Is My African Man Playin' Me? 7 Signs You're Being Played

IS MY AFRICAN MAN PLAYIN' ME? 7 SIGNS HE'S NO GOOD FOR YOU!

1. No actions smooth talker
Your African man will tell you that he will pick you up to do XYZ and ya'll will go here and there but in his heart, he will not do it. When the time approaches for him to live up to his word he will make excuses on why he couldn't do XYZ. He will fill your head with hope and anticipation about things he knows he won't do. Be aware and on guard. A man that is really into you will fulfill his word with actions.


2. He's a damn liar/Social media
You start finding out that some of the things your African man is telling you ain't true. So for instance, he may say...I was never married before, but one day you run into someone that knows him and they mention something about knowing he was married or you run across some information about him. This is why background checks are crucial before getting your heart tied up into him. Now, this is depending on the playa some playa's don't add women to their social media accounts. Concerning the social media... he tells you that he was at work but he posts a story and it shows him at the bar.


3. He doesn't go out with you
Playas are very wary about being seen out in public with a woman because he doesn't want to risk another lady seeing him with that person. Playas always offer to dine by food delivery to the house.


4. You will not be meeting his friends and family
But It really depends on the playa.
Here are several reasons for this.
A) He will be open to meeting your folks but you won't be meeting his anytime soon for the most part. His folks know that he plays games and he doesn't want to risk losing a chance to play you by being exposed. Now I with a playa that did introduce me to two of his friends but they were playa's also.
B) He doesn't want his family to see multiple women each week because that will make him look bad.

5. No consistency
One week he may call you and the other week he is playing the disappearing act. You wonder what is going on and why is he acting like this. Well, during the time he disappeared on you he was playing other women.

6. No future plans
If a man is into you, you will not have to guess on if he will take proper actions to make you exclusive. However, if you are dealing with a playa...he will avoid talking about making future plans with you. Some ladies find themselves asking "where is this going"? At this point, he can either ghost you after using you for sex and other stuff or stick around and keep playin the game.


7. Your Gut tells you something ain't right
Your intuition is constantly telling you that something is up and you have an uneasiness. 99% of the time your gut could be right. Listen to it don't shake this feeling off even though you can't pinpoint exactly what the issue is! Join FBK relationship groups and asks questions.

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