Like Mother like Daughter

Meet Mother Sonya Tsouras an Licensed professional  counselor  and  Takiyah Dupas daughter an pastry chef.

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
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fresh scholar for your niggas.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Y'all be waller and them out.

Speaker 3 (00:10):
Hey, good evening, good morning where we were across the world.
We want to thank you' all once again for coming
in tuning in to the weekly podcast of Walking This
Ways Impact Boys Podcast. We are broadcasting out of the
DFW Dallas four Participation parking Area. I'm very honored there
is signing very three of to Be Your Prison one
More Time along with my co host that right with

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me all the time, feedix outh. I welcome back to
the show. I know you being productive and came back
with open schedules, so I appreciate you hanging out half
them and going with you right.

Speaker 4 (00:43):
You know, we keep rolling with the punches, gotta keep going.

Speaker 2 (00:46):
So it's good. It's a good day in the city.
So the weather is changing. It's nice outside. Yeah, so
glad to be here. Nice to meet eat too as well.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
And also also and nice of it there on a
very preally have a mother and daughter. I think it
maybe the first time on the show that we actually
had a mother and daughter on the show. I have
to go back and see, but I'm thinking this may
be the first time we had a mother and daughter
on the show who are both entrepreneurs in their own right.
Of course, I hope I said that right doing great things.

(01:18):
We love to see productivity, We love to see positivity,
love seeing a mother, a mother who set this to
set the standard, set the bar for her daughter to father.
Now her daughter is successful and won't get mourning to
that tonight if they take us behind the scenes on
this beautiful family. Of course, that's doing great things. Y'all
are in Louisiana, Great Louisiana. Yes, Okay, they're doing great

(01:41):
things at Louisiana. That's what's I'm originally from Alabama. Course,
like I said, IVE been living in Texas going on
four years. So I don't want the ladies go to
henduce theyself for going and further. So ladies go ahead
and doce y'allself and once again me and Phoenix working
y'all to the walk in this Ways Impact was podcast
here on Facebook, live, Twitch, YouTube and weake in.

Speaker 5 (02:06):
Well, it's nice to meet y'all. I'm Takaya. I am
a professional and pastraight chef. I am the daughter of
course a lot of people think we're sisters, but I'm
the daughter.

Speaker 2 (02:17):
That's my mom.

Speaker 3 (02:20):
And awesome, And of course Miss Sonya, I know you
was on the show before I went big shot to
Miss l of course Al Wills herself and he was
on the show. And I know you've been very productive
doing a lot of great things. So just go ahead
get yourself to artists as well, I said me and
Phoenix Woking you also, okay.

Speaker 5 (02:38):
So I'm Sonya Tasaurus Antoine. I am a licensed professional
counselor licensed in Louisiana and Texas. I'm also the owner
of Positively Affirmed Therapeutic Services. And Lontege and I are
really close friends and she has had me on your
show as a guest a few times.

Speaker 2 (02:59):
So thank you so much for having us back.

Speaker 3 (03:02):
And you know, awesome, Like I said me and Felix,
we love having any people on here who are doing
the story and everything. They share their story on how
they got started, the requirements with their aspect, and most
appointly that your story can motivate and inspire other people
who are listening as we live stream or they go
back and listen to the replay. And like I said,

(03:23):
you are a mother and daughter. Of course y'all doing
great things, very successful, highly success when I say that,
very very with facts. So how did this journey all started?
I know you the mom, So how did this journey
all started for y'all as you we are today?

Speaker 2 (03:40):
Okay?

Speaker 5 (03:41):
So for me, of course, I'm not going to tell
y'all my age, but years back, it started from me
in high school. In fact, my senior year, I took
a psychology and sociology class and I fell in love
with it, and so I wanted to become a psychologist
and went to school, started school here back when it

(04:05):
was USL, graduated when it became u L of Lafayette,
and changed my major a few times from psychology because
my mom was like.

Speaker 2 (04:15):
I don't know if you want to do that.

Speaker 5 (04:16):
People in the world are crazy, somebody might try to
kill so you need to go in something in the
medical field. So again I changed my major a few times,
went back to school, got a master's in business, and
seven months later I found myself back in school again,
working on that degree in psychology because it was like
a calling for me. I was working in corporate America,

(04:39):
doing very well for a company here in the area,
and found myself at.

Speaker 2 (04:46):
The time when I think back doing.

Speaker 5 (04:49):
Life coaching, which I'm also a certified life coach today,
but I was doing that work then. And so I
finished that psychology degree and went out on maternity leave
for my last son and found myself trying to find
a job to use my psychology degree. And I was

(05:09):
blessed with an opportunity. And people thought I was crazy
because here I am a single mother at the time
making like forty something thousand a year, you know, and
I was leaving that job for a fifteen thousand dollars
pay cut to go and use my psychology degree. And
a year into that, I decided that I wanted to

(05:31):
do more right because this field mental health is so
close to my heart. And after talking to different people,
of course, they were like, uh, you might have to
go back to school, and I'm like, well, no, you know,
I shouldn't have to. I got this psychology degree, but
nonetheless I had to go back to school and get
another degree, and that's what afforded me the opportunity to

(05:55):
now be able to own my own private practice. I
am a license professional counselor, nationally certified counselor, and so
that was my journey. Of course, I want to know
more about that journey. Go get this book that I
co arthur, the Reset Journey from Surviving to Thriving, because
it really walks you through, step by step everything.

Speaker 2 (06:15):
That happened along that journey.

Speaker 5 (06:17):
But that's where it started for me and my daughter,
back when I was still trying to figure out, you know, life, right,
still doing those things, but doing other things that you know,
people would bring to the table like you, you could
do this and make money. You could do this and
make money. So every time I did that thing and

(06:38):
I was trying to make money, she was right there
with me, like I was tagging her along. If I
had a table, she was sitting at the table passing
out information. And you know, I would like to say
that's what burke the entrepreneur spirit in her, but I
don't know.

Speaker 2 (06:56):
She'll have to tell.

Speaker 3 (06:57):
Us the go ahead and jump right on in, can
you know, mom, open it up, So go ahead and
jump right on in right So.

Speaker 5 (07:07):
For me, honestly, like in high school, I started making
just small stuff like strawberries, chocolate covered rice, Krispy treats,
just little stuff that I would be able to show
to like my classmates and whatnot, and so I think
Valentine's Day was a perfect time where I was like,

(07:27):
I'm gonna make chocolate cover strawberries and sell it to
my classmates. So I was selling chocklate covered strawberries for
like fifteen dollars. Probably was not making a profit in
high school, but I was in high school and whatever
I could get, I could get. So I just kind
of started doing that. And then right after I graduated.
I graduated in May, and I believe in September, I

(07:50):
went ahead and I did like my LLC and whatnot,
came up with the name, and came up with the
menu with pricing, got that out of the air, and
I started my business six years.

Speaker 2 (08:01):
It'll be on the teams of this month.

Speaker 5 (08:04):
So I guess you can say I stepped out on
faith and I've been successful ever since. I did end
up going to school for culinary I went to SLCC here,
which is a community college, and then I transferred over
to Nicol State University in Tibodau, Louisiana, where I am
now a professional and pastry chef.

Speaker 2 (08:24):
So those five years.

Speaker 5 (08:26):
Kind of set me back from my business, so I
wasn't able to fully do it. But I'm grateful for
everything that I learned that I am now able to
pour into my business. So going into the sixth year,
I know that everything that I've learned in culinary school,
I can pour into my business and be even more
successful from there, you know.

Speaker 3 (08:46):
And that's what it's all about, making things happen, becoming
aut that you know that God crazy to be of
course me know that I say on the show all
the time. It was not credit be a waste. You
not credit be a loser. He was not great to
be mediocre. You created to do a stored and everything.
If you look at scripture, he said you the apple
of his eye. He tears you the head and not

(09:08):
to tell. He restored these things upon us. And but
these things we have to believe. Your blessed going in,
bless going out. You can land to many natures, don't
have to borrow anything. But these are things that we
have to believe in order to achieve. You know. It's
like great information. He gave us the information. He gave
us the blueprint, but it was up to us to
follo along with that blueprint. But most a poorly. That's

(09:30):
what it was all about. But I'm very excited and
on finished. You want the time on anything you want
to ask the mother that dott On in tonight.

Speaker 4 (09:40):
Most definitely very impressed by the mindset, you know, and
being able to instill that in our children to get
them started on that right foot. So, Mom, I wanted
to ask you what obstacles. What were some of the
obstacles that you had to face in your pursuit?

Speaker 2 (10:02):
Oh goodness, where do I start one? You know, I'm
a single mother.

Speaker 5 (10:09):
It's Takaya, her middle brother, who just recently turned eighteen,
and then my youngest who's eleven. So like she and
a friend of hers brought to my attention pooh, but
probably what about three years ago? They were like, you've
been doing this single mom thing for at the time

(10:30):
she was twenty one, for twenty one years. I was like,
who oh, my goodness. So when I think about that,
you know, I think about her journey when she was
born prematurely and at a month and ten days old,
as a single mom, I learned that she was diagnosed

(10:51):
with hydrocephalus and that in order to combat this, you know,
and ensure that she had a good quality of life,
she would have to go undergo a major brain surgery
at a month and a couple of days old, you know,
and so you know, that was.

Speaker 2 (11:09):
A major stepback.

Speaker 5 (11:11):
I had to sit out of school a semester, but
you know, Gods will his way.

Speaker 2 (11:16):
I was able to go back and graduate.

Speaker 5 (11:19):
When I finally graduated, I got a job I had
applied for a year prior to. You know, then there
are some things that happened along the way that really
put us in a bind financially, mentally, emotionally. So there
has been lots and lots of struggles, but I, you know,

(11:41):
stepped out on faith. And I told a lot of
that story in this book because I wanted people to
see and understand how despite the struggles you may face,
as long as you stay connected to His word, as
long as you stay connected to him and trust that
He will see you through it, you will get through it.

(12:03):
And we have been able to get through every storm.

Speaker 3 (12:09):
You know.

Speaker 5 (12:09):
I laughed earlier today because we were sitting here. You know,
we just missed the hurricane that you know, came to Louisiana.
We got rain and everything today and the sun came
out and I was like a, I say to Kanya,
the sun got the nerves to want to come out.

Speaker 2 (12:26):
I said, but.

Speaker 5 (12:29):
You know, after the storm, the sun will shine. And
that the way I look at what we've gone through.
You know, despite the storms, every storm, the sunshine came out,
and nine times out of ten, if you were lucky
to catch it, you would catch a rainbow.

Speaker 3 (12:49):
And most definitely that's what's up right there. And like
I said, just hearing the excitement, just hearing the triumph,
hearing the victory in your voice on you it's a
story out by itself, not even though you may have
trials and trivilations, but you still were pressing through. You're
still pressing on now that you know you had your

(13:11):
children as well. So it's like, you know, I want
my children to have a great life. I want them
to have a successful life. And you know parents always
want their children to achieve farther than they did, and
you know and that trickle effect. So as a mother
and the matriarch of the family, what with the life
skills that you store, the pun your cheerre and growing,

(13:32):
and what are the philosophies you put in place. It's
just a primin example of your daughter. She's doing great things.
I know your others doing well. But what philosophy did
you put in place for yourself and for your children
for they could continue doing great things in life.

Speaker 2 (13:47):
Well.

Speaker 5 (13:48):
I was raised by my grandmother and my mom, who
is also a single mother, and so you know, one
thing they always told us was trust. So that's the
number one trust God. And my grandmother used to always
tell us he may not come when you want him

(14:08):
to come, but he's right on time. And so I
share that with my children, I think sometimes more often
than not, but they know it.

Speaker 2 (14:19):
It's instilled in them. I always tell them to be
who they are.

Speaker 5 (14:24):
Don't be who other people want them to be or
what society tells them. They should be. Be who you are,
trust yourself, but most importantly, always be honest and do
the right thing, and always reach out if you need something.
Don't ever feel like you know you can't call me
and you can't ask for help, because I'm always gonna

(14:46):
be here to help you as much as i can.

Speaker 3 (14:51):
Yeah, And that's what it's all about. And we know
that the norm growing up was to go to school,
graduate college, get a job, you be on that job
for thirty plus years, and get retirement pension. But we
know that a lot of people only did but keep

(15:11):
down the side. We know, individual word. You know, they
had to do things they had to do, but at
the same time they was not being fulfilled, if that
makes sense. You know, I'm doing things, but at the
same time, I feel like I'm missing out. I'm missing
out on what I was born to do, missing out
what I was created to do. So did you always
instill that in your charity is finding your niche in life,

(15:34):
finding something that you was gonna bring you fulfillment, bring
you enjoyment instead of just doing things were society would
tell us what to do.

Speaker 2 (15:42):
Oh yeah, absolutely. You know.

Speaker 5 (15:45):
With Takaya, she graduated high school wanting to be either
obg y N or a pediatrician. And I remember taking
her to the school that she was thinking about going
to at that time, and she was happy to be there,

(16:06):
you know, but I called my sister on the way
back and I was like, I'm gonna hear from.

Speaker 2 (16:11):
Her by the end of the night. It's not gonna
go well.

Speaker 5 (16:13):
Like I just had that intuition, And you know, she,
she and her brothers know that I'm gonna always support
them whatever it is they choose to do. My only
request is that, you know, they do go to college
and pursue a higher education.

Speaker 2 (16:34):
For her brother, who just recently graduated.

Speaker 5 (16:37):
You know, I even told him, which I had to,
you know, check in with myself, because I'm like, yirl,
what you're doing?

Speaker 3 (16:43):
You know.

Speaker 2 (16:43):
I even told him.

Speaker 5 (16:44):
I was like, you know, if college is not your thing,
I'm okay with you going to to do a trade.

Speaker 2 (16:49):
You know.

Speaker 5 (16:49):
But on in life though, that wasn't always the thing
for him, you know, coming up. But going back to Takaya,
when she went through that orientation and she came back
and she was like mentally withdrawn, and I just remember
telling her, I'm gonna let you stay in this space,

(17:11):
but not too long. So I allowed her to stay
in that space. She was like, Mom, I don't know
if I want to do that. That's too much biology,
that's too much this. And I said, okay, well think
about it. So after about the fifth day, poor thing,
she had then cried.

Speaker 2 (17:28):
Her eyes out.

Speaker 5 (17:29):
I went in her room. I flicked the lights on.
I said, Okay, time's up. We gotta figure out what
you're gonna do. You can't just sit here and you know,
just cry about it. I said, you gotta dig deeper.
What is it that you when you're gonna wake up
every day to go out and do it, you're gonna
say I love what I do.

Speaker 2 (17:51):
I said, have you ever.

Speaker 5 (17:52):
Thought about baking, cooking? Because those are things that you
love to do?

Speaker 2 (17:59):
That was it? Before I knew it, she had.

Speaker 5 (18:01):
Been enrolled at SLCC, like she spoke about, she had
then created this business. And I was in my feelings
because she didn't even tell me she had done the thing.

Speaker 2 (18:12):
She had just did it.

Speaker 5 (18:13):
And I mean, of course I was so proud of her,
but you know I felt some kind of way because
I was like, she didn't even ask me for my help.
But that just confirmed that the whole time she had
been watching, she had been listening, she figured it out
and she just needed me to support her and to
just give her that that nudge and that push letting her.

Speaker 3 (18:37):
Man, that's awesome, And I'm ask you this to some Well, see,
I see now there's a lack of when it comes
to parenting. You know, we see now where are the
parents today preparing the children for life? Cause we know
parents are to prepare their children for life because the
ain'tbody You're gonna get older, You're gonna have to have your

(18:58):
own family one day. Responsibilities come in. Are we lacking
that now? In more our community where we're not seeing
enough of parenting with parenting, charing for life. We see
now you see it on the news. We see you
see that the shoes that's going on right now in
the schools I work within the large system here in Dallas, Texas.

(19:18):
We have more young men being incarcerated and we see
a lot of on drugs, you know, But are we
lacking that now? What? What? What can we do to
fix this thing that we got going on in our
community when it comes to bringing back parenting for parent
cheering for life.

Speaker 5 (19:38):
So do I think that there's a lack? Absolutely? I
think it got lost somewhere along the way. You know,
in my profession, I hear a lot of times, you know,
they want me to be their friend.

Speaker 2 (19:52):
Yeah, a lot of times that's the case, you know.

Speaker 5 (19:55):
And I can't speak for anybody else, you know, but
for myself, you know, I would always tell them, and
I still do, I'm not your friend, I'm your mom,
And I don't care what so and so's mom is
doing in their house over here.

Speaker 2 (20:14):
This is this is what it is, And I think
too that.

Speaker 5 (20:20):
A lot of times, you know, we don't like to
reach out for support because I think that whole system
that I grew up on, which was the village, right,
the village, no longer exists in many communities because it's
more so don't tell my child nothing.

Speaker 2 (20:38):
Who do you think you are?

Speaker 5 (20:39):
If you say something to that kid, they want to,
you know, come at you and argue and fight. And
some people are just like you know what my grandmother
used to say.

Speaker 2 (20:48):
Sometimes you see nothing, you say.

Speaker 5 (20:49):
Nothing, right, And I think that's kind of where it
has gotten. People They see but they say nothing because
they don't want to get intertwined and mixed up in
all of that.

Speaker 2 (21:01):
But you know, one of the ways that I have tried.

Speaker 5 (21:04):
To be an advocate is through my youth mental health
summits that I offer here in the area, you know,
where we hold safe spaces for our children, where we
even hold spaces for the parents, you know, and we
talk to the parents and we let them know if
their child brings up a concern, you know, So.

Speaker 2 (21:26):
There's still ways to get it done.

Speaker 5 (21:29):
I recently did a parent round table where we talked
about the parenting phases where you go from caregiver to
coaching to consulting, and how important that is, you know,
to be able to help your children to navigate through
their phases of life, but also to help you to
get to a place where as a parent, you can

(21:52):
feel like you've done everything that you could possibly do
to support, to mold and to help your children go
out into this world we live in and be successful.

Speaker 3 (22:04):
Yeah, most definitely, because we know well what we see
where we're aligning on the school system. We're alying on
teachers to raise our children. We're a lying on the
daycare system to relate he's our children. You see what
Now where individuals don't even want to cheer their home,
they just look forward to them going to school. They
think that's the teacher's job. No, teachers, the education teach

(22:26):
them math, science, social study, not prepare them for life.
Now to teach them about having manners for themselves, yes, ma'am, No, ma'am, yes, sir, no, sir,
you know, being on time, having integrity, not a lie,
you know what I'm saying, being honest. So now it's like, okay,
the teachers, that's not the teacher's job. And honest thing

(22:46):
with all these teachers going through where parents getting mad,
a teacher with my child not learn anything in school? Well,
just think about it. The teacher has to deal with
a problematic behavior child in the classrooms. What does that
take away? It takes away the teacher study, her planning
to deal with a problematic behavior that's in the classroom.

(23:10):
So what does the lead the other chure that that
not learning anything? Right, So it's like it's it's very
very deep. And I know you mentioned psychology. I think
you mentioned that earlier. Of course, when you mentioned that earlier,
what was the you was always curious about the mindset

(23:31):
of people, because that's something we never think about, the mindset,
how we think, how we function, the habits that we
picked up. So that always intrigued you about the mindset
of people.

Speaker 5 (23:44):
Yes, yes, even in high school I was if you know,
label it.

Speaker 2 (23:51):
Today I was coaching and counseling, you.

Speaker 5 (23:54):
Know, helping people navigate through things, working through problems. You know,
more of my friends than anybody else. But it was
just something about it. But also, if I really am honest,
it had a lot to do with my instructor, you know,
my teacher, right, Coach Joey had a way of putting

(24:15):
the subject matter out there to where I just wanted to,
you know, chime in and listen. And he would call
me Antoine. He would call me by my last name.
And I remember writing a paper and he was like Antoine,
that bubbly handwriting. I couldn't even understand it, but I
guess he understood it enough because I got an a
on it. But it was just something about the way

(24:37):
he taught the subject matter that really pulls me in.
And then of course you know, understanding the mind why
people react and respond the way they do, and how
you know their upbringing could impact you know, their behavior, etc.

Speaker 3 (24:57):
And we know we said it was going on right now,
but it's to understand. But also bringing ship break the
narrative of thing, how we allowed society to dictate us
how we're supposed to be. We allow society to dictate
how we're supposed to act and all the other stuff.
And we know, you know, thank God for our parents.

(25:18):
And I know our parents. You know they was gonna
paying information they learned from their parents and so forth.
And we know that growing up, we didn't have a
lot of conversations because we know these are wide open nowadays.
We can see them on social media, but having conversations
where if a child was dealing with something or was
brought about something and when the child as a parent,

(25:40):
the parent were hooping all and yelled at them. And
I know they did that because they didn't know the answer.
So whether the child or the child just really holds back.
I'm scared to talk to my parents. If I talk
to my parents, they just gonna yell at me, So
they go and get bad information on the outside. Now
it's like what it has come from when it said, Okay,

(26:01):
I've been trying to talk to you for the longest,
but I talked to you holler at me. So how
can we change that to when our children have questions,
that the parent can sit down and talk to the
child and explain the pros and cons of things to
just whop been hollering at them.

Speaker 5 (26:18):
Absolutely, So it is it's really important to hold a
safe space for your children. But that requires you to
check in with you because you can't do that if
you're dealing with your own stuff, right, you got to
make sure that you have separated that. But for example,

(26:38):
I can remember when Tokyo was getting ready to go
to middle school and I sat her down and I
told her everything from I think A to Z right
as to what she could expect, what she might see,
what she might hear. But I made it clear to
her that if she had any questions, to please come
home and let's talk about it, because I wanted to

(27:02):
help her the process through it and be that voice
or reason so that she didn't have to get it
from the outside. And I remember her sharing that with
one of her friends and the mom called me, and
the mom was going off, like, how dare you have
such a conversation because we even talked about sex, you.

Speaker 2 (27:23):
Know, because I remember in middle school, my.

Speaker 5 (27:27):
Friends, other people around me, you know, talking about it.
Some girls even ended up pregnant that I that I
knew and I went.

Speaker 2 (27:35):
To school with. And I was like, So I went
home and I'll never forget this. I went home and
I asked my mom.

Speaker 5 (27:42):
I said, so, how is it that a girl can
have sex with a boy and they don't even love
each other? And my mom, when I tell you, she
got so pale.

Speaker 2 (27:55):
She's like, I don't know, call you, Auntie. So I
call her and she's like, tell need some off the words.

Speaker 5 (28:02):
And then it was like and that stuck with me,
and I remember telling myself that if I ever had
a daughter or children, period, I was gonna have those
difficult conversations with them because I don't want them getting
the wrong information.

Speaker 2 (28:18):
Although they still will.

Speaker 5 (28:20):
I wanted to make sure they heard certain things from
me and they knew that if they had to have
a conversation, I may not always like the topic, but
I was gonna hold space for the topic. And so
when that mom called me and how dare you? And
I told her, I said, ma'am first and foremost, that's
my child, and so whatever I choose to do with

(28:44):
my child or form my child, that's me. Maybe you
should be having the same conversations too. And it seemed
to have worked well.

Speaker 3 (28:57):
Yeah, because because it made sense, because this is where
we're going where okay it's all about and I believe
in you should have a healthy, healthy, safe household for
your family. Of course, where no back in the day's
family to sit down to dinner table, talk about things,
discuss some things, but most important it was to help educate,

(29:22):
grow and mature that when you have these conversations when
it's about sex or anything, that you give them the
straight up answer the probes and comes, oh what it's
all about? And we know that you're gonna have guys
who say, oh I love you, boo woo woo, do
this and that, and soon they give they won't. They're
out the door. Now she's hurt, you know, And now

(29:46):
how can you have to sit down? Now? She has
filled that resentment up towards guys now because she said, okay,
the guy really love he betrayed me? Right, So it's
that change now where that wall build up. So how
do we know reverse all that? Especially with guys? You know,
guys go the same thing. The girl love him, she

(30:08):
walk out. Now he has trust issues? Now what do dogs?

Speaker 6 (30:13):
Just says?

Speaker 3 (30:14):
Now you have this war going on where all men
are the same, all women are the same based off
someone's own experience. Now they spirit taxinity over. Now we
have this war going on and we see a lot
of that in social media. It's whole war. It's house
divided and no do you talk about that? A house
divided cannot stand. So what you want to say about

(30:36):
that one?

Speaker 5 (30:37):
Well, you know, I think for me with them, I
always remind them that you can't control what other people do, correct, right,
you can control what you do and how you react
and your respond But just because someone you know hurts

(30:59):
you doesn't mean that you have to reciprocate that. You
also have to be mindful of what could have been
going on in their world, right, because you only see
a small window of that. And so when it comes
down to it, it's really about just being open and

(31:21):
communicating how you feel, but honoring your feelings. You know,
I think a lot of times, especially for our young boys,
our males, you know, they've been told you don't cry,
you know, so they don't honor their feelings.

Speaker 2 (31:36):
They don't know how to.

Speaker 5 (31:37):
So, you know, for my boys, I make sure they
know that it is okay to cry. It's okay to
talk about you know, the girl that you had a
crush on, you found out she liked your best friend.

Speaker 2 (31:49):
It's okay for us to have that conversation.

Speaker 5 (31:51):
Because I want you to know that I respect you
enough to hear what you have to say, because what
you have to say matters, right, And then I can
help you to try to I sets through any of
those stuck points, those places where it may not make sense.
And no I don't have all the answers, but I
think when it really just comes down to it, instead
of warring, is if it's really about let's just talk.

Speaker 2 (32:14):
Let's just hear both sides.

Speaker 5 (32:15):
Let's hear this personal let's hear that person out, you know.
And even when it comes to our children in our community,
especially the African American community, we have been taught to
just brush things under the rug, not really deal with
those things. You know, let's not talk about those things.
But at the end of the day, you have to.
You have to talk about it. Your feelings and your emotions,

(32:38):
they're valid, they're real. And that's one of the things
that I really try to do when my children is
validate their emotions. And even me, with all the tools
and all the equipment that I have, I'm still human.
So there are times where you know they might be
going through something and they have to tell me, Mamma,

(32:58):
you're not listening, right A Mama, I don't need you
to tell me how to fix it.

Speaker 2 (33:03):
I just need you to listen.

Speaker 5 (33:05):
So just having that space, I think, to hold that
space for your children, just to communicate that and let
them hear those words may help to start clearing a
path for these things to be different.

Speaker 3 (33:20):
Yeah, that's what's all about you know what I'm saying.
It's all about turning change the narrative, changing things around,
changing the linit, changing the legacy status. We say to
Greenner passes before going the first want take a quick
commercial break and we're right back with our topic discussion.
Name of the show is called Like Mother, Like Daughter.
It's the name of the show and we'll right back

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after this break.

Speaker 5 (33:53):
You said.

Speaker 3 (33:56):
That we love.

Speaker 1 (34:00):
Baddy stop do the love fashion.

Speaker 6 (34:05):
No me from my host, from my fears, Selia chose
me to me love.

Speaker 2 (34:16):
Don't.

Speaker 1 (34:17):
I don't know what you've been told, but all I
know is that you love peace worth more than go
to see. It took a while from me to understand
what the love that ps it's sin high the.

Speaker 3 (34:37):
Man you know my flove.

Speaker 1 (34:44):
But yeah, yet just a love me love me now
I know we love it is be nobody stop do
your love know me? Oh my homes and all my fie.

(35:07):
Celia chose me to Mill gets on your bell and
him is still on your side. I was keeping reay
with you when that's no lie won't give up the
fight and no one myself.

Speaker 3 (35:20):
Fight no one that God. I'm a side God, I'm
a side I was down in there, got me up
on the ground.

Speaker 2 (35:27):
No faith.

Speaker 1 (35:27):
I thought it was now the devil se is winning
and we can shook. You know, with that season, we're
gonna earn it up. Gotta love my sister.

Speaker 2 (35:36):
And love my brother.

Speaker 3 (35:37):
Hasn't his word teaches us.

Speaker 1 (35:39):
We gotta love each other really a third. We can't
looking on each other's color as you preferred to love
one another.

Speaker 3 (35:45):
You need to come together.

Speaker 2 (35:49):
Now. I know we love it.

Speaker 3 (35:52):
No life, stop your mother.

Speaker 2 (35:59):
Me on my home.

Speaker 6 (36:05):
Mem I'm man love, so in love. I'm man love,
so in love.

Speaker 1 (36:21):
With you, with you, with you, with you.

Speaker 6 (36:26):
I'm in love with.

Speaker 1 (36:27):
You, with you, with you, with you, with you.

Speaker 3 (36:39):
Hey, it's up verabout went back here on the walk
in this way. Impact was podcast broadcast out of df
W Dallas Folk for Attentions ms Politan Area by Shot
to Harvard. She's a gospel re cording artist here in Dallas, Texas.
I said, shot her, be shot everybody who's doing great things,
of course, and I'm very unabresign. There appears to be
in the prison of this awesome mother and daughter. Of course,

(37:01):
the things they are doing, the thing they want to come,
the thing they sit out to do as well. Also,
let's talk about business, and let's talk about the business world.
And I know your daughter. Of course I don't want
to push your names, say Tea, because I don't like
butching nobody name. So of course you are a business owners. Well,
how has that been? How has being been an entrepreneur

(37:22):
for you? How had the change your life being a
business owner?

Speaker 5 (37:29):
So of course everyone knows it's definitely not easy, but
you have to keep pushing, especially with having God on
your side, nothing is impossible.

Speaker 2 (37:39):
And for me, like I said earlier, being in school for.

Speaker 5 (37:45):
Five years of having my business open, it was pretty
hard to have it, having stuff like consistently and just
being consistent with posting or even getting orders because I
was an hour away from Lafayette's, so whenever I would
go to school, I would come back on the weekends
and do orders.

Speaker 2 (38:04):
If I had orders.

Speaker 5 (38:05):
Some weekends I had maybe for some weekends I had two.
Some weekends I had one. Some weekends I had none.
So it's definitely it's not easy to just be like, oh,
I'm one hundred percent of entrepreneur. Everybody always have to
have some other source of income to be able to
pour into your business to of course keep it floating

(38:29):
and keep it going. But for me, I have to
always remember that everything happens in God's time, because for me,
being a young entrepreneur, I can look at what's going
on with social media and be like, well, she started
five months ago and she's already flourishing, or she started
five years ago and she has this or has that,

(38:51):
or she has this skill or whatever the case may be.
And I have to remind myself that it's not always
our time, and it's God's timing. And if you keep pushing,
you keep putting in the work, and you keep having
the faith and trusting in him, your time is going
to get to where you're gonna be like the person
that you're seeing.

Speaker 2 (39:09):
So just being in business, I had to remind myself that.

Speaker 5 (39:14):
Social media is what they decide to show you, so
you don't necessarily know you know that their business is
flourishing or whatever the case may be. You just have
to focus on yourself and stay in your own lane
so that way you can be to where you.

Speaker 3 (39:31):
Want to be.

Speaker 5 (39:33):
It's fun being an entrepreneur because of course you can
do things on your own. You don't have somebody telling you, oh, well,
I need a thousand cupcakes tonight, and you got to
do it right now. By this time, you can let
them know, Okay, this will be done this time, This
is how much it'll be. This is my policy. This
is that you are able to do what you have

(39:54):
to do. You don't have to focus on nobody else.
So I definitely love being anrepreneur. If anybody else decides
to do it, I want to do it. I tell
them to do it. But of course, do your research first.
Don't just dive into it, because I think that's also
a thing too. Now with social media, everybody is like, oh,
well they making money off this, so let me do it.
But not everybody has the customer service or not everybody

(40:17):
has done their research to go out and do it.

Speaker 2 (40:20):
But being entrepreneur is definitely fun.

Speaker 5 (40:22):
I'm blessed to be an entrepreneur at a young age,
and I pray that I keep flourishing.

Speaker 2 (40:29):
Well.

Speaker 3 (40:29):
You know, that's what it's all about, you know, if
it goes biblical for a moment in a Bible and
do it wrong. In aight eighteen, the Bible tells her
that God has given us a power to get well,
that he may establish coming made with with our fore fathers.
The thing about it, for a moment, he's I give
you the power to get well. He didn't say I'm
gonna give you well. He's I give you the power

(40:51):
to get well. When you hear that will resonate with y'all.
The first thing come to Mimed is I give you
the power to get well.

Speaker 5 (41:00):
I think, like you said earlier, like basically he gives
us the blueprint, like it's.

Speaker 2 (41:05):
All in there.

Speaker 5 (41:06):
And I'm not sure if people are familiar with Rock
City Church, but I follow a Rock City Church and
they have what's called Devote Energy every Monday, Monday through Friday,
every morning.

Speaker 2 (41:19):
And what they tell everybody is to read your Bible.

Speaker 5 (41:22):
Like if you have questions, are you if you're wondering
about something, it's in the Bible.

Speaker 2 (41:27):
Literally read your Bible. And so he gives us the blueprint.
You have to read it.

Speaker 5 (41:32):
You have to pray and ask for this terment and
Holy Spirit to allow you to focus and understand what
you're reading.

Speaker 2 (41:41):
And it's there.

Speaker 5 (41:42):
I mean, he gives you the power to be wealthy
and you know, do what you have to do to
be successful in life. But you have to also put
in the work. It's not going to just be given
to you. Of course, like I said earlier, you have
to trust in him and have faith that it's going
to be done, and it'll be done.

Speaker 2 (41:58):
You just have to stay focused.

Speaker 3 (42:01):
Yeah, you have to because whatever we say fay with
our worst is dead. You know, you can say all
day long, I want to go play in the NBA,
or you're sitting around the couch playing NBA two K,
even jump food, it ain't gonna happen. You know a
lot of people say they want to be this and
be that, but they're not putting the work to do that.
They're not putting themselves in position to do that. You know,

(42:22):
God has given us a system and we had to
talk about this on the show a while back, developing
our own system, putting the system in place. If you
look at if you are into athletes and you're into sports,
great coaches always had a system in place for the
players to drive and succeed. So we should have a
system in place so we can drive and succeed in life.

(42:45):
And what most importedly, it's put in the work. Like
you said, TS, Well, it's just put in the work
and staying consistent with it stay within your own line,
because you got to thinking about it. When you're starting
a business, You're not gonna make money like that. It's
not gonna boom overnight. It tastes time, it tasts years.

Speaker 2 (43:02):
You know.

Speaker 3 (43:02):
Some peoplen't hit that mark, probably like a ten year
mark whatever, but they're still staying consistent with it. So
let's talk about being consistent when it comes entrepreneurship. How
important is it stay consistent? You just can't Well, I'm
doing it today and then tomorrow putting up on the
back in the closet. I'm feeling today, so I'm gonna
put it back on today. So how important is it

(43:23):
to stay consistent when it comes to the business world.

Speaker 5 (43:32):
Well, I guess we both can say something on this,
because I definitely can't say my mom is more consistent
than me, because I'm the type of person where I'll
be like, Okay, I have this order today, so I'm
gonna post this order, and then I don't post for
a week, and then I'll be like, oh, well, I
don't have any ners this week, or I didn't get

(43:54):
any orners this money. But then I have to have
a reality check with myself and like, well, people don't
know what you have if you don't post about it.
And like I said earlier, with people being more well
having more than what I have, or just just looking
at their page and being able to see that they

(44:15):
have consistency with clientele, I have to remind myself that
they post three times a day or you know, they're
letting people know that this is what I have, this
is what I do, this is the offers that I serve,
and they are able to have that consistent client tele.
But if you're not posting and showing up for yourself,

(44:36):
then the people are not going to show up for
your business. So for me, I have to remind myself
daily that you have to be consistent. How to be consistent,
I don't know, but I'm trying to find that out
on my own to be able to pour it into
myself so I can be consistent with my business.

Speaker 2 (44:54):
But my mom could fill in and maybe tell y'all.

Speaker 3 (44:58):
Well, go ahead, and mom going.

Speaker 5 (45:01):
I think she she did a good job of, you know,
expressing and explaining how it works for her.

Speaker 2 (45:08):
You know.

Speaker 5 (45:08):
For me, what I know is that consistency is key
to growth to development, and if you're struggling and finding
out what that should look like for you. Then you know,
it's really about stopping pausing and doing some self reflection

(45:30):
and evaluating and figuring out what those stuck points are
and how you can get through those in order to
develop it in order to you know, put it, put
it or make it a priority in your your business,
in your day to day. And so I think you know,
with Tim and where she is in her own growth,
that she'll definitely get it. But for me, I recognized

(45:53):
early on, and I think that was because you.

Speaker 6 (45:56):
Know, I had.

Speaker 5 (45:59):
The opportunit tunity to sit under different people on my
journey to be coming, and so there were things I
picked up and I recognized.

Speaker 2 (46:09):
Those were important things.

Speaker 5 (46:11):
And there were things that I saw and I picked
not necessarily picked up to carry with me that I
was like no, And then that really also helped me
to identify, you know, what I needed to do and
how I needed to be consistent in my work in
order to grow and develop.

Speaker 3 (46:30):
And Austin, I know you said something earlier about promoting marketing.
If people don't know, they don't they won't know if
you don't put it out there. And when you was
talking everything about a colodes mouth don't get fed, you know,
so if your mouth closed, you won't get fed. When
you have to put the information out there, you have
to come to be in people faces. Comes to promote,

(46:51):
promote promoting. That's why I believe in You know, you
got to keep putting out that putting it out, to
putting out, to putting out there, no matter if someone
like it, no matter that someone don't share, keep putting
it out. They keep putting out, but keep putting out there.
Eventually it's gonna put with people. I keep seeing this
over and over again. I'm curious. Now, let me see
what the what the talk is about on this and

(47:12):
then that's how you hook people in and all off.
And you know people love sweets. And we know we're
in the time now where things are coming up. The
holiday season is approaching. We know all that stuff. We
know people have God functionings and things like that. So
that's what is all about. So let's talk about the business.
How can tea people follow your business? How can they

(47:35):
connect with you? Serve it comes to orders. We know
the holiday season is coming up. You know family is
gonna be coming into town. You know we're gonna have
a lot of guidings going on, so you can have
some big paydays coming through for the Holliday season. So
how can people go in and plug in and how
can they support you and the work that you're doing.

Speaker 5 (47:55):
So I am on Facebook and Instagram at a More
my Creations LLC on Facebook and more my Creations on Instagram.
I also do have an at sea page. You can
look it up by on More my Creations. I am
in the process of adding more desserts on there to
be able to shift, so that's coming. But definitely keep

(48:18):
a lookout on Facebook, Instagram and yeah, we could get
some sweet scent out shipped out.

Speaker 3 (48:24):
However, And that's what I'm asking this too. We know
people like to be healthy. They got to do the
very health conscious. So do you do health snacks as well?
Do you do vegans, desserts and things like that. I
just want to know. I haven't gotten to.

Speaker 2 (48:37):
It just yet.

Speaker 5 (48:38):
I have had coworkers that's asking me, so probably soon.
I just like to do my research before I put
stuff out because I'm not trying to make nobody sick
or none of that.

Speaker 2 (48:51):
But definitely, once I do my research and learn more about.

Speaker 3 (48:56):
It, definitely, Yeah awesome cause we know that's what people
are going individual going now when they're going through the
health thing, and we know there's a lot of because,
like you said, people health reasons, you want to make
sure all the other stuff is in force. So I'm feared,
but I'm looking forward to that. So whenever the job,
I'm looking forward to that and all this. I love
supporting great people doing great things. Also, I know, mom,

(49:18):
you are doing great things yourself as well, and you
missed your license in Louisiana and Texas as well. So
so are you playing on being licensing to other states
or you're just gonna be these two for right now,
or you're playing on expanding it referred across the United States.

Speaker 5 (49:35):
Well, for right now, i have my my work cut
out for me here in Louisiana and.

Speaker 2 (49:45):
In Texas.

Speaker 5 (49:46):
But I'm not saying that to say I'm not open
to seeing new clients, because I'm always open to seeing
new clients. I have pondered the idea of branching out
into other states, but there's so much that we have
to keep up with as far as our continuing education hours,
and of course the requirements for other states can look different.

(50:09):
So I'm okay with Texas and Louisiana right now, but
maybe in the future, I'll you know, honor the call.
I always like to wait for God to tell me
where to go next and expand in other areas.

Speaker 3 (50:25):
Right because we know that God deal with nations. You know,
God's centers out amongst the nations. You know what I'm saying.
That's what we said, a big God, don't. We don't
limit him. He's about nations, He's about worldwide. But we
know that God is good and we know that He
is doing great things and for both y'all, for your
whole entire family as well. So you you you know

(50:47):
you want to practice. Of course, you got a book
as well. Also in the massive Darty you're gonna be
writing a book. Your mother has a book? Are you
gonna be doing one too?

Speaker 2 (50:57):
I don't know about a book. Maybe a cookbook.

Speaker 3 (51:00):
Hey, hey, there you go, Hey there you go. See,
there you go? Hey cook boy. Hey, like I said,
we know cooking is a boy and we know that
you know, we gotta eat, you know, food for energy,
so we gotta have that. So that's always awesome thing.
Big Shot out. Also big Shot tell miss miss boys
in the building. Also earlier, so she's watching in the

(51:22):
coming session. Big Shot to Miss Blue as well, Miss
Blues out of Houston, Texas. She was on here last night.
She did say congratulation ladies, so big Shot out to
Houston and she said then oh yeah, she said, yes,
maybe a healthy, healthy cookball. You know what I'm saying.
So you never ay, you never beings, beings are changing whatever.

(51:43):
So I'm not holding y'all love. I know nobody gad
to get off the air. We had a great time
b shots finished. It was a surge in her area
so it got knocked offline. But that's what happened to her.
But before we get ready to get off the air, ladies,
and I don't want to yelp okay, you have very
productive ladies. So I starting with yout what advice sound
the wisdom? And you are are a young lady, So

(52:05):
what advice do you want to get a young people
who inspires to be business on this yourself?

Speaker 5 (52:12):
I would just tell them just do your research, definitely
make sure that it's something you want to do. Don't
just jump into it because social media is doing it.
Because TikTok is a place where they make it seem
like they're making so much money because they showing it,
but in reality it may not be as good as

(52:34):
it seems. So definitely do your research, just make sure
that that's something you really want to do, and just
trust in God that it's going to be done, because
we can do all things through Christ.

Speaker 2 (52:45):
And if you go for it, if you believe it,
it'll be done. Just gotta go for it.

Speaker 3 (52:54):
Hey, she said, just go for a watch you mam.
What advice you want to give to the listening audience
as well? That who are strive wants to strive to
do a story and everything, so but you're doing that yourself,
So what advice would you given?

Speaker 2 (53:10):
So what I would say is, you know, sometimes you
have to just jump. You have to trust that.

Speaker 5 (53:19):
God will take you where he wants you to go
and where he wants you to be, because as we know,
it's according to his will and his way. So just
believing in yourself, believing in the fact that if He
gave you the vision, he's going to make the provisions

(53:42):
and he will never give you more than you can
there and as long as you do the work, because
He's not going to do the work for you, you
have to put in the work. So as long as
you do the work, he will make the way. You
just have to trust and believe. And you know, someone

(54:04):
told me recently and she said, and I quote, and
we're crazy enough to be entrepreneurs, right, And we laughed
and I said, yep, we got that crazy faith.

Speaker 2 (54:17):
And so as long as you trust God do the work,
he'll make it so so easy for you to see
that other side.

Speaker 5 (54:33):
Now, I'm not saying it's gonna be easy and that
you're not gonna have no stumbling blocks or no struggles,
but He's gonna remind you once you've gotten over that,
that you see, if you'd have just trusted me and
follow my lead, this is where you would.

Speaker 2 (54:50):
Have ended up a long time ago for some of us.
I know I say that for myself.

Speaker 5 (54:55):
You know, if I would have just trusted his way
a long time ago, I may have gotten to this
point quicker.

Speaker 2 (55:01):
But I also recognize now that I needed all of
this in order to now be where I am.

Speaker 5 (55:13):
And that's also along the way that you're going to
have a conversation with that you're going to be able
to share your experience with that's gonna say.

Speaker 2 (55:21):
I needed to hear that because your your mess.

Speaker 3 (55:25):
It's a message, right, and that's what it. You know,
thinking about it like a scripture in Genesis, you know
Genus chapter the trailer. I hope I said that right
with Apram. You know when God approached Abram for you
beca't Abraham? What did he tell him? Leave everything you
can to leave everything? Ain't going to landa I will
show you. So with God, God has to get you

(55:48):
all a familiar surroundings. He's keeps you out for me
a territory, so you know who he is. That's why
I face it off of when I transition from Moby,
Alabama in twenty twenty to here to Dallas, Texas, leaving
familiar ground and come to a land I have never
been to, never visit in my life until well back

(56:12):
in twenty twenty of course, but I'm here. But it
calls you the church with more and him. It caused
you to rely more on his word, his guidance, and
most apportly, he'll put the people in place that you
want you connect to. I believe anytime he's seen you somewhere, ladies,
it's to reach other people, because he has people that's

(56:33):
waiting on you to help them take it to the
next level, if that makes sense. So that's what it's
all about. But y'all, ladies, man, y'all keep it the
great word one more time before we go. And your
social media of course, so I'm gona start with your daughter,
of course, So go ahead and plug in all your

(56:54):
social media info. How can people get in contact with you?
Like I say, you know, the holiday seasons coming up,
be gonna be the one to get some orders and
try things. So go ahead and plug in all your
social media sites.

Speaker 5 (57:06):
Facebook is a more My Creations LLC and Instagram is
a more my creations. My etty page is more my
creations as well. And I'm always open to shipping arters
or if you just want a sample box, a taste
tests or whatever, I'm willing to ship, so just.

Speaker 2 (57:25):
Send me a DM.

Speaker 3 (57:27):
Hey. Hey, y'all support man, y'all support, support, support, that's
what when they do want to support. Go ahead, mam.
I know you on social media as well.

Speaker 6 (57:33):
I know you do.

Speaker 3 (57:34):
You're a businesswoman, so go ahead plug out of the
information so that everybody can reach out and keep updates
what's going on.

Speaker 5 (57:40):
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CC studed my life Coach Instagram is positively underscore affirmed. Sonya,
I'm not on TikTok or a snap or anything like that,
but I also have have my website which is www

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dot Positively Affirm Therapeutic Services dot org.

Speaker 3 (58:08):
Man awesome, and I said, man, these ladies are doing
great things out of Louisiana. So may y'all keep in
contact what they got going on. You have questions that
I know, they feel free to talk to you about
all the questions that you have containing their business or
whatever things like that. So may'a ley's keep up the
great work. So that y'all have anything y'all want to
share before we leave, any shoutouts, I mean the floorid shore,

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So go ahead, y'all have anybody y'all want to shout out,
and then you want to share it, and then that
God put in your heart to share, go right ahead.

Speaker 5 (58:36):
Absolutely, a huge, huge, huge shout out to Longtage Woods.
She is one of my good friends from back home
that has connected us with Walking His Ways podcasts, and
I'm grateful and thankful for her. Continue blessings to her
and all that she's doing. Of course, my daughter you know,

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success to her and her business. I want to see
her continue to thrive and just be on the lookout
for things that's here in Louisiana.

Speaker 2 (59:09):
I have youth mental health summits that's free to our youth.

Speaker 5 (59:14):
We're always looking for sponsors and people to you know,
just honor our young people because their mental health matters.
Looking forward to possibly doing some things with Lontage in
the Texas area and also here in Louisiana.

Speaker 2 (59:34):
So that's it, and you want to share always walk
by faith, not by sight.

Speaker 3 (59:44):
Well hey, that sums it up right there. So I
appreciate you ladies saying time does the schedule to hang
out with me. And also Felane said she had a
power surch on the ends and not the everything out.
But like I said, I think thank hers will absence
of course, and LA's as well. So keep up the
great work and I will be back here Saturday morning,
on of course, with September fourteen, twenty twenty four, will

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be back. Will be live streaming at eleven am Central,
twelve pm Eastern, and nine am on the West Coast.
My guests will be is. He's a write in Republican
candidate for the US Congress District thirty eight. His name
is Avery, I mean his name is Abe Avery Irias
out of Houston, Texas, and he's running for office. So

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he will be on the show this Saturday morning. So
you have any questions about politics, things that he's running for,
what he believe in, feel free to tune in this
Saturday morning. I will be live streaming, of course on Facebook,
Lot pay YouTube, so make sure go. My YouTube page
right now is at Walking This Ways Impact Bulls dot com,

(01:00:47):
well not dot com, but Walk in his Ways. Go
to strive to the pat channel. You'll get shows like
this every week. So this coming Saturday, I will have
Avery Arias. Like I said, he's a writing Republican candidate
for the US Congress. So y'all tune in on Saturday mornings.
We talked politics, on his beliefs, on what he wants

(01:01:08):
to do in office. You know, we know that is
no critical season is here. You know, persons runners here.
We know they had the debate yesterday with mssus Trump
and Harris. Of course I'm on yesterday, so we know
how things get shaken up. We know people come with
the different views and their different opinions, but we know
at the end of the day, who rains at the
end of the day. The most high guy rains at

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the end of the day. So no matter what man say,
no matter what woman say, we know that God has
what the fin answer right. So we put our trust
in God, not in man. You know what I'm saying,
Hey part them to what they're doing in office, but
we know that God will not feel us. Man will,
but God will never fail us. That's why I think
about what we think about the sharing of vigor. How

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they wanted the king so bad, and God already had
a king of mind. He had David in mind. But
the people so impatient, they want the king, and that's bad.
When God said, well, give them what they want. God
saw they looked at Saw. Oh he was tall, handsome,
That's what they wanted. That's who God didn't want, right,
He already had somebody in mind, and that's who was David.

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Take care of the sheep, fighting bears, fighting lines, worshiping God,
that's what he wanted. So ladies and gentlemen, let God
put God. Let God put the people he wanted place.
That's just my opinion. Don't if he tell you getting
what they want? I don't want to hear that. That's

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scared when God say give them what they want, got
to think about that. They ain't think about that for
a moment. So don't know, just based stuff off of face, ladies,
and John, I won't want to say, don't just base
some off of face. And I know we get based
off off of skin color and stuff like that. But
if they lining up with the principles though, this thing

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about it for a moment. But that's for another day,
for another time. Ladies, y'all have a great night. We're
gonna be back here Saturday morning, here on the walk
in this way. The impact was podcast. Man, y'all have
a blast night. Great winds that remember bitch out to
see the Dan winds. He said this all the time.
Remember the graveyard. Everybody had one thing in company. They
thought they were gonna see tomorrow and they didn't remember

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less stiff like as our last. So man, y'all, enjoy
your life, find your purpose, find your niche find out
what God crazy to be, because God crazy you to
be wonderful. He's crazy to be unique, and He crazed
you to be amazing. So I don't letting nobody tell
you any other way, but follow God's what we out
this thing. Peace everybody,