a key thathe lost his keys. He was it's
just thinking, oh, no,it is that married right era was this?
(14:05):
I have a funny story about somethingkind of like this. I have
a really funny story. I don'twant to say any names, Cindi Buie,
but but I have this story,and no one told me not to
say anything, right, so youcan say it. So she's got a
(14:28):
really nice place, and she hasa cat, the hairless cat cat.
But she has a backpack of heryes, and and she has a new
boyfriend. I love him. Awesome, awesome. So he went uh to
(14:50):
the bathroom at her place, right, and he clogged up the bathroom.
That's st shitty situation. But whathappened was what happened was is something happened
with the cat litter. I rememberthe whole story. He put it in,
put the fucking cat litter in thetoilet and clogged it up, and
(15:13):
she thought it was him and thenhe finally she thought it was the cat.
No, she thought it was himthat clogged up the toilet. That
he took a dump and clocked upthe toilet. But really he was trying
to be nice and clean up thecat litter and put the catted it up.
But he didn't want to say anything. Oh, I thought you put
(15:33):
the cat litter in there to helpthe clog. No, no, he's
like he went to the bathroom andtook a leak or something, and then
saw that there was cat litter.So he tried to be nice and put
the cat litter in the toilet andthen clogged it up. But then,
but then he didn't say anything.It's terrible. And then she goes in
(15:54):
there and thinks that he clogged upthe toilet, but it was her.
No, that's how I shot.I finished mine. You took half whoa
who the cat? No, heclogged up the toilet with the cat litter.
(16:15):
But she thought he took a dumpand clogged it up. Oh,
but he didn't. He didn't.Did he put cat litter in there?
Oh my god, you guys tryingto clean the cat litter? He put
the litter in the toilet. Itdidn't flesh, But he didn't tell her.
She went in there and that heclogged up the cat. Did it?
(16:38):
Oh my god? Next, yes, the cat did it. Okay
that I'm unsure if I will everbe able to express and maintain deep emotional
intimacy with anyone. Well, that'skind of sad. That's so sad.
(17:00):
Yeah you got to yeah, yeah, but I yeah, yeah, maybe
something. And you know what,they're already not having sex. How do
you know that? Because I couldtell, Yeah, that was a long
time ago to what he wanted,a trouble. He wanted to thropple,
(17:22):
thropple. I don't know it's calledI just want one. What's the next
secret you have to nobody's gonna knowwe're talking about them. I don't know
what we're talking about. I hateour life, Oh my gosh, I
love for more than anything. Justcan't stand out land existence. Geez.
(17:48):
So I continue as if everything's allright. This is communication yet again,
like you gotta I was absolutely justgonna say that. Yeah, you gotta
fucking talk about feeling and life andshit, like if you're bored, you
need to say that. Yeah.Do you remember Bruce Almighty? Do you
remember that made Bruce Almighty when he'slike, I'm tired of our basic life,
(18:11):
I'm tired of our boring job.I'm tiriny, like freaks out or
whatever, and I don't know.It just reminded me of that where he
is expressing how much he hates theirmediocre life so he needs to like yell
that out. Yeah, put itinto no mediocre life. But some people
are okay with it. But ifyou're not cool with it, cool,
But if you're not, like fuckingdo something, say something, especially him
(18:34):
being the man, like he shouldreally step it up. And I feel
real talk. I feel like it'sit's obligation for the man to bring shit
up. I agree, thank you. If if something is bothering me,
I am going to tell you,babe, like this is frustrating, this
(18:56):
is bothering me, this is somethinglike you know, I love you,
but I need this something. Something'sgot to it is. I feel like
it's unfair to make people wonder whatis going on in your mind, Like
I hate when people don't tell meif something is wrong, Like you could
(19:21):
be oblivious and think things are awesomeand then all of a sudden, like
what you want to divorce? Likewhat I was if my guard? Yeah,
yeah, that's unfair. Mindside.Yeah some great question. My wife
(19:47):
doesn't know just how much I fantasizeover her family members in front her what
family members and front I've always wonderedif any guys I've been I really liked
my mom that's fair. Yeah,that's just a freaky diggy ship. I
(20:11):
always wanted the girls I did.We're just dating me for knowing my sisters
and mom girls. Yeah, sothe answer to this is she doesn't need
to know. This is like thesaying look, but don't touch. Fantasizing
isn't the same as acting upon it, and it's pretty normal as long as
it isn't impeding his relations with hiswife. Oh that's pretty weird. I
(20:37):
mean I would feel like a brother, like you like my brother, like
you know, you like my sister, like you like my dad. I
mean, yeah, we're gonna havewould I want to know? Like you
know, maybe I like your otherI don't know, Like that's yeah,
(21:03):
I would feel weird if somebody wasfantasizing about my sister and my mom.
Yeah, that's weird. Or likeyou know my dad? Are that what
that like? When did you fillit my shot? Okay, that's already
filed. When that happened? Ohwell, I felt it for you than
your Luca. Oh my gosh,I love the pina. Oh my god,
(21:30):
it's so the whole bottle is gone. Yeah. I married her for
a spouse visa and because I didn'thave enough force of personality to call things
off. We ask people, that'syour fault, bro, And first of
all, if you're going to fuckingmarry her for that, you you should
have done it in the in thebeginning. And if you're going to marry
(21:55):
someone for that and not tell them, you're a fuckhead. One of my
coworkers did that. Yeah, butdid they know or like, was it
a was it an agreement or not? Just they're miserable now. I'm just
amazed at how many people stay inmisery. Like I thought somebody was going
to propose to me and I justdidn't want that to happen, so I
(22:18):
told them not to. It's like, don't do it not ready, Like
I knew that it wouldn't work,because but I feel that, I mean,
you, of all people should know, and you I feel that you
did it because you're fucking too nice. Yeah, you're too nice. You
(22:40):
were caring about other people's feelings.But that's why I told him, you
don't do that in this But hestill stayed in it. Yep. Well
we broke up, but she wouldhave married him, just because I don't
think I would have married whoa whoaWHOA, But I felt like, I,
obviously I'm not going to say nowhen they do like work to propose.
(23:02):
That would be horrible. I feellike I'd be cold hearted no,
say yes and then no later.I mean, I have to say it
wouldn't be miserable because I wouldn't havegotten married, but I would have you
said yes to their proposal. Ijust didn't want him to go through all
that, so I said, don'task me, So why would you be
with? Well? I didn't reallyrealize I wasn't that happy in it until
(23:25):
I heard that, and I waslike, no, I don't think I'm
right. So, so how long? How long have you been singling?
On? Like a year? IsI want to say truly? Like,
well, I've been really single foralmost like like two years, but I
think definitely in my heart, likeI want to say fully healed and stuff
like a year. Yeah, that'swhat I would put it. How do
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you feel now? Great? I'dlike to stay like this right now and
you got your your own life,you feel I feel like I can you
want It's very hard. I don'tknow how to so now that you have
this, this this single life andyou feel good and and you're dating,
(24:11):
and you're dating, so, soare you open to relationships or are you
just kind of like I'm just wantto feel shit and see how it happens.
Well, I don't know, becauseI feel like if I if I
meet the right person, I'll know. But right now, I just am
having fun. So you're open,but you're very cautious, Yeah, because
I don't. I'm just having somuch fun. I feel like there's a
(24:32):
big world out there that I've neverseen, and I'm like, oh my
god, this is so fun andthat's good. And you've learned so much
from being in these type of relationships. Now you know what you don't want.
Yeah, and I just don't knowhow to give up my what I
have right now. Yeah, you'reyour own personal life life fun. Yeah,
I like it. I think thisis I think you're you're going through
(24:56):
these things that is, it's likethese were the things that usually we do
like at a younger age, likerelationships, Well I do it. I
say a younger age because like that'sthat's kind of how you know, you
grow, Yeah, you grow right. Well, I just was never really
single because I was in relationships allof my like eighteen to thirty four.
(25:22):
I feel like, so, whatmade you feel like I want to be
single and experience being single? Idon't know, I just am. I
feel like I just haven't met theright person. I don't know, but
I I guess I want to say, like, you've never really been single
(25:48):
like this. So now I'm myselfand you're and you're taking it in.
You're you're actually like taking it in. Being single is a good thing.
Yeah, And I like being bymyself. Yeah, I don't know that's
a good thing, but no,it is. Why not love yourself?
Yeah, I don't have to loveyourself before you love anybody else. Right,
(26:10):
Well, yeah, but I don'tfeel I wonder sometimes is it bad
that I don't feel lonely? No? Absolutely not so great, Like I
don't have like nothing is disturbing mypeace, Like I just feel so like
free, and so that's hard forme to let go of. Okay,
so now talking about all that,Gee, how do you feel single?
(26:38):
How do you feel single? Like? Like like she to me, she
was like it fucking opened up herlife, like, oh my god,
I'm happy and and and and yourecently, you know, got out of
a relationship and dude, you're agood looking guy. I mean, I'm
(26:59):
sure you have opportunities, you probablyjust don't take them. Maybe, But
how do you feel in the samesituation single? I don't know. I
want to get I want to getmarried, have kids, and yeah,
that that life. I'm a littledifferent than this one. Yeah, I
can't feel my ears. I don'tknow my ear loves have lost feelings.
(27:27):
So you want, you want thehow would you say that? A little
bit? The typical? A littlebit? I want? I want?
Yeah, a little bit. Yeah. How old are you right now?
Thirty thirty? Okay, and thenthat's that's a good age, that's a
good age. Yeah. Yeah,but this day and age, I feel
(27:48):
thirty is is a little young becauseI mean we're still kind of discovering ourselves.
I'm almost fifty. What, Yeah, I thought you were a thirty
two. No, I'm almost fifty, Cruise, you're forty eight. I
even believe that. Wow, Butthere's no way you feel that because you
don't put that yeah out there.Yeah, I mean you're still like partying
(28:12):
like you're twenty five. Yeah,I'm still like twelve. Mentally, Cruise,
I cannot see you as forty eight. I can't either. I'm forty
eight. I don't even see you. I can't even I mean either.
I'm like, I'm like, ohmy god, they're so old and they're
my age. That's because those peoplequit. You haven't quit. You haven't
(28:37):
given up energy. I think sogee. So you you want like the
whole like marriage, get kids andeverything, and you're bed and you're right
now. Hi. I'm Olivia Bully. I'm one of the gossip girls here
at tupash Podcasts. You can findme on Instagram at lives world and if
you mean me, I'll be cryingmy Bentley. I'm ourself co host of
(29:00):
the Tupash podcast. You can findme on all social media platforms Marcellinary.
You can also find me on TikTok, Marcellinary seven and I say whatever the
fuck I want. Yeah, that'sright. My name is Cruz Kofer.
You can find me on Instagram andthat's pretty much it, and let's do
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Welcome to the Tupash Podcast. Iam Gabrielle. I'm a former New York
Mafia princess originally from Austria. Iam the mother of three and the owner
of Tupash Boutique. And here withmy beautiful co host Marsella, my daughter.
Hello, I'm Marcella. I'm adancer, choreographer, model and designer
(00:22):
for Tupash and I say whatever Iwant. My name is Cruz. I
am a stylist. I also ownthe Society Salon in the Design District.
And I am a short, littleMexican with the big personality. What will
they say next? Welcome to theTupash Podcast. On the twenty five actually
(00:50):
plus husband telling keeping keeping secret anything. God, but they did tell what
secrets they're keeping from their wife.Are you ready for the next one?
Yes, that I'm merely settled forher out of fear of having to support
myself on my own and staying singlefor the rest of my life. Gosh,
(01:14):
but don't you know, isn't itthere's that quote that's like, I'd
rather be miserable alone than miserable withsomebody else. Yes, it's married and
miserable or single and lonely. That'sthe quote. I mean, that's what
(01:34):
they's that's the quote. I didn'tmake it up. Why. I think
there's both of them. But Iwould rather be alone than be with somebody
that's making me miserable. Single AndI mean, what is it married and
miserable or single? And what aboutsingle and ready to mingle? Is that
one? Single and ready to mingle? I think that's way better. Yeah,
I mean, why would you haveto be lonely? I don't know.
(01:57):
I'm just saying people, I don'tlonely, I don't feel low.
I didn't you feel better? I'vemet two thousand Yeah, yeah, you
got two thousand bumble likes and hinges. Cruise and I are sitting down here
with a combined score of twelve.Yeah, you guys, I feel like
(02:19):
what I really kind of want thaton as a gossip segment, what her
dating thing on? We need tohave her plug it to the TV and
we'll go through it. We're goingcan we do that? Yeah? Okay,
we do that. I don't knowI share at the second, not
right now, but okay, therewill be another show, yeah, right
(02:39):
now, stay tuned themselves. Twentyfour hundred likes and twenty four and one
day, one day a cruise attwelve and three years. Yeah. Literally,
guys are so different, so that'sobviously normal. I don't know anything.
I've never been stretching same garden,gardeners, gardening, beginning, gardeners.
(03:05):
All right, here we go,Sorry, next secret? Do you
want more? Oh? Oh?I kind of read that first sentence that
I am by many straight women don'twant by men because there are a lot
of stereotypes that bisexuals are more likelyto cheat in relationships. I am monogamous
and love only my wife. Iknow from past relationships that if I make
(03:30):
my sexuality an issue, it willblow up into a big deal. My
deal coming out would be if oneof our kids was questioning the sexuality,
I'd be like, so what yourdad's by? What's the big deal?
We love you? Surprise, surprise, two for one, two for one.
Life is like, wait, whatgosh is drocked? I like to
(03:51):
put it in and I like youto put it in. Wow. But
you know what. I have afriend who was okay with dating men who
were by if they would just sayit, So, are you bisexual if
you're a monogamous Yeah, because youstill find men attracted. But but you're
monogamous. Yeah, but are youstill straight? If you're a monogamy does
(04:14):
it mean anything? If you're monogamous, I mean if you've been with men
before. But they say, okay, so you're bial, but you're you're
a monogamous So you've only been withthis person, but you with men in
the past both, Okay, Idon't know that's so is it true?
(04:38):
I have asking a question. Idon't want to get judged of people getting
mad at me. It's a question. I have always heard that people say
if a guy has been with aguy at any time in their life,
then they're gay. No, becausethey're still asking, I tell you the
answer. My goodness, how doyou know? Because I have talked to
(04:59):
people who are bisexual and I havean answer, but because they are still
so whether or not. Like,if you're a gay man, you are
only attracted to men, yes,they have no sexual attraction to a woman.
Yes, But a bisexual person hassexual attraction to men and women half
gay. They're bi sexual, whichmakes them gay. Hence they hence the
(05:26):
bisexual because gay means just just yeah, they don't and male by means they're
not turned on by a female andfor any reasons male and female. Listen,
you can. Maybe your opinion isthat they're gay, but all the
gays out there, you do whatyou want. I'm no judgment. Okay,
(05:46):
if you like both, you're gay. That's it has to be the
bisexual. But but you're gay,No, but you're not because you're still
attracted to women. Gay is maleto by is a female female? No?
Well yes, okay, but it'sone to one. It's not too
(06:09):
buy literally, but but by microphonedoesn't work. By literally means to It's
not saying is I will? Iunderstand where people get uncomfortable and a lot
comfortable all done a lot of men, straight men, and I'm not knocking
(06:33):
straight men, but a lot ofstraight men will say, well, that
means you're gay. You're gay,you're gay, and that's fine. That's
your opinion. But the bisexual partis that they are sexually attracted to both
sexes. That is a true definition. Now you can scream that they're still
gay if you want. I'm justsaying, but they are bisexual because they
(06:54):
like both. So that's where youget hence the bye. That's the sexual
like both sexes. And they arestill sexually So this man saying he's bisexual,
he probably still gets sexually turned onby he watches like other kind of
porn and ship, but he's notacting upon it. I am, I
(07:15):
am, actually I want to know. So this is very interesting. I
wonder what our listeners have to sayabout this. I mean, it is
what it is, no judgment,wonder, but there's no wonder to Yeah,
no wonder, there's no question.That is the definition. I find
it a good like teaching tool becausethat is what. Yes, it's always
(07:39):
out there and that's being said.So I have people have said that to
me when they have heard. I'veoverheard, and I think, and you
can be a lesbian and bgay andyou can be a die and be gay,
but it's it's because you're only attractedto the sat sad. But if
you're by sexual, that means you'react to both sex. Got it.
(08:01):
Yeah. They did say though thatit's sad that this person can't feel comfortable.
That is true. That's just that'sjust tell the truth because he's monogamous
and he should be able to speak. But I feel like if you're going
to hold that goes back to earlierand if you're going to hold that am,
But first of all, you shouldhave been saying that ship like when
(08:22):
you're day two, number two afterdate number two. But I totally agree
with you. Day one, daytwo, that's when you need to start
like, you know, yeah,I have kids. But also I think
that there's what's happening I'm telling youabout. It's hard when you're whispering that
(08:43):
A lot of women get a passfor like if oh my god, yeah,
why do you say it out loud? Do you pass? I know,
I'm okay, you wanted more tequila. I was asking that's right there,
Okay, you really like this tequila. But I feel like a lot
(09:11):
of women, if they say they'vebeen with a woman, it's like very
like, oh yes, we lovethat. It's a turn on for guys.
For chickens, it's different. It'sdifferent, and I understand and I
understand that too. I'm just sayingthat women and men can both be bisexual.
They're not just gay because they werewith a man. But here,
(09:35):
thank you, Okay, So II feel cheers g bros, tomb I
feel that it's true that for guysto see two girls like all day,
all day long. But for girlsdo not like that, and that's but
(09:56):
it's an opinion. It is whatit is the right to feel. How
do you feel about that? Yeah, like two girls, I know you
do. I can't. I actuallythink two girls together is very attractive.
I don't even like dick and myporn. Yeah, like I don't.
(10:16):
I like lesbian. You don't watchstraight I don't even really watch porn as
it is. I don't don't either, but if I did, it would
be like straight lesbian porn. Wow, that's very interesting. I just well,
girls are the attractive one. Nooffense guys, But like, girls
are the hot ones. Guys arelike, yeah, guys have ugly bodies
(10:37):
most of the time. Out ofhere. Well, gay and bisexual men
would argue that with you. Noagain, no offense, this is no
offense. Opinion. No, youcan have it. Sorry, it's fine.
Sorry, Yeah, speaking mind,that's the whole point. Next speech,
I take care what do you say? Pineapple? Tequila? Good?
(10:58):
I take care of all the billsand we both get an equal allowance.
She believes we're still making house andvehicle payments. However, we don't actually
have any outstanding debts. I feelthat it keeps her budget in check.
By believing we have these monthly obligations. She would go and is spending frenzy
if she knew what was in oursavings accounts. God buck yea controlling No,
(11:28):
yes, controlling like that? Okay, it's like it's kind of like
that that, like you really haveto be there at nine thirty, but
you tell them to be there atnine so they can be there at nine
thirty. It's like that. It'slike that. It's like that, Babe,
I only got a G but yougot two g's, and you're saving
one and you spending the other becauseyou know if you told her that you
(11:52):
had two, she would blow themboth. Get control of your household crews
control. It's interesting because there's ananswer to that, and someone said,
if this is the only way tocontrol her spending, then we suppose it's
not completely horrible secret. Still,it sounds like they need to have an
honest conversation about financial responsibility because sheclearly doesn't know self control. Yeah,
(12:16):
and that that alone is a disease. Yes, that's a disease. So
so if it's my medicine is totell you that broke and you cool,
with yeah, okay, but youknow what, but you know what,
when we need it? Yeah,okay, bame, guess what? And
(12:41):
I better take lo I got youoff, babe. Guess what this whole
time, I was fucking lie toyou. We got stacks, baby,
don't worry. Were good. Weregood. You don't why because I fucking
lied to you and told you wewere broke. But we're good. I
got you, bab. I betit takes a lot of stress off of
(13:03):
him daily. Yeah, which Ican understand. Yeah, I mean that's
so funny. I concurr, Iconcur with you, home boy, I
got you, all right. Thisis very disturbing. I once pooped in
(13:24):
the garage because I was waiting forher to come home and let me in.
I blamed it on the raccoons.What I do even nowhere to go
with that one? Oh my god? I mean you really couldn't hold it.
I don't even know what to say, Like, I mean, why
(13:45):
would you blame it on the raccoon? Why would I had to poop?
I had to poop? This Thatone's just I don't understand. The whole
thing was he's not a key thathe lost his keys. He was it's
just thinking, oh, no,it is that married right era was this?
(14:05):
I have a funny story about somethingkind of like this. I have
a really funny story. I don'twant to say any names, Cindi Buie,
but but I have this story,and no one told me not to
say anything, right, so youcan say it. So she's got a
(14:28):
really nice place, and she hasa cat, the hairless cat cat.
But she has a backpack of heryes, and and she has a new
boyfriend. I love him. Awesome, awesome. So he went uh to
(14:50):
the bathroom at her place, right, and he clogged up the bathroom.
That's st shitty situation. But whathappened was what happened was is something happened
with the cat litter. I rememberthe whole story. He put it in,
put the fucking cat litter in thetoilet and clogged it up, and
(15:13):
she thought it was him and thenhe finally she thought it was the cat.
No, she thought it was himthat clogged up the toilet. That
he took a dump and clocked upthe toilet. But really he was trying
to be nice and clean up thecat litter and put the catted it up.
But he didn't want to say anything. Oh, I thought you put
(15:33):
the cat litter in there to helpthe clog. No, no, he's
like he went to the bathroom andtook a leak or something, and then
saw that there was cat litter.So he tried to be nice and put
the cat litter in the toilet andthen clogged it up. But then,
but then he didn't say anything.It's terrible. And then she goes in
(15:54):
there and thinks that he clogged upthe toilet, but it was her.
No, that's how I shot.I finished mine. You took half whoa
who the cat? No, heclogged up the toilet with the cat litter.
(16:15):
But she thought he took a dumpand clogged it up. Oh,
but he didn't. He didn't.Did he put cat litter in there?
Oh my god, you guys tryingto clean the cat litter? He put
the litter in the toilet. Itdidn't flesh, But he didn't tell her.
She went in there and that heclogged up the cat. Did it?
(16:38):
Oh my god? Next, yes, the cat did it. Okay
that I'm unsure if I will everbe able to express and maintain deep emotional
intimacy with anyone. Well, that'skind of sad. That's so sad.
(17:00):
Yeah you got to yeah, yeah, but I yeah, yeah, maybe
something. And you know what,they're already not having sex. How do
you know that? Because I couldtell, Yeah, that was a long
time ago to what he wanted,a trouble. He wanted to thropple,
(17:22):
thropple. I don't know it's calledI just want one. What's the next
secret you have to nobody's gonna knowwe're talking about them. I don't know
what we're talking about. I hateour life, Oh my gosh, I
love for more than anything. Justcan't stand out land existence. Geez.
(17:48):
So I continue as if everything's allright. This is communication yet again,
like you gotta I was absolutely justgonna say that. Yeah, you gotta
fucking talk about feeling and life andshit, like if you're bored, you
need to say that. Yeah.Do you remember Bruce Almighty? Do you
remember that made Bruce Almighty when he'slike, I'm tired of our basic life,
(18:11):
I'm tired of our boring job.I'm tiriny, like freaks out or
whatever, and I don't know.It just reminded me of that where he
is expressing how much he hates theirmediocre life so he needs to like yell
that out. Yeah, put itinto no mediocre life. But some people
are okay with it. But ifyou're not cool with it, cool,
But if you're not, like fuckingdo something, say something, especially him
(18:34):
being the man, like he shouldreally step it up. And I feel
real talk. I feel like it'sit's obligation for the man to bring shit
up. I agree, thank you. If if something is bothering me,
I am going to tell you,babe, like this is frustrating, this
(18:56):
is bothering me, this is somethinglike you know, I love you,
but I need this something. Something'sgot to it is. I feel like
it's unfair to make people wonder whatis going on in your mind, Like
I hate when people don't tell meif something is wrong, Like you could
(19:21):
be oblivious and think things are awesomeand then all of a sudden, like
what you want to divorce? Likewhat I was if my guard? Yeah,
yeah, that's unfair. Mindside.Yeah some great question. My wife
(19:47):
doesn't know just how much I fantasizeover her family members in front her what
family members and front I've always wonderedif any guys I've been I really liked
my mom that's fair. Yeah,that's just a freaky diggy ship. I
(20:11):
always wanted the girls I did.We're just dating me for knowing my sisters
and mom girls. Yeah, sothe answer to this is she doesn't need
to know. This is like thesaying look, but don't touch. Fantasizing
isn't the same as acting upon it, and it's pretty normal as long as
it isn't impeding his relations with hiswife. Oh that's pretty weird. I
(20:37):
mean I would feel like a brother, like you like my brother, like
you know, you like my sister, like you like my dad. I
mean, yeah, we're gonna havewould I want to know? Like you
know, maybe I like your otherI don't know, Like that's yeah,
(21:03):
I would feel weird if somebody wasfantasizing about my sister and my mom.
Yeah, that's weird. Or likeyou know my dad? Are that what
that like? When did you fillit my shot? Okay, that's already
filed. When that happened? Ohwell, I felt it for you than
your Luca. Oh my gosh,I love the pina. Oh my god,
(21:30):
it's so the whole bottle is gone. Yeah. I married her for
a spouse visa and because I didn'thave enough force of personality to call things
off. We ask people, that'syour fault, bro, And first of
all, if you're going to fuckingmarry her for that, you you should
have done it in the in thebeginning. And if you're going to marry
(21:55):
someone for that and not tell them, you're a fuckhead. One of my
coworkers did that. Yeah, butdid they know or like, was it
a was it an agreement or not? Just they're miserable now. I'm just
amazed at how many people stay inmisery. Like I thought somebody was going
to propose to me and I justdidn't want that to happen, so I
(22:18):
told them not to. It's like, don't do it not ready, Like
I knew that it wouldn't work,because but I feel that, I mean,
you, of all people should know, and you I feel that you
did it because you're fucking too nice. Yeah, you're too nice. You
(22:40):
were caring about other people's feelings.But that's why I told him, you
don't do that in this But hestill stayed in it. Yep. Well
we broke up, but she wouldhave married him, just because I don't
think I would have married whoa whoaWHOA, But I felt like, I,
obviously I'm not going to say nowhen they do like work to propose.
(23:02):
That would be horrible. I feellike I'd be cold hearted no,
say yes and then no later.I mean, I have to say it
wouldn't be miserable because I wouldn't havegotten married, but I would have you
said yes to their proposal. Ijust didn't want him to go through all
that, so I said, don'task me, So why would you be
with? Well? I didn't reallyrealize I wasn't that happy in it until
(23:25):
I heard that, and I waslike, no, I don't think I'm
right. So, so how long? How long have you been singling?
On? Like a year? IsI want to say truly? Like,
well, I've been really single foralmost like like two years, but I
think definitely in my heart, likeI want to say fully healed and stuff
like a year. Yeah, that'swhat I would put it. How do
(23:47):
you feel now? Great? I'dlike to stay like this right now and
you got your your own life,you feel I feel like I can you
want It's very hard. I don'tknow how to so now that you have
this, this this single life andyou feel good and and you're dating,
(24:11):
and you're dating, so, soare you open to relationships or are you
just kind of like I'm just wantto feel shit and see how it happens.
Well, I don't know, becauseI feel like if I if I
meet the right person, I'll know. But right now, I just am
having fun. So you're open,but you're very cautious, Yeah, because
I don't. I'm just having somuch fun. I feel like there's a
(24:32):
big world out there that I've neverseen, and I'm like, oh my
god, this is so fun andthat's good. And you've learned so much
from being in these type of relationships. Now you know what you don't want.
Yeah, and I just don't knowhow to give up my what I
have right now. Yeah, you'reyour own personal life life fun. Yeah,
I like it. I think thisis I think you're you're going through
(24:56):
these things that is, it's likethese were the things that usually we do
like at a younger age, likerelationships, Well I do it. I
say a younger age because like that'sthat's kind of how you know, you
grow, Yeah, you grow right. Well, I just was never really
single because I was in relationships allof my like eighteen to thirty four.
(25:22):
I feel like, so, whatmade you feel like I want to be
single and experience being single? Idon't know, I just am. I
feel like I just haven't met theright person. I don't know, but
I I guess I want to say, like, you've never really been single
(25:48):
like this. So now I'm myselfand you're and you're taking it in.
You're you're actually like taking it in. Being single is a good thing.
Yeah, And I like being bymyself. Yeah, I don't know that's
a good thing, but no,it is. Why not love yourself?
Yeah, I don't have to loveyourself before you love anybody else. Right,
(26:10):
Well, yeah, but I don'tfeel I wonder sometimes is it bad
that I don't feel lonely? No? Absolutely not so great, Like I
don't have like nothing is disturbing mypeace, Like I just feel so like
free, and so that's hard forme to let go of. Okay,
so now talking about all that,Gee, how do you feel single?
(26:38):
How do you feel single? Like? Like like she to me, she
was like it fucking opened up herlife, like, oh my god,
I'm happy and and and and yourecently, you know, got out of
a relationship and dude, you're agood looking guy. I mean, I'm
(26:59):
sure you have opportunities, you probablyjust don't take them. Maybe, But
how do you feel in the samesituation single? I don't know. I
want to get I want to getmarried, have kids, and yeah,
that that life. I'm a littledifferent than this one. Yeah, I
can't feel my ears. I don'tknow my ear loves have lost feelings.
(27:27):
So you want, you want thehow would you say that? A little
bit? The typical? A littlebit? I want? I want?
Yeah, a little bit. Yeah. How old are you right now?
Thirty thirty? Okay, and thenthat's that's a good age, that's a
good age. Yeah. Yeah,but this day and age, I feel
(27:48):
thirty is is a little young becauseI mean we're still kind of discovering ourselves.
I'm almost fifty. What, Yeah, I thought you were a thirty
two. No, I'm almost fifty, Cruise, you're forty eight. I
even believe that. Wow, Butthere's no way you feel that because you
don't put that yeah out there.Yeah, I mean you're still like partying
(28:12):
like you're twenty five. Yeah,I'm still like twelve. Mentally, Cruise,
I cannot see you as forty eight. I can't either. I'm forty
eight. I don't even see you. I can't even I mean either.
I'm like, I'm like, ohmy god, they're so old and they're
my age. That's because those peoplequit. You haven't quit. You haven't
(28:37):
given up energy. I think sogee. So you you want like the
whole like marriage, get kids andeverything, and you're bed and you're right
now. Hi. I'm Olivia Bully. I'm one of the gossip girls here
at tupash Podcasts. You can findme on Instagram at lives world and if
you mean me, I'll be cryingmy Bentley. I'm ourself co host of
(29:00):
the Tupash podcast. You can findme on all social media platforms Marcellinary.
You can also find me on TikTok, Marcellinary seven and I say whatever the
fuck I want. Yeah, that'sright. My name is Cruz Kofer.
You can find me on Instagram andthat's pretty much it, and let's do
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