We Don't Talk About That with Lucas Land

We Don't Talk About That with Lucas Land

The podcast where we talk about things we're not supposed to, learn how to have difficult conversations, and talk to people about what makes them different.... Show More

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May 24, 2020 57 min
In this episode we try something a bit different! I’m calling it Practice Makes Better. Today my friend Gary Goodson helps me with an experiment in practicing what we’re preaching. We have a discussion about whether science and faith are compatible and then reflect on how we did trying to have a hard conversation! I hope to make this a regular contribution to the podcast to help demonstrate and reflect on real live difficult conver...
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This is part two of my conversation with Steve Mcdonald about Spiral Dynamics. In this episode we make the leap from Tier 1 to Tier 2 and talk about what the heck that means. If you haven’t listened to part 1 yet, you might want to listen to it first since we are picking up where we left off last week.
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Future Sense Podcast – http://futuresense.it
Steve McDonald – https://www.eman8.net/
AADII Change Agency – https://www.aadi...
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In this two part interview I talk to futurist Steve McDonald about Spiral Dynamics, which is a model for understanding human development and consciousness. It’s a fascinating conversation that I think can help us understand ourselves and other people so much better. There’s a lot of information to digest. So sharing this in two parts will hopefully help your digestion and not give you information heartburn.
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Future Sense P...
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In this episode I talk to Suzannah Gonzales of The News Literacy Project about why there's so much misinformation, what w can do about it, and how her organization can help!
Guest Plugs

The News Literacy Project – https://newslit.org/
Checkology FREE to parents and teachers during pandemic – https://newslit.org/educators/checkology/
Informable App – https://newslit.org/updates/informable-helps-you-sort-fact-from-fiction/
The Sift Ne...
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Well, when I recorded this interview with my friend Sharyl we lived in a very different world. We weren’t thinking about global pandemics, social distancing, or using zoom quite as much as we are now. Many of us are sheltering in place and facing restrictions to help slow the spread of this new virus. We are, well at least I am, at times anxious and fearful about what this means for me and the world and then other times overwhelmed...
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In part 2 of my conversation with Carl McColman we talk about technology’s effect on us, why we are afraid of silence, and what it can contribute to better conversations. On his podcast Encountering silence they always take a 30 second pause of silence in the middle of the episode. I’ve also done that in these two episodes as a way for us to practice pausing and entering in to silence as well.
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Encountering Silence Podcast...
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In this episode I talk to Carl McColman about technology’s effect on us, why we are afraid of silence, and what it can contribute to better conversations. This will be a two part conversation that we will finish next week. On his podcast Encountering silence they always take a 30 second pause of silence in the middle of the episode. I’ve also done that in these two episodes as a way for us to practice pausing and entering in to sil...
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In this episode I talk with Paul Kirst about his work with Better Angels to teach and promote dialogue across the red and blue divide. We also discuss civil wars both past and future and what they might teach us.
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Better Angels Workshops – https://www.better-angels.org/
It Could Happen Here with Robert Evans – https://www.iheart.com/podcast/1119-it-could-happen-here-30717896/
Hugo Banzer – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hugo_B...
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There are a ton of podcasts out there these days! I’m going to be sharing some of them with you from time to time through bonus episodes and promotions in regular episodes. This bonus episode is from We Got This Podcast with Darryl and Chyanne Smith. They have candid conversations about a lot of different topics including divorce, self-love, positivity, mindsets, and body image. Just a heads up that there is some swearing if that’s...
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In this episode I talk to Erin Payseur Oeth about how to get beyond the binary in our discussions, being co-creators of the communities where we live, and we reveal the hidden truth that… the government is us!
Guest Plugs

What is Public Deliberation? By Erin Payseur Oeth – https://www.naspa.org/blog/what-is-public-deliberation-an-introduction
Baylor Public Deliberation Initiative: With a section on faith and deliberation for those in ...
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In this episode I talk to Pastor Erica Lea Simka about LGBTQ identities and terminology, practice introducing myself with my pronouns, get corrected more than once, and we almost have an altar call when she tells me about the antidote to call out culture.
Show Notes

Resources for Allies – https://www.glaad.org/resources/ally/14
Transgender FAQ – https://www.glaad.org/reference/transgender
Intersex Society of North America FAQ – https:/...
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In this episode I talk to Michael Evans about empathy, what it is and how it works. We also talk about our feelings, why dads are the MOST emotional, and develop our new brand… the Baptist Buddha!
Guest Plug

Empathy & Podcast – http://www.empathyand.com/

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Ten Percent Happier Podcast: Kryptonite for the Inner Critic, Kristin Neff, PhD – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/209-kryptonite-for-inner-critic-self-compassion-s...
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February 2, 2020 60 min
Lucas talks with sex therapist Julie Jeske about how to talk about sex, why it's so difficult, and what the BDSM kink community can teach all of us about how to improve our relationships!
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Julie Jeske – http://juliejeske.com 
Swoon Podcast – https://www.therapyden.com/blog/swoon

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Therapy Den – http://therapyden.com
The Guide to Getting It On by Paul Joannides – https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/72834.Guide_to_G...
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January 26, 2020 53 min
Lucas talks to immigration lawyer Anali Looper about why people migrate to other countries, myths about immigration, and we get down and dirty with the nitty-gritty details of the immigration system.
Guest Plug


American Gateways – http://www.americangateways.org/

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Southern Poverty Law Center Teaching Tolerance Curriculum – https://www.tolerance.org/about
Migration Policy Institute – https://www.migrationpolicy.org/
Immigration ...
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In this episode I talk to Tommy Estlund about his podcast the Curiosity Hour, how we know when to block or unfriend someone, and why we don’t want to be like Marty McFly.
Guest Plugs

The Curiosity Hour Podcast – http://thecuriosityhourpodcast.com 
Tommy Estlund on Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/thomas.estlund

Show Notes:

Sea lioning – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sealioning
Foreign Policy Article about the Counterinsurgency Manual ...
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January 12, 2020 56 min
Lucas talks to Pam Larrichia about unschooling, awkward conversations about parenting, and ways we can work on connecting more with our kids and each other.
Show Notes

Living Joyfully with Unschooling – https://livingjoyfully.ca
Exploring Unschooling Podcast – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/exploring-unschooling/id1074379805 
Find Local Unschooling groups through Sue Patterson's website – https://unschoolingmom2mom.com/fin...
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In this episode I talk with Geoff Holsclaw about why Facebook arguments are like heroin, understanding the ways our brains work, and when we should have enemies.
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The Neuroscience of Breaking Out of Negative Thinking (and How to Do It in Under 30 Seconds) https://www.inc.com/nate-klemp/try-this-neuroscience-based-technique-to-shift-your-mindset-from-negative-to-positive-in-30-seconds.html
The God With Us Podcast Kickstarter ...
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Just a couple notes before this episode. This episode talks about addiction and recovery. We don’t dwell a lot on trauma, but we do mention some of the painful things that are often connected to it such as suicide and sexual assault. They are only briefly mentioned as examples of trauma, but I wanted to let you know that ahead of time  in case those things are difficult to hear.
Also we had some technical issues and lost her three t...
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December 8, 2019 47 min
Lucas talks to Matthias Roberts about his new book Beyond Shame. Lucas also confesses that Matthias is his style guru and he has been stealing his haircut for years!
Show Notes

Matthias Roberts – https://matthiasroberts.com
Pre-Order and email receipt to beyondshamebook@gmail.com for bonus content and access to a course with Linda Cline and Matthias Roberts
Beyond Shame – http://www.beyondshamebook.com/
Q Christian Fellowship – http...
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In this episode I talk to C. Christopher Smith about what he has learned from over a decade of intentional conversations in his church, different ways to make our conversations better, and I solve the mystery of his first initial.
Show Notes

How the Body of Christ Talks by C. Christopher Smith – https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/43193118-how-the-body-of-christ-talks
Conversation Guide – http://c-christopher-smith.com
The Englewood Re...
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