Thee Official Mz Blue!!!! _Edited_

Mz.Blue is a native of Houston, Texas and serves as the host of Mz Blue Radio Show based in the same city.

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
I'm backing niggas tagging niggas do. I'm pretty solid for

(00:03):
your niggas. Y'all be willing at them.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Out Hey, it was a very one. Welcome to the
weekly podcast or the Walking This Way Impact Boys Podcast.
Y'all know. This is Tuesday addition and will live streaming
every week on Facebook, live, linking, YouTube, Twitch, you name it.

(00:24):
It's all by having straordinary people doing story and everything,
and that's what it's all about on the show. I'm there, honor,
very excited, very privileged to have a very spech gifts.
She's no stranger to the show. She's asked Richard from Houston, Texas.
She has the fastest growing radio show in Houston. She's
very well known in her community. She's been recognized for
many awards. But most important, I mind her work after

(00:46):
I mind her drive, and I mind her cassicity on
all levels. So I will and welcome miss Blue, Miss Blue,
welcome back here too, in here that podcast. I know
you've been very productive work work, work, work, work, But
it's all bout being productive of making the impact and
most poorly, leaving a legacy high everything and going I
has that ladder in your with the year being for you.

Speaker 1 (01:10):
You know what, it has been really interesting. Last year
I went through a whole lot, like mentally and just everything,
and it was a lot of noise, a lot of
people in my ear. But this year has been, I said,
like a year of rebirth for me.

Speaker 3 (01:27):
So every time I looked up, I saw my birthday
in Time eleven five, and I started noticing this as
I said that it was already a year where I
was going to be reinventing myself.

Speaker 1 (01:39):
And so that's what I've been doing. So this year
has been, like, it's been really fun, it's been exciting, and.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
Just like really just locked out a lot of noise
and I'm just really on like super focus right now.

Speaker 2 (01:51):
And that's what's being later focus, being locked in on
where you know, where's gonna benefit you, what makes you
happy when most and doing something that you enjoy doing.
We know when the generation time when the times now
what they're called bad good and good bad, we know
we them times now. You could say any things like

(02:12):
you if you force your opinion, you are being a hater,
You're you're being judgmental. All the other stuff we see
now also where we see the whole gender wars seeing
out of hand as well. We see mostly no finger
pointing going on. I know You've been talked about a
lot of that on your radio show as well. Get

(02:34):
people feedback, getting their comings on the things that's going
on today. So how how has the feedback been going
on your show when we talk about the thing that's
are taking place in our community.

Speaker 1 (02:46):
Yeah, bro, it's good and it's bad feedback, But that
comes with like doing what we do.

Speaker 3 (02:52):
You do have people that do not agree with what
you say in your opinions in that fine, but I
try to hold myself and my listeners, you know, accountable
for the way we think and our actions and the
way we move and the way we perceive things.

Speaker 1 (03:09):
And that's not always easy.

Speaker 3 (03:11):
But then you had people that you are giving advice to,
and you are giving a new and showing a new perspective,
and that's what I tried to do. So lately I
had a like a lot of good feedback and comments
on some of the topics that I've talked about, like
especially in relationships. I think relationships is always going to
be one of those topics that people just want.

Speaker 1 (03:33):
To know, what would you do? You know, what would
Miss Blue do?

Speaker 2 (03:36):
What would you do? You know?

Speaker 1 (03:37):
And so I enjoyed being able to do that talk
to people about.

Speaker 2 (03:41):
That, and that's what's a guy. And I had a
conversation with a friend of mine was working out earlier,
and it was like it was incident that happened on
my job recently where these guys got into a physical
altercation or a co worker she was a female and
got into acclication, lost some things off their job behind them.

(04:03):
And this conversation came up where I'm not if you
walk in on your significant other or whatever and they
with someone, like, would you fight them? And I wouldn't
do that because why when you know who you are,
you know who you am? Why risk everything over individual
who's gonna do they want to do anywe if that
may sin because I'm not finna fight you, I'm not

(04:26):
feinna why do that for when you just move on,
especially you got a lot at state, when you've building
so much, it just takes that one step, that one
bad decision, that one emotional decision to ruin everything. Is
it worth it? Though? If you find this person you
were with with someone else.

Speaker 3 (04:47):
Notice I took a very deep breath because I'm very
big on being through and keeping it one thousand with
my people and people that know me would be looking
like girl, you line.

Speaker 1 (05:00):
I'm not about to sit up here and say that.

Speaker 3 (05:02):
I would not be very tempted to Laila Ali my
significant other. I'm not the tight to really hit the
girl like I've never caught my spouse cheating or messing
around with somebody and fought.

Speaker 1 (05:16):
The girl that I don't do but with him.

Speaker 3 (05:20):
I mean, I feel like we invest so much in people,
and to say you don't know what you're going to
do when it happens to.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
You, it's like it's just really one of those things
where I don't know where I can't gauge where my
head face would be.

Speaker 3 (05:40):
I mean, you're investing in like ten plus years with someone,
You're not going to.

Speaker 1 (05:45):
Walk away with the Bible. You're gonna be upset if
I don't hear it. I'm definitely gonna say some choice
words because it's just I love very hard. But I
will say this.

Speaker 3 (06:01):
As I as I get older, I am more prone
to try to walk away from things. I will say
that because I do have a lot to live for
and I have a lot of things at stake, So
it just again, I don't know. I never know what
type of headspace I'm in until I'm in the moment,
so I don't I don't want to come off not

(06:25):
genuine right again, especially because a lot of people know
me and they you know, they know, but I haven't
had I haven't had those issues.

Speaker 1 (06:33):
But I'm just saying like I don't. Ooh, that's a
tough one. I'm sorry, that's a tough one.

Speaker 2 (06:38):
Yeah. I mean if you look at Okay, what goes
on and I say this all the time. The reason
why individual duccie they do it out of fear of
the confluents of the truth. Deep down inside, they always
wanted to do that. They always wanted to see other people,
like Okay, I want to be with you, but I
want to want to see other people. But they don't
want to be honest, so that would come. That's what

(06:59):
all the anger, that's what all the man is. That's
all because this person literally lies to you, Oh you
don't want for me, this and that, but then this
stuff comes out in the middle middle of end relationship.
That's where all the hurt comes from, right, because you
have a lie of guy they want to do with

(07:20):
the poly relationship and all this other stuff because.

Speaker 3 (07:26):
Why because I feel like a lot of people lack
self control. I feel like a lot of people are
just like happy or in tune with themselves because you
never need to people to make you happy. I feel

(07:48):
like if you do, that's a u problem. But then
you have so many women that is okay with it too,
so we can't leave them out that they want.

Speaker 1 (07:56):
I've heard someone say two.

Speaker 3 (07:58):
Incomes is better than one, three is better than one,
because there are women that have two men in them.
So the police situation goes so many different ways I've
seen it. So I'm just like, you want two men
taking care of you, and then that sty they like,
I'm happy that's what I want, and they know about
each other. But being true to your intentions with someone

(08:23):
is very important because again that when when you're teaming, it's.

Speaker 1 (08:28):
Like, if that's what you want is a police situation,
and I'm not.

Speaker 3 (08:31):
With it, then you need to find someone that is
with it because there are many people that's with it.
Don't try to convert me or don't just flat out cheat,
because yeah, you know, it's gonna definitely be some type
of emotions behind that act.

Speaker 2 (08:45):
Yeah, And that's what it's all about. It is all
about I mean, tell them what you want in the beginning, upfront.
You know, it's just like on the job, when they
give you a job interview. They gonna let you know
the pros the ends of it upfront. They're not gonna
sit there and dress up this lavish picture. And then
when you accept it, he was like, oh, I didn't
sign up that. You didn't tell me this. It's just

(09:07):
like being upfront. And I know guys who always upfront
with a woman that tell a woman, hey, I'm not
looking for the relationship. Hey, I like you. Bosso when
the player play the field too. And I seen women
who respect the guy's decision and they just walk away
from him cause that's something they don't want. But they said,
I respect the guy. Could the guy told me where

(09:29):
he was coming from. He didn't lie and manipulate, he
didn't do all these things. But she said, I respect it.
I respect someone who's upfront and say, hey, what can
you say. You can't knock them for that, for being honest.
But it gives you the choice where they basically gave
the option. Okay, if you want to continue on seeing me,
that's on. You don't get mad because I told you

(09:51):
upfront what was going on. So he would say about
that one, you know what.

Speaker 3 (09:59):
Its situationships, and I've tried that before and I'll never
do it again.

Speaker 1 (10:04):
So I'm I'm the type of woman where you have
to come and be correct. I can. I could be bossy,
but I know what I want and I know how
I want it, and I know what will work for me.

Speaker 3 (10:16):
I know what won't work for me, So I ask questions,
I probe, investigate. I want to know because I don't
like to waste my time. I'm not getting any younger,
and I am enjoying this moment of life.

Speaker 1 (10:31):
I don't mind being by myself.

Speaker 3 (10:32):
So if you're going to come into my space, you
most definitely have.

Speaker 1 (10:35):
To come with you genuine.

Speaker 3 (10:39):
You know, you have to be genuine with who you
are and what you're trying to do with me or
for us, or it's not gonna work because you do.
You do have those guys that are honest, and that's cool,
but they do this thing right here that I don't like.

Speaker 1 (10:55):
Okay, say you tell me that you don't want a relationship,
you want like.

Speaker 3 (11:00):
A situationship, right right, So I don't have to tell
you anything that I do. I don't have to tell
you about the dates with so and so. I don't
have to tell you about the pool party that I
might go.

Speaker 2 (11:11):
To with SO and so.

Speaker 1 (11:12):
I don't have to tell you anything.

Speaker 2 (11:14):
And a lot of these.

Speaker 3 (11:15):
Guys will say I don't want a relationship with you,
but they want to tweet you like their girlfriend.

Speaker 1 (11:22):
They want to put a situlation on you.

Speaker 3 (11:24):
Like you can't talk to him, or you can't go
on a date now now, and see I'm so look,
I'll be playing about stuff. If I want to talk
to a dude and you say you want, you don't
want nothing. Depending on my mind frame, I might be like,
that's cool. I'm not going to hide what I'm doing.
And that's the thing that we start to class because

(11:45):
I'm like, yeah, I'm getting ready to go out with somebody.

Speaker 1 (11:48):
Well who a dude? Yeah, I mean, you're not my man,
I'm not your woman.

Speaker 3 (11:52):
We're just in a situation and these are we haven't
even said any boundaries. And I think a lot of
these guys are so selfish. That's why I said I'm
done with situationships, cause it's.

Speaker 1 (12:03):
Like, why are we arguing what are we arguing about?
And we're just in a situationship. We're not tied to
each other.

Speaker 3 (12:10):
It's just you know, whether it be just sex so
just conversation, or just spending time with each other a
platonic relationship. I don't owe you anything, you owe me nothing.
I don't want to know what you're doing. But they
always want to be up in my business, so.

Speaker 2 (12:26):
Now everything wants Okay, it's okay for them to do it,
but when you do it, it's got it's controversial and
it's wrong, and that's weird.

Speaker 1 (12:37):
It has been that way, which again I haven't done
a situationship.

Speaker 3 (12:41):
It's been like over a year now, Like I'm I
don't do that because it's so much, it's so confusing
and so.

Speaker 1 (12:50):
So much drama with those situationships, and it's like the
boundaries are always wrong because then here's another one.

Speaker 3 (12:56):
I catch you out with somebody, or maybe I know
you slept with someone, or I found lasses in your
trashcand true story and I asked you about it. Were
not together. Okay, I'm gonna remember that. But now you
mad because I'm out with somebody or I'm you don't
see me at the corner store with somebody.

Speaker 1 (13:15):
The rules apply. I don't owe you no explanation. I'm
not sitting on you right situation.

Speaker 2 (13:21):
I understand that it's blue cut what it is. They
won't okay, they want to, they want to do this,
but also it's like they won't, okay, tie you down.
You're not tied down because we're not we're not official,
we're not married, we're not seeing the same last name.
Of course, Okay, you do your thing, I do my thing.
That's it. But it is tastes that mature individual understand.

(13:45):
But I know some of these guys are dealing with
a lot of low self esteem, that there were a
lot of insecurities, and they don't think. And I'm not
knocking nobody, but they don't think for themselves. They allow
these counting creators to influence them now to where they

(14:06):
don't know how to think for themselves. And what they
do is you hear these guys on social and you've
seen it, and you you in this field where you've
seen we're guys. They're always balliving women, fashion women, putting
titles on these women. And these guys actually believe that,
Like I heard the thing on the show one time

(14:28):
where this guy was with this girl. She did she
was doing great for him, doing great well. They were
doing great things together. But then he called the show
and he broke it off with her because guys in
the neighborhoods that man back in the day, we would
run the train on her back in the day, So
back in the day, way back in the day. But
she they're doing great, they were doing great together. But

(14:49):
he will allow these outside people to influence him. But
because what I'm saying is a person passing, we don't
because you wasn't there, but I know that people will
allow other people listening to them. Yeah. Instead of saying okay,
then the guy asked, okay, how is she doing now?

(15:10):
She's doing all that, y'all doing great things together. She's
being a great access to you. But you're willing to
listen to someone on the street and you're just gonna
give it up like they could what people say, Yeah,
you know what I'm saying. They don't think for themselves,
like being a free thinker, think for yourself. You know
what it is, you know, serm between the good because

(15:31):
people are always gonna say things.

Speaker 1 (15:35):
Oh yeah, absolutely, it's just.

Speaker 2 (15:39):
Like thinking for yourself. We want to talk about that
thinking for yourself, like always being free thinkers while we
allowing other interviews to influence us when it comes to
our thinking.

Speaker 3 (15:52):
You know what, I can't tell you what everybody else
do because I was five years old now listening to No.

Speaker 2 (16:02):
No.

Speaker 1 (16:02):
I'm serious, Like I always had the elders in my family.
I don't think they like me because I always thought
for myself. Though it's the honest to God too.

Speaker 3 (16:13):
I have always been a free spirit person already, and
so I will take it like I will from time
to time ask for advice, like how would you handle that?
Because I appreciate different perspectives. I like to get a
perspective of one woman and one man. I've always been
that woman in an unbiased opinion, because if I'm grown,

(16:35):
I needn't want to tell me and a lot of
women that are done aside with me. But I might
talk to a man that be like, well, nah, this
is time you should have handled that blue and I'd
be like, you know what, I appreciate that. So but
at the end of the day, I'm always going to
go with how I genuinely feel in my soul, because
if I make a bad decision. I've always wanted to

(16:56):
be the type to hold myself accountable and be like,
you know what, that was a bad decision.

Speaker 1 (17:03):
I'm gonna gett myself graced. But we not doing that again.
So I've never been the type to be influenced.

Speaker 3 (17:09):
I don't follow the crowd. I don't follow the trend
I set the trends though. I've just never been the
type too. I'm so extremely selective, but I've always been
that way. So I hang with free, free thinkers.

Speaker 1 (17:24):
My family, my mom is like that.

Speaker 3 (17:27):
I just block out the noise and I have my
moments where I'm in like solitary where I'm doing meditation
so that I don't get sucked in by reality, see,
because it's hard to It's very hard. Like I told someone,
I used to watch like the reality shows where the
women my age are fighting and arguing, and I noticed,

(17:48):
I was like, you know what, I don't want I
don't want to be able to no. I want to
be able to go to my sister and say, hey,
I feel like you disrespected me, and here's well, you
know how we how we need to go forward without
calling her out a name and pulling off our areas
to fight.

Speaker 1 (18:07):
But that's what we see on CVS, so people think
that's what you do, that's how life works, and it
doesn't work like that.

Speaker 3 (18:13):
Right, very hard to not let stuff like that entice
me or to change me in any way. I am
a stickular for being to yourself and that's how I.

Speaker 2 (18:23):
Will always be right. And we know that that a
lot of individual put their emotions and things and that
would least all this chaos. But learning to take out
their emotions when it comes to things and looking at
it from an overall big picture understanding, especially in the
area where you're going. We have a lot of state,

(18:46):
like I said, from the things you build, the things
you create. Is it worth losing it over one individual
at the end of the day, because we have a
lot of states. But I don't want to lose it.
And then you work so hard to create the life
that you want to live. Now that but to create
the peace that you want, the environment that you want

(19:07):
to allow one interview to come and ruin it, right,
and then that just really protecting it and just really
staying proactive. I just want to say on that one.
But now I said, I know these are conversation that
goes on every day. And I know it's always back
and forth, back and forth, back and forth, but it's
the thing anybody is is just really just learning, growing, evolving,

(19:30):
developing and working on self because we all are working
and making, because we're constantly gonna involve, supposed to involve.
Some people don't do it, but the moment thing that
we want to evolve, grow and excel in life. We
was not created to be a waste, was not created
to be mediocre, was not created to be on the
losing end. But we was created to be no dominant,

(19:50):
even though God gave it no meaning the earth, you know,
knowing identity, and that's what goes on with the blue.
A lot of people don't know their identity. That's why
they get so caught up, like say on the reality shows,
where they're putting theyselves out there in a negative way.
Where now these people looking at you, that's are they
know you for and that's what the image they got

(20:13):
of you now. But while we put ourselves out there
when it comes to our community, I mean.

Speaker 1 (20:19):
People will always change for money. I mean, and what
some see as the.

Speaker 3 (20:25):
Opportunity, it's not always the opportunity. When it's making you
look as bad as some of them are looking. Because
let's just say if I was kil of period.

Speaker 2 (20:40):
And I.

Speaker 1 (20:42):
May have glanced across.

Speaker 3 (20:44):
A reality shows and I liked a certain person, maybe
I thought she was pretty, and maybe she shit the
description of a character I was looking for in my movie.
If I watched some of the shows I watched, I
would pass on. Just think about some of these big networks.
They don't want that ghetto drama like they They want

(21:05):
to be able to know that they can send you
out to do an interview and you don't make their
company look crazy.

Speaker 1 (21:12):
It's and some people don't understand that reality TV is
really not our reality. That's not how we talk to
each other in real life. That's not You will catch
a case if.

Speaker 3 (21:24):
You go up to someone, I mean, I'm in I'm
out here, it's a I forgot what offence it is.

Speaker 1 (21:30):
But you know, throwing water in someone's face, are hitting them.

Speaker 3 (21:33):
With the object like they do, that's you're gonna catch
a charge or felony or misdemeanor or something that's not
our reality. And so a lot of people will do
things just for the money, and you would be surprised
or maybe you wouldn't be surprised how some.

Speaker 1 (21:49):
People will don't mind changing.

Speaker 4 (21:52):
Some of those people that's not even who they are.
They're just doing it because the cameras are rolling and
they were told to do that. But they're they're getting
a nice check at the end of the day. And
I mean, that's just unfortunately, that's what it is. The
fact that some people just say things like that is
an opportunity, right.

Speaker 2 (22:08):
And I know you are a business woman. I know
you're a woman of integrity of course by just the
interaction with you, and I know you're very hands on
when it comes to your business. I know it's certain
things that you wouldn't wind do. I know it's certain
pictures you wouldn't wind take, and I know it's certain
roles that you wouldn't win take. So how do you

(22:32):
keep maintaining all that take? I know we have a
lot of young people, people in general, wants to come
up in the range when it comes to movies things
of that nature. We know we got wolves out there,
wollves and sheep clothing what their proposition? Hey, you do this,
I give you this role if you lay with me
or you know, if you performed with this person but

(22:54):
how do you maintain all that any taking? And what
advice will you give.

Speaker 1 (22:58):
I'm going to tell you a story I'll never told anyone.
I won't say this person's name, but this is a
true story.

Speaker 3 (23:07):
I was watching a reality show, a very popular, well
known reality show, and this was like a few years back,
and I wanted to be on this episode with these
particular people.

Speaker 1 (23:19):
So I reached out to the guy as like a joke.
I told my mom, I said, I'm gett ready to
reach out to him and see if you it was fun.

Speaker 3 (23:26):
I tweeted this person and he was in my inbox
and like seemed like thirty seconds and I.

Speaker 2 (23:33):
Was like whoa.

Speaker 1 (23:34):
He was like, give me your number now, and I
was okay, cool. So I gave it my.

Speaker 3 (23:38):
Number and this guy is like, so for my birthday
that year, I had planned, like my twenty sixth birthday,
I planned to go to Vegas. This person was living
in Vegas and was like I tell you what. He
was like, you come to Vegas anytime soon? I say yeah,
for my birthday. He was like, I could get you
on the show. I was like, well cool, what do
I have to do? I'm thinking, just like some something easy.

(24:00):
He was like, well, so and so is being cheated on.
They're gonna discover that I'm cheating on her and he
could be like the jump off.

Speaker 1 (24:10):
I was like what, and he'll get paid.

Speaker 3 (24:14):
But you gotta come out here and you know, you know,
I'm gonna show you around and you know, basically you
gotta you gotta sleep.

Speaker 2 (24:20):
With me m.

Speaker 1 (24:23):
And I told my mom. I was like, I'm not
doing that. I'm not doing that. And I told another
friend and they were like, but you can be on
TV Blue. This could so, but they'll always know me
as a jump off. It ain't nothing I can stay
or do. I'm gonna always be known as a jump off.
No one is gonna respect me. They're gonna always know
me as the girl that's slept with somebody's man. And

(24:45):
I was like, I can't do it. I was so
mad though, that that is.

Speaker 3 (24:49):
What people consider an opportunity that I gotta sept myself
out to be on a show.

Speaker 1 (24:55):
So my thing, going back to your question, you have
to maneuver in this game with God, and it's not
I can't even tell you. It's like, no, it's no science, there's.

Speaker 3 (25:10):
No blueprints, it's notes. People are going to mislead you
on purpose. This is how sick this game in this
industry is. It's a dog eat dog world, like for real.
The only person that is going to get you through
these hoops and all this crazy stuff you're going to
go through is God himself.

Speaker 1 (25:30):
You literally have to pray and ask God to direct
your footsteps. It was a lot of people in my
life I wanted to work with. I'm telling you, I
was like, I.

Speaker 3 (25:40):
Would be sad, like they don't want to work with me,
but they work with so and so. I started seeing
bad stuff happening to some of the people that was
working with them that and I said, God, you know what,
you direct my footprints. If you don't want you, you
connect me with the right people. And if these are
not the right people, don't let it happen. I'm not

(26:00):
going to force it. I'm not If I reached out
to you and you say you don't say nothing to me,
I no longer get mad.

Speaker 1 (26:08):
I feel like that's God saying this is not the
person that I want you to connect with.

Speaker 3 (26:13):
Y'all have to pray, like my young people, y'all have
to pray, and y'all have to not look at everything
as I'm about to get some money now I'm about
to be a sor overnight.

Speaker 1 (26:25):
Everything is not an opportunity. All money is not good money.
And that's just like again, there's no blueprint.

Speaker 3 (26:33):
You just have to have God in a strong.

Speaker 1 (26:35):
Will to know what's good and what's not good for you.

Speaker 3 (26:39):
Like all of this stuff, I'm telling you, just sit
back sometimes and just watch the people that you thought
was on. I'm telling you the stuff I've seen, I
don't even scare it to say out loud. The stuff
I've seen just don't seem real sometimes, But I'm just
glad it wasn't me.

Speaker 1 (26:57):
Let's put it like that.

Speaker 2 (26:58):
Hey, but you're right that just thinking about if you
did to the opportunity, they were going to pass you
around because you know he gonna pass you on to
his brand. Yeah, and that's what they do around now.
And know they say highly weird as they say, but
the parties, you know what I'm saying, the lifestyle, and
I know they get these individuals. They target these individuals

(27:21):
who came from different income levels. You know, you want
to say, I guess priverty type levels where they throwing
all this money at them. And it's something that they
ain't never seen before. So they with their emotions involved,
like wow, you know, I never seen a million dollars.

(27:41):
I never seen I never seen one hundred thousand dollars.
But they look at it as an opportunity like you said.
But then they put they set through Tom hurt, Tromo pain,
and now they gotta live with that for the rest
of their life. It turns on to what suicidal thoughts
drug alcohol addition?

Speaker 1 (28:02):
Yeah, very true.

Speaker 2 (28:05):
Okay for what for just a couple million dollars. But
it's real like here, Like you said, it's real out here.
But I know you do a lot of great things
in Houston and the surround the areas. And I know
you had a radio show us well, which is every week.
So while you're on here, let's talk about your radio show,
Miss Blue Radio show. When did you create that, what

(28:28):
the show is all about? And how can the audience
tune in? And I know the show is every week? Correct?

Speaker 1 (28:34):
Yeah, so right now.

Speaker 3 (28:35):
I'm syndicated on five stations right now, so y'all can
take me out all through the week now, which is
pretty cool.

Speaker 1 (28:43):
But my show started about almost five years ago, now, okay,
And yeah, so I was doing this show, I.

Speaker 3 (28:52):
Was podcasting, and then I joined the radio station and
it kind of just took off. And it's the craziest
thing because I'm an artist as well, but I noticed.

Speaker 1 (29:03):
That, how can I say this, I feel like artists
don't really.

Speaker 3 (29:10):
Like to work with other artists that they know is
good or will outshine them. So I got a lot
of more opportunity in radio as I did coming and
stepping up to people as an artist. And that's the
weirdest thing to me because I know, right, it's like
y'all hating on me being an artist, but y'all want
to be on my radio show talking about your music.

Speaker 1 (29:29):
Make it make sense. But whatever, I took the negative
and made it into a positive.

Speaker 3 (29:35):
And then it's just like some of my connect some
of the people like celebrities that was following me on Twitter,
just because I always was saying something crazy, keeping it real.

Speaker 1 (29:45):
They were some of the first ones that was like
our interview on your show.

Speaker 3 (29:49):
My very first ooh, my very first celebrity interview was
with PD Pablo Pep.

Speaker 1 (29:57):
I love you so much, Pez. That was twenty I'll
never forget.

Speaker 3 (30:02):
I reached out to him and he was like Blue
I Got You, and I was like, no.

Speaker 1 (30:06):
Really, Pety, because people are underestimating me.

Speaker 3 (30:09):
Don't nobody want to give me no interviews? And I
think they're looking at me like I'm just like nobody.
And he was like, we're gonna change that. Blue I
got you when he came on my show dropped fee.
He like when he did that interview with me. It's
like so many people started hitting me up and then
like I got to just keep it real. My show
just really I feel like cook off because people was like,

(30:30):
instead of saying congrats, the it was like, how'd you
get an interview with Pete? How they didn't know that
I knew pd years ago, like many years ago.

Speaker 1 (30:39):
Like from Twitter.

Speaker 3 (30:41):
So I just did that and started winning awards for
the show, and it just just to know that you
touched so many people is really rewarding to me because
I did.

Speaker 1 (30:56):
I did an ear to the streets on the station
just for the fun of it.

Speaker 3 (31:00):
I don't know what the drama was in the celebrity world,
but I announced it on the show.

Speaker 2 (31:04):
We had.

Speaker 3 (31:06):
Ten thousand or more viewers listeners that night. The runs
in the studio and tells me you need to keep
that ear to the streets. He said, you had over
ten thousand listeners. They've been crazy, the phones was ringing,
going crazy, and so like I just took that and
every year I'm reinventing the Miss Blue radio show. And

(31:29):
that's kind of like how I started just really just.

Speaker 1 (31:33):
Doing the podcasting with friends and always had something to say,
and so I was like, I need to get this
out and talk to my people, you know, And I'm
glad I did.

Speaker 2 (31:43):
Right. I know you mentioned I know you do music
and you know music artists, so you was like, you're
still doing music or you slowly transition into doing talk
shows hosting radio shows.

Speaker 1 (31:55):
Now I always do music. I'm gonna always do music.

Speaker 3 (32:00):
I love to do it, even if I just put
out a single, even if I never get a record deal.
I'm actually working on a new EP with my boys,
Digs from Game Changers, and I'm excited about that.

Speaker 1 (32:10):
This one is gonna be like more. The last one
was fun and a lot of twerk.

Speaker 3 (32:14):
Music, but this one is going to be like Miss Blue,
Like my bar is like really like showcasing my bars.
So I'm gonna always do being to the music, even
if i'm writing, because I love to write like my
pen game is like I'm not even to my own horn.
But I feel like when it Kanye when it comes
to the pen game, like when I really sit down

(32:35):
and just rock out to a beat, like my the
lyrics and stuff is just crazy. But yeah, like I said,
I notice you gotta move different in certain industries. And
when you're rapping and doing your music, you got a
lot of haters. I don't I wish I knew why,
but you have a lot of haters. Like I said,
it's like I'm a threat when I'm doing the music,

(32:58):
but when I'm doing radio in the radio lane, everybody
loves you. And it's just so because I'm the same person.
I was a rapper and I sang before the radio,
and so I will always.

Speaker 1 (33:09):
Be a rapper or artists so that never changes.

Speaker 3 (33:13):
But it's just I don't know why people think what
their logics are, but definitely forever embedded to the game.

Speaker 2 (33:20):
That's like my first love man as also and I
also it's some other things you do also, I know,
I know according to I G you also do fitness.
I know you had created I don't know how long
the page around by seeing that where you do you
know the fitness journey, and how you have so much
things recorded during the fitness journey. Of course, why did

(33:42):
it all originate? It just having the track of on
your fitness journey.

Speaker 3 (33:49):
First all, thank you for even noticing that I feel like,
as a mom of three that sometimes it's easy to
get sidetracked.

Speaker 1 (34:00):
I mean, we live life, you know, And so I
noticed that when I'm working out, I just have more energy.
I'm able to do more. I have a seven year old,
so my boys.

Speaker 3 (34:15):
Are big now, but I'm I started all over, so
I gotta this girl keeps me on her toes, my toes,
I'm sorry, So I have to.

Speaker 1 (34:22):
Be playing with her and stuff and have high energy.

Speaker 3 (34:26):
I always seemed like, so it was just important to
do to get to really be on my fitness and
because just keeping it really and transparent. My family, we
have diabetes heavily in our family. We've lost a lot
of amazing people in my family from diabetes.

Speaker 1 (34:49):
Just very very sad to even talk about it. And
so I try to be on my game with my
health and my fitness. Because my prayer is every day
I want to be my grandma aged. My grandma is eighty.

Speaker 3 (35:03):
Three, still fishing, still walking, still driving, still talking mess.
I want to be like my grandma, you know, and
to be like that, especially in these times, I just
feel like I need to be in that gym or
working out or just going on my meditation.

Speaker 1 (35:23):
Walks because I do meditation walks as well. And I
love to post it. I love to post a journey
because I know.

Speaker 3 (35:30):
For a fact, whether people tell me or not, I
know for a fact that people are inspired, men and women,
and I love it. You don't have to tell me
I'm inspiring y'all know y'all, because I'd be all look
and see them in the gym or something. I'm like, okay,
I want your story like I see you. So I
just like to motivate people and kind of be like

(35:53):
I wouldn't say role model, will definitely be a model
person especially we need more.

Speaker 1 (35:58):
Of those in this society.

Speaker 2 (36:00):
Yeah, we do. And like I said, when I think
up what you was doing, and that's why I figured
what you was doing, Like it's too in to motivate people,
to inspire people and let them know that there are
somebody because we know society detaates who you are. We
allow society to detail we are people being being down mentally.
Where you've been male or female and being down mentally,

(36:24):
it was told you it was not good enough. Nobody
don't want you, and that weigh on people. But just
you to inspire other individuals all around the world and
to say, hey, ms Blue doing it, I could do
it too, and most importing, I know what you're doing.
You're promoting self love. You know what I'm saying, and
you support you know, integrity for yourself. Even a Bible

(36:48):
telle go building. The Bible telles to love your neighbor
as you love yourself. So it's perfectly okay to love
yourself and don't let nobody tell you you don't do that.
You supposed to do that. And that's why I like
Sright when I came across, I said, okay, you're doing
the fitting and you're inspiring other people, but that makes
them feel like, wow, she's actually doing this, and she

(37:09):
doing it. I could do it too. So I just
had to plume for that.

Speaker 1 (37:13):
You like for real, thank you so much.

Speaker 2 (37:15):
And I said, I know you do a lot of things,
and I know you mentioned you or mother accord, and
let me ask you this. Do guys find you intimidate
when they see a woman of your caliber, do they
find you attimidating? So I know some guys probably judge themselves,
Oh I'm not good enough, or she do want to
talk to me? She get any guy that she won't?
How she looks? So do you? So you do? You

(37:37):
get a lot of those judgment involves when it comes
to the guys.

Speaker 1 (37:41):
Yeah, I do.

Speaker 2 (37:43):
I do.

Speaker 3 (37:43):
And it's funny because even the guy that I'm with,
so I am, I'm in a relationship, and he told
me when he saw me in mind you, I had
got out the gym.

Speaker 1 (37:53):
I don't wear a makeup to the gym on purpose.

Speaker 3 (37:56):
I'm like, how, you know, we're still cute, but I'm
not trying to get all like that.

Speaker 1 (38:04):
And so I was sweaty, and he was still like
I didn't know what he was gonna say.

Speaker 3 (38:09):
I was like, oh, man like like he said he
was nervous, and I was kind of like why, Like
I know, I do have a serious face, but it's
like I get that all the time, and I'm like
such a cool person, like you don't have to be
like I can't talk to her and stuff like that,
especially if you're coming at me like a gentleman. I
appreciate you guys that come to you like you're a lady.

(38:31):
Not that dog whistle and let me holler ast hill.

Speaker 1 (38:35):
I don't like stuff like that.

Speaker 2 (38:36):
Then I might be like, right, it made like with
it on Jap showing the old man. But I mean,
but it does. But like he said that, and I
know you're going back. I know you mentioned you are.
I know my mother of course, and we know there's

(38:57):
so much stuff going out there, especial when it comes
to the day and ask that you got to be
mindful of the counterpart you're in that with because we
have prejuors out there. Just keep it a buck. But
how do you concern all that? You know, I got
kids and I got to make sure my babies are
safe while I'm in a relationship with someone. We know
there's a lot of crazy stuff going on in this world. Blue,

(39:19):
So just what you do.

Speaker 1 (39:21):
You ask for her first and last name. Then you
do a background check, and you do three, not just one.

Speaker 3 (39:27):
Because sometimes one don't pull up everything. You do three
from three different sources, and they're going to give you
information and then you go, can I deal with that
or can I not? If I would have did that.

Speaker 1 (39:40):
In prior relationships, I probably wouldn't have kids. But i'mnderstanding.

Speaker 3 (39:47):
Just like being real, you have to you have to
do your background checks because some of us women, we
have daughters.

Speaker 1 (39:54):
You don't want just any old man around your daughter.

Speaker 3 (39:57):
And then you want someone that is it would be
a good father figure, a good man role model to
your sons if you have sons. So I mean that's
where vetting comes. And and no matter how much you
like someone, you have to listen.

Speaker 1 (40:15):
Pay attention to the red flash. I have to come
back on your show when I write my book, I'll
tell you about that.

Speaker 2 (40:20):
Okay, I look forward to it.

Speaker 3 (40:23):
A lot of the times we will hear something and
women including myself, have been.

Speaker 1 (40:28):
Like, oh, he's so cute. I just but I really
like him. He'll maybe he'll change that.

Speaker 3 (40:36):
You have to be too with yourself and how this
being with this man will affect you long term, okay,
because it's very important. That's how you're not wasting uh
you know, you're not in another marriage and now you're
divorced again. Like taking the time to really learn each
other and learn who you're about to have in your
life and your kids. Life is so important a dude

(40:59):
can't eat men come talk to me on my in
my driveway. My boys, they'd be like, Mamma moves no joke.
They'd be like, Mama, can't re meet them. I'll be like,
I don't know because see kind of issy. I'm gonna
have to talk with him tonight about something I didn't
like and you might not be hearing about them, but
seeing them face to face.

Speaker 2 (41:19):
M M.

Speaker 3 (41:20):
But I have to really really know that you're the
person for me before you meet my kids. It's people
that I dated for a very long time and they
never met my kids and my my sons be like, whoa,
because I'm trying to figure you out, you know, as
a as a mom, like it's very important your son's

(41:40):
gonna see you with any old type.

Speaker 2 (41:43):
Of man, you know. Yeah, could you gotta be be
kept out of here because you got guys who are
six defenders out here, pedophiles out here, and you aven't
got guys who's by sister out here as well also,
and you have to be mindful that because I know
a lot of times they grabbed to women who are
naballs at that moment. Well, okay, I'm a single mother.

(42:06):
I don't have no help. So it's like these guys
they target them and come on in and then do
these things this home day. And I understand they've got
to be very very careful out here, you know as well.
And I know, like I said, I know you do
a lot of topics on your show. Where do you
think about the guys who are always bad mouth and

(42:27):
single mothers? That's why you brought that up on your show?
Yet No I should, I haven't, but yeah, I know
you've probably seen where you guys always be litered single mothers.
Why is that? You know what?

Speaker 3 (42:40):
I feel like it's because they daddy wasn't in their
life and disrespect that their mamas. And I think they
seen their mamas being disrespected and they don't have any
respect or single for moms.

Speaker 1 (42:52):
Why else would you have that mentality?

Speaker 3 (42:56):
You have to have writtness someone doing something to a
single mom. You have with single women doing something, struggling
somewhere being mistreated and accepting it or whatever it is,
because it's the weirdest thing, because.

Speaker 1 (43:12):
You you will be surprised how.

Speaker 3 (43:15):
Lack of being raised by a man, lack of having
a man in these some of these guys' lives affect
the way that they think of women as an adult.

Speaker 1 (43:25):
They don't have a daddy. That's like, you treat this
woman like a queen. You treat think about it. Their
mom is probably single and they saw their mama struggle and.

Speaker 3 (43:34):
Maybe you maybe they I don't want to say hey,
but maybe they despise the fact that their mom was single.
Maybe they couldn't get Jordans, and maybe they couldn't get
name brands up because their mom was single. So they
despise every single woman. And I'm here to tell you
there are so many single women that are very strong.
And sometimes you're not single because you're not attractive or

(43:59):
because you don't have something. You're single because you know
you're worth because you had decided I'm not accepting anything,
and you can't confident in any kind of way. So
I'm gonna be single until my mister, right, come, my person.
That's how a lot of these women are single. And
these guys are just making creating these narratives. And I
just think that they're sick, and I hope that they

(44:20):
all heal.

Speaker 2 (44:21):
True, but you know they came from and I'm gonna
put out and not to them. Kevin Samuels, Kevin Samuels
was putting out there. A lot of them guys was
following it. That's why he tells me to stay away
from the single and they believe in that. But I
heard this too. Why because she's a single mother, what
makes her bad? Anything could happen? They say the father

(44:43):
could have died of natural causes. They don't look at
that kind of stuff. But then he would tell me, guy, well,
you just say why she's not with the baby daddy
no more? And and these guy was actually that's where
all they came from.

Speaker 3 (44:59):
And his child kind of like.

Speaker 1 (45:00):
What you were saying earlier.

Speaker 3 (45:02):
Where people are being influenced by podcasters and reality shows, nobody,
there are not many people that are thinking for themselves.
And forbid, I mean, I would never want a man.
Dad is telling me something about Kevin Sanders. If that's
the advice that you gather, Yes, skitn me because like

(45:24):
you are very childish, and I feel like that's just
not gonna work. Like you should you should just think
better than then what you're thinking. And especially some of
these guys, I mean, if it wasn't for the woman
always being with the child, because that's like a woman.

Speaker 1 (45:40):
Duty is what the world has put on us. Some
of these men are single dads.

Speaker 2 (45:45):
If that's the case, you know what they never get
You noticed that they never get talked about. And I said,
you have a lot of great single fathers out there.
The mother. Anything can happen to the mother, because we
see a lot of the stories where the mother has
something to the mother. The father takes them on. Great
dad raising his family, but they does not get showcased

(46:06):
a lot. But when it comes to y'all women, it
get target in a negative way. That's just crazy.

Speaker 1 (46:15):
It is.

Speaker 2 (46:17):
You know, you hear guy, you know, hear the word independent, independence,
responsible to me? And what guy does not want a
responsible woman in his life? Just think about it. Before
you came into his life, you had, you had, you
got your own play, you pin your own bills, you
take care of your own children. What man does not
want that? That's a responsible person. But they get offended

(46:39):
some type of way. Why is that? That's weird?

Speaker 3 (46:42):
I think that a lot of men are insecure and
it's not talked about. If they throw it on us
like we're so insecure with ourselves and women are so
this and no, most women know what we want.

Speaker 1 (46:55):
Most men don't. It's just that's why we mature fast. Yeah,
and some men don't mature. They're saying it.

Speaker 3 (47:03):
Someth they're like forty something, And so we have to
take that into consideration, like who's really insecure the person
that knows who they are, the person that is very strong,
the person who's not going to call you into our
way out every option. Okay, because I take into consideration
that you have bills and problems that you're probably not
talking to me about. So if I call you for something,
I really am hidden rock body because I was going

(47:26):
to try very hard to get it myself.

Speaker 1 (47:28):
But if you're if you have a problem with a
woman being too independent, you are very insecure because you
cannot provide for that woman like you should be able
to provide for and insteads manning up and looking for
a better job and looking for you know, like a
better situation, the better yourself. You want to put that
on that woman.

Speaker 3 (47:49):
But that is why a lot of these men don't
want an independent woman or has so much trash as
they're talking about independent women, because they're insecure with themselves.

Speaker 2 (47:58):
Yeah, I agree with that, and I'll be shocked to
my sister of Miami, Florida Nan. She said, most men
are struggling with traumas.

Speaker 3 (48:05):
Oh that's a whole different show, because let me tell
you the traumas that have been dumped on me by men.
And they think, they say, they will say it's just us,
is mom boggling?

Speaker 1 (48:19):
People need to heal immediately. I agree, a lot of
men need to heal immediately.

Speaker 3 (48:25):
And I will say that that is why it's so
hard to date right now.

Speaker 1 (48:28):
She is absolutely correct, so.

Speaker 2 (48:30):
That where they need to, they need to go get
some psychological help, some real get to stop.

Speaker 1 (48:36):
Getting on podcasts talking about it.

Speaker 3 (48:39):
You got you don't see your mama be beaten dragged
by this man and probably had multiple men in and
out of our house.

Speaker 1 (48:46):
And now every woman is a hhow and every woman is.

Speaker 3 (48:52):
Go get go get you some counsel. They got free Counselan,
it's heirs counseling. I think it's some of the best counsels.
Go get your pastor you.

Speaker 2 (49:00):
Think you think because they they don't mean nothing, no
better either. I'm just because anytime I talked.

Speaker 1 (49:13):
To them, they didn't have my bag.

Speaker 3 (49:15):
Like I'm back the little the little pastors that be
doing a little nasty stuff like I got really god
fearing pastors.

Speaker 2 (49:21):
So I'm give me a hug. Girl, you value grow up.

Speaker 1 (49:28):
My pastors, they they they're gonna give you that. But
I got I've been.

Speaker 3 (49:34):
I've been with my pastors since my kids were like two,
two and three.

Speaker 1 (49:41):
Yeah so yeah, oh yeah healing.

Speaker 3 (49:44):
Yeah that's true, but they're not doing that. They healing
by dumping their traumas on that woman. And now we
got to deal with what somebody else did in your childhood.

Speaker 1 (49:55):
And that's it's tough. It's tough. It is tough. I'm
telling you, you know what.

Speaker 2 (49:59):
And I know it's tough for y'all women. I know
it's tough for y'all women out here in this world.
It is we see it. You know what I'm saying
that you know they need you said they need as
they need hit before they gold days. That's why you
have to work on yourself and get some real sauace
lost your help, because it's something that's really broken on
the inside. And I say this, two of my post

(50:21):
blue men take responsibility for their own action. Males always
blame others. It's like it's her fault. I'm not successful
it's her fault I'm in this situation. No it's not.
It's not her fault. You have to man up and
take responsibility for your own action and what woman wants
to be in a relationship where you have to prove

(50:43):
your innocence like you're being accused all the time, Like
why are you looking like that for? Why are you
showing that for? You know? Social media? To me, it's
just entertainment. Why are you getting a finished Why do
you put a heart by your picture? Don't you realize
if you're the you're the guy, and you're doing what
you're supposed to do, She's not going nowhere cause you

(51:06):
get in the real thing. They just getting social media.
But you've got the person live and in person by
your side every single day and night. So why are
you getting offended over someone you'll never see, never meet,
but they got the real thing? What's up with that?
What's wrong with that picture? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (51:26):
You know, I just think it's like crazy too, because
social media is a lot of like the culprid to
a lot of relationships just you know.

Speaker 1 (51:39):
Not being anymore. But I do feel that as long
as you're being respectful, I do.

Speaker 3 (51:45):
Believe in compromise, and I understand that something should be
uncomfortable when you're somebody's wife, and I take that into consideration.

Speaker 1 (51:52):
But it goes back to.

Speaker 3 (51:53):
Them not being secure because they're not either providing or
somewhere they're falling short.

Speaker 2 (52:00):
And most men are not.

Speaker 3 (52:02):
Uh, they're going to be so much shows that they're
not going to tell you, but they know where they
far shure, whether like none emotion none what they call it,
none emotional, emotionally unavailable men.

Speaker 1 (52:16):
They don't want to give you no emotion, no love,
no affection.

Speaker 3 (52:19):
But they're the biggest ones that they're the most ones
that's insecure because they feel like somebody else is going
to do it, then why don't you do it? You're
going to give me hell because you think I'm cheating
and messing around because you don't want to hug, never hug,
you never want a kiss. That's your fault again, it's
the insecurity that they're jumping on you and it's and

(52:41):
it's hard, like sometimes people make relationships hard.

Speaker 2 (52:47):
Or scared of touch you. They like they scared take
the initial like that's your girl, I mean, surprise.

Speaker 3 (52:56):
I met I've met some the nouns to lump brothers.
That's like, I don't like kissing, I don't like hold hands.

Speaker 1 (53:03):
I don't like this.

Speaker 3 (53:04):
And I'm like, oh, like, you need to be with
a robottom, not a girl because girls like to be
hugged and kissed.

Speaker 1 (53:11):
I don't don't.

Speaker 2 (53:14):
Take the initiative. Romance and take the initiative. And uh
is it because they don't know? They never really was
taught how to be romantic. They were never taught how
to be kinky. They were never taught how to get
in touch with their say when it comes to their
woman when it has to keep. That is just the

(53:34):
lack of it of not learning how to beat those
things when it comes to being with their women.

Speaker 1 (53:42):
It's starting in these homes and people are lying.

Speaker 3 (53:46):
They need to tell the truth about what they saw
growing up. The only way that you can heal is
if you talk about what really happened. If I sit
and lie to you about what I saw, you're not
going to be able to help me because you don't

(54:07):
know what I really went through.

Speaker 1 (54:09):
I'm lying to you like.

Speaker 3 (54:11):
That's why I said, people need to heal and get
like professional help. I had left a bad situation. The
dude swore his parents was married for like all these years.

Speaker 1 (54:22):
But he was the worst.

Speaker 3 (54:25):
He was the worst human I've ever encountered, like terrible
in every way that you could think of. But you
saw your dad treat your mom like a queen. You're
lying your dad and treats your mom like no queen
because you wouldn't you wouldn't be treating me that way.

Speaker 1 (54:42):
And I can't help you.

Speaker 3 (54:44):
I can't understand where you where you're coming from because
you're lying about it. And I just wish that people
told the truth about what they saw growing up, because
maybe maybe we could both seek help together and maybe
you can show me a way to understand you, or
maybe I can't. Maybe I can go about it a
different way and I can show you a different perspective.

Speaker 1 (55:03):
But when you lie about what you're going through, nobody
can help.

Speaker 2 (55:06):
Me, right, Beloe, Because you know you have some guys,
I will say, you have individuals who witness the mistic
violence growing up. They had witness their father being their
mom bloody, and that's something they thought was normal. You know,
now they're married and they're doing the same thing to
their wives, treating them like punching bags because of what

(55:29):
they see growing up that that's the way of heling
the thing which is completely wrong. That's the mistic. It
will take you go to jail behind it. And all
of that. You can feel you could kill your spouse
by the mess of violence. It's takes one wrong here
to the head.

Speaker 1 (55:47):
Yeah, very true.

Speaker 2 (55:50):
So that's what a lot of them grew up to see.
So they think that's normal being. No women think if
I do that, that's gonna give my respect. That's tough,
you know what I'm saying. But I don't believe in
I don't believe in the mist about it. I don't
condone it at all. But if you to the point
where we had to physically had to arm each other

(56:11):
out to hurt, we don't need to be together. They
go for they were both ways. You know what I'm saying.
I don't I don't believe. I don't like me. I
don't deal with the back and forth. Don't want to
deal with all that throwing stuff, hooping and holland that's
just not normal, that's not living. But some people that
that's normally. That's what they always see. So now you're
pass it on to the children now and to co

(56:35):
operate that generation of curse.

Speaker 1 (56:37):
You have to when it starts with you.

Speaker 3 (56:41):
Unlearning the bad way, the improper way of loving, and
taking the time to learn how real love should be
and how you should interact with your person. And that's
a personal journey. You have to first see the error
in your ways and actions to even be able to

(57:01):
be strong enough to say I don't want to I
want to learn to love the proper way.

Speaker 1 (57:07):
Right in this world in generation, no one.

Speaker 3 (57:09):
Wants to hold themselves accountable, and many people can't see
the error of their own ways, so they don't care
about changing, and so the cycle continues.

Speaker 2 (57:19):
So you have to be with someone who is on
the same journey as you agree.

Speaker 1 (57:24):
And that's how I am. That's that's that's where I'm
at right now.

Speaker 3 (57:27):
I can't.

Speaker 1 (57:28):
You're on a different journey.

Speaker 3 (57:29):
I can I can't.

Speaker 2 (57:31):
I can't do.

Speaker 1 (57:32):
Anything with you. I can't be friends with you.

Speaker 3 (57:34):
I don't want to do business with you because I
know I'm trying. I'm doing this and wants to take off.

Speaker 1 (57:40):
That's what it is, you know.

Speaker 2 (57:42):
So it's like it's none personal, it's just business. So
you just take the emotions out of things. Because if
I keep the emotions into it. I'm not gonna have
a cloudy judgment, so I have to take the emotions
out of it so my judgment could be loud and
clear instead of being so cloudy, so I can pick

(58:06):
that up. That's where you're at now because of the
journey that you're on, Like, I'm not going to be hindered.
I'm not gonna allow you to hold me back. I'm
not allowing you to be the slummer on the block
because at the end of the day, you know who
miss Blue is. So this blue guy got this. We
gotta do what she gotta do in until it's further
in life and go deep, deep, deep with then to

(58:30):
all that life has to offer. And I say, that's
what it's all about. What Nancy said. She said the
coming session. People don't like to be corrected. That's your
weed them times now, Nancy. People don't like to be corrected.

Speaker 3 (58:41):
Oh you gotta almost get ready to put on boxing
gloves to correct someone.

Speaker 1 (58:46):
And it's sad because it's like, I just want the
best for.

Speaker 2 (58:48):
You, like I would hope that's it for me, right,
but it doesn't.

Speaker 1 (58:54):
It doesn't work like that all the time.

Speaker 2 (58:56):
So we have to humbo ourself and they tell that
it's a negative way. Like you said, it just help
help them, help them be successful. But they take it
the wrong way. Okay, I mean, at the end of
the day, do what you want to do. You're a
free more age. At the end of the day, you
can do whatever you want to do. I give you
the advice if you take it cool, you don't cool
because at the end of the day, but you're gonna

(59:16):
do what you want to do. But you got some
who take you to it. And that's why I believe
that when people go through things in life, they share
these experience with other people so they won't have to
go down that road. It's like I'm protecting you because
I've been down and I know that I'll come before
you go down there. I'm I'm gonna sit you down.
I'ma explain the outcome or the decision that I made

(59:38):
so you don't have to go to that. But you
got some who think, oh, you don't know what you're
talking about. I'm still gonna do it anyway. It's like
a RADI snake pick. You know what rad Snate's gonna do.
They're gonna strike you get close to them. What makes
you think tomorrow. They're not gonna do it right. It's fine.
They ain't gonna do nothing. It's fine your bit. What happened?

(01:00:03):
You said they were It's just fun because a lot
of I think.

Speaker 3 (01:00:06):
A lot of people got yes people on their team too.

Speaker 2 (01:00:09):
They do because I remember years ago. He probably know him.
He's a full Antonio Bryant football player. He played for
the Stealers the NFL. He got many issues anyway. He
always go live on social media all the time, especially
on I G. And he was throwing his baby mother

(01:00:30):
out the house while they Cheldren was there and his
homeboys in the background. He cuts not out and his
homeboys in the background said, man, you right a B?
You right a B? Yeah, you Shurely is right. It's
I said, brother, man, you're wrong for that. But you're wrong, and.

Speaker 3 (01:00:51):
It's gonna look good. That's gonna look bad for your
image maybe also, but.

Speaker 2 (01:00:56):
They said, you're right, You're right. You Shurely is right.
That was you him in the backgrounds he's right, you
Shouldly are right. He cuts down whatever he was saying,
but it was green when he was saying, So you're right,
you Shorely are right. You said you had a lot
of yes men. Yes they do.

Speaker 3 (01:01:15):
Friends like that are dangerous because else do you do
anything and they'll go along with it. And then when
it guess what, when you come up dead or shot
or something, that will.

Speaker 1 (01:01:26):
Be I didn't tell them to do that.

Speaker 2 (01:01:28):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:01:29):
I don't know why he listened to me.

Speaker 2 (01:01:31):
He grown, yeah, But like you said, people don't want
to be accountable no more. It's like you're wrong, you're wrong,
you're right, you're right, you're wrong, you're wrong. But that's love, though,
because love gonna tell you the truth. Right, it's not
gonna lie to you. If you love someone you love
what you're gonna tell the truth. And then you know
what they gonna see. Think about what you said, you
say you know what Blue? Yeah, you right what you said.

(01:01:53):
And I appreciate you for correcting me. Once you sit down,
like you cool, all you come back and say you
know what you was right with you? You said? It
don't make you less of a person. It makes you
more of a person. Show the humunity side of you. Right.

Speaker 3 (01:02:07):
We all need we all need that. We all have
or should have that one friend that's like, hey, that
what I saw what you did and that's not gonna work,
And that's okay.

Speaker 1 (01:02:18):
It's very like I said, it tasts.

Speaker 3 (01:02:19):
You're really strong when someone can correct you and you
fix it and try to figure out what it was
that you could do better than other than getting mad
and upset because they came and told you something that's helpful.

Speaker 1 (01:02:30):
You know. So it's just a state of mind and
most people just not in it.

Speaker 2 (01:02:35):
What people, that's all You're right, because we at the
point now we just want to grow, grow with all
great information that we can apply to our lives. I
love reading books, I love listening to great information because
it helps you and also challenge us to be better beings,
to better people, to be better in our community. And

(01:02:55):
we know everything starts with mindset because I know the
mind will play tricks on you. Just like when I
worked out this morning and we were doing the strength
training this morning. You know you got to go by
that timer, and I was saying, if you focus on
the time, the mom will get you focused on the time,
we're gonna happen. The mind gonna say, oh man, it's
taking a long time. I'm just really quick. So you

(01:03:17):
have to block out the time because you focus on
the time it's gonna throw you off the min I'm
gonna start playing tricks on you and tell you it's
taken too long. I'm just gonna stop that time, right,
that's true thought. So I know we prised for time,
and I know you're a very productive woman. Of course,
so what else you got going on? I know you

(01:03:39):
got the show going on, and so what else you
got going on? And also plugging the show. So the
audience col Kiss show when it goes live every week.

Speaker 3 (01:03:47):
Yeah, so just check out the Miss Blue Radio show,
follow me on Instagram, Thiss Radio show Underscore, and right now,
like I said, you'll have to go to the page
because my main show is on Wednesday between nine and ten.

Speaker 1 (01:04:02):
On the Beat Radio. Shout out Fancy the CEO doing
her thing her station. We're doing great. We'll be racking.

Speaker 3 (01:04:08):
Interviews, y'all, so tune in. I'm all I'm on all
through the weekend. On the weekends, probably about to get
picked up again. I'm writing a book and so I
do got.

Speaker 1 (01:04:19):
A lot of different things jumping off.

Speaker 3 (01:04:21):
I'm start getting ready to start the business again. We
got to talk about that the next time I saw
my own company. Thank you, and just like doing, you know,
writing my scripts. I write movies, but I would like
to actually get one out, even if I'm not directing it.

Speaker 1 (01:04:39):
I want to at least sell the script. So I'm
finishing one that I had been writing last last summer.
Actually so so yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:04:49):
Though, And like I said, I'm working on an EP
and I do brand ambassading. I'm a brand ambassador for
a different clothing line.

Speaker 1 (01:04:58):
So I should be in Atlanta next month, the first
weekend of October. Yeah, yeah, thank you. So I'm excited.
I'm excited about that Game Changers.

Speaker 2 (01:05:11):
I mean, you know what, it's so productive, like you
don't have no room for uh dead space, you don't
have no room for uh nothing. It's like you're constantly
productive and nause your mother as well. How do you
cope about it? It is a scared you put in
place for the week. How do you do that? You're

(01:05:33):
more structured, I know you're more structured person, So how
do you just implement all that? I know what they say,
what twenty hours within to day?

Speaker 1 (01:05:40):
Yeah, apparently we got the same hours that Beyonce have.
But she's the god. Look I'm crying.

Speaker 3 (01:05:48):
I'm trying to be.

Speaker 1 (01:05:50):
Basically, I think I'm just a really big observer, gotcha.
I don't go by playing.

Speaker 3 (01:05:59):
I kind of just notice, like, like, my kids are
very vocal, so if I'm doing something too much and
I haven't, I'm watching I need to watch Power with
one son, that's what we do, and then the other son,
I'm listening to his music.

Speaker 1 (01:06:12):
And my daughter, I'm taking.

Speaker 3 (01:06:14):
Her to the park and doing one on one time
with her and seeing how school is with her. My
kids will always be my first priority anyway, so I
kind of make sure that they're good first, and then
I start to write and I start to They're they're
pretty independent, so when they see mom is working, they
give me my space. And that's really important and that's

(01:06:36):
really cool because when I get into like writing mode,
it's just like I'm a whole different person and I
need to I need to really think and I need
peace and quiet.

Speaker 1 (01:06:44):
So and they're good about that. It's really really good
about that. Okay, So yeah, that's I think that's about it.

Speaker 3 (01:06:48):
And I make time for a relationship because it's like
you still have to let somebody know that you love them,
and that's a that's still a full time job too.
It's like, you know, so but being with someone that again,
that's just what you're doing your personal journey. They also
are mature enough to know that we have to have
some qts somewhere, So planning the QT anything, that's what

(01:07:10):
our plan is the QT because it's just like we
will look at like we ain't seen each other, like
we need to see each other.

Speaker 2 (01:07:18):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:07:18):
So yeah, it's a lot, but definitely definitely gotta make time.

Speaker 1 (01:07:23):
I feel like I'm a well rounded.

Speaker 3 (01:07:24):
Person like a triathlete, so I'm just born to do
all types of different things.

Speaker 1 (01:07:30):
It just goes to our personality.

Speaker 2 (01:07:32):
Anyway, right, Yeah, it made sense. I know even though
you have okay, y'all, y'all have goals together, but also
you have individual goals as well. Yeah, and I say,
so you have to balage everything out and say, Okay,
we're gonna get together on this day, this time, we're
gonna do this. But like I said, it's always a
beautiful thing that you're or you're on the same page

(01:07:55):
and on one accord that it's no we's taking to almuch.
You gotta do all that. But having someone they got
to understand each other, and that's an effect to communicating.
That's another thing too effect and communicating working together. Man,
it's beautiful. Why do we have to make it so complicated? Well,
life could be so simple. We just make complicated.

Speaker 1 (01:08:17):
We're humans and we just do that. We just make
so hard. Like you know, the only one that's perfect
is God. So we have a lot of flaws as humans,
but understanding love is so important. Like you're gonna have flaws.
Nobody is perfect as.

Speaker 3 (01:08:35):
Long as these flaws don't mess with you your mental
state of mind and it doesn't drain you.

Speaker 1 (01:08:40):
Everyone has flaws. None of us is perfect. Nobody's right.

Speaker 3 (01:08:44):
You just have to take that into consideration. But we
definitely do make stuff hard relationships to.

Speaker 2 (01:08:49):
Be fun, right, and then it's then it's speed over
to other people because of the tyme sanity that you're
dealing with personally, and it's gonna spee over on someone.
And that's when we don't want We don't want to
spell on innocent people. UH think were saying the coming
session he got here before you go, like Nancy said,
need heal them for the one date. Work on yourself first.

(01:09:12):
Don't make dating sole top priority, cause I get the
ass all the time. You know, are you dating? Are
you doing this. Are you doing that? I tell anybody
that nature take its caught. If you were about okay,
I gotta get out of sorry dating, you just put
an added pressure on yourself. Get out there and enjoy
your life. And if you meet someone across that path, cool.
If you don't, cool, you still in joy your life

(01:09:34):
because eventually you'll come across somebody and you don't have
to look for it. I just believe you do it
right into it. That's but and that's what it is.
So I love to have you back on here when
I know what the book and everything else going on
as well. So I appreciate you taking time of your
skin to hang out with me on the show tonight.

(01:09:56):
Said Oh yeah, I appreciate you because I like said,
anytime you are failed when I reach out to you
ahead of the time, you always put it in your
schedule shot preach your shit. But doing that, So man,
y'all make sure y'all follow Miss Blue on all social
media platform because I've been tagging on the promotions. So
y'all go ahead and start following her tonight. Get all

(01:10:17):
updates that's going on within her show, within her brand,
within her business, and you will truly, truly be impressed
on what she is doing and all other stuff. So
for I let you go, Blue, you have any word
of advice, any sounds of wisdom that you're gonna leave
here with the audist just watching your live stream.

Speaker 3 (01:10:35):
Yeah, y'all, just see God first. You don't need nobody else.
But in this life of God, like, seriously, listen to God.
Let him order your fust step, stop getting in your
own way.

Speaker 2 (01:10:46):
And just do it.

Speaker 1 (01:10:48):
Just do it and really do it, do it right,
do it with grace, and do it with love.

Speaker 2 (01:10:54):
Hey, that's how you do it. So we'll be back
here tomorrow night, same time, seven pm. I would have
a mother and daughter on here tomorrow. Hopefully they be
on here tomorrow. I know they're out in Louisiana and
I think it's a storm out there somewhere, but they
told me about it. They're gonna keep me posted. I
could just keep me posted so it happens tomorrow. Could
be done cool, but most important that they be safe.

(01:11:16):
So I'm looking forward to that if they do come
on tomorrow. So I have to find out they're gonna
be here tomorrow. Life, said Blue, I know you got
a lot of great things storing. I appreciate you, and
we're bout the grad leaders things. So ladies and gentlemen,
y'all have a great night, live life, learn, grow evolved,
and pretty much just have fun and growth. But we

(01:11:41):
out this day peace. Everybody,