WAYT EP. 300

Enjoy our 300th episode of WAYT... thank you to everyone who has been with us along the way. 

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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three seven two seven and ask for Paul.

Speaker 2 (00:25):
Hey tell them wyit say?

Speaker 1 (01:05):
I used to think about two days, you know, like
do you love me? Do you want me? Are you
gonna call me like you said you want?

Speaker 3 (01:17):
Is this really your real thing?

Speaker 1 (01:21):
Hello? Everybody, Welcome to a waris talks to a three
people episode of What You About Today is jes January seventeen,
twenty twenty five, six forty pm and we're coming to
life from Fresno, California. Yeah, so three hundred episodes And

(01:42):
how does it feel? Oh, how does it feel to
have just talked a lot of bulls? Some may say shit,
some may say nonsense, some may say facts, some may
say opinion. Some may say a lot of cackling and
making uneducated remarks and quotes and whatnot, chewing lots of

(02:08):
gum chewing, lots of ums like and sneezing, sneezing. I'm
sure some coughing here and there, a lot of hiccups,
not literally, but you know what I mean, like figuratively speaking, I.

Speaker 3 (02:24):
Do think about how there'd be like that, but like
mid two hundred, I think maybe mid to early two
hundred or like late one hundred point in the episodes
where we were like we couldn't get through an episode
and we literally had to go to therapy.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
That's right, Okay, what was going? Oh okay, we don't
have to rehash that. No, no, no, but I know
I know it, and now I remember.

Speaker 3 (02:48):
Do you remember. I'm kind of wow. I just remember
it as us not really like us standing from on
our points and instead of me kind of just like
learning just to let things go and move on. I
would just harper on the point. Is that harper from.

Speaker 1 (03:02):
The heart.

Speaker 3 (03:04):
Harbor the well?

Speaker 1 (03:06):
So there's harp like the instrument, okay, yes, or like
when you're harping, like if you're standing your ground on
some right.

Speaker 3 (03:16):
Like physically standing sure, if.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
You're physically standing on a harp, yes, so, or harbor
like I'm harboring, ill will towards you, I would which
one hold on? Can you repeat one more time? The
sense I would.

Speaker 3 (03:31):
Harp on or harbor on things instead of just letting
them go.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
Okay, So I feel like that could be used like
interchangeably either way. It felt yeah type of way, which
is okay. Well, I mean, hey, that was what, Yes,
that was what two years ago. But yes, we did
have to go to therapy because we, like you said,
we would both be in our ways during the episodes

(03:59):
and we couldn't get past whatever we were disagreeing on
or whatever. We just didn't see eye to eye on
in that moment, and so it would be hard for
us to move on as we were speaking during the podcast,
so it would kind of become a little awkward, a
little tense, and it would make for just some tension

(04:24):
a little bit. So, but we were able to get
through that. And that was like two years ago, I think, right, literally,
yeah about I feel like two years just a boot,
just a boot. So there is a lot going on
besides it being the three hundredth episode. Actually, you know, what,

(04:45):
is there anything that you remember before I forget I
feel like one of the funniest, one of the funniest episodes.
Was when you were talking about Jimbo and given the
rides on the back of the car. I remember laughing
so rest in peace, laughing so hard like that. I

(05:06):
feel like that was a good episode. That was a
long time ago.

Speaker 3 (05:09):
I haven't thought about Jimbo a couple of years.

Speaker 1 (05:14):
Yeah, that was that was the only time, or I
remember in the very beginning I was very politically driven
and that I was very much into politics. Yes, and wow,
what do you know, we're coming full circle because he's
back yet again. Yep, uh yep. But I remember that

(05:40):
just being very much into politics and being very passionate
about that. Somewhere along the line, the passion went out
a little bit, but I have a feeling it's going
to come back a little bit this time around the
second term around so ha ha. Yeah. So and a

(06:02):
lot of I have done a lot of being open
and honest just about my past and about what I've
experienced in my past relationship and I feel like and
mental health as well. And I was open last week
about how I struggled with substance abuse, and so the

(06:24):
podcast is a good way for me to be able
to be honest about things that I've gone through, and
I want to be honest because I know there's other
people who are dealing with that same stuff, if not worse,
and you know, that's part of life. It's part of life.
People go through it sometimes, and it's nice to hear

(06:47):
when it's nice to hear that an average person is
going through the same stuff. It's very relatable and you
feel like, Okay, I'm not alone. So there you go.

Speaker 3 (06:59):
Yeah, when we would try to record the following day,
which looking back, I don't know why we would.

Speaker 1 (07:06):
I don't even this was definitely in the very beginning, right,
we don't even remember like the next more, which I
don't know that this is when we would spend the
night and do it the next day. Okay, I seem.

Speaker 3 (07:18):
Still looking back, I'm trying to figure like, what was
the point of that, because it just seemed to make
more sense just doing how we do it now.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
I think we were just trying to figure things out.

Speaker 3 (07:26):
Yeah, you remember the early not early, but our attempts
at going live.

Speaker 1 (07:31):
Okay on Mike Briggs.

Speaker 3 (07:33):
Shout out Mike Briggs.

Speaker 1 (07:34):
Oh, that's right, definitely shout out to Mike Briggs. It's
been probably a couple of years it's.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
Like two years because that was pandemic.

Speaker 1 (07:44):
Probably actually long or four years, yeah, probably one. I
think our last our last time there was with it
was when I went when I was promoting shout out LLC. Wow,

(08:06):
that's definitely three beck. That is a long time ago.
I did go there by myself. And that's another thing
is we have done our live episodes. We've done what
maybe for four or five of them, at least four
or five six Super and Sinclair uh dominic shout out twice.

Speaker 3 (08:29):
Actually, I think we think really twice. I think I'm
almost certain for sure. Once we interviewed so many twice
regards to at least.

Speaker 1 (08:37):
Yeah okay, and then we went on with just the
two of us. That was the very beginning.

Speaker 3 (08:42):
That's maybe at least five times.

Speaker 1 (08:44):
Yeah, and then I went on by myself. So six
six times we've seen mister Briggs shout out. We should
have done a live episode with him. Maybe we can
do it for a four hundredth episode.

Speaker 3 (08:57):
Yeah, technically, aren't they all live with him since it's his,
since he owns.

Speaker 1 (09:00):
The the software and the whole setup. That is true,
but it would be nice to go back. I still
get the emails I know they're just like auto generated,
but I do still get the emails like, hey, we
have open spots this week. Yeah we should sparkle sparkle, yes,

(09:22):
shout out, and she I'm sure knows what's going on
in the industry. So definitely she's got the tea, the
Fresno tea, the Central Valley tee. I don't tastes like
all right.

Speaker 2 (09:35):
But.

Speaker 3 (09:37):
Doesn't sound too it doesn't trying to think of other
early just before because this is literally.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
I know, it's definitely reminisce. It would be nice to
take it on the road, like do it like tomorrow,
take it on the road tomorrow, do a traveling one.
It would be cool, you know, maybe in the future
to speaking of live, do it live or people call
in get their opinion. Yeah, that would be great.

Speaker 3 (10:03):
I mean, I guess we technically could do that now
and have to be pre recorded. It's like with not
breaking the fourth wall, but like they would have to
call on literally like right now as we're speaking on
right there, and just have it set up beforehand. Yes,
I just at some point I would hope we get
like I don't want to like not necessarily a social
media manager, but like a.

Speaker 1 (10:22):
Like a business manager, not even that, I.

Speaker 3 (10:24):
Guess technically, what is that your dad's roll? Not necessarily
that I'm talking about like someone who can like chop
up like our funniest moments, because I feel like that
would be a little bit easy, because I sometimes I
listen to the episodes and I'm like, you really have.

Speaker 1 (10:38):
To like listen, You really have to listen to the
entire to really.

Speaker 3 (10:43):
Get like the humor, because yeah, since like five seconds
of you can be like, what the hell are yes
talking about? And why do I even care to listen?

Speaker 1 (10:49):
Right?

Speaker 3 (10:50):
You actually listen to the whole thing. There's like some
actually funny ass ship there.

Speaker 1 (10:53):
There, there is there is some funny ass stuff in there.
I'd say that there's some decent advice and the best.

Speaker 3 (11:00):
Advice you think you've given the last three hundred episodes.

Speaker 1 (11:03):
Oh my goodness, you want to talk so much about well,
I feel like I've preached a lot about just Okay,
I feel yeah, I I feel like I've given yes,
some good relationship advice, some solid relationship advice. Hopefully with

(11:26):
what I've said.

Speaker 3 (11:28):
How to go out without paying for a drink?

Speaker 1 (11:30):
Oh my goodness, that was definitely you know, if back
then without paying for a drink? How yes, how to
stay in back then? That was the thing with Samantha
and I. Maybe not all the time, but there were
several times where we literally had nothing and we were

(11:50):
like okay, like, oh yes, that's another one. Yeah, just
find your pipe and smoke it, and just get get
a bobby pin, you know, take the outside plastic.

Speaker 3 (12:08):
Off a knife. If you don't have any other like item,
I guess a bobby pin would work.

Speaker 1 (12:13):
That seems like, yeah, one of the worst things you
can get the well, so it'll get stuck on the
bobby pin. But all you have to do is just
pull it off and put it back in, put it
back in the bowl, and then smoke that.

Speaker 3 (12:26):
How do you deal with the like, it's not easy
to get that off your closed, off your finger, off anything.
You just keep it on there.

Speaker 1 (12:33):
Well, I've actually puts the resin on the black resin
tar your co host.

Speaker 3 (12:41):
So there was one time when I I wasn't trying
to get the resident. I was just cleaning the actual
bowl or whatever.

Speaker 1 (12:46):
And I literally never cleaned those pipes ever, So sometimes.

Speaker 3 (12:51):
Sometimes I wouldn't. It really just depends this particular time
I was just trying to like scrape it or whatever,
and for some reason I got like the edge of
the knife and wipe it off on.

Speaker 1 (13:00):
My Oh I see it, Okay, I see okay. So
and as someone who I probably never did that, that's
why I was like, who does that? Gotcha? Excuse me?
But yeah, I feel like I've given some pretty solid
relationship advice. And uh, you know now that I'm older

(13:20):
and I've been through some ship and as I say,
I've been around the block. I've been around the block. Okay,
just with life. Caesar Travis formerly Kings Canyon, Ventura, Yes,
specifically Ventura Avenue, Kings Canyon, will Throw, will Throw Tower
District in there as well. You know Butler shout out

(13:45):
to Butler Avenue, Butler and Orange. Okay, So I've frequented
there very often in that parameter perimeter parameter. And you know,
I would say to my viewers who are listening, the
onto two of you that are listening, Yeah, some good ideas, yes,

(14:12):
And I appreciate Carolyn, if you're listening, I appreciate you
listening to us. I really really do very much. So
and Paul as well. But I I appreciate people listening,
even if it's just one person, especially listening to my
ridiculous banter. Thank you so much. But yes, I would
say as a young woman, the advice that I would

(14:35):
like to give is to or to other young women
out there, is to do you and to be financially independent,
and to not stay somewhere where you are uncomfortable or
you have to beg somebody to love you. Always make

(14:56):
sure that you have your own job, your own stuff,
and any relationship. Any guy is just going to be
the cherry on top, right, Okay, Like Mondo says, get
your money up, not your funny up.

Speaker 3 (15:11):
That's that's the quote of twenty four that we're taking into.

Speaker 1 (15:15):
Yes, yes, so do you have any advice for the
young fellows out there?

Speaker 3 (15:21):
You know what, I'm still trying to figure things out
on my own, so I don't let me. I'll wait
till it's the end.

Speaker 1 (15:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (15:29):
But before we move on, two questions, A or one
or a one or one? A or zero? Okay, when
we first started the podcast way back January twenty twenty,
like December twenty nineteen, because that's like when the idea
first came out.

Speaker 1 (15:47):
That is insane.

Speaker 3 (15:49):
Anything pre pandemic seems insane. But I said December, we
were sitting at the table about like twenty feet away
from us, okay, and we were trying to come up
with a name. We were trying to come up with
the logo.

Speaker 1 (16:01):
And I think I told you I'm pmsing.

Speaker 3 (16:04):
This makes even a better episode.

Speaker 1 (16:06):
But my goodness, yes.

Speaker 3 (16:07):
I think I came up. I'm almost one hundred percent
possible I came up with the name. But the logo,
I think that may have been a little bit of
a jointed effort. But when like my question was my
question is going to be when we first started out,
like is this kind of what you thought or like
what you like imagined being, because I don't want to

(16:28):
sit here and act like we're podcasters, even though we've
done this for three hundred episodes, like technically are, but
it feels like it's just something we do and it's
not like it's not bigger than that, which is a
good thing. It's not like like I feel like we
are keeping it at even if we were to have
like a million followers tomorrow, I feel like we still

(16:49):
have we're keeping it at like a good yeah, if
that makes sense, A very humbling level, yeah, or just
like a level that.

Speaker 1 (16:57):
Yeah, that was Osming's too.

Speaker 3 (17:00):
Big first, which is a good thing, which I which
I like. But I not to even ut you think,
but I just never no, I'm sorry, no, I I
just when we first started, I didn't even like think
like that would be the case, like I thought it
was like I thought it would just be not I
don't know, maybe I didn't Maybe I didn't know what
I thought it was going to be.

Speaker 1 (17:19):
So to answer that, did I think back then in
twenty nineteen slash early twenty twenty, did I think that
it would be like this? You know, I really don't
know what I thought.

Speaker 3 (17:31):
Yeah, that's kind of more what.

Speaker 1 (17:32):
I to think back to to that time. I think
I was just trying to survive with being a mom
can find the next beer, So I don't think so
that was probably that was like twenty eighteen.

Speaker 3 (17:51):
Okay, yeah, okay.

Speaker 1 (17:52):
Circa twenty eighteen. But I was just trying to survive
and I don't even know. I don't know what I
was thinking. All I know is that I was excited.
And I think I already said this on the podcast,
but I wanted to do a podcast. Remember, I have yeah,

(18:15):
well that's right, that's right.

Speaker 3 (18:17):
Yes, yes, I just don't think either of us I
think the partners we would have chosen at that time
probably it probably wouldn't. Yeah, it wouldn't have worked out
in the longevity since.

Speaker 1 (18:26):
Right, But I I had the idea, You had an idea,
and we wanted to like these are, like we said,
these are conversations that we would have just talking amongst ourselves.

Speaker 3 (18:42):
That's the crazy part thinking about it, because that's I
forgot about that. It was just our natural conversation.

Speaker 1 (18:51):
Now it seems like, yeah, so yeah, like I said,
I don't know what I thought. I I couldn't tell you,
I really, I mean, but I'm glad that we're still
doing it. And this is something that our children, your

(19:12):
non existent ones, my current existing one can listen to
when they're older.

Speaker 3 (19:18):
That's about that. Yeah, if anything were to happen like.

Speaker 1 (19:22):
Oh, we have like hours and hours and uh, this
is something for us too in our family as well.
So yeah, I don't know. I really couldn't tell you
what I was thinking. I didn't think like four years
have flown by that is, or what five years? It's
been like five four and a half years. They really

(19:44):
flew by. They really really flew by. What was your
next question?

Speaker 3 (19:48):
Like, so question two or A or B or one
would be our next guest, Like if you could pick
any anybody to.

Speaker 1 (20:01):
Choose from living or dead.

Speaker 3 (20:04):
Yeah, hopefully in the next one hundred.

Speaker 1 (20:05):
Episodes we can bring just one guest.

Speaker 3 (20:10):
Yeah. I guess that's kind of a broad question, but
just someone that you're like, man, if you had you
want to interview, yeah, the next hundred episodes.

Speaker 1 (20:16):
Oh man, that's so.

Speaker 3 (20:18):
I was trying to think about it as I was
asking the question.

Speaker 1 (20:21):
That is so hard because I'm interested in so many
kinds of people local, you know, celebrities, politicians, people on
the Fresno City Council there, you know what I mean, Like,
there's so many content you know what. Okay, we'll make

(20:44):
it easy and we'll condense it down to that content
creator specifically in nursing who I follow, like on Instagram,
because yeah, so we'll do that. So probably somebody, So
hold on.

Speaker 3 (20:59):
These are nurses who create content or content creators who
have nurse based content.

Speaker 1 (21:05):
I'm gonna go with, uh.

Speaker 3 (21:10):
Nurses who are content creators, so their primary job is
being a nurse and they just happen to make content.

Speaker 1 (21:15):
Yes on TikTok. Now the tiktoks go on to Instagram. Okay,
so I don't have tiktoks.

Speaker 3 (21:21):
Turn the reels which then turn the YouTube.

Speaker 1 (21:24):
Shorts which end up being saved.

Speaker 3 (21:26):
As just regular media. So do these nurses record in
their facility?

Speaker 1 (21:31):
You know what's so crazy is that a lot of
nursing personnel do right, Yes, And I've never seen the
next question anybody do that at my job? Never do you.

Speaker 3 (21:42):
Ever see any of the patients in the background, like
begging for help as the TikTok.

Speaker 1 (21:47):
Red damn, struggling to open the water, struggling to press
the cale.

Speaker 3 (21:57):
My patient needs help, they're aim.

Speaker 1 (22:01):
Oh my gosh, okay, hold on. So this is somebody
who I would like to interview. Let me see and
I I okay, No, Actually his name is nurse Stank
with two k's at the end. So I don't know
how I found him. You know, like once you start
following one person, all these people start coming up, right,

(22:21):
And so he actually works in the er and the ED.
He's a nurse and r at yes, so he so
it looks like he'll typically record. I'm assuming like at
home like in his scrubs doing a scenario, right, And
then there is where there's the part where he records

(22:45):
I think after his shift, and he'll just go on
a rant based off of like a certain situation that
happened during his shift at work that day. So I
don't know, Like I said, I I somehow just found it.
But his humor and the way that he talks and
like him going off is very much similar to what

(23:08):
I have in my head or how I think or
how I feel during work or whatever. So I probably
want to interview him just because number one, he's a
male nurse, which we all know nursing is very female driven, right,
So he's a male nurse, which to me is interesting already.
And then he works in the emergency department, Okay, so

(23:31):
I can relate to that. And like I said, the
way that he expresses himself in regards to certain situations,
I'm like, WHOA, I have the same thought process, So
you know i'd want.

Speaker 3 (23:47):
To interview him. I'm Spcially, you didn't say Caleb Hammer.

Speaker 2 (23:54):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (23:56):
So shout out to Caleb Hammer, shout out to find
actial audit. I haven't really been keeping up with him,
so The way my mind works is I will become
fascinated with something for like a month or so, and
then I'm done with it. So right now another person

(24:19):
who will give a shout out to right now, I'm
all about disappearances.

Speaker 3 (24:24):
So willing, like against their will.

Speaker 1 (24:28):
These are people who willingly, I'm sorry, willing.

Speaker 3 (24:33):
Sometimes they just want to leave.

Speaker 1 (24:36):
And you know what's so messed up is that?

Speaker 3 (24:38):
Okay who rises?

Speaker 1 (24:45):
Okay? Hold on? So, yes, so I came across again.
Once you start liking all this other stuff comes up.
So this channel is called uh Trace Evidence Podcast, And
so I found it from another one. Yes, I found

(25:05):
it from another one which I can't remember the name,
But that one's all about missing people, not necessarily murders,
it's just people who are missing. This one, he goes
over murders and people who are missing. So anyways, his
I think the first one I saw from his is

(25:25):
this guy back in the early thousands, young guy. He
went missing after a party. So I forgot what like
midwestern state this was in. Anyways, so he's on the phone,
takes and ends up taking a back road to get
home because he had been drinking, probably didn't want to
get stopped by the cops. Right, so he takes the

(25:46):
back road, well for whatever reason, not for whatever reason,
but because it's a road he's probably never taken, and
it's dark and he's intoxicated. He gets lost, right, So
he leaves his car, goes on foot into I don't
even know where. And mind you, this is when there's
no GPS. He's on the phone. He's talking to his dad,

(26:09):
talking to his parents and telling them I'm lost. I
think I see another town. I think I see lights,
so I'm gonna continue walking there. And the parents are like, okay, well,
we're gonna come try to find you. I think that's
what they said. We're gonna come try to find you.
And he's on the phone and all of a sudden,

(26:29):
the dad hears them say, oh shit. And then that
was the end of it. And so the parents are like,
what's going on. They call the cops. The cops say, well,
it's okay, because he's an adult, so he probably wanted
like what you just said, he probably wanted to get lost. Yeah,
So no one's ever found him. They went and searched

(26:52):
that night, I think, and the next morning, and till
this day, nobody has ever found this guy's body. They
found his car, but they never found him.

Speaker 3 (27:03):
So in situations like that are just I guess, any
situation that would happen, what did they usually like, what's
like the common like conclusion.

Speaker 1 (27:14):
I don't even think that there was a conclusion. There's
so many theories out there. There's no body what is
the most plausible theory that it's so, it's so there
was a creek or a lake or something, and they're
saying that when he said, oh shit fell, he fell.
But the thing is is that his cell phone it

(27:37):
must have not been damaged because when they called, it
kept ringing. It didn't go straight to voicemail. It kept ringing.
So they were like, okay, his cell phone was okay.
So and they're thinking, well, there's a lot of I
guess farmers. There were a lot of farmers in that area,
so maybe he went to one of their homes and

(27:58):
they killed him. He was asking for help or they
I think they said, I don't know if they said
there were wild pigs there, and maybe the pigs I
really don't know. So there's so many different things anyways,
but that just reminded me of that, So shout out
to those two nurse Stank with two k's at the end,

(28:20):
and yeah, true, I'm sorry, not true. Trace Evidence Podcast.
So that's the one that I'm into right now that
I'm obsessing over.

Speaker 3 (28:30):
Sponsored by Trey Cyrus.

Speaker 1 (28:32):
Yes, and Brenda's song. Brenda shout out to mcaulay kieren
K And there's several others I think too.

Speaker 3 (28:43):
How many.

Speaker 1 (28:45):
Okay on a pogo stick, So you know, shout out
to what are your thoughts? And shout out to our dad,
and shout out to our mom as well, and shout
out to our supporters and our Patreon yea, our same
three that we literally windle down to three. That's okay, Yeah, but.

Speaker 3 (29:07):
Hey, that's it's sometimes it starts at three and then
it goes to three thousand.

Speaker 1 (29:10):
Never, You're absolutely right, So and yeah, shout out to
those who maybe listen a little.

Speaker 3 (29:18):
Bit just enough to well maintain No.

Speaker 1 (29:22):
I'm saying, I'm saying they listen, but we just don't
get any sort of like.

Speaker 3 (29:25):
Oh see that just the people that know we exist
that actually counts for.

Speaker 1 (29:29):
Something that Yes, as me or I mean for me,
I do.

Speaker 3 (29:34):
Like the knowledge of knowing that you exist to other people.

Speaker 1 (29:39):
Yes, I'm not gonna lie. Okay, so you.

Speaker 3 (29:44):
Exist, right, because we forget sometimes.

Speaker 1 (29:46):
So moving on to what's actually going on in the world,
present day, Yes, present day, twenty twenty five. So, like
I told you before we started recording, there's so much
going on, I don't even know how to condense it.

Speaker 3 (30:00):
So I think I might have just the list for me. Yeah,
or I think I might know what you're gonna lead
off with. Okay, Nelly performing at the inauguration.

Speaker 1 (30:08):
So okay that. So I wasn't gonna start off exactly
with that, but he was gonna tie into it in
about ten minutes, so perfect if you want to go
and take a ride with me. So you know, I'm
not gonna say what I really feel on air because
it may come off as a certain way, but your

(30:32):
dad would know what I'm talking about.

Speaker 3 (30:35):
What you think he's taking growth homones? Okay, I mean
what I honestly.

Speaker 1 (30:41):
So it's okay, we'll talk about it after. So I'm
not surprised, honestly.

Speaker 3 (30:46):
Is it discress not?

Speaker 1 (30:48):
Is it disappointing? Yeah, but I'm I surprised no, because
I'm sure he's gonna get paid. He just had a baby.
As Nelly's selling records. No, is he on tour right now?
I don't think so.

Speaker 3 (31:00):
Maybe he really doesn't need to sell anymore, right.

Speaker 1 (31:03):
But do you think that the money is still coming
in consistently? But like how it wasn't his hating?

Speaker 3 (31:09):
Probably not.

Speaker 1 (31:10):
But that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (31:11):
Really fair to anyone except for what eminem fifty doctudoration.

Speaker 1 (31:14):
I mean, okay, and the list goes on.

Speaker 3 (31:16):
And I naming them because it's like there's still those
are probably a few, yeah, are going to be receiving
even like equivalent of what they were receiving back then.

Speaker 1 (31:26):
And this is not to say, oh, he's broke, he
doesn't have any money. That's not what I'm saying whatsoever.
I'm just saying that he probably like who's I don't know.
And also, I mean it is something that has to
do with the president, which I feel like for him,

(31:46):
even if it were President Biden, he would still say yes,
right because it, I'm sure is it is an honor
to be asked to perform.

Speaker 3 (31:57):
So he's just a fan of politics, doesn't matter to go.

Speaker 1 (32:00):
To that, it doesn't matter red, blue, green, Yes, yes,
So whatever Carrie Underwood she is going to Yes.

Speaker 3 (32:10):
I'm going to perform, and over and over again that
that would be good.

Speaker 1 (32:17):
But I think these are aren't these two separate events?

Speaker 3 (32:19):
Or maybe because he's performing at the inauguration, she's performed
at the after party or what.

Speaker 1 (32:24):
Well, so there's the inauguration and I think there's an
inaugural ball.

Speaker 3 (32:28):
No, he's performing at the inauguration. She may be performing
at the inaugural ball.

Speaker 1 (32:31):
Wait, he's performing at the inauguration, inauguration, the curation, Hold
hold on, I'm all hold on.

Speaker 3 (32:42):
Nelly will reportedly perform at the inauguration.

Speaker 1 (32:45):
But oh wow, Okay, it's.

Speaker 3 (32:49):
Posted by The Cut. Shout out to Olivia Craighead.

Speaker 1 (32:54):
A newswriter cut okay, Yes, a.

Speaker 3 (32:56):
Newswriter for The Cut who covers pop culture and celebrity.

Speaker 1 (33:00):
She knows what she's talking about.

Speaker 3 (33:01):
In contrast to the twenty seventeen inauguration, this time around,
there are a lot of actual famous people signing up
to usher Donald Trump into his second term. Earlier this week,
it was announced that Carrie Underwood would perform America the
Beautiful at Trump's inauguration ceremony. Then it was reported that Rascal.

Speaker 1 (33:18):
Flats Okay, life is a shout out way.

Speaker 3 (33:26):
And Jason Alden would be performing, will be playing at
different inaugural balls.

Speaker 1 (33:31):
Okay.

Speaker 3 (33:32):
This addition to this list is, of course Nelly.

Speaker 1 (33:35):
So okay, now I have something.

Speaker 3 (33:37):
Not to even cut you off again, but you're right,
it says. On Friday, CBS reporter tour In Small's posted
on x that the rapper will be performing at Trump's
Liberty Ball.

Speaker 1 (33:47):
Okay, I was gonna say yeah. According to CBS News,
it says that he's set to perform at one of
his three inaugural balls. That's why I was like, what
the inauguration? Now? But this, yeah, makes more sense.

Speaker 3 (34:02):
This person says, well, this is a bummer or perhaps
a dilemma.

Speaker 1 (34:06):
Sorry, that's actually that's a good one.

Speaker 3 (34:09):
That's a good one for people who scream hot in
her comes on at weddings. I fear we have not
fully fully grappled what this means. We are almost certainly
going to get a video of Trump Elon Musk or
both of them dancing the country grammar. I don't know
if this nation is strong enough to handle that. I'd
rather see them if they are going to dance a
somen I'd rather have it be right with me, not

(34:31):
I like country grammar more. But that's like, that's not
like a dancing song. It's just like a song you
listen to.

Speaker 1 (34:38):
Their dancing is horrible either way. That's all I have
to say. So, Uh, Carrie Underwood, I know a lot
of people were definitely giving her a lot of flack.

Speaker 3 (34:49):
Again, I didn't even assume that she I thought she
was just a regular Republican.

Speaker 1 (34:55):
I didn't even know she was a singer. I thought
she rapped or whatever. Do you know who that is
Mariah Carey talking about Nicki Minaj. Anyways, Uh, I don't
know what she is, but I know that she loves
her country, she said, So I guess that'll tell you

(35:18):
what you need to know, right, But a lot of
people were very upset, and I mean, again, I don't know.
I mean, what would you do? That's quite the conundrum,
right because a lot of I mean, come on, let's
not front. It is an honor to be asked to
perform with anything that has to do presidential, right, I

(35:41):
mean for me, it would be an honor.

Speaker 2 (35:43):
Right.

Speaker 1 (35:43):
So now the conundrum is that it's with this guy
that's the issue. So it's going to be a highlight
of your career, right, but morally.

Speaker 3 (35:55):
That's a thing I have to disagree with that because
what the reason why I say that is outside of
Obama's inauguration, what inauguration have we looked at and we've
been like, man, that performance was amazing.

Speaker 1 (36:09):
No, I yeah, but that's not the point. It's the
point is is that it's any.

Speaker 2 (36:14):
Role.

Speaker 1 (36:15):
Okay, I don't I'm not saying it's the president. I'm
saying it's just the fact.

Speaker 3 (36:21):
So I'm not even necessarily I'm just using so right now,
you said that just to even be asked as like
an honor, right, I think it's a highlight of that
person's Yeah. And I'm just saying out of the any
former president, besides Obama's inauguration, what inauguration have we looked
at and said, oh wow, like I remember that artist

(36:42):
performing there?

Speaker 1 (36:43):
None? And that's that's not the point. Oh okay, that's
your point, But that's not my point. That point is
like even if okay, let's say there's no inauguration, even
if I was just hey, we would like to invite
you to the White House to meet the president any president. Wow.

Speaker 3 (36:59):
That's okay. Yeah, that itself is a big good I mean,
but the part. You did say right now that that's
a highlight of any artist's career.

Speaker 1 (37:06):
And I'm asking anything to do with anything that's presidential.
That's what I'm saying, anything to do Is it a.

Speaker 3 (37:14):
Highlight if no one remembers.

Speaker 1 (37:16):
It, well, you remember it, but only Obama? So yeah,
it would be a highlight for me.

Speaker 3 (37:22):
Only Obama's inauguration. Is why I'm saying that most of
us remember. I don't remember who performed that Bush's inauguration.
I don't remember who performed that Clans inauguration. I don't
remember who performed at Reagan's inauguration. Do you I'm asking you,
do you remember? And if you don't, then obviously it
wasn't that like important moment.

Speaker 1 (37:39):
Definitely disagree, like one million persons.

Speaker 3 (37:42):
Okay, so then who give an example besides Obama? Is
inauguration of an artist that performed at a previous president's
inauguration that you remember and it was like, this is
a big deal. I'm just asking for these one examples.

Speaker 1 (37:52):
No, I'm not talking about the performance. I'm saying to
be invited in general to any presidential anything that would
be an honor.

Speaker 3 (38:03):
You wouldn't think so it would be an honor, but
that's different than what we're regardless tho.

Speaker 1 (38:10):
Yeah, anyways, so I don't know. Moving on, so but
speaking of inauguration, Trump is going to be inaugurated on Monday.
How ironic MLK Day? Right, And so if I don't know,
did you see did you have any glimpse of Biden's

(38:31):
farewell address?

Speaker 3 (38:32):
No? And I didn't even know what happened.

Speaker 1 (38:34):
So, yeah, he had his farewell address I think a
couple of days ago, and he mentioned that America oligarchy.
America is being taken over by an oligarchy, and that
it's going to be harder for the average American to
get by or to get ahead in life because now

(38:55):
we're being controlled, which we've already been, We're I think
he's really putting it out there. He's like, I have
I'm done already. So I'm just gonna tell you guys
the truth now, even though we've already known this, right,
But he's like, you know, yeah, we're being controlled by
the super rich. The super rich are getting very close

(39:18):
to Trump and vice versa. Hello, Elon Musk, Mark Zuckerberg
and what's the other one, Bezos. I believe they donated
to help get Trump elected. Obviously they're all billionaires, right,
they're part of that oligarchy. So you know, it's nice
to hear that because the truth is out there, and

(39:39):
you know, people will do with that what they will. Ye,
but it's it's very scary and ominous. And I was
thinking about like, how you said, do you think I
think you said this last No, I know you said
it last episode, but you said something like, is this
like the beginning of the end?

Speaker 2 (39:57):
Right?

Speaker 1 (39:58):
The fires?

Speaker 3 (39:59):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (40:00):
And so, which I heard on the radio somebody said
that with all remember those drones, Oh yeah, those drones
may have started the fires, which that's very conspiratorial. However,
I wouldn't like it is something to consider because shit's
fucked up everywhere. I don't know. I don't put nothing

(40:22):
past nobody these days in twenty twenty five, yep, but
you know, I don't know. I'm starting to think this
may be this very well, may you know, we may
be getting close to the end, because I just feel like,

(40:43):
I don't know, how how can we? I just feel
like America's had a good run, you know. Oh, okay,
we have a special guest. Are there two of them?
Or is there just one?

Speaker 2 (40:58):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (40:58):
Oh, but you said America.

Speaker 1 (41:01):
Hasn't what has had a good run, you know, And
many people have said that this is pretty much just
an experience the concept of America. Yes, it is just
an experience and where it meant yes, and we're lucky
that it's lasted even this long. And you know, I

(41:25):
don't know, I mean.

Speaker 3 (41:26):
Yeah, I mean technically, I don't know, not that long.
But I get I get the I get the statement.

Speaker 1 (41:36):
And what is that movie with Will Smith? I can
told legend? Yes, okay, so that's just how things are
going to end.

Speaker 3 (41:43):
That would frustrate me, and that would annoy me a
lot if any of us had to live in a
Book of Eli or Iron legend situation. Yeah, especially when
you have the dog, right and the zombies are going
after the dog and they end up killing the dog.
You end up having to put down the dog because
he's infected. I wouldn't want to live in a situation

(42:04):
like that. And I see if if I, if it
were to go down with that, I'd see myself as like,
oh shit, like me having a surprise shit, yeah shit,
just walk outside one day and everything's brown. Oh shit, is.

Speaker 1 (42:18):
That because of the pollution?

Speaker 3 (42:19):
No, it's just I think that's like the filter on
those types of everywhere.

Speaker 1 (42:23):
Oh okay, dust, cirta and dust. Yeah. So and somebody,
somebody did predict that America would collapse in I think
twenty thirty two, so, I mean, we're not that far
away from it. Maybe it'll just speed up, it'll be
I don't want to give a year because then it
may happen. So but I don't know. Just b Donald Trump,

(42:47):
will you know? And I don't know how it's gonna
be on Monday either. I mean, I don't know things are.

Speaker 3 (42:55):
I think things are drastically, drastically gonna change.

Speaker 1 (42:58):
I think things are gonna get worse, to be chaotic,
and I really don't I don't know. I don't see
any good coming from this. But there is somebody who
is very excited, and you know what this is. Actually
we're getting to witness this person's excitement also. So let

(43:20):
me go ahead and just share that with our audience. Now,
hold on, I'm so sorry you guys. I can't find.

Speaker 4 (43:31):
It way no no, it meant to be, it'll be no, no, no.

Speaker 1 (43:37):
So I'm gonna show you the video when we're done,
when we're off air.

Speaker 3 (43:44):
But our listeners is gonna have to imagine what payed.

Speaker 1 (43:50):
So let me just here, let me just play it.
And here we go turning for me and say that
I'm on racist. I mean, they can't give you're trying
to take away my right.

Speaker 3 (44:10):
And go and say this' that's.

Speaker 1 (44:19):
You already know about it.

Speaker 3 (44:21):
Honestly, I've never heard heard.

Speaker 1 (44:29):
There.

Speaker 3 (44:29):
It sounded it sounded like Roseanne.

Speaker 1 (44:31):
What the hell, Isaiah, I honestly haven't heard that and
that So Eric Carton, I'm like, I said, I'm gonna
show you after. But it is Roseanne and it is
called I Believe Daddy's Home. So this is her pro Trump.

Speaker 2 (44:53):
You know, I.

Speaker 1 (44:56):
Love that song, by the way, So this is one
thing that I don't understand. So when you look at
the video, you're gonna be like, Okay, w tf, right,
But it's the impersonation of black culture. So she's got

(45:17):
the long braids, and.

Speaker 3 (45:22):
That's what I don't understand.

Speaker 1 (45:25):
Yeah, that's so.

Speaker 3 (45:27):
I think she's on medication. I'm not even trying to
make a joke. But when she had got in trouble
for the racist stuff, right, I think she had blamed
it on her medication.

Speaker 1 (45:33):
How she said that that one woman looked like a monkey,
which never mind, Oh.

Speaker 3 (45:38):
Okay, everyone has their opinion, right, Well, is.

Speaker 1 (45:45):
That woman black?

Speaker 3 (45:46):
Though I thought she was Julis, I honestly don't know that.
I remember, I remember hearing her said, but I don't
honestly know the woman in question. Like, if you're what
she looks like, I wouldn't be able to say.

Speaker 1 (45:57):
I think she's I think she's in paul Tics.

Speaker 3 (46:00):
There's some sort of there's some sort of like shade
of color on her skin.

Speaker 1 (46:06):
She's like olive toned. That's what I'm saying. I think
I don't think she's a black woman. I think she's
a Jewish woman. But that's all I'm gonna say. Anyways,
the video is horrendous, and they see I'm stuttering. I

(46:27):
don't know what to say about it. Wasn't assuming Oh my,
that's what I was like. I wonder what he thinks,
Like he's probably like, oh my god, I kissed this woman.
Poor guy his house burned down in the fire. I
had to kiss this woman in on on TV. What
am I saying? Why? Why did I even say that?

(46:47):
I don't know? That was so dumb, excellent, that was stupid.

Speaker 3 (46:51):
No, I think maybe that's one of the people that
was dumb.

Speaker 1 (46:54):
Yeah, John Goodman, I hate me. He also played Britney
Spears's father in Crossroad.

Speaker 3 (47:00):
Wow, okay, so I believe wait for some high profile roles.

Speaker 1 (47:05):
Hold on, wait wait wait, I don't want to get
this wrong. Anyways, TikTok is being banned.

Speaker 3 (47:12):
So as a person, half of this podcast has a
TikTok and another half doesn't you care.

Speaker 1 (47:17):
You have one?

Speaker 3 (47:18):
No?

Speaker 1 (47:19):
Oh no, I don't have a TikTok. No, I do
not have a TikTok.

Speaker 3 (47:23):
This podcast has a TikTok.

Speaker 1 (47:25):
Hold on John Goodman, I don't think he was in Crossroads.
Please exa out it was another.

Speaker 3 (47:35):
Who what what actor did play?

Speaker 1 (47:37):
I don't remember, but I thought it was John Goodman.
Oh I don't think it was him, but get that
out please k because now I'm very embarrassed.

Speaker 3 (47:48):
The entire credibility of this podcast relies on that statement.

Speaker 1 (47:52):
Right, I thought it was him. Oh wait, maybe it
doesn't matter. So anyways, so I'm sorry. What was the question?
Oh TikTok? Yeah, so I the question that you asked. Yes,
So I think it's being banned. On Sunday, I think
I could be wrong.

Speaker 3 (48:10):
That if you don't have the app, it just can
be taken off app storts and you probably won't be
okay have the app. You'll still be able to keep it,
just no further updates are going to be given to it,
So essentially it's just gonna become Wow, I said, useless.
But if certain apps where you can just keep without
having update on something not, that'sesssily true.

Speaker 1 (48:29):
So if I'm not mistaken, because I haven't really done
my research, my due diligence on this, I thought that
I saw something where what's his name, Joe Biden said
that he was going to block that so that way
it couldn't be banned. But then I read something right

(48:51):
now that it says that TikTok is going to go
dark on Sunday.

Speaker 3 (48:56):
Okay, So I thought, so it's it's I and to.

Speaker 1 (49:01):
Me, going dark means that it's going to be banned. Right,
it's not gonna work anymore. But then I saw something
that says that Donald Trump, and I don't know if
it was the President of China Jing Jungpin, that they
had like or him or somebody had a good talk
from China in regards to TikTok. So I don't know

(49:23):
what that means, but if I'm not mistaken, I believe
Donald Trump is against it because it is China. Yes,
and there's been some evidence out there that says that
they're using it to spy on Americans, which I mean, hello,

(49:44):
no shit, right.

Speaker 3 (49:47):
Right right or rightily yes?

Speaker 1 (49:51):
So now I'm I'm all in favor for exing it
out only because that's just one more social media platform.
It's like, do we really need all of these? However,
some would argue and say, well, we do need it
because there's a ton of creators. There's content creators who
make money, who make a living off of their content,

(50:14):
or they have small businesses, correct, so, which I completely
understand from that standpoint. I guess me it's just because
I don't have TikTok and because I just see it
as another social media platform that is causing us to

(50:37):
be on our phones more. That's why I'm like, we
don't need it. But I'm also not a content creator
and I don't rely on TikTok, So what do I know? Yeah,
so all in favor say ah yeah, ya ya yai.

Speaker 3 (50:51):
Pretty much same way. I did feel bad A lot
of people get like a lot of the entertainment.

Speaker 1 (50:57):
And yeah, I was going to say a lot of
I hear a lot of people saying, oh I get
all my news from TikTok.

Speaker 3 (51:02):
Yeah, a lot of people. Yes, yes, a lot of
it would be like taking something like big away from
your lives. Feel bad in that aspect, I mean personally,
Like I said, I don't have it TikTok, So I'm
not going to sleep over that it is. It's gonna
be interesting to see kind of where what things turn into.
Maybe they might talk tic toc tic where they just

(51:23):
reverse it's the same exact you play the videos in reverse. Yeah, okay,
yes I'm alive. Subliminal messages.

Speaker 2 (51:36):
Boots.

Speaker 1 (51:37):
Oh my god, that is actually hilarious. And speaking of
not losing sleepover, we'll just think of all the sleep
that people are gonna gain. They're gonna get all this
sleep back instead of looking at yes, I'm alive at
night time. Right, So just move on to a different app. Definitely, definitely,

(51:58):
Yes the book instant yep, talk yep yep. So but
you know, I don't feel one way or another about it.
All I know is I'm sure we are being spied on.
Oh okay, well, speaking of yep, before we were interrupted
about someone's glass breaking. Yeah, so shout out to TikTok

(52:21):
I get shout out.

Speaker 3 (52:23):
We're going to miss out on certain.

Speaker 1 (52:27):
The Okay, it was the worst kisser of the women
that you've kissed working with.

Speaker 3 (52:34):
Remember Sigourney, Sigourney very good and that was the most
overlated actor back in the eighties and nineties. You can't
say yourself as an actor and an actor?

Speaker 1 (52:51):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (52:53):
Probably? Okay, interesting favorite and least favorite Jennifer Lopez song.
Oh man, I really don't know any of them named Jong.

Speaker 1 (53:15):
The way he's been to my show, Jennifer, what wait,
didn't use your dad?

Speaker 3 (53:21):
And one of the interview that you were proposed to
five times in your life really named someone who you
turned down.

Speaker 1 (53:32):
Drake?

Speaker 4 (53:32):
Right, Oh, okay, he knows the pop culture I was
one Drake really didn't Drake, Yes, I was completely unaware
of the.

Speaker 3 (53:44):
Actually, well, you know, I'm not surprised they know each other.

Speaker 1 (53:46):
Actually really, I'm surprised. So, first of all, that episode
has to be almost ten years old, number one, because
Jlo definitely looks like she's been freshened depth since then,
which is great because she looks you know, one hundred out.

Speaker 3 (54:01):
Of ten, right sink twenty fourteen a little stale or what.

Speaker 1 (54:04):
No, I'm just saying she's older now and for being
older than obviously than what she was there, she looks great.
Like she looks a lot fresher now than back then.
I'm not saying she looks stale. I'm just saying she
looks like she looks fantastic. Anyways, Yeah, Raleota gives zero fucks.

Speaker 3 (54:28):
Oh he's yeah, that's I. As I was watching video,
I'm like, oh, yeah, that's right, he passed away.

Speaker 1 (54:33):
I completely okay, that's before the screams and before the
glass the glass glass ceiling break. So I don't I
don't even know. Rayleiota shout out, yeah, I didn't realize
it's actually going on three years. How did he die?

Speaker 3 (54:52):
Was it a heart attacker?

Speaker 4 (54:54):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (54:55):
What did Raliota? Okay, respiratory failure, pulmonary edema, and heart failure.

Speaker 4 (55:00):
Here you go.

Speaker 1 (55:01):
Wow, with ather all sclerosis cited as an underlying issue, do.

Speaker 3 (55:05):
You think you would have been able to treat him?
Not obviously his ailment, but like let's say he was
just in a facility. Do you think you would have
been able to specifically with the quality as it states
in your job description, as you're sworn.

Speaker 1 (55:20):
Into the hold on can I just so I wanted
to bring this up speaking of patient care. I wanted
to bring this up because last night I was like, oh,
hell to the No, I am not becoming a nurse.
I mean I am, but last night I got scared
and then I just knocked out. But I was reading
a story or of freaking TikTok on instagramaktok on Instagram.

Speaker 3 (55:48):
With Google glasses on?

Speaker 1 (55:50):
Yes, are there really Google glasses?

Speaker 3 (55:53):
There's the Google Glass and then there's a Snapchat like glasses.

Speaker 4 (55:56):
Wait, Snapchat literally are snaptack glass is where you can
like just take us have a Snapchat three like without
even having to have your phone.

Speaker 3 (56:04):
And there's the Google Glass, which is like slightly different
but near by Google so better.

Speaker 1 (56:10):
Okay, so googlely or you Googlely remember from Zoolander.

Speaker 3 (56:17):
I was thinking of Google's from.

Speaker 1 (56:22):
Yes Google Okay, No, this is what scared me last night. So,
and this story is from a p r N beauty
shout out. She's a content creator slash nurse.

Speaker 3 (56:38):
That's your first name is p r N.

Speaker 2 (56:41):
Yeah, you are as.

Speaker 1 (56:44):
Yes, yes, So there's a nurse in Ohio who currently
is facing oh my, who is being charged Okay, so yeah,
I know, let's try again, alrighty, So coming from Ohio,
there is a nurse right now who is facing one

(57:06):
count of involuntary manslaughter, which is a third degree felony,
and two first degree misdemeanors for allegedly one of her parents.
One of her patients died okay, as a result of hypothermia.
So this was in a facility, right, So somehow the

(57:29):
patient ended up loose, okay, And if I'm not mistaken,
the it wasn't communicated or it wasn't communicated well enough
to other staff that this patient took off from the facility.
I don't know if this was a demented patient, so
they had dementia. I don't know what happened. This was

(57:49):
an eighty four year old woman and she went missing
from this rehab center. And so when they finally found her,
which was on the freaking patio of the facility, which
was I think the next obviously the next day, she
was cold to the touch, so she had already been
dead for some time. So quote, according to the complaint,

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Henderson notice Henderson being the nurse. Henderson noticed Mitui Mooti,
the name of the patient, was missing at nine twenty
seven pm on December twenty third, but didn't tell staff
until six am on Christmas Eve, souch so one day later,
right the morning after. And so anyways, now I don't

(58:35):
and so I guess what happened was like, I don't
know what the nurse said. I don't know if the
nurse said like, oh well, I didn't know what to
do or what. But I guess they went back and
you know how we have those in service hours. They
went back and found her in service documentation and they
were like, well, we see that you know what to

(58:57):
do when something like this happens, because you on the
in service form saying that if this happens, you know
what to do as the nurse. And so anyways, I'm
assuming they took away her license and I think she's
still in jail. I could be wrong, but I'm just like, oh,
how oh okay. So the thing is is that she's

(59:19):
a new nurse and she said she didn't know what
to do. According to this statement right here on the video,
she didn't know what to do. I have heard about
this happening at a place that shall rename nameless. But
that patient was found walking towards Sunnyside, like in the

(59:40):
middle of the night or in the morning or whatever,
and luckily they brought the patient back. But this can happen.
This happens, It can happen often, especially if you don't
have enough staffing. I remember one time, Oh my god,
this patient that we had. Bless her heart if she's

(01:00:01):
still alive. But this poor woman, I mean talk about
like confusion times a million, mixed with being physically aggressive.
But you could tell like she she just she didn't
know anyways, the amount of times that she tried to
escape through that freaking door in the facility and one

(01:00:25):
time she made it out just past the outside of
the door. But what I'm saying is is that this
stuff can happen, and if you don't have enough staff,
then it's easy for the patient to literally just slip away.
And it sucks because you can't. I mean, if you
have a ton of other patients to care for, and

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if you don't have enough staff to physically be right
there with someone who's high risk of eloping, that it's
like what can you do? But in this case, it's
like why wouldn't you tell some like why are you
barely telling?

Speaker 3 (01:00:59):
Yeah, it's almost like not like yeah, like what it's really.

Speaker 1 (01:01:02):
And because you're a new nurse. Okay, I'm not even
a nurse, but I know thatiately yeah, or at least
tell my coworker like, hey, this person went, you know
what I mean. So anyways, it just scared me because
I'm like, holy shit, like holy shit, like but holy shit, yes,

(01:01:26):
you really are responsible. You are legally responsible for your patients. Yeah,
and it sucks because just like in just in the hospital,
there's more people who are on the team right caring
for the patient, versus in a facility it's just a

(01:01:48):
few of you. But it sucks because no matter what,
it's always gonna be the nurse who's primarily legally responsible
for that patient, even though there's a whole team that
are caring for the patient, right, it always comes back
to the nurse. But in this case, it's like yeah, really,
like I don't understand anyways, So at least her bond

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is at twenty five hundred, so I mean I'm sure
she could afford that, right, Yeah, So but that, yeah,
that sucks. That sucks for all of the above. But
speaking of can I just give a shout out to
myself for yesterday. So I'm not gonna explain the situation
per hippa, but I did do my first compressions, real

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life compressions, and.

Speaker 2 (01:02:40):
It was.

Speaker 1 (01:02:42):
A Code blue. And that's as far as I'll say
with that with the situation, but I will send this morning.
As I was getting ready, I was like, Wow, it
feels it's not traumatic, Like I don't feel traumatized. And
I'm sure for some it can be traumatic, but it
feels very surreal doing that. It feels very I'm not

(01:03:07):
even gonna say out of body. It just feels very surreal,
Like it's weird, not disturbing, it's just a weird feeling
to do CPR on somebody and it's just weird.

Speaker 3 (01:03:25):
Yeah, it's very weird.

Speaker 1 (01:03:27):
I Yeah, I guess that. Yeah, maybe that's what it is.
And I don't know if this is good or bad,
But like I said yesterday, I felt like you feel
I feel useful, as in, I'm finally getting to use

(01:03:49):
the skills that I've been taught, Like Okay, I'm like
I really feel like okay, I'm really like in the
nursing world now, like I'm not a nurse, but I'm
really like I'm in the thick of it, you know
what I mean. And to do CPR on somebody, I

(01:04:10):
don't know, it just feels like you're you're actually doing
something for literally, you are doing something for another human being, right, yes,
And so it's just it's I don't know how to
describe it. It's an indescribable feeling. So and like how
I said yesterday, you're not thinking, oh, is this person

(01:04:32):
a Democrat or a Republican because.

Speaker 3 (01:04:34):
You would have been less likely to perform CPR if
they were a Republican. That's right, But.

Speaker 1 (01:04:41):
That's what is what is it like very That's something
about nursing that if your heart is in the right spot,
and if you really care about people and at least
just care about their outcomes and you want them to
be better, you're not looking at them as like, oh

(01:05:02):
are they this or that?

Speaker 2 (01:05:03):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:05:04):
Or are they rich? Are they poor? Are they homeless?
Are they not? You're just thinking, Okay, this is a
person who needs help. I can hopefully help them, and
I'm gonna do my best. And that's all that you can.

Speaker 3 (01:05:15):
Yeah, back to like giving care to the patient and
ask them like, hey, like did you earn that?

Speaker 1 (01:05:25):
Have you earned your medication?

Speaker 3 (01:05:29):
Have you earned your rehab for today? If not?

Speaker 1 (01:05:32):
Have you earned that torridol injection? Have you earned that
saline mag When.

Speaker 3 (01:05:37):
There's like a very high stress situation, going like, hey,
like have you earned that today? You have earn that?

Speaker 1 (01:05:46):
Oh my goodness? But is it kind of sad that,
like I feel like my purpose oh my god, emotional?
I blame it on the freaking hormone. Man, it is
not It is not me. Okay, it's the hormones that
have officially taken over. Okay, I hate it, but it

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is what it is. But is it sad that, like
I feel like my purpose.

Speaker 3 (01:06:17):
Is to performed CPR.

Speaker 1 (01:06:19):
On two, is to like be of be of some
sort of assistance to other people?

Speaker 3 (01:06:25):
Is that sad?

Speaker 1 (01:06:26):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:06:27):
Like that's where I would Where were the sadness come from?

Speaker 2 (01:06:29):
From?

Speaker 1 (01:06:30):
That? Because I feel like I prior to, prior to
being a mom, I had like no purpose in life, right,
I had like no like no nothing, like no sense
of nothing. And now that I'm a mom, obviously Olivia
is my purpose and being a mom is my purpose

(01:06:52):
and some would say, oh, well, that's not good because
that means you're you only live for your kid, which
I don't think is true because I live for other
things as well. I just think that that's what gave
me a sense of purpose, and now with nursing and
being able to help and take care of others, that
gives me a sense of purpose in life.

Speaker 3 (01:07:13):
Purpose squared like double the purpose.

Speaker 1 (01:07:17):
Yeah, double the purpose.

Speaker 3 (01:07:22):
You're not wrong for thinking like that and not to
even bring it like to you to me. But would
that make me useless since I don't have a kid.

Speaker 1 (01:07:33):
No, because everybody has their own purpose in life. There's
plenty of people who are child free who have found
purposes in other ways throughout and other realms like maybe kid.

Speaker 3 (01:07:49):
Exactly.

Speaker 1 (01:07:50):
Yes, yes, I'm sorry, excuse me, so, No, you know,
we all we all have our own journeys and we
all have our own things that make us whole, and
some of us and some of us maybe are not
whole yet. But when you're going through your journey, you'll
find or maybe you won't, you know, I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:08:13):
Know, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:08:16):
Maybe the next hundred episodes, I'll have a kid, and
who knows that would be one hundred weeks from now,
i'd be for sure like one and a half almost two.

Speaker 1 (01:08:24):
Years, So maybe there will be a kid in there somewhere.
But uh, I implore those who are listening to learn
CPR because it is literally a life saving skills. It's
a It is a tremendous skill to have, and you

(01:08:46):
never know when you're gonna use it. You never know
when you're gonna need it.

Speaker 3 (01:08:50):
If a situation like the look of Iron Legend ever happens,
the people that know CPR and like basic life the
robots not only are they doing on the road, but
they're probably least likely to get killed because they're value,
they have some sort of value.

Speaker 1 (01:09:05):
They're sure, I have my skill set, yes, yes, don't.

Speaker 3 (01:09:08):
Kill I can perform compressions.

Speaker 1 (01:09:11):
Now what I am nervous to do is to do
the thirty to two, do the breaths, because so that
because there's more that you have to do, you have
to lift the head back right and then you have
to do that, Versus when you're doing the compressions in
an emergency, you have respiratory bagging and they're doing the

(01:09:34):
airway stuff right, we're just pumping. Now, I'm like, you
have to remember. Okay, do the two breasts, Okay, then
start do the thirty. That is where I'm like, I'm
a little nervous, but I do feel confident now. This
gave me a huge stroke of confidence now because now
I'm like, Okay, I did my CPR. I was in

(01:09:56):
the in the red zone. You know I can handle Yes,
I can handle this kind of stuff now. And now
I'm like, Okay, I know what to look out for
versus before I was so scared.

Speaker 3 (01:10:10):
But now I'm like, you were doing compression on their thigh.

Speaker 1 (01:10:15):
Okay, yes, So did I tell you that they were
holding up my leg while you're doing compression like a keg?

Speaker 2 (01:10:24):
I was.

Speaker 3 (01:10:26):
I was on a freaking stool and the leg on
the stool and then the other leg when someone was
holding up the other leg.

Speaker 1 (01:10:35):
Well, both legs were on the stool, but the three
was like being held like that. Yeah. And I don't
want to say too much more because I don't know
if this is breaking hippa, even though I'm not giving names.
But you never know.

Speaker 3 (01:10:49):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:10:50):
It seems like you know, people are quick to fire
staff nowadays for any reason.

Speaker 3 (01:10:58):
So but okay, but yeah, speaking of staff, well, no,
you don't. Actually you gave some real good insight on
just the entry to healthcare, just the entry to healthcare facilities.
Wendy Williams, Yeah, she was on the Breakfast Club. Did
you happen to see I'm sorry, no, I honestly, I'm
excited that you brought this. I barely found out today

(01:11:19):
that she was on the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 2 (01:11:20):
So so.

Speaker 1 (01:11:22):
Two nights ago, I believe is when the Breakfast Club
announced that they were going to have her on in
the morning, which was yesterday morning. So I didn't I
only heard some of it, and I was actually in
the middle of listening to her interview with Don Lemon
because she did an interview with him. The NET that

(01:11:44):
the same dame she was. He was second in line
after Charlota Mayne. No pun intended on that train.

Speaker 3 (01:11:51):
So and then third was Envy, and four was Angela.

Speaker 1 (01:11:57):
No isn't actually just hilarious she's on. She replaced Angelie.
Angelie has her had stitch.

Speaker 3 (01:12:05):
Something she's had that before the Breakfast CLU.

Speaker 1 (01:12:09):
I think you're you're right, actually, so shout out, uh Angela.
I was just gonna say just to all of them. Now,
some would say that what they're very problematic or what,
I don't even care of them? Yes, so who cares?
So back to Wendy Williams. So, so you know how

(01:12:30):
everyone's like, oh, she's demented or uh sorry, when I
say demented, I mean has dementia.

Speaker 3 (01:12:37):
That's no, I know, like villain.

Speaker 1 (01:12:44):
That's a term that we would use at the facility,
demented and it sounds jacked up, right, but it just
means high level of dementia. So we'll just go with
she's very forgetful and is not her right say to mine.
But when you hear her talk. When I heard her
talking on the Breakfast Club, those little snippets, she does

(01:13:08):
not have dementia, no freaking way. I have worked with
many dementia patients.

Speaker 2 (01:13:16):
She was not.

Speaker 1 (01:13:19):
And okay, so I heard her a little bit on
the Breakfast Club. I heard her more on Don Lemon,
and I'm just like, they're doing this lady so dirty,
not the Breakfast Club, not Don Lemon, her people. So
they're doing her the way that they did Britney Spears. Yes,

(01:13:43):
the same thing. Now, what I will say is that
sure she sounds maybe like a little anxious. She kept saying,
you know, what I'm saying, you know what I'm saying,
like after every sentence. But to me, she sounds more anxious,
and she's probably anxious to tell her story because she can't.
She cannot tell her story. So but other than that

(01:14:07):
and what, Okay, maybe she was like rambling a little bit,
but I feel like she always like she she sounds,
she does not sound the way that she's being portrayed whatsoever.
And so she says, I don't want to tell it wrong,
but if I'm not mistaken, don Lemon said that she okay,

(01:14:31):
So remember in twenty twenty when she was like, I
don't know if you remember, but she said, I'm living
in a sob a sober house. So this is when
she still had her show. Well, I think she had
to agree to go to that sober house, like her
husband wanted her to go, but she said she did
not have a problem with alcohol. So I guess she

(01:14:54):
came out and then she served him or someone served
him the divorce papers. And then it sounds like after
that is when like everything went wrong in her life.
I don't know how to explain what you're saying. And
so anyways, so she's under this conservatorship, conservatorship, she has

(01:15:17):
a legal guardian, which some woman. I don't know who
it is, but she has a legal guardianship obviously that
was appointed by the court, and it's supposed to be
in her best interest, right, because she has dementia caused
by alcoholism, right, And so my thing is okay. So
let's say that all this is true. Why isn't she

(01:15:38):
allowed to be with her family. She's in a facility.
She said with Don Lemon, which was just a couple
of days ago, that she's in a facility with like
legit old people right who who need to be there?
And so she said, if she wants to go have lunch,

(01:15:58):
she has to make sure that it's okay. First, someone
has to go with her. She like, what does she say?
She says, I just want to go to Sephora and
go buy makeup, go pick it out myself. She can't
even do that. Someone has to go get it for her.

Speaker 3 (01:16:13):
So they placed her in this facility against her will.

Speaker 1 (01:16:16):
See, that's where like I'm kind of confused with and
I don't wanna like say anything that's not true, but
that's what it sounds like to me. And it's because
she has this conservatorship, So.

Speaker 3 (01:16:32):
Why does she even have a conservative ship.

Speaker 1 (01:16:34):
In the first because whomever have deemed her incompetent. So,
if I'm not mistaken, I was it like her production team.

Speaker 3 (01:16:48):
I don't.

Speaker 1 (01:16:50):
I don't know, well, because they're saying that she's not
of sound mine. I know, I know, I get what
you're saying, right, right, so it sounds okay. So remember
she's divorced, right, So I don't know. I don't think
it would be her husband because if they're divorced, how
could he make these decisions? Right? So see that That's

(01:17:11):
where I'm like, I don't know. But obviously, like enough
people have deemed her what like a danger to herself
I guess to where, and maybe somehow she agreed with it.
I don't know that she's saying that this guardian, this
legal guardian of hers is doing this because she wants

(01:17:32):
her money. And the family set up a freaking GoFundMe
for Wendy Williams because she's Wendy Williams is saying I
only have like four dollars to my name or fifteen dollars.
She's saying she has nothing, she has nothing, and she
said all she is pretty much able to do is
be in this facility. And she said her food is

(01:17:54):
brought to her and she's just in the bed watching
TV and she's like, I don't belong here, and I
think Don Lemon asked her, do you think you're incompetent
or something like that, and she said, hell fucking no.
And so that's how, you know, like she's not how
they're saying.

Speaker 3 (01:18:12):
That she is, you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (01:18:14):
Yeah, And what's so messed up is that I guess
her dad's ninety fourth birthdays around the corner, and she
was like, I don't even know if they're gonna let
me go spending with him. And that's what I'm like, Okay,
why I don't get why she can't be around her family, Like,
that's what I don't understand. And she said, both times
with Don Lemon and with Charlemagne or the Breakfast club,

(01:18:36):
I feel like I'm in a prison, like I can't
do anything. I'm just inside looking at the walls, and
I'm like, I don't I just don't get it. Okay,
there's plenty of people who have issues like this, but
they're allowed to be with their loved ones. They're allowed
to live at home. So, but I feel so bad
for her.

Speaker 2 (01:18:55):
Now.

Speaker 1 (01:18:55):
Some would say, well, this is her karma for talking
shit all these years, Okay, but I mean this is
fucked up.

Speaker 3 (01:19:04):
Yeah yeah, And it's.

Speaker 1 (01:19:05):
Not that she's she's not like an old decrepit woman,
even if she were would be jacked up. But this
is somebody who she sounds like she's I don't know
if finds the right word, but she definitely sounds competent.
And it's messed up. Because yeah, but anyways, what I mean,

(01:19:26):
what did did you know?

Speaker 3 (01:19:27):
Literally all I saw was everything. All I saw was
the post that they're interviewing her that I've seen it,
like a snippet or exerpt that said that Dady's going
to Joe for life, Oh, prison for life.

Speaker 1 (01:19:38):
I think she commented, yeah, on and see if she
had dementia, how could she remember that?

Speaker 3 (01:19:44):
Yeah, that's actually a good point.

Speaker 1 (01:19:45):
How could she remember that?

Speaker 3 (01:19:46):
You should maybe be like her spokesperson on her behalf.

Speaker 2 (01:19:49):
Well.

Speaker 1 (01:19:49):
She does have her niece, who I think is an
anchor in Florida. Her name's Alex Finney, I believe, and
she's like really vouching for her, you know, as she
should because her niece, that's her aunt. But I'm just
like mad. And you know what, they do this ship
to women.

Speaker 3 (01:20:06):
They do it to everybody, but it seems like, yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:20:10):
It mostly to women. They want to make women seem
like they're crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:20:14):
I think they just do it to high profile celebrities.
They do it to they do it to both men them.
But I get what you're saying.

Speaker 1 (01:20:20):
Yeah, anyways, but you know what, Yeah, free Wendy Williams.
And it's like even like I don't know, I just
don't understand why she can't physically be with her family.
That's what's messed up. And why does she only have
a certain amount of money.

Speaker 3 (01:20:38):
You know, it's her.

Speaker 1 (01:20:39):
It's not like she's no, it's not like she's like
something like she can't handle it. Yeah, anyways, shout out
to Wendy Williams.

Speaker 3 (01:20:53):
Was your confession?

Speaker 2 (01:20:55):
That was?

Speaker 1 (01:20:57):
Yes, that I miss watching Wendy Williams.

Speaker 3 (01:21:00):
On Fox Okay now streaming live on.

Speaker 1 (01:21:05):
So there's actually a channel by Dylan. All the letters
are spaced out on YouTube d I L O N.
And he has a ton of old videos from the
Wendy Williams shown. They are hilarious archived. Yes, and I
do watch those. Oh, shout out to Lussio's massacre, the Terror,

(01:21:27):
So that's one who I am obsessed with. I totally
forgot Lussi's massacre and the Trace Evidence podcast.

Speaker 3 (01:21:36):
The Trace Evidence Massacre.

Speaker 1 (01:21:37):
Yes, Lush's podcast hilarious, so freaking good. Yes, shout out.
Shout out to even Olivia too, she knows all about it,
so shout.

Speaker 3 (01:21:50):
Out two hours, not about an hour and probably.

Speaker 1 (01:21:59):
I feel like I have been talking for two hours.

Speaker 3 (01:22:01):
I mean that's not too far off from too. Yeah.
So happy three hundred episode everyone, Thank.

Speaker 1 (01:22:08):
You happy and we finished at eight o'clock.

Speaker 2 (01:22:10):
Yes, excuse me?

Speaker 1 (01:22:14):
Okay, cool but yeah, okay, popping.

Speaker 3 (01:22:18):
Thanks little big ship popping, little ship stop?

Speaker 2 (01:22:22):
Is that t I?

Speaker 1 (01:22:23):
Yes, okay, that's what I versus I p.

Speaker 3 (01:22:28):
Okay, where's my snare? Maybe Clifford Harris you might see him.

Speaker 1 (01:22:33):
We might see him this yerarious event may.

Speaker 3 (01:22:37):
Next south by Southwest. Yes, we will see you, guys seen. Everybody,
Stay safe, get your money, I have where's my snare?

(01:22:59):
I have no snare in my headphone? Where is my
snare