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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 1 (01:04):
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you love me?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
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Speaker 3 (01:16):
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Speaker 1 (01:19):
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Speaker 2 (01:25):
Today is Friday, March twenty first, twenty twenty five, six
fifty two pm, and we're coming to your life from Presno, California, California,
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Speaker 3 (01:38):
Yes, I think this episode sponsored by Costco.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Okay, yes, shout out to that greasy ass pizza you.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
Know, wasn't that?
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Actually, I just it's way too much. So the reason
why I want, Okay, the reason why I.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Wanted today's episode to be sponsored.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
By Costco is because they're still doing the DEI no, actually.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
No, it's because when I was there.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
I want to say, Thursday or Wednesday? When is there
a Thursday? I don't know if it's new, but I've
seen they have a strawberry banana smoothie. Oh okay, and
I was very interested. So I got it, and I
was like, Okay, this tastes like a dessert treat, which
is not where I really want from my strawberry banana smooths.
I want it to taste a little more like healthy. Yeah,
(02:28):
and I guess you really, it's kind of hard to
get that because there's both extremely sugary fruits, but these
you want to at least make it seem like you're
drinking something that's not unhealthy.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Right, So, yeah, that is true.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
I look it up. Actually, I'm like, how much sugar
is in the Costco smoothie? Do you care?
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Scared?
Speaker 4 (02:44):
I was gonna it's not as much as.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
The what caramel Vancy crunch I was forced to drink against.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
My will, you know, you know what. Let me look
that one up right now.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
But so I before I actually google it, I'm gonna
go with so the venty I said almost has one
hundred The venty caramel crunch has almost one hundred grams
of sugar. So this what strawberry banana smoothie, and this was.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Not a ventzi.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
This is probably about half of that, maybe a little
bit less, Okay, more than half.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
So we'll go like a small medium, yeah, or a
tall or a sixteen ounce whatever.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Maybe maybe like an eight ounce. You're like a twelve ounce.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Okay, ten ounce, nine ounce okay.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Eleven ounce, eleven ounces, I'm gonna go with probably I'm
gonna be very specific, like forty six grams of sugar, Okay.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
I appreciate the the being specific, Yes, very specific.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
No, No, it had less.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
More more yes, more.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Like sixty nine yes, actually exactly yer, exactly sixty nine
grams of sugar.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Why?
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Yes? And I immediately could tell because it didn't taste
like your ordinary strawberry banana smoothie tastes like, like I said,
dessert something you would give them out the frozen like
section out the freezer.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Hold on, did they make Did they make these in
front of you or they're already ready to go, made
to order?
Speaker 3 (04:11):
No, well, I'm sure it's probably this made the same
way when it just comes out the dispenser. It's not
like they're making it from scratch like it's already dispenses
out the machine.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Hold on one sec. So you said you got the caramel, Oh, crunched.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
I didn't get that. That was it was given to me, right,
But okay, don't make.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
It sound like I'm actively taking part in that.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
So hold on, I'm looking at the sugar content. Now
I may have gone a little overboard. Carmel, ribbon crunch,
frappacino blended beverage allegedly. Allegedly, So it has four hundred
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and seventy cow Okay.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
I thought you're gonna say gram to sugar.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
I was.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
I'll just say no way.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
So okay, it only has sixty grams of sugar.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
And I say.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Only because that's less than what you expected.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Correct Now I put in okay, so this is for
a grande.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Okay, Now let's and the grande is about the size
of the.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
The grande is sixteen ounces.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
That's about the size of the Bananas.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Movie, okay.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
And then the tall is twelve and then the vent
the ventie is twenty four ounces, which is crazy.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
Yes, wait, so twelve ounces is the tall? No isn't?
But convert that twelve ounces is the leader?
Speaker 3 (05:39):
Or what is it is that I'm sorry for any
math scholars of mathematicians.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Yeah, I have no idea, and I should know this, right, like.
Speaker 4 (05:47):
Twelve inches of foot twelve ounces.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Is how many million liters?
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Isn't that our job as.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Yeah, you're absolutely right.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Worth that immediately, that which I had to do today,
and I just kind of made it.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Up on this really, so what what was it?
Speaker 3 (06:02):
So? I had I think the output okay from this
patient's catheter was around like two fifty and she has
where intake or what his intake was okay, And I
genuinely kind of had a ballparking, So I said two
forty because a ounce your average what eight ounce cup?
Times that by thirty forty because each ounce is thirty
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mili leaders, right, I guess, So like as it sounds
sounds yeah, it.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Sounds like that's correct, You're probably that good for you,
because I if that were on a test right now,
I would have just almost.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Certain I think for every one ounce, I think at
thirty mili leaders. I think.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Okay, So hopefully once you do medical math, whenever that
time will come.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Maybe when I die, and that's just I'll do it
for sport.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Yes, after life in college.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
You will be better verse at math than me, because
I I completely forgot.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Anyways, back to uh, make a bad nutritional choice that.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Is a lot of sugar, yes, And so it's like
which one at that point.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
You might want to get Starbucks?
Speaker 1 (07:07):
You might as well get the Starbucks one. The Starbucks one.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
It's gonna taste a lot richer, it's gonna be like
ever lasting on your palate, especially all of that caramel,
and then you've got the crunch with it as well, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
The crunch. I'm not even the biggest caramel fan.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
But at least with Starbucks, you know, like cam, you're
not going to be surprised that it's unhealthy. Whereas Costco,
I feel like, I mean, they.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Really shouldn't disappointing.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Maybe disappointing, but it's like, I don't know why I
have the perception that Costco is healthy. I know, and
it's really just about as unhealthy as anything, not as anything.
Speaker 4 (07:41):
But it could be as.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Unhealthy as anything or as healthy as.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Anything, I think because Costco is supposed to be quality. Yeah,
so when you think quality, you think.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
Okay, health or healthy.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Right, their ingredients are going to be just better, which.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
Might I guess maybe for like so maybe you'll just
die slower. You won't.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
You'll die at seventy.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Five, is said, and dying at like sixty five from
heart disease, you'll die at eighty fo old age.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
So I think actually the life expectancy for men in
this country is like seventy it's lower.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
I'm just saying if you were if you were to
drink specifically Starbucks stuff, you probably die like a little
sooner than if you were to drink Costco stuff. You'll
die the same stuff, just different ages.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Yes, all, what I'm trying to say is that we
don't have that much time left.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
I think for women we.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Die, we our life expectancy is like eighty two or something,
but men it's like seventy something.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
So you have about fifty one more years, but that's.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Not a lot.
Speaker 4 (08:42):
Forty nine more years.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
And you have and then you drink both Starbucks.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
And oh that's not true.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Actually don't blend every every day. I go get Stars
do that.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
I had my Starbucks today.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
But you know what, can I just say, So I'm
trying to cut back on the price that I'm paying
at Starbucks, not only for my health but my wallet.
And so I was like Okay, I'm not gonna do
the shot of espresso this.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Time, because that's an extra three dollars.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
It's like a stupid like dollars seventy five or some
stupid shit like that.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Pa almost And how do you know they're putting that
shot in there? They could just tell you they are, Oh,
you know what, you're right.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
But so today I could tell the difference because the
drink was extra sweet because that shot of espresso, like
it's obviously more coffee, right, so it's stronger, it's it's
more bitter. And so I was like, okay, so I
always get the same grande iced coffee, two pump sugar
free vanilla, heavy cream, and a shot of espresso, but
(09:50):
today I said no espresso, so just the heavy cream
and the two pump sugar free vanilla. I still got
charged forty cents h for heavy cream.
Speaker 4 (10:02):
I'm like, and they usually don't do that.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
I don't remember them.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
And then right away she's like, okay, there's a question
on here. No if I want to leave a tip,
I'm like, no, I anyways, I'm just complaining that a
forty surcharge for heavy cream really, and like, fuck you, Starbucks.
I'm like I, I need to stop going there because
(10:28):
it's just a waste of money. And I and I
buy coffee. You see, I have all that cold brew.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
The you Bon?
Speaker 1 (10:37):
Is that what it sounded like?
Speaker 3 (10:40):
The brand the Bon? Know, the the u Bon coffee?
Isn't there like the brand u Ban or you Bon?
The I don't know why u b a. It's like
the brown tin with the gold top. What is that?
Speaker 2 (10:53):
I have no idea. The one I bought today was
I think it's busy? Is that what it's called busy?
It's like organic, the breakfast blend whatever it's on sale
at Target all the time. Speaking of eating and food
and whatnot? Did you know that right there? I won't name.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
Exactly if I think if you say what's going there,
you're gonna name our location. We're exactly where. And I
think I know what you're gonna talk about?
Speaker 4 (11:17):
A famous uh fast footery.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Did you see it on Reddit yesterday?
Speaker 3 (11:22):
Yes? Actually I did.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
We probably follow a lot of the same people.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
Yeah, when I don't, I don't actually really follow. We
probably follow the same subreddits, but not any individuals.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Oh, I definitely don't you follow individual people on Reddit?
Speaker 3 (11:38):
No, you just said right now, we followed this. I
thought you were gonna say we follow the same people.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Oh no, Sorry, When I say people, I mean I
guess just like subreddits, if that's what you call it.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Anyway.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
Yeah, I seen it in I r L first and
then literally about thirty minutes later I seen it. Yeah
post Wait.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
So you it says that it's gonna be in and out.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Yes, r L. Yes, so too. Which angey you're going from?
If you will say the how do I say it? Yeah,
if you're coming from the side of the elementary school,
then you're not going to probably see it the the
elementary school, you're not going to see it.
Speaker 4 (12:13):
If you come from the exact opposite.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
Side, you'll see it.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
Oh okay.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
And right here, I'm looking at the picture and uh
so I r L. You can see that target is
being built.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Because it has it looks it's the circle.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Yeah, it has like the big banner and the circle.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
See I didn't see that. I've seen just the structure
and it looks like a target.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Yes, so, and that one I had already heard on
the news and whatnot that that's what was going to
be going there anyways. As well as the home goods
heat Smart and I want to say there's something else
unless it's the in and out anyways, So if you're looking,
I won't name the exact coordinates, but if you're looking,
(12:57):
hold on because right now I'm looking at the schule
and then the car washes right.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
Next to it, so I guess that's looking.
Speaker 3 (13:06):
Like directly directly in the sun.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Yeah. Anyways, but I'm excited for this. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:15):
Yeah. My first thought was like, I imagine I would probably
just go to that, yeah, instead of the one on
black Someone, but I kind of I so I went
from always going to the close one, which always gets packed,
it's it never isn't packed. I then I switched to
going to the Blackstone one, which I kind of found
like my sweet spot there because it's usually not pack.
(13:37):
I mean, if you go at certain times, it's it's
it's packed, it's in and out, But at the Blackstone
it's like people kind of forget or like just avoid
that one for some reason. So I don't mind going
to that one. But now since this new one's going
to be opened up, we'll do literally walk there. Yeah. Yeah,
but didn't see that forces you to order inside, which
I feel like that takes.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
Longer that's okay, okay. So I usually so when I
because I have to have a very specific craving for
In and Out for me to go, I'm the opposite
you're they're all like, that's your spot.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
Well only because it's like it. It's just it's never
not what I expect. Like I've never gone to.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
In and Out and been like, damn, this is not
especially it's never disappointing. Ever, it's never disappointing. But I
usually go to the one on Jensen, and that one's
quite a drive, right, it's about what like fifteen.
Speaker 3 (14:36):
Minutes actually wouldn't even that's like the.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
Trucks are, yes, the truckers and the people coming back
from out of leaving fresnot whatever. So that's like my
number one spot. And I think it was a few
months ago I went to the one in Clovis.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
Mhm.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
That was ridiculous, yea, the lot was. I was just like,
what the hell?
Speaker 3 (15:03):
Yeah, stupid.
Speaker 4 (15:04):
Usually like it's always like that.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
No, screw that, So I left.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
And then the Blackstone one, now that's one that I literally.
Speaker 3 (15:14):
Never go to. I think never can. I think most
people never consider it either, which actually makes it like
an ideal spot to go because it's usually there's usually
people there, but it's never, never, ever consistently like no.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
So now is this you? Someone says, fuck, finally, can't wait.
First thing I'm an order is a four by four
animal style no pickles, Add a whole grilled onions with
additional chopped raw onions. Add chopped peppers for a little
bit of heat, extra toasted buns for that crunch in
every goddamn bite. Ask for them to cut this delicious
montrocity in half because Lockjawn can't forget about him. Fries
(15:50):
well done, extra crispy, with that delicious and savory spread
on this side.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
If you know you know, so, oh time out.
Speaker 4 (15:57):
I'm sorry, and.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
It's I why k I wait?
Speaker 3 (16:02):
I if you know you know?
Speaker 4 (16:05):
I y k.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
So I hold on pouring or sour ing, s O,
I hold on s O r I n k E sirenc.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
Serene ku or siren. You're asking me as if I
know what that is.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
Doreenque some black pepper and salt and so wese some
lemon juice on the fries, and I can guarantee you'll
shout hell yeah. Someone said, I can't tell if this
is trolley or if that's in fact a fine order
because it sounds delicious.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
It's a real order, partner, make sure you try it
hots Okay.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
So, I respect the I respect the dedication to the
complex order, but I don't.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Do it if I'm not a Toyota thought. I'm eating
good local frozno eats.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
Okay, I'm sorry, shout out sponsored go to the next
and mentioned w I t and get what any car
and they'll pay the down payment they'll give you.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
They'll give me and and out we'll pay the car
payment and they'll have that exactly.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
Psengers and you have to eat it.
Speaker 4 (17:27):
If you don't, the deal is void. No.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
So I was following it up until they mentioned the sauce,
as if that was some sort of secret.
Speaker 4 (17:36):
No one else like he's the only one that knew.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
He's like, hey, just just a tip, right when you
go ask for the sauce.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
Well, I've never heard of the lemon on the fries.
Speaker 3 (17:48):
I respect the the I don't know what word you
want to use, but just how difficult the order is
and how irritated the employee.
Speaker 4 (17:54):
Must be having to make that.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
But yeah, I mean to each show this person, really,
this person definitely loves it in and out more than
I do.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
And yeah, and they love Frozeno's Toyota than.
Speaker 3 (18:07):
What's at combination I know.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
So you know what, that was actually a very good
what is it?
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Ad?
Speaker 2 (18:15):
Because now I'm like, okay, I didn't eat any dinner.
Speaker 3 (18:19):
Maybe you had the option to.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
So this is this is where I'm gonna go now tonight.
If I feel like driving somewhere after this, I think
I may go.
Speaker 4 (18:29):
And mention w I T and he may.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Get the whole thing for free. So there's a lot
of course that is going. I don't even know where
to start. Let me start with this hold on. Okay,
So so.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
This is I R L true story.
Speaker 2 (18:49):
So I had my midterm yesterday for nutrition, and by
the grace of God and by the grace of me
studying for the past few weeks, I got in. So
I got an A right on the edge of glory, right,
and then I looked at my I just happened last night.
I woke up in the middle of the night and
I just happened to notice that he changed my grade.
(19:12):
So I was like, holy shit, Okay, So, by the
grace of God, I ended up getting a ninety percent.
And then, like I said, I saw that he bumped
up my grade. So I ended up actually really getting
like a ninety six percent on that midterm. And so
(19:32):
I was like, okay, I don't know what I did,
but he changed my grade.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
I got a better grade on it. Hallelujah.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
Right.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
I was so happy. So yesterday we.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
Are all in the computer lab and we're getting ready
to take the mid term for a.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Nutrition and the teacher.
Speaker 2 (19:52):
Excuse me, explicitly, it explicitly says in the beginning, do
not have anything on your desk. Don't have anything on
your desk. Bring your cell phones up, pere. This is
that what school clovis adult, okay, and so you know,
make sure there's nothing on your guys' desks. Just the
computer open. Only have one tab and that's it.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
Right. So we're all adults, so we should be able
to follow those rules.
Speaker 3 (20:15):
Correct.
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Obviously not. So there's someone who has their cell phone now,
and then.
Speaker 4 (20:24):
The d O n of Close Community.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
Yes, of the nursing program just happens to.
Speaker 3 (20:31):
Come in and she's very anti cell phone.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
So she just starts and I'm in the very beginning
by myself. There's no one next to me, and I
made sure that I put my cell phone in the
little cubby, and and I wasn't. I don't think anyone
was expecting the d N to come in. But she
comes in and she goes straight to the back and
she is just like looking at everybody, right, and she
(20:57):
tells this girl, you have your cell phone out, and
she goes, well, it's turned off, and she's like, nope,
you're not supposed to have anything on your desk.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
Give me your phone and she breaks it.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
And so she didn't break it, but she put it
in the cubby the d N and I was like,
oh shit. And then she tells another girl, you have
a water bottle.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
On your desk.
Speaker 3 (21:17):
You're not even allowed to be hydrated during this test.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
So this is to be dehydrated. So that way you're wow,
like can suffer. So that's not even it. So like
five minutes past or.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
Something, right, and you have your inhaler on this desk,
you have your oxygen out this desk.
Speaker 1 (21:36):
Come you're Canniela ready to go.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
And so so yeah, like five minutes past and everyone's
still taking the tests, right, and the d N goes
up to our teacher and He's like, okay, I'll talk
to her. And I was like, oh my god, like, I.
Speaker 3 (21:54):
Know it's about you.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
So no, Well, at one point I was like, are
the looking at me?
Speaker 1 (22:01):
You know?
Speaker 3 (22:02):
Because you had multiple things on your desk. I hadtile
going off at once, I had.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Multiple tabs open. Just kidding, I didn't. And so I
was like, oh my gosh, what happened? And so he
calls up this my classmate who I don't even remember
who she what her name is, but he calls her
up and in front of like practically the entire freaking class,
he goes.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
Isn't that the same shirt from yesterday?
Speaker 1 (22:30):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (22:35):
Didn't you have this song last class.
Speaker 3 (22:40):
Before?
Speaker 4 (22:40):
I've seen that? Go ahead, thro go ahead, And so he.
Speaker 1 (22:45):
Says, did you were you googling? Answers?
Speaker 3 (22:49):
Right now?
Speaker 1 (22:51):
The do o N saw her in the back.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
She must have been in the back that student and
the d O N just happened to see her. So
now I don't know now that I think about it,
because I told your dad what happened, And now that
I think about it, I'm like, Okay, did she do
it on her cell phone? Or did she open up
another tat on the computer? And start googling answers.
Speaker 4 (23:18):
Well do you think she was doing as the d
N was there?
Speaker 3 (23:20):
Or how do you so? She obviously.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
So.
Speaker 2 (23:25):
But the thing is is, I don't know if everyone
knows who the d O one is because I.
Speaker 1 (23:29):
Don't know who.
Speaker 3 (23:31):
So that person or that lady or teacher or not
the teacher, the student, the impression like okay, this person
has Ziro authority over I know, right in front of them.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
I know.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
If but if that were me, and if I saw
somebody walking in who I.
Speaker 4 (23:45):
Didn't, yeah, I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (23:46):
That wouldn't be scared because I'm like, oh, who is
this person?
Speaker 1 (23:50):
You know what I mean? And so, uh, he goes,
were you googling answers and.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
She's like no, She's like okay, just making sure.
Speaker 2 (23:59):
No. She yes, okay, get your stuff, you got a zero,
and she goes, okay, thank you, and she grabbed her
backpack and she walked out.
Speaker 3 (24:09):
I know, sounds like she wasn't upset with the results.
Speaker 2 (24:11):
So okay, So I was like, okay, you know you
took accountability as you said. Yes, Now my thing is
what are your thoughts on on like do you think
somebody like that be No?
Speaker 1 (24:29):
Okay, hold on. When I say like that, I mean.
Speaker 2 (24:32):
Job who cheated on an on an exam. And mind you,
this isn't even like a freaking like Harvard.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
This is just close community.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
Nutrition midterm, not even the final, just just uh a
mid term, right, obviously it's it. It means a lot because.
Speaker 3 (24:50):
You're saying there's more importance at the cheat off of,
or cheat on or cheat for.
Speaker 2 (24:54):
Yeah, but what I'm saying also asking is do you
think that this person should even be able to apply
for the nursing program.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
That's a good question because so my first thought, well
technically my second, My first and original thought was maybe
this person's like trying to avoid something so they purposely
got caught to like extend their time in the class.
Maybe they have like a not so like peaceful relationship
at home. The more time they spend in this class,
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it's just the more they get away from like they knew,
Like they're like, okay'm about to graduate. What can I
do to keep myself in this class even longer so
I don't have to go back to gotcha?
Speaker 1 (25:33):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (25:34):
Okay, that was my first time. I'm trying to say, like,
you know how people who like I'll just keep working
so I don't have to go home. Maybe she's like,
I'll just keep being a student so I don't have
to go back.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
To Okay, Okay, that was.
Speaker 4 (25:45):
My first thought.
Speaker 3 (25:46):
Second thought, I don't want to say that she doesn't
deserve to apply again for the program, but you'd have
to imagine if this person's willing to kind of take Well, So, okay,
how about this, Maybe we should ask the question when
is cheating justifiable? Because I feel like just because you
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cheat on a test, that doesn't necessarily mean like you're
a bad person.
Speaker 2 (26:16):
I don't think it necessarily means that you're a bad
person either.
Speaker 3 (26:20):
Or to me, it really doesn't even does it even
mean that you have like a lack of judgment or
like what is it?
Speaker 4 (26:26):
Like?
Speaker 3 (26:26):
What is exactly what is the character like flaw or
what is how do you associate a person who cheats
on the test with their like moral or ethical like
well being?
Speaker 4 (26:38):
And that's what I'm trying to say.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
I don't want to be like a person a nurse
who's gonna cheat on a test is probably gonna do
something and like mm hmm their field of work that
probably isn't morally or ethically the right thing to do.
Speaker 4 (26:49):
But I feel like that be looking a.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
Little too deep into it just for a test, because
it's not like I feel like a true like measure
of like someone's like more ethic like ethical like standard
is like if they have to do that or not. Okay,
like they you guys had to take that test.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
We had to take the test correct.
Speaker 3 (27:13):
So it's like, of course most people are going to
find ways to try to make something they have to
do a little easier, right, aka cheating.
Speaker 2 (27:21):
Or or study or But yeah, but I see, I
see what you're saying. Yeah, And I told your dad too.
I said, well, I said, you know, everyone's home environments
are different.
Speaker 1 (27:31):
I said.
Speaker 2 (27:31):
Maybe she didn't like ever have time to study. But
I said, but even so, I said, you like, even
if you just spent like an hour before class, just
like looking through the book real quick, you could there's
there's answers in there all. Literally every single answer is
in the book. So like as long as you, like,
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like I said, spent an hour, you could have at
least you know what I mean. But I just I
you bring up some good some things to think about.
I don't think that cheating necessarily means that you're a
bad person. Now, if it's something that's gonna like directly
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impact a human's life and you like skipped a step,
you know.
Speaker 3 (28:22):
And see this is I don't want to draw the
conclusion of like a person who would do that on
a test more than likely would skip a step on
a person's like life. I don't want to do that,
but part of me thinks that they might. But this
is just why I go. I feel like, if you're
purposely deceiving someone, you don't have to Okay, that makes
you like you're a bad person. Yeah, But if you're
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deceiving a person and that's like your only option is
like you kind of have to do that, or you're
deceiving a system and you kind of have to. Aka
cheating on a test, Yeah, I don't think that necessarily
makes you a bad person, but it wouldn't surprise me
if that same person did some questionable shit in their
own field of work.
Speaker 1 (29:00):
How many times have you cheated on tests?
Speaker 3 (29:02):
On test?
Speaker 4 (29:02):
Well, I shouldn't say that on air.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
Well, I'll start, let's say school only. We'll say that's
what I mean, Like, okay, anything past it, I won't say.
Speaker 4 (29:11):
But school only, there was a time.
Speaker 3 (29:15):
We'll say it was this eighth grade found no, no,
it was eighth grade per algebra, or maybe seventh grade.
Speaker 4 (29:23):
It was your seventh or eighth grade.
Speaker 3 (29:25):
And there was a girl that sat next to me
and she just let me copy off for tests and
I guess any any time that was available. So let's
say if there was ten tests and I could have
copied ten times, I probably would have done it ten times.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
So she is the questionable one.
Speaker 3 (29:40):
Yeah, but you know what, See, I don't think because
I would do the same thing, like if I if
I had all the answers and I the person next
to me want a car, like just take them shits.
I don't care.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
About that, like because you wouldn't be afraid that you're
gonna get caught.
Speaker 4 (29:53):
Oh maybe, may you know what?
Speaker 3 (29:55):
Probably? And then I would just feel like that person
just caught. I didn't know that they were copying. I
would just feel like that they did it without.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
Me knowing, okay, without my consent.
Speaker 3 (30:03):
Yeah, I just be like I had the paper right
that I must have not even noticed. And what is
the teacher gonna be like, No, I know you.
Speaker 4 (30:08):
Let them copy, Like.
Speaker 3 (30:11):
Oh my yeah, that and that's what I'm trying to say,
like a lot of that stuff, you're forced to do
that as a kid, Like you don't have the choice
of I guess you do. You're gonna fail it, but
you don't really have a choice as a child when
it comes to school. So it's like it doesn't surprise me,
or at least for myself. I mean, I'm gonna figure out, like, hey,
how can I do this with the least amount of
work as possible. Now, if there's something where if you're
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just manipulating people for sport, yeah, like that's just what
that's just what gets you often. Okay, you have some
seriously questionable yes, like therapeutic or some type of professional
help with that, because that's not cool at all. But
if you're in a situation where you kind of have
to do that, okay, taking a test, I mean I
don't see what the big deal is. And I think,
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isn't that like what the trend is in college anyway?
Speaker 4 (30:59):
It's just cheat. It's like everyone who's in college.
Speaker 3 (31:02):
Just says, oh, yeah, I just cheat or get the
answers from quiz lit or just what's the difference between
going on online looking them up? You're yeah, like I
feel like if you were to take a poll out
of people that are in college right now, out of
one hundred percent, I'd say about sixty to seventy percent
of them probably just figure out a way. Hey, how
can I get this answer the easiest way possible?
Speaker 1 (31:23):
Or I guess now people do chat.
Speaker 3 (31:25):
Gpizza chat exactly, chat GPS.
Speaker 2 (31:27):
Now, while we're on this subject of nursing, how about
former nurse Radonda Vot. I don't know if you remember
this story. So I believe this was in Tennessee back
in twenty twenty two.
Speaker 3 (31:45):
She oh, I think we may have talked about it.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
Yes, okay, So the Tennessee Court of Appeals denied her
licensure her license being reinstated because because of what happened
with that incident.
Speaker 3 (31:59):
So cheat it on the test more like she cheated.
Speaker 1 (32:06):
You said it.
Speaker 2 (32:06):
I was definitely thinking it, but it was unfortunately someone
else's life. Yes, so remember or maybe you don't, but
she was I believe she was. I don't know if
she was training somebody that day, but she was pretty
much extremely distracted at work.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
It was a hectic day.
Speaker 2 (32:28):
She pulled the wrong medication and instead of pulling I
believe it was.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
She pulled like a.
Speaker 1 (32:40):
Yes alec exam.
Speaker 2 (32:41):
She pulled, she pulled, uh, oh, my gosh, I can't remember, versaid,
And she was supposed to pull something else, or she
would pulled something else that she was supposed to.
Speaker 1 (32:54):
Pull, versaid. Anyways, this.
Speaker 2 (32:59):
Let me just hell, yeah, Now, I've been around nurses
at my job and they end up getting orientees like
that freaking morning upon doing their other tasks as a nurse,
and I'm like, this is not safe because anything can happen.
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The nurses are still tending to their patients while training
students or I mean it's one student, but still, yeah,
that is not okay, like double the stress. Anyways, so
she ended up being charged with or I'm sorry, convicted
of criminal neglect homicide back in twenty twenty two. And
(33:41):
so anyways, she the Tennessee like it's a court of appeals,
said no, we're gonna continue still to not have your license.
Speaker 1 (33:54):
It's revoked.
Speaker 2 (33:55):
So now do you think and now I truly believe
that it was a mistake.
Speaker 3 (34:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
Now, the thing is, though, is that that medication, the
one that killed that patient. There's literally a red top
on there like as a warning, and somehow she still administered,
and so a lot of people are like there were
so many literal signs yea that were saying like, hey,
(34:28):
it's this medication that you're giving.
Speaker 3 (34:30):
This is it was. There was multiple opportunities.
Speaker 2 (34:36):
And on top of that, with their medication system, you
have to overwrite it. I think it's the same thing
with our system as well. You overwrite it, Like you
can overwrite it in the system and it tells you
like twice that you're yeah, that you're and what's the
reason for overwriting? So there were multiple opportunities for her,
(35:01):
But she was saying, like it was such a hectic day.
I was training this person or whatever. I was there
as a resourcener, so like I wasn't even supposed to
be in that area to begin with.
Speaker 3 (35:14):
If that's not her like normal, like a yeah, whatever,
that kind of speaks for itself. I mean that says
a lot more about I fel like her facility the hospital.
Speaker 4 (35:29):
That they put her in that position.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
So I'm trying to see the Oh, okay, so she
incorrectly administered veacarnium instead of verse said, so one is
a sedative, I believe, and then the other one is
like a paralytic, I think, I think, And so the
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patient pretty much ended up like suffocating to death. And
so I think the patient was supposed to be getting
a CT scan, I think, and so that's why she
wanted to be sedated, because she was nervous, and so
she ended up giving her the paralytic. I think that's
(36:18):
what it was. And so, like I said, she ended
up I think passing away maybe in the CT machine.
I think that's what happened. And so anyways, so now
do you think in this case that someone like that
deserves a second chance or their nursing career is over.
Speaker 1 (36:40):
It's and that's it.
Speaker 3 (36:42):
This is where you have like you just have to
No one knows that person's like what truly went on?
Right Obviously I'm not saying that like she intended to give.
But once you make a mistake that big, it's almost
like you're not naturally. But most people are going to
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be start looking for reasons why they messed up.
Speaker 2 (37:06):
The who the outsiders or the person the person themselves,
meaning they're gonna they're gonna replay the day or recall
the day like went wrong.
Speaker 3 (37:16):
Oh well, there was a lot of people and I
had an orientee and I'm not even in like there
was in their mind, like there was multiple reasons like
what went wrong?
Speaker 4 (37:25):
But we don't know the.
Speaker 1 (37:26):
Truth, correct, We can only speculate.
Speaker 3 (37:29):
Or go off her. Yeah, like a series of events, right, yes,
of retelling of events.
Speaker 2 (37:35):
So and you know what, sorry, I sorry to cut
you off. What I thought was very like, wow, was
the family of the victim of the patient they forgave
her and they said, you know what, like she suffered
enough already are I think it was their mom our
mom would have forgiven her to and so yeah, they
(37:58):
chose to to forget give her, which I speak, Yeah,
so I think if they forgave her, I mean, our
opinion kind of doesn't really even matter. Now how comfortable
are you with her taking care of your parents?
Speaker 4 (38:11):
Again?
Speaker 3 (38:12):
See? This is this is the thing I have to know,
like like truthfully what happened because if there were multiple
multiple like and this, I guess we wouldn't really know
until we're in that position. But it seems like if
there were multiple instances of her catching her mistake and
she still made the mistake, then it's.
Speaker 2 (38:32):
Like what like yeah.
Speaker 3 (38:35):
Like what truly happened? Because like that it just that's
not if I was on the other end of that.
I'm the part of the victim's family. I'm not gonna
just be like, Okay, I understand like you, I guess
that would have been more or response. We're gonna have
to cut that up.
Speaker 1 (38:55):
Stop from personal pause.
Speaker 2 (38:58):
Okay, So so you you're actually talking about something very
serious and I know I'm sorry anyways, but you know
it's this Just do you think that there's any anyone
hold on?
Speaker 3 (39:19):
I've like, before you answer that, let me ask another question.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
In all seriousness, this is something I'm one thousand percent
for real right now. This is something that I am
so afraid of when I become a nurse, is doing
having a MED error. And MED errors happen all the time,
they really do. MED errors happen all the time, but
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they're usually like very minuscule, non life threatening, like oh shit,
I accidentally gave tail and all instead of ibuprofen, or
I accidentally gave like one hundred five hundred milligrams and
said of two hundred, right, something simple like that.
Speaker 1 (40:03):
This is like on a.
Speaker 2 (40:04):
Whole another level. This would haunt me for the rest
of my life. So this is something that I am
like terrified of doing because I feel like I that
could potentially be me.
Speaker 1 (40:17):
No, I'm serious, Wilbert.
Speaker 3 (40:19):
I've had med errors and I don't even past meds
at my current my current occupation.
Speaker 2 (40:24):
Oh, you mean at the other people that shall it's
so and so it's easy.
Speaker 3 (40:29):
Right, especially it's easy. It's yeah, very easy.
Speaker 2 (40:33):
Yes, especially too because you have all those patients and
there's only one of you.
Speaker 3 (40:39):
Right, thing about and I'll say this right, passing meds
is a very fankless job. And it's like one of
those it's like a mind I shouldn't say a mind fuck.
I guess it's kind of like life, right, But passing
meds always frustrate me because it's one of those things
where you're expected to do it perfectly like that. That's
(41:00):
the expectation, right, the expectation that it's supposed to be
done one hundred percent correct with zero errors. Yeah, and
when it's not, it's an issue. Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (41:11):
That's definitely.
Speaker 3 (41:12):
That's like the like frustrating part. Well, that's why I
call it thankless, because it's like you're your job is
to be perfect, and when you're not perfect, it's like
a problem. And that's why it's like that's there aren't
really too many other like are do you know any occupations?
And there are where you pretty much have to be
perfect Where a pilot, yeah perfect if you're a pilot,
(41:34):
I mean you do have autopilot. But let's say you're
a skydiver, like a skydiving teacher, you kind of have
to be perfect. You can't really mess up doing that
because if you mess up at somebody's life right like that,
I don't know. I feel like that's like there's probably
more of the average person passing meds than there are
skydiving teachers.
Speaker 1 (41:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (41:53):
Yeah, so it's like that's what I'm saying, Like the
average that's such like an uncommon scenario to be in
for a very common person.
Speaker 1 (42:02):
I see what you're saying.
Speaker 3 (42:03):
Why it is just frustrating because like, why the hell
am I even doing this? Like I'm only doing this
because you have nobody else to do this available to
do it.
Speaker 2 (42:11):
And not only that, but there's a ton of pressure
because people are in pain or they neither yet, so
they're like, hurry up, I need my medication, and you're
trying to get to them as soon as you physically
freaking can, and so it's like, yeah, I could see
how one would accidentally get mixed up or you know
(42:33):
what I mean, because you've got a ton of pressure.
But either way, that's crazy that you've passed meds and
I've never passed meds before.
Speaker 3 (42:40):
Yeah, I And that's I always say. The train that
we got was pretty much a thirty minute training, and
that is so not The training was pretty much it's
not even like necessarily it was. I think the biggest
thing I took away from it was if a med
falls on the table, you're fine. If it falls on
the floor, then it counts as like like you it
doesn't like it's not a vallid man to get rid
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of it.
Speaker 1 (43:03):
Which I would you have to get rid of it.
Speaker 2 (43:04):
Yeah, oh okay, where you work right now, there's I'd
say they're a little notorious fords and meds being found
between the sheets.
Speaker 3 (43:15):
Really, I feel like that falls a little bit on
maybe the resident a little.
Speaker 2 (43:18):
Bit, okay, victim blamer, well, not or meds being forgotten
like on the trays because a lot of the times
and you know, again a lot of pressures on the
nurse to pass out all these meds to like thirty people.
Speaker 1 (43:33):
Yeah, and so they're like here.
Speaker 2 (43:35):
And then the patient's like, oh, I'll take it later,
or they don't even see that the meds and then it's.
Speaker 1 (43:41):
Left on their tray.
Speaker 2 (43:43):
Yeah, that's happened many times, takes the med I've thought
about it. Uh AnyWho, So I don't want to. I
feel like we're on the topic of like not so good.
So here these are the twelve the top twelve rap kings.
Speaker 3 (44:05):
Okay, first off, who's who made this list?
Speaker 1 (44:08):
The same person that who wrote this?
Speaker 3 (44:11):
So me, that's a lot that's the past, like four
or five episodes.
Speaker 1 (44:16):
Oh okay, I thought that was just for today.
Speaker 3 (44:19):
No, here, I want to know who made the list
before because that would tell me how loud or even
relevant or if I want to hear it or not.
Speaker 1 (44:25):
Is there are there are twelve rap kings.
Speaker 3 (44:28):
You're not telling me who made the list, though, and
that's my interest in wanting to hear the list. And
I don't the reason why. It's because it's a list
at the end of the day is very much subjective,
so it's like this is just somebody's opinion. It is.
Speaker 1 (44:39):
And when I'm surprised that you don't know.
Speaker 3 (44:44):
What him Drake L. J rum DMC jay z eminem Nas.
Who am I missing?
Speaker 1 (44:54):
So okay, and I know I'm missing a few.
Speaker 2 (44:59):
This is the I don't know if this or I
think it's just no, this is the order I mean
of the screenshot, but that's what I mean.
Speaker 3 (45:05):
Yeah, this is other screen shots that may have it
in different orders. Wayne forgot him me okay.
Speaker 1 (45:14):
J Drake, Biggie Pop fifty m.
Speaker 3 (45:22):
So okay, that's occupation that reminds me of it.
Speaker 2 (45:28):
That is funny. You know, I'll take care so so
I'll give you. I'll give you my true, my true
thoughts on that, okay, my. And when I seen that,
I was like, okay, now everyone like cares about his
opinion because he had said that he made that list
after about like twenty year and thirty like insane things.
So it's like, why would that list matter if the
past twenty or thirty things he said didn't matter?
Speaker 1 (45:51):
Are those things more important to you?
Speaker 3 (45:53):
Well? No, I'm just okay. So if okay, I thought.
Speaker 1 (45:56):
That that was the most interesting.
Speaker 3 (45:57):
Person okay person a right. They literally just say gibberish
for twenty statements and then they say one statement that
happens to make like a little bit of sense.
Speaker 2 (46:08):
It's like, I like that one. What do you mean
you know that makes sense? Because the other stuff I'm
just let me finish.
Speaker 3 (46:15):
I'm saying with that one statement, are we just supposed
to start listening to what this person saying now? Like
Like I'm like, if, like everything before he made that list, right,
we can make it arguments kind of irrelevant? So why
would we find his list relevant?
Speaker 1 (46:31):
I just thought that it was interesting.
Speaker 3 (46:34):
But the reason I wanted to know who made the
list and you kind of kept.
Speaker 1 (46:38):
Like because I wanted to see if you knew.
Speaker 4 (46:40):
Yeah, but that's why by.
Speaker 2 (46:42):
Me listing them? Yes, yes, but is there anyone that
you thinks should be.
Speaker 3 (46:46):
Added or takeable?
Speaker 1 (46:47):
Well, I think the bigger wanted to know.
Speaker 3 (46:49):
The bigger point should just be I would just want
to want to hear someone's opinion that kind of matters,
not not Kanye West. Come saying, No, I'm saying Kanye
West's opinion doesn't you? Does his opinion matter? As of
March twenty first, twenty twenty five, Does his opinion on
anything matter?
Speaker 2 (47:10):
I think that white teachers wtos.
Speaker 3 (47:16):
No. I'm serious though, Like, does is there anything that
Kanye could say as of March twenty first does and
five that you would.
Speaker 1 (47:22):
Be like, oh you know what, absolutely.
Speaker 3 (47:24):
No, okay, So that list would fall under that. So
that's kind of why I didn't even want to talk
about it. I want to say no with Complex, if
you were to give me a list from Complex, I
wouldn't want to talk about it. If you were to
gave me a list from Double XL, I probably wouldn't
want to talk about it. If you gave me a
list from Rolling Stone, maybe i'dn't want to talk about it.
But any big publication where it's just a writer's opinion,
(47:44):
it's like, why does their opinion matter more than minor yours?
Speaker 4 (47:47):
Because we could have made that list.
Speaker 2 (47:49):
You're right, I just want to know if there's anyone
that you would move I move or at.
Speaker 3 (47:53):
I was just trying to look at the grander point
of it all of if we are going to look
at some sort of content, hopefully would be from someone's
of something that matters.
Speaker 1 (48:03):
Gotcha. Yeah, you know who George Foreman is.
Speaker 3 (48:05):
Of course he passed away rest in peace at what age?
I did not know that.
Speaker 1 (48:10):
I don't know. He definitely had to have been in
his seventies.
Speaker 3 (48:12):
Seventies. He was like the Urgian say he was, but
he kind of like the original air fryer.
Speaker 4 (48:19):
And that wasn't even a joke.
Speaker 3 (48:20):
That was like meant to be like as accurate as possible.
Speaker 4 (48:26):
Good grill. Yeah. Do you remember the the Drake and
Josh like spin off.
Speaker 1 (48:30):
Or was it not the don't tell me that he.
Speaker 4 (48:32):
Was no there? Obviously they couldn't.
Speaker 3 (48:34):
They didn't put George one, but it was the oh
Gary Coleman grill and they had Gary Coleman.
Speaker 2 (48:39):
Actually, yeah, Gary Coleary Coleman.
Speaker 1 (48:44):
Hold on, he.
Speaker 3 (48:45):
Had a grill well in the Drake and Josh universe. Okay,
obviously a spin off of you know how there's like
Mountain Fizz or Mountain what is it a Okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (48:59):
Well on old hold on.
Speaker 2 (49:01):
So there is something that I wanted to bring up
and I lost it. Let me find it, hold on,
because I was like, wow, this is actually a very
good topic. Hold on one second, let me find it
real quick. So I've been listening to the radio a
lot more often instead of serious XF or XM, and
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because Greg and Dre shout out they have some good
topics on there. They they have the lean on the listeners. Okay,
and so I was like, Wow, what do.
Speaker 3 (49:36):
You think we need to do?
Speaker 4 (49:38):
It's surpassed them. I know, honestly, what do you think because.
Speaker 1 (49:41):
At the end of the first of all, my host
not talk shit to me.
Speaker 3 (49:49):
I'm positive Dre has made fun of Greg on multiple occasions.
So I think we'd already be at a disadvantage if
we didn't do that.
Speaker 2 (49:58):
That is, But you know what, they have such a
good relationship where like.
Speaker 3 (50:03):
They know, it's almost like they're related. It's almost like
their brother and sisters.
Speaker 2 (50:10):
They do because he talks shit to him and he
just takes it.
Speaker 1 (50:15):
Yes, but it's.
Speaker 2 (50:16):
Like he can also hold his own like they have
good bundage. Yeah, Like their total opposites and this is
like the only time where that works they agree to
disagree well, because I feel like total opposites don't really
work out in the long run.
Speaker 3 (50:32):
Yeah, yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (50:33):
But they've been working out for what like twenty years.
And then they're also very opposite because one's black and
one's white. Just like yes, So, okay, So I heard
this three days ago actually, and I heard it on
the way to school taking Olivia to school. Okay, so
lean on the listeners. Hello and good morning. I have
a quick question for you and your listeners. My husband
(50:55):
and I filed taxes jointly for the first time. I
thought I was getting a large refund. Unfortunately, and without
me knowing, we were hit with him owning owing back taxes.
It wiped out my whole refund. I feel my husband
owes me that money back. He feels because we're married,
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that it's a joint loss. What do you and your
listeners think?
Speaker 4 (51:21):
So this is a great question, I.
Speaker 1 (51:23):
Know, isn't it.
Speaker 4 (51:23):
That's question?
Speaker 2 (51:24):
And you know that I was all riled up in
the car, So tell me what you think.
Speaker 3 (51:29):
So my honest opinion, if maybe it depends on how
much money it was, but if like in a marriage,
you kind of just have.
Speaker 1 (51:40):
To and see what I was riled up.
Speaker 3 (51:46):
And maybe this is where my lack of what being
in actual marriage like comes into play.
Speaker 4 (51:54):
But I don't know.
Speaker 3 (51:57):
I feel like that's just something where you kind from
from the man or woman, right, not just if the
man's doing it. The woman has to accept it, like
a party is going to make a dumb financial decision
or make an unideal financial decision, right like ideally you're partnering,
you would be on the same page with everything, But realistically,
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mistakes are going to be made, and I think financial
mistakes happen to fall under that right or wrong?
Speaker 1 (52:26):
No you okay, Okay.
Speaker 3 (52:27):
So I feel like that's one of those things you
just have to accept and try to learn from or
be proactive about and not even have it get to
that point like obviously they said this to their first
time doing taxes, right, yeah, so you just yeah, if
it happened to the man, the man has to take
it on the chin. If it happens to the woman,
the woman has to take the chin for the longevity
(52:50):
the relationship. Because if you can't argue about that, you
can be like, hey, you owe me a thousand dollars
and you're just gonna argue about that for the entirety
of your until that person pays you back to me.
I mean, I don't know at there's really and this
is right, I get, let's be carefully. I don't see
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myself or see myself being put in a position where
I have to let X amount of money like get
in between yes, and like at the end of the day,
it would just be my choice of whether I want
to continue that relationship or not, not because of the money,
but just because like the overall, like either I care
(53:38):
about the money that much or I don't.
Speaker 4 (53:39):
And I feel like in relationships, I.
Speaker 3 (53:41):
Wouldn't value that money over the person I'm with, So
I would kind of just have to take it on
the chin, you see what I'm trying to say. If not,
I would have to look at the person I'm like
in a relationship with, in a marriage with is like,
why are you fucking me over for my money? Which
why do you want to do that? Like if that's
the case, why are you even marrying that person? And
why are you gonna continue to mass And see that's
(54:02):
the thing about I guess relationships that I don't understand
is that we'll put up with a lot, right, we'll
put up with a lot of stuff that we wouldn't
normally put up put up with outside of the relationship,
but not once do we ever go, I'm just gonna leave.
And this is this is where if you are a
person in that like let's say, for her right, if
(54:25):
it bothers her that much, leave them, like leave the dude,
find another like man, But she's not gonna do that
she's gonna be upset about what's going on, just sit
in her being upset that she's gonna sit in it.
And that's where I don't understand that. And that's where
I'm like, you kind of just have to adopt that
mentality of just accepting certain things or leave the person
you're with. And I feel like I'm kind of maybe
(54:47):
as I'm saying, it's not really making much sense.
Speaker 2 (54:48):
You're making I'm waiting and ready to go to the.
Speaker 3 (54:52):
F Okay, Okay, I think just the end of to
put a ball on it, I would just have to
turn the other cheek and hope it doesn't happen again.
If that were to continue to happen, then I would
just look at the person I'm in a relationship with,
her in a marriage with, and be like, hey, either
we're going to fix this or we're not gonna work
out because I don't like I don't like the idea
of me just sitting in a cent unhappy. But you
(55:15):
can take the floor.
Speaker 2 (55:16):
No, I agree with what you said. Either you're gonna
leave or stay in what put.
Speaker 3 (55:23):
Up or try to fix it. But that's what I'm saying.
This is a first time think.
Speaker 1 (55:29):
So. Now.
Speaker 2 (55:31):
When I heard this, I was like, oh, hell no.
So I heard it as they were talking about it
live on the radio, and there were men and women
who called in, and from what I heard, from what
I gathered, a lot of people sounded like, nope, you
guys are in a marriage.
Speaker 3 (55:50):
Now you got to take.
Speaker 2 (55:53):
Yes, and you guys just have to deal with it.
It's for better for worse. Your guys' finances pretty much
belong to the each other, now, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (56:03):
Everything's together?
Speaker 2 (56:04):
And I was and so and maybe maybe it's just me,
but I was like, I don't agree with that. Oh no,
first of all, and I don't know how old this
couple is. I have no idea.
Speaker 3 (56:15):
We'll say a relatively young couple. I don't see this
as a forty or fifty me.
Speaker 2 (56:18):
Neither twenties or thirties, right, Okay, So my thing is
is that we're we're talking, we're gonna talk about finances
before we even think about getting married.
Speaker 1 (56:30):
So did they do that? I have no idea. I'm
gonna go with me. Yeah, maybe not.
Speaker 3 (56:36):
It's hard to have that foresight when you're young.
Speaker 1 (56:40):
When when you're young, yes.
Speaker 3 (56:41):
Not saying young couples don't have it right, Like, think
about it. Most people who get married young or quote
unquote in love, Yeah, yeah, by their love, and probably
they aren't thinking on like on their wedding day. Yeah,
when they get proposed, they're not like, oh shit, should
I say yes? I don't know if this person is
good at right? Right?
Speaker 2 (56:58):
Typically when you're young, when you're we'reunn near on the
younger end, and I get that now if you're in
your thirties, I feel like, you know, that's not an excuse.
Speaker 1 (57:08):
Yeah, but okay.
Speaker 2 (57:10):
So I'm just like, oh, hell no, we're talking about finances.
I need to know about yours, you need to know
about mine, We need to know how we budget our
money separately, and blah blah blah. Because that's huge. Finances
are typically the number one reason why people.
Speaker 3 (57:28):
And finances are obviously a huge issue. But even the
this specific topic is about taxes, which is even more
of a specific, very specific scenario that most people aren't
thinking of before they get married. Hey, how are we
going to handle our taxes? That's I mean, I don't
think too many people are thinking about that.
Speaker 1 (57:45):
Yeah, I feel like it's hit.
Speaker 3 (57:46):
Or missed, right, So just to go back a little bit.
She didn't get the refund she expected, or the refund
went to him.
Speaker 2 (57:55):
No, so because he owes back taxes and because now
they're money, So.
Speaker 3 (58:00):
She didn't obviously know that or he didn't explain that correct,
which is kind of like a dick moved on.
Speaker 2 (58:05):
So exactly my point. So that's where I was like, oh,
how mother fing No he knew that.
Speaker 1 (58:15):
So and so do you see the disc but this
is this is.
Speaker 3 (58:19):
Where, this is where and maybe again maybe this is
not for me to say, but do you think that
was his first time deceiving her or no? So Okay,
if you know you're in a relationship with a known deceiver,
with a known possible liar, and you still choose to
marry this person, isn't that your fault?
Speaker 2 (58:43):
I Yeah, because again back to the nurse from Tennessee,
there was multiple red flags that popped up along the
way that you chose to ignore, and now that you're
held on trial, you're like, well, what the fuck?
Speaker 4 (58:58):
Like, no, this happened, this happened, This happened.
Speaker 3 (59:01):
No, It's like you had multiple opportunities to get out
and you didn't.
Speaker 2 (59:05):
Right, Okay, Yeah, so I'm gonna say, yes, that this
isn't the first time that he's deceived her, because this
is pretty.
Speaker 3 (59:14):
And maybe this is you know, maybe he maybe he
just forgot, like Ship, perhaps I just completely forgot I
even owed all this time. Maybe he didn't know and
now some people just don't know.
Speaker 2 (59:24):
Right, So then that's a problem too, exactly what I'm saying, gotten.
Speaker 1 (59:28):
Notices in the mail.
Speaker 3 (59:30):
There really isn't any ways to justify it. And that
this kind of goes to my point, right, like we
got to be careful who we're choosing as a partner.
And do you think even even knowing, even with this lady,
knowing that this dude could have fucked up finances, she
would have left him?
Speaker 1 (59:47):
Probably probably not.
Speaker 4 (59:48):
So then what is the not the conversation?
Speaker 3 (59:51):
What is it? What does it matter that we make
these choices if we're making him and not giving the
funk while we're making them anyway, until Ship is the fan,
it's like we don't we don't care.
Speaker 2 (01:00:00):
Until Yeah, that is true. It's called being not proactive.
It's a complete opposite of it.
Speaker 3 (01:00:07):
Willingly negligence.
Speaker 4 (01:00:08):
Yeah, willingly negligently.
Speaker 1 (01:00:10):
I like that willingly negligent.
Speaker 3 (01:00:12):
You have like the evidence places like I see this,
I don't like. I see that, I like, I see
this I don't like, but I'm still going to pursue forward.
Speaker 2 (01:00:18):
It's like, Okay, that's kind of your that no, that
I completely agree with that you're not taking accountability for
your own And that's why when hits the founder, he's.
Speaker 3 (01:00:29):
Probably like not doing like good shit eating by lying.
But she had an opportunity before they got married to
kind of make that decision. She chose to still go
through with it. And that's the part about relationships. We'll
sit in relationship that we know isn't good for us
just because we don't want to be lonelier, we don't
want to be alone. But it's like, obviously that doesn't
(01:00:51):
really matter until it's like when hits the livelihood affecting him,
we want to put the victim.
Speaker 2 (01:00:57):
So somebody says, and this is a man, first of all,
you need to have a serious conversation about finances. He
needs to withhold more during the year to avoid owing taxes. Secondly,
he should have told you about his tax set. I'm
pretty sure he knew, so it was sneaky of him
(01:01:17):
to not tell you. Finally, lesson learned filed separately next year,
but all you need to share. But you all need
to share tax information because if he keeps growing tax set,
it will affect you too eventually. Good luck, and I
think that that's true. Someone says sounds like he's married
and you're single. Unfortunately he's correct. For better for worse,
(01:01:40):
that's what just happened the worst. Consider it a wash
and next year hopefully you'll be caught up and get
a refund. Don't let it ruin your marriage. Joint means together,
what's yours is his, and what's his is yours. That
goes for debt two when you join as one. Blah
blah blah. So most there's a lot of com on
(01:02:00):
comments on here. A lot of them are pretty much
like you guys should be for better or for worse.
Speaker 1 (01:02:06):
It's a joint thing.
Speaker 3 (01:02:07):
And that's why I opened it up with Either you're
gonna have taken on the chin and just be like, shit,
it happened, just move on, Or you're gonna be over
this x amount of money for the entirety of your
marriageer until you get back, or until one of you
guys even is to score like it doesn't really make it.
Speaker 2 (01:02:22):
And you know what, if I was in this position,
Let's say like we talked about finances and blah blah blah,
and everything seemed okay, right, everything seemed legit, and nothing
of the sort seemed like it would pop up in
the future. I found my taxes were a married couple,
and then all of a sudden, the irs takes my
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refund because it turns out that he owes money. I'm
gonna be like, you, mother effort, I can't believe you
like to me, that's my money that I worked for.
Speaker 1 (01:02:52):
And then I'm gonna be like, you know what, I
don't think I can trust you.
Speaker 2 (01:02:56):
I'm probably gonna start making a plan to exit yep,
because I wouldn't be able. I wouldn't have any peace.
I would have no peace because I'd be like, Okay,
what else are you lying about? What else are you
not being truthful about? What else are you being sneaky about?
And now that we're married, everything should be out in
(01:03:18):
the open. My step should be out in the open.
Your step should be out in the open. The fact
that you're not telling me about finances something that is
so important because it's crucial in our survival. You know,
what I mean, and like our livelihoods. No, I'd rather
just deal with this on my own. But I only
(01:03:39):
got to that point to even having that kind of
a mindset because of what I went through with a
long time ago. But if I hadn't gone through that,
then i'd probably be like, oh, well, let's I forgive you,
but I'm going to be upset, but I'll forgive you.
But you know so yeah, But I was just like, oh,
(01:04:01):
hell no, because it's the principle of it, Like, you're
not even you kept it from me. I know that
you knew about owing money and you just didn't want
to say anything.
Speaker 1 (01:04:12):
And now I have.
Speaker 2 (01:04:13):
To lose because of you because of your mistakes. Oh no,
that's not coul whatsoever, to paraphrase, And yes, I want
my money or then I don't need to have anything
to do in this relationship.
Speaker 3 (01:04:25):
Yeah, well I think that would be once see this
is yeah, that's if you were to make the decision
of that marriage not being worth it anymore.
Speaker 1 (01:04:33):
Yeah, because I wouldn't have the peace of mind.
Speaker 3 (01:04:36):
I feel like, yeah, any amount of money shouldn't be
worth more than the marriage. Feel like the marriage should
be worth more than the amount of money, but if
obviously trust, if you don't have that trust in the matter.
It's like mister Abel test Face said it best off
paraphrase if he said something to the effect of, like
I can fuck my own life up eggs, which is true.
(01:04:58):
I think about that all the time. I think that,
I think about that all the time.
Speaker 1 (01:05:02):
Oh my god, I need that.
Speaker 3 (01:05:05):
I'm paraphrasing that. He didn't. He didn't just say that verbatim,
but yeah, it's just true. I can. I don't need
you for you to fuck my life. I can do
that to myself, like I don't need another person to do.
Speaker 4 (01:05:15):
That for me exactly.
Speaker 3 (01:05:17):
I think if a lot of more people kind of
took that mindset, I think you probably see a lot
more happier, probably more maybe slightly more successful people. But
at the end of the day, I mean teach their
own And like I said, I'm not married, so who
am I to speak.
Speaker 2 (01:05:31):
On and I'm not married either, But shout out to
Greg and Dre because they do have some interesting maybe
not interesting I need to figure out a different synonym,
but they have some thought provoking situations that I'm like, Okay, before.
Speaker 3 (01:05:50):
We wrap this thing up, thing on up, do you
know which two songs were released on this day, March
twenty first?
Speaker 1 (01:05:56):
Is it One Sweet Day by Mariah Carey?
Speaker 2 (01:05:58):
Possibly it came up right now and people you may know,
I swear to God that's.
Speaker 4 (01:06:11):
Not it either, and he's not it either.
Speaker 2 (01:06:15):
Uh so it's not One Sweet Day by Mariah Carey.
Speaker 3 (01:06:18):
No, what is it? So the older one will go
with the one that came out a little bit further.
Speaker 2 (01:06:25):
Is Try Again by Leah When was that like nineteen
ninety ninety No.
Speaker 3 (01:06:29):
Two thousand and one, mark twenty first two one?
Speaker 1 (01:06:32):
And how sad she passed away just a few months later?
Speaker 3 (01:06:36):
That is pretty sad. Wow, twenty five years ago?
Speaker 1 (01:06:40):
Twenty five years ago.
Speaker 3 (01:06:43):
Twenty first, two thousand, that is crazy? Do you know
what the recipes? Do you know what the other one was?
Speaker 1 (01:06:52):
That songs twenty five years which is crazy?
Speaker 3 (01:06:55):
That's almost as old as I am.
Speaker 1 (01:06:57):
What the hell? Okay?
Speaker 2 (01:07:00):
The other one, I'm gonna say something by Shania Twain close. Oh,
how did I know? It was something in the country?
Speaker 3 (01:07:08):
Well it was actually not country, I think more oh
not pop punk ska think like scop.
Speaker 1 (01:07:16):
Scop Okay, no doubt.
Speaker 2 (01:07:18):
You're actually don't speak so not don't speak, Okay, is it?
Speaker 1 (01:07:25):
I'm just a girl in the world. That's a that Okay.
Speaker 3 (01:07:30):
I think if if one of if the lead singer
of that group, went on to have a solo career,
isn't Nirvana, Well, it's still the same group. So Gwen Stefani,
if that was a rich girl a little after.
Speaker 2 (01:07:44):
That Halla Back really well like fifteen years ago.
Speaker 3 (01:07:50):
I don't know. I don't know the exactly two and six.
I think twenty five, but mark twenty.
Speaker 2 (01:07:53):
First, wow, two thousand and five, think about the ten six.
Speaker 1 (01:08:01):
That was high school?
Speaker 3 (01:08:03):
Yeah, what now? What does it mean? Hallow back girl?
Speaker 2 (01:08:06):
That's like I think it means like like hey, oh
so like like.
Speaker 3 (01:08:12):
Cat calling and she did. This is a woman that
doesn't respond to cat calls. She's not a hallow back girl.
Speaker 2 (01:08:19):
Like hold on, let me think a few times have
been around that track, so it's not just gonna happen
like that, because I.
Speaker 1 (01:08:27):
Know, howl the back girl.
Speaker 2 (01:08:28):
Okay, I think it means like right, thought, like she's
not gonna she's not the girl that's like the second
time around, Like she's only gonna like you only get
her once once and that's it. Like she's not gonna
HaLow back young and ooh, like she's not gonna be
like that. Now, you want to know what else happened
(01:08:51):
nineteen years ago that has to do with pop culture
twenty five?
Speaker 3 (01:08:56):
So hold on ty twenty five nineteen. That thousand and four,
doesn't I think a thousand and four?
Speaker 2 (01:09:01):
I think no way, I think it's two thousand and six. No,
two thousand and six, right, I don't know. Anyways, it's debut.
Actually that is a good one, but it's not now
it's still on air, but there's been so it's a
(01:09:24):
giant How do you even know what that is?
Speaker 3 (01:09:29):
His family got made fun of it.
Speaker 1 (01:09:30):
That's okay.
Speaker 2 (01:09:32):
I was gonna say, there's no way that you like
know what that is on your own? Oh my god,
it's actually the Real Housewives series. Oh just of okay, yeah,
just the whole series.
Speaker 3 (01:09:44):
This is obviously created by Bravo. Yeah, and who exactly
is the creator of this?
Speaker 1 (01:09:50):
Mmm? So that's actually a good question.
Speaker 3 (01:09:54):
So and this was inspired by like the Real World,
but if it was only wives.
Speaker 1 (01:10:01):
So I think it's more like.
Speaker 3 (01:10:03):
Or like Big Brother, but it was only Big Mothers, Big.
Speaker 1 (01:10:05):
Sisters, Big mother Trucker, Big Wives. So you know what.
Speaker 2 (01:10:11):
I feel like I should know this right because I'm
a pop culture connoisseur, But I don't remember. Now I
want to say no, not, I want to say I
know for sure. The OC the television show on Fox
that came out first, that was I believe two thousand
and three.
Speaker 3 (01:10:28):
How do the Real Housewives correlate with those?
Speaker 2 (01:10:30):
Well, because now, the The Real Housewives of the OC
was the first season of this series.
Speaker 3 (01:10:38):
We're married. These women were married to the characters in
the show, or they just married to people who happen
to be in Orange County.
Speaker 2 (01:10:45):
So the women were the housewives of the celebrities. No,
none of them are celebrities. Random, Yeah, but.
Speaker 3 (01:10:56):
The men wives happened to be desirable enough to be
put on TV.
Speaker 1 (01:10:59):
Correct.
Speaker 2 (01:11:00):
Now, obviously the men were not the focal points, right,
it was the correct So the men were like, what
else the backdrop?
Speaker 3 (01:11:09):
Correct had to exist for a wife.
Speaker 2 (01:11:10):
To exist, Yes, exactly, And so this is when it
was like in its rawness infancy.
Speaker 1 (01:11:17):
Infancy.
Speaker 2 (01:11:18):
Yes, but this is when I would say that it
was like the most authentic, the most real.
Speaker 3 (01:11:24):
Let's let's go to like pre production for a second.
So you're a thirty five year old forty forty five
year old woman in the Orange County Huntington Beach, Anaheim.
But what else those one of two like cities in
Orange County.
Speaker 2 (01:11:37):
I know, Uh, there's also like Laguna Woods or Wine Beach,
Laguna Beach.
Speaker 3 (01:11:44):
So you're a you're a significant of your wife, you're
a spouse living in one of these cities, okay, and
you just happen to be like out and like a
production assistant just happens to see you and they're just like, hey,
come on this TV show and you say yes because I.
Speaker 1 (01:11:59):
Well, why not.
Speaker 2 (01:12:00):
I'm a housewife, right, I've got nothing else to do.
I mean, I'm tired of writing on my husband's coat tail,
so why not make a name for myself. However, Vicki
gun Wilson, who was I think that was maybe the
woman that they approached first, or maybe she had like
one of the main ideas or something.
Speaker 1 (01:12:20):
She was not just a housewife.
Speaker 2 (01:12:21):
She actually had her own like insurance business Coda d'acoso
or Cosa dacado or something like that in the OC.
And so she was actually a working class house yeah,
and she had her own money. And so I want
to say that she was like kind of taking care
of her husband financially, Coda, decaso. Anyways, I think that's
(01:12:43):
what it was called. So she actually was like and
is financially yes, But the other ones I think they
were actual, like like legit like housewife if you will. Yeah,
so shout out. So what was your question?
Speaker 3 (01:13:06):
I just want to know kind of like what.
Speaker 1 (01:13:08):
What prompts you to even watch something.
Speaker 3 (01:13:10):
That prompts you even come up with the idea.
Speaker 2 (01:13:13):
I think they just wanted to show because this is
when reality TV shows like revolving families.
Speaker 3 (01:13:21):
Hogan's Hogan knows best.
Speaker 2 (01:13:23):
Remember we used to watch them obviously the Simple Life,
but they weren't like the Osborn's. Yes, they kind of
like wanted to probably expand.
Speaker 3 (01:13:35):
On that and so that we mentioned last week.
Speaker 2 (01:13:38):
Oh my gosh, ago, John, can you believe when that
aired they were in their like early thirties.
Speaker 3 (01:13:45):
Which is crazy. They look like they're in the which
is crazy.
Speaker 1 (01:13:49):
I know, John and Kate plus eight.
Speaker 3 (01:13:52):
Anyways, So okay, so before we I guess we already
I already said that, but I give you one last hurrah. Yeah,
what so out of all the housewives and all the
cities that the Housewives are in, which is like the
best city to be a housewife in.
Speaker 2 (01:14:10):
There's so many cities. Okay, there's o c There's New York.
There's Beverly Hills. There's Potomac which I never watched that,
but your mom did. There's oh my gosh, Atlanta. There
was Salt Lake City. I'm sure I'm missing some. I
(01:14:31):
think there was Dubai, but that's not a city that's
like a whole like entity. Uhh, you know, I'm gonna
Atlanta look like a lot of fun. And there were
some There were some stars on there, like Candy Burriss.
Oh my gosh, shout out to Tamron Hall. Now I
(01:14:54):
don't remember where she's from, but I would love to
see y Hall.
Speaker 1 (01:15:02):
Yes, who else? Beverly Hills.
Speaker 2 (01:15:08):
Obviously it had like actresses on like or like socialites
on like the lower Denise Richards and she was married
to yes, but now she's with some other guy. But
she's on I think the Beverly Hills season.
Speaker 1 (01:15:25):
Yeah, so.
Speaker 3 (01:15:28):
Of Mumbai, Mombi, Hey, move bit over here, bit, okay,
move bit?
Speaker 1 (01:15:40):
Oh my god? Now hold on.
Speaker 2 (01:15:42):
If there was like a real Housewives or Households of Fresno, Yes,
what well, you know, there's something called the bob house
right with.
Speaker 3 (01:15:52):
It, might as well know bop house. A BoPET in
this house, you're if you're in this house, you're a bop.
That's like BOP's only for this house. You're not allowed
here if you're not a bop.
Speaker 4 (01:16:05):
So just just be mindful of that old done.
Speaker 1 (01:16:09):
So if someone asked you, yeah, we're scouting for.
Speaker 3 (01:16:13):
Local talent, and my wife happens to be desirable enough
to be on the.
Speaker 4 (01:16:17):
Show, do you want it?
Speaker 1 (01:16:19):
And like we saw you.
Speaker 3 (01:16:21):
At Costco, like really, we really like the way you
and your wife walk together.
Speaker 2 (01:16:25):
No, Like, do you want to star as her husband.
Speaker 3 (01:16:31):
In the show?
Speaker 1 (01:16:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:16:33):
Probably not.
Speaker 3 (01:16:34):
I don't think I don't think I would do too
well on the not even the fame. I don't think
I would do too well on a TV show. You
have to have some level of like entertainment value, and
you should have about zero or whatever is like the
negative amount of entertainment. I give any sort of entertainment value,
I give that to the person that's across from me.
So it's god. Anyone who's literally just it like next
(01:16:57):
to me just automatically gains entertainment value because they're that's
how that's how unentertaining I am that the person next
to me is just that much more interesting.
Speaker 2 (01:17:06):
But just by default, Now, how entertaining do you think
I would be? I feel like, honestly, I'm not that entertaining.
I'm very boring. I have some like quits, right, but
I'm not entertaining enough.
Speaker 3 (01:17:18):
So I think on a on like the TV spectrum,
I think you would need like a like you know
how producers like just come up with like, oh, a scenario. Yes,
I think if I think if you were given a scenario,
you would be able to make it work, but they
were just like all right, like action, I think you
I don't know if you'd be able to do that,
(01:17:39):
but I think if you're given a scenario like I agree,
there's like a gas seek in this house, and we
need you to like there's there's no actual gas, but
we need you to like convince the viewers at home
that there is actually a gas lead, I think you
could be able to do that. Or like someone giving birth,
like obviously not you giving birth, but I think like
(01:18:00):
someone's water just broke, I think you'd be good at
the person like announcing that the water broke and like that.
So it would be like, you know how like on
like I Love Money or like what any I guess
reality TV show where they would have the camera like
on just two people having a conversation, and like one
of them would like would hear.
Speaker 4 (01:18:21):
Something and they'd be like, wait is that so?
Speaker 3 (01:18:24):
So you wouldn't be one of the two people, but
you'd be the person that they hear okay, And then
the camera would go to you, Like there would be
the two people having the conversation they oh, okay, like
is that Mariah, and then the camera like the scene,
it would just go to the next scene and it would.
Speaker 2 (01:18:39):
Show you, oh my gosh, oh.
Speaker 3 (01:18:42):
My god, the water just broke. The water just broke,
or there's a gas leak, or maybe maybe the water
broke while the gas is leaky, and you have to decide, oh,
can we give birth in like a we have enough
time to give birth in.
Speaker 2 (01:18:57):
A while the houses leaking? Yes, that is so funny.
Speaker 3 (01:19:04):
Yes, but we will see you guys a last episode.
I actually said I was going to release it that night,
but I didn't. I actually released it that Sunday. That's
how tired I was, so oh okay, I won't make
any promises this, Yeah, I won't make any promises.
Speaker 2 (01:19:16):
Yeah, don't don't make promises that you can't can't keep.
Speaker 3 (01:19:20):
But yeah I'll make a Yeah, I will make promises.
But everyone enjoyed themselves. Everyone enjoyed this last little bit
of March. We have left. I think we have one
besides this one, we have one more episode left in March.
Speaker 2 (01:19:31):
Hey, did you know that George Lopez is uh, he's
going to be going to the Eagle Mountain Casino. Didn't
he walk off stage or he got boot off stage?
Speaker 3 (01:19:41):
What was it?
Speaker 4 (01:19:42):
I said something?
Speaker 3 (01:19:43):
I think this is why you don't marry black black people,
said something like that. He had something about black people.
Speaker 4 (01:19:48):
I don't know, but I think he's a comedian.
Speaker 1 (01:19:51):
Did you know that he I think his whey.
Speaker 3 (01:19:55):
Cheated on his wife. That gave McKinney that extremely.
Speaker 1 (01:20:00):
Is like, yeah, what do you think about that?
Speaker 4 (01:20:02):
You know what?
Speaker 3 (01:20:02):
It doesn't surprise me that George Lopez specifically would do
that though, Like it doesn't surprise why because he doesn't
seem like the type to really like give a yeah,
like hey, I gave you this heart transplant. He just
like thinks like I needed a heart but that is
devoted to you. Yeah, I think mindset.
Speaker 2 (01:20:20):
So if you knew that your partner was like that,
would you still give them your kidney prior to like Yeah,
if you knew that your partner was like it was
like the I don't give a ship attitude, would you
still be inclined to help saving their life with your
organ my organ? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:20:37):
I think if I was dying, yes, if I was, well,
maybe not because I would think, okay, well maybe my
where my family members probably needs this organ more than
they do. But okay, if if it was a situation
where nobody else needs the ORGANI I was gonna die anyway,
Sure take it.
Speaker 2 (01:20:52):
Oh okay, but what if you saw like a lot
of life left to live, Yeah, just.
Speaker 3 (01:20:56):
Going to die without my even knowing that they wouldn't
give a if I yes, yes, you know what, I
would probably be like, you know what, I'm jealous that
you're gonna go to heaven, Like I'm jealous that you're
gonna get to experience the after life, And I'm jealous
that you're gonna get the experience to mention that none
of us here are gonna be able to see. So
I wouldn't even be so okay, just like you're gonna
move on to a different, different playing existence and I
(01:21:19):
have to wait x amount. Wow, where's my yeah that? Hey?
Speaker 1 (01:21:28):
You said it best, super Kawai.
Speaker 3 (01:21:32):
Alright, we will see you guys SA out there. Thank
you for.
Speaker 1 (01:21:39):
Keeping keep on keeping on shot.
Speaker 3 (01:21:50):
I, where's my snare? I have no snare in my headphones.
Where's my snare? M? I have no snare on my headphones.
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Speaker 2 (01:22:16):
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Speaker 3 (01:22:18):
I have no snare on my headphones. Where's my snare
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Speaker 3 (01:38):
Yes, I think this episode sponsored by Costco.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Okay, yes, shout out to that greasy ass pizza you.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
Know, wasn't that?
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Actually, I just it's way too much. So the reason
why I want, Okay, the reason why I.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Wanted today's episode to be sponsored.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
By Costco is because they're still doing the DEI no, actually.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
No, it's because when I was there.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
I want to say, Thursday or Wednesday? When is there
a Thursday? I don't know if it's new, but I've
seen they have a strawberry banana smoothie. Oh okay, and
I was very interested. So I got it, and I
was like, Okay, this tastes like a dessert treat, which
is not where I really want from my strawberry banana smooths.
I want it to taste a little more like healthy. Yeah,
(02:28):
and I guess you really, it's kind of hard to
get that because there's both extremely sugary fruits, but these
you want to at least make it seem like you're
drinking something that's not unhealthy.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Right, So, yeah, that is true.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
I look it up. Actually, I'm like, how much sugar
is in the Costco smoothie? Do you care?
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Scared?
Speaker 4 (02:44):
I was gonna it's not as much as.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
The what caramel Vancy crunch I was forced to drink against.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
My will, you know, you know what. Let me look
that one up right now.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
But so I before I actually google it, I'm gonna
go with so the venty I said almost has one
hundred The venty caramel crunch has almost one hundred grams
of sugar. So this what strawberry banana smoothie, and this was.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Not a ventzi.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
This is probably about half of that, maybe a little
bit less, Okay, more than half.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
So we'll go like a small medium, yeah, or a
tall or a sixteen ounce whatever.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Maybe maybe like an eight ounce. You're like a twelve ounce.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Okay, ten ounce, nine ounce okay.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Eleven ounce, eleven ounces, I'm gonna go with probably I'm
gonna be very specific, like forty six grams of sugar, Okay.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
I appreciate the the being specific, Yes, very specific.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
No, No, it had less.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
More more yes, more.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Like sixty nine yes, actually exactly yer, exactly sixty nine
grams of sugar.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Why?
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Yes? And I immediately could tell because it didn't taste
like your ordinary strawberry banana smoothie tastes like, like I said,
dessert something you would give them out the frozen like
section out the freezer.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Hold on, did they make Did they make these in
front of you or they're already ready to go, made
to order?
Speaker 3 (04:11):
No, well, I'm sure it's probably this made the same
way when it just comes out the dispenser. It's not
like they're making it from scratch like it's already dispenses
out the machine.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Hold on one sec. So you said you got the caramel, Oh, crunched.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
I didn't get that. That was it was given to me, right,
But okay, don't make.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
It sound like I'm actively taking part in that.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
So hold on, I'm looking at the sugar content. Now
I may have gone a little overboard. Carmel, ribbon crunch,
frappacino blended beverage allegedly. Allegedly, So it has four hundred
(04:59):
and seventy cow Okay.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
I thought you're gonna say gram to sugar.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
I was.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
I'll just say no way.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
So okay, it only has sixty grams of sugar.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
And I say.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Only because that's less than what you expected.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Correct Now I put in okay, so this is for
a grande.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Okay, Now let's and the grande is about the size
of the.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
The grande is sixteen ounces.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
That's about the size of the Bananas.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Movie, okay.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
And then the tall is twelve and then the vent
the ventie is twenty four ounces, which is crazy.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
Yes, wait, so twelve ounces is the tall? No isn't?
But convert that twelve ounces is the leader?
Speaker 3 (05:39):
Or what is it is that I'm sorry for any
math scholars of mathematicians.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Yeah, I have no idea, and I should know this, right, like.
Speaker 4 (05:47):
Twelve inches of foot twelve ounces.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Is how many million liters?
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Isn't that our job as.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Yeah, you're absolutely right.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Worth that immediately, that which I had to do today,
and I just kind of made it.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Up on this really, so what what was it?
Speaker 3 (06:02):
So? I had I think the output okay from this
patient's catheter was around like two fifty and she has
where intake or what his intake was okay, And I
genuinely kind of had a ballparking, So I said two
forty because a ounce your average what eight ounce cup?
Times that by thirty forty because each ounce is thirty
(06:23):
mili leaders, right, I guess, So like as it sounds
sounds yeah, it.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Sounds like that's correct, You're probably that good for you,
because I if that were on a test right now,
I would have just almost.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Certain I think for every one ounce, I think at
thirty mili leaders. I think.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Okay, So hopefully once you do medical math, whenever that
time will come.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Maybe when I die, and that's just I'll do it
for sport.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Yes, after life in college.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
You will be better verse at math than me, because
I I completely forgot.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Anyways, back to uh, make a bad nutritional choice that.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Is a lot of sugar, yes, And so it's like
which one at that point.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
You might want to get Starbucks?
Speaker 1 (07:07):
You might as well get the Starbucks one. The Starbucks one.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
It's gonna taste a lot richer, it's gonna be like
ever lasting on your palate, especially all of that caramel,
and then you've got the crunch with it as well, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
The crunch. I'm not even the biggest caramel fan.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
But at least with Starbucks, you know, like cam, you're
not going to be surprised that it's unhealthy. Whereas Costco,
I feel like, I mean, they.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Really shouldn't disappointing.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Maybe disappointing, but it's like, I don't know why I
have the perception that Costco is healthy. I know, and
it's really just about as unhealthy as anything, not as anything.
Speaker 4 (07:41):
But it could be as.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Unhealthy as anything or as healthy as.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Anything, I think because Costco is supposed to be quality. Yeah,
so when you think quality, you think.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
Okay, health or healthy.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Right, their ingredients are going to be just better, which.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
Might I guess maybe for like so maybe you'll just
die slower. You won't.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
You'll die at seventy.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Five, is said, and dying at like sixty five from
heart disease, you'll die at eighty fo old age.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
So I think actually the life expectancy for men in
this country is like seventy it's lower.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
I'm just saying if you were if you were to
drink specifically Starbucks stuff, you probably die like a little
sooner than if you were to drink Costco stuff. You'll
die the same stuff, just different ages.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Yes, all, what I'm trying to say is that we
don't have that much time left.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
I think for women we.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Die, we our life expectancy is like eighty two or something,
but men it's like seventy something.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
So you have about fifty one more years, but that's.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Not a lot.
Speaker 4 (08:42):
Forty nine more years.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
And you have and then you drink both Starbucks.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
And oh that's not true.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Actually don't blend every every day. I go get Stars
do that.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
I had my Starbucks today.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
But you know what, can I just say, So I'm
trying to cut back on the price that I'm paying
at Starbucks, not only for my health but my wallet.
And so I was like Okay, I'm not gonna do
the shot of espresso this.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Time, because that's an extra three dollars.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
It's like a stupid like dollars seventy five or some
stupid shit like that.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Pa almost And how do you know they're putting that
shot in there? They could just tell you they are, Oh,
you know what, you're right.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
But so today I could tell the difference because the
drink was extra sweet because that shot of espresso, like
it's obviously more coffee, right, so it's stronger, it's it's
more bitter. And so I was like, okay, so I
always get the same grande iced coffee, two pump sugar
free vanilla, heavy cream, and a shot of espresso, but
(09:50):
today I said no espresso, so just the heavy cream
and the two pump sugar free vanilla. I still got
charged forty cents h for heavy cream.
Speaker 4 (10:02):
I'm like, and they usually don't do that.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
I don't remember them.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
And then right away she's like, okay, there's a question
on here. No if I want to leave a tip,
I'm like, no, I anyways, I'm just complaining that a
forty surcharge for heavy cream really, and like, fuck you, Starbucks.
I'm like I, I need to stop going there because
(10:28):
it's just a waste of money. And I and I
buy coffee. You see, I have all that cold brew.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
The you Bon?
Speaker 1 (10:37):
Is that what it sounded like?
Speaker 3 (10:40):
The brand the Bon? Know, the the u Bon coffee?
Isn't there like the brand u Ban or you Bon?
The I don't know why u b a. It's like
the brown tin with the gold top. What is that?
Speaker 2 (10:53):
I have no idea. The one I bought today was
I think it's busy? Is that what it's called busy?
It's like organic, the breakfast blend whatever it's on sale
at Target all the time. Speaking of eating and food
and whatnot? Did you know that right there? I won't name.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
Exactly if I think if you say what's going there,
you're gonna name our location. We're exactly where. And I
think I know what you're gonna talk about?
Speaker 4 (11:17):
A famous uh fast footery.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Did you see it on Reddit yesterday?
Speaker 3 (11:22):
Yes? Actually I did.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
We probably follow a lot of the same people.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
Yeah, when I don't, I don't actually really follow. We
probably follow the same subreddits, but not any individuals.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Oh, I definitely don't you follow individual people on Reddit?
Speaker 3 (11:38):
No, you just said right now, we followed this. I
thought you were gonna say we follow the same people.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Oh no, Sorry, When I say people, I mean I
guess just like subreddits, if that's what you call it.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Anyway.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
Yeah, I seen it in I r L first and
then literally about thirty minutes later I seen it. Yeah
post Wait.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
So you it says that it's gonna be in and out.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
Yes, r L. Yes, so too. Which angey you're going from?
If you will say the how do I say it? Yeah,
if you're coming from the side of the elementary school,
then you're not going to probably see it the the
elementary school, you're not going to see it.
Speaker 4 (12:13):
If you come from the exact opposite.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
Side, you'll see it.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
Oh okay.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
And right here, I'm looking at the picture and uh
so I r L. You can see that target is
being built.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Because it has it looks it's the circle.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Yeah, it has like the big banner and the circle.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
See I didn't see that. I've seen just the structure
and it looks like a target.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Yes, so, and that one I had already heard on
the news and whatnot that that's what was going to
be going there anyways. As well as the home goods
heat Smart and I want to say there's something else
unless it's the in and out anyways, So if you're looking,
I won't name the exact coordinates, but if you're looking,
(12:57):
hold on because right now I'm looking at the schule
and then the car washes right.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
Next to it, so I guess that's looking.
Speaker 3 (13:06):
Like directly directly in the sun.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Yeah. Anyways, but I'm excited for this. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:15):
Yeah. My first thought was like, I imagine I would probably
just go to that, yeah, instead of the one on
black Someone, but I kind of I so I went
from always going to the close one, which always gets packed,
it's it never isn't packed. I then I switched to
going to the Blackstone one, which I kind of found
like my sweet spot there because it's usually not pack.
(13:37):
I mean, if you go at certain times, it's it's
it's packed, it's in and out, But at the Blackstone
it's like people kind of forget or like just avoid
that one for some reason. So I don't mind going
to that one. But now since this new one's going
to be opened up, we'll do literally walk there. Yeah. Yeah,
but didn't see that forces you to order inside, which
I feel like that takes.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
Longer that's okay, okay. So I usually so when I
because I have to have a very specific craving for
In and Out for me to go, I'm the opposite
you're they're all like, that's your spot.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
Well only because it's like it. It's just it's never
not what I expect. Like I've never gone to.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
In and Out and been like, damn, this is not
especially it's never disappointing. Ever, it's never disappointing. But I
usually go to the one on Jensen, and that one's
quite a drive, right, it's about what like fifteen.
Speaker 3 (14:36):
Minutes actually wouldn't even that's like the.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
Trucks are, yes, the truckers and the people coming back
from out of leaving fresnot whatever. So that's like my
number one spot. And I think it was a few
months ago I went to the one in Clovis.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
Mhm.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
That was ridiculous, yea, the lot was. I was just like,
what the hell?
Speaker 3 (15:03):
Yeah, stupid.
Speaker 4 (15:04):
Usually like it's always like that.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
No, screw that, So I left.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
And then the Blackstone one, now that's one that I literally.
Speaker 3 (15:14):
Never go to. I think never can. I think most
people never consider it either, which actually makes it like
an ideal spot to go because it's usually there's usually
people there, but it's never, never, ever consistently like no.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
So now is this you? Someone says, fuck, finally, can't wait.
First thing I'm an order is a four by four
animal style no pickles, Add a whole grilled onions with
additional chopped raw onions. Add chopped peppers for a little
bit of heat, extra toasted buns for that crunch in
every goddamn bite. Ask for them to cut this delicious
montrocity in half because Lockjawn can't forget about him. Fries
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well done, extra crispy, with that delicious and savory spread
on this side.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
If you know you know, so, oh time out.
Speaker 4 (15:57):
I'm sorry, and.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
It's I why k I wait?
Speaker 3 (16:02):
I if you know you know?
Speaker 4 (16:05):
I y k.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
So I hold on pouring or sour ing, s O,
I hold on s O r I n k E sirenc.
Speaker 3 (16:20):
Serene ku or siren. You're asking me as if I
know what that is.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
Doreenque some black pepper and salt and so wese some
lemon juice on the fries, and I can guarantee you'll
shout hell yeah. Someone said, I can't tell if this
is trolley or if that's in fact a fine order
because it sounds delicious.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
It's a real order, partner, make sure you try it
hots Okay.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
So, I respect the I respect the dedication to the
complex order, but I don't.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Do it if I'm not a Toyota thought. I'm eating
good local frozno eats.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
Okay, I'm sorry, shout out sponsored go to the next
and mentioned w I t and get what any car
and they'll pay the down payment they'll give you.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
They'll give me and and out we'll pay the car
payment and they'll have that exactly.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
Psengers and you have to eat it.
Speaker 4 (17:27):
If you don't, the deal is void. No.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
So I was following it up until they mentioned the sauce,
as if that was some sort of secret.
Speaker 4 (17:36):
No one else like he's the only one that knew.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
He's like, hey, just just a tip, right when you
go ask for the sauce.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
Well, I've never heard of the lemon on the fries.
Speaker 3 (17:48):
I respect the the I don't know what word you
want to use, but just how difficult the order is
and how irritated the employee.
Speaker 4 (17:54):
Must be having to make that.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
But yeah, I mean to each show this person, really,
this person definitely loves it in and out more than
I do.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
And yeah, and they love Frozeno's Toyota than.
Speaker 3 (18:07):
What's at combination I know.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
So you know what, that was actually a very good
what is it?
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Ad?
Speaker 2 (18:15):
Because now I'm like, okay, I didn't eat any dinner.
Speaker 3 (18:19):
Maybe you had the option to.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
So this is this is where I'm gonna go now tonight.
If I feel like driving somewhere after this, I think
I may go.
Speaker 4 (18:29):
And mention w I T and he may.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Get the whole thing for free. So there's a lot
of course that is going. I don't even know where
to start. Let me start with this hold on. Okay,
So so.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
This is I R L true story.
Speaker 2 (18:49):
So I had my midterm yesterday for nutrition, and by
the grace of God and by the grace of me
studying for the past few weeks, I got in. So
I got an A right on the edge of glory, right,
and then I looked at my I just happened last night.
I woke up in the middle of the night and
I just happened to notice that he changed my grade.
(19:12):
So I was like, holy shit, Okay, So, by the
grace of God, I ended up getting a ninety percent.
And then, like I said, I saw that he bumped
up my grade. So I ended up actually really getting
like a ninety six percent on that midterm. And so
(19:32):
I was like, okay, I don't know what I did,
but he changed my grade.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
I got a better grade on it. Hallelujah.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
Right.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
I was so happy. So yesterday we.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
Are all in the computer lab and we're getting ready
to take the mid term for a.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Nutrition and the teacher.
Speaker 2 (19:52):
Excuse me, explicitly, it explicitly says in the beginning, do
not have anything on your desk. Don't have anything on
your desk. Bring your cell phones up, pere. This is
that what school clovis adult, okay, and so you know,
make sure there's nothing on your guys' desks. Just the
computer open. Only have one tab and that's it.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
Right. So we're all adults, so we should be able
to follow those rules.
Speaker 3 (20:15):
Correct.
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Obviously not. So there's someone who has their cell phone now,
and then.
Speaker 4 (20:24):
The d O n of Close Community.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
Yes, of the nursing program just happens to.
Speaker 3 (20:31):
Come in and she's very anti cell phone.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
So she just starts and I'm in the very beginning
by myself. There's no one next to me, and I
made sure that I put my cell phone in the
little cubby, and and I wasn't. I don't think anyone
was expecting the d N to come in. But she
comes in and she goes straight to the back and
she is just like looking at everybody, right, and she
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tells this girl, you have your cell phone out, and
she goes, well, it's turned off, and she's like, nope,
you're not supposed to have anything on your desk.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
Give me your phone and she breaks it.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
And so she didn't break it, but she put it
in the cubby the d N and I was like,
oh shit. And then she tells another girl, you have
a water bottle.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
On your desk.
Speaker 3 (21:17):
You're not even allowed to be hydrated during this test.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
So this is to be dehydrated. So that way you're wow,
like can suffer. So that's not even it. So like
five minutes past or.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
Something, right, and you have your inhaler on this desk,
you have your oxygen out this desk.
Speaker 1 (21:36):
Come you're Canniela ready to go.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
And so so yeah, like five minutes past and everyone's
still taking the tests, right, and the d N goes
up to our teacher and He's like, okay, I'll talk
to her. And I was like, oh my god, like, I.
Speaker 3 (21:54):
Know it's about you.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
So no, Well, at one point I was like, are
the looking at me?
Speaker 1 (22:01):
You know?
Speaker 3 (22:02):
Because you had multiple things on your desk. I hadtile
going off at once, I had.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Multiple tabs open. Just kidding, I didn't. And so I
was like, oh my gosh, what happened? And so he
calls up this my classmate who I don't even remember
who she what her name is, but he calls her
up and in front of like practically the entire freaking class,
he goes.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
Isn't that the same shirt from yesterday?
Speaker 1 (22:30):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (22:35):
Didn't you have this song last class.
Speaker 3 (22:40):
Before?
Speaker 4 (22:40):
I've seen that? Go ahead, thro go ahead, And so he.
Speaker 1 (22:45):
Says, did you were you googling? Answers?
Speaker 3 (22:49):
Right now?
Speaker 1 (22:51):
The do o N saw her in the back.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
She must have been in the back that student and
the d O N just happened to see her. So
now I don't know now that I think about it,
because I told your dad what happened, And now that
I think about it, I'm like, Okay, did she do
it on her cell phone? Or did she open up
another tat on the computer? And start googling answers.
Speaker 4 (23:18):
Well do you think she was doing as the d
N was there?
Speaker 3 (23:20):
Or how do you so? She obviously.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
So.
Speaker 2 (23:25):
But the thing is is, I don't know if everyone
knows who the d O one is because I.
Speaker 1 (23:29):
Don't know who.
Speaker 3 (23:31):
So that person or that lady or teacher or not
the teacher, the student, the impression like okay, this person
has Ziro authority over I know, right in front of them.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
I know.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
If but if that were me, and if I saw
somebody walking in who I.
Speaker 4 (23:45):
Didn't, yeah, I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (23:46):
That wouldn't be scared because I'm like, oh, who is
this person?
Speaker 1 (23:50):
You know what I mean? And so, uh, he goes,
were you googling answers and.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
She's like no, She's like okay, just making sure.
Speaker 2 (23:59):
No. She yes, okay, get your stuff, you got a zero,
and she goes, okay, thank you, and she grabbed her
backpack and she walked out.
Speaker 3 (24:09):
I know, sounds like she wasn't upset with the results.
Speaker 2 (24:11):
So okay, So I was like, okay, you know you
took accountability as you said. Yes, Now my thing is
what are your thoughts on on like do you think
somebody like that be No?
Speaker 1 (24:29):
Okay, hold on. When I say like that, I mean.
Speaker 2 (24:32):
Job who cheated on an on an exam. And mind you,
this isn't even like a freaking like Harvard.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
This is just close community.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
Nutrition midterm, not even the final, just just uh a
mid term, right, obviously it's it. It means a lot because.
Speaker 3 (24:50):
You're saying there's more importance at the cheat off of,
or cheat on or cheat for.
Speaker 2 (24:54):
Yeah, but what I'm saying also asking is do you
think that this person should even be able to apply
for the nursing program.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
That's a good question because so my first thought, well
technically my second, My first and original thought was maybe
this person's like trying to avoid something so they purposely
got caught to like extend their time in the class.
Maybe they have like a not so like peaceful relationship
at home. The more time they spend in this class,
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it's just the more they get away from like they knew,
Like they're like, okay'm about to graduate. What can I
do to keep myself in this class even longer so
I don't have to go back to gotcha?
Speaker 1 (25:33):
Okay?
Speaker 3 (25:34):
Okay, that was my first time. I'm trying to say, like,
you know how people who like I'll just keep working
so I don't have to go home. Maybe she's like,
I'll just keep being a student so I don't have
to go back.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
To Okay, Okay, that was.
Speaker 4 (25:45):
My first thought.
Speaker 3 (25:46):
Second thought, I don't want to say that she doesn't
deserve to apply again for the program, but you'd have
to imagine if this person's willing to kind of take Well, So, okay,
how about this, Maybe we should ask the question when
is cheating justifiable? Because I feel like just because you
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cheat on a test, that doesn't necessarily mean like you're
a bad person.
Speaker 2 (26:16):
I don't think it necessarily means that you're a bad
person either.
Speaker 3 (26:20):
Or to me, it really doesn't even does it even
mean that you have like a lack of judgment or
like what is it?
Speaker 4 (26:26):
Like?
Speaker 3 (26:26):
What is exactly what is the character like flaw or
what is how do you associate a person who cheats
on the test with their like moral or ethical like
well being?
Speaker 4 (26:38):
And that's what I'm trying to say.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
I don't want to be like a person a nurse
who's gonna cheat on a test is probably gonna do
something and like mm hmm their field of work that
probably isn't morally or ethically the right thing to do.
Speaker 4 (26:49):
But I feel like that be looking a.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
Little too deep into it just for a test, because
it's not like I feel like a true like measure
of like someone's like more ethic like ethical like standard
is like if they have to do that or not. Okay,
like they you guys had to take that test.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
We had to take the test correct.
Speaker 3 (27:13):
So it's like, of course most people are going to
find ways to try to make something they have to
do a little easier, right, aka cheating.
Speaker 2 (27:21):
Or or study or But yeah, but I see, I
see what you're saying. Yeah, And I told your dad too.
I said, well, I said, you know, everyone's home environments
are different.
Speaker 1 (27:31):
I said.
Speaker 2 (27:31):
Maybe she didn't like ever have time to study. But
I said, but even so, I said, you like, even
if you just spent like an hour before class, just
like looking through the book real quick, you could there's
there's answers in there all. Literally every single answer is
in the book. So like as long as you, like,
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like I said, spent an hour, you could have at
least you know what I mean. But I just I
you bring up some good some things to think about.
I don't think that cheating necessarily means that you're a
bad person. Now, if it's something that's gonna like directly
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impact a human's life and you like skipped a step,
you know.
Speaker 3 (28:22):
And see this is I don't want to draw the
conclusion of like a person who would do that on
a test more than likely would skip a step on
a person's like life. I don't want to do that,
but part of me thinks that they might. But this
is just why I go. I feel like, if you're
purposely deceiving someone, you don't have to Okay, that makes
you like you're a bad person. Yeah, But if you're
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deceiving a person and that's like your only option is
like you kind of have to do that, or you're
deceiving a system and you kind of have to. Aka
cheating on a test, Yeah, I don't think that necessarily
makes you a bad person, but it wouldn't surprise me
if that same person did some questionable shit in their
own field of work.
Speaker 1 (29:00):
How many times have you cheated on tests?
Speaker 3 (29:02):
On test?
Speaker 4 (29:02):
Well, I shouldn't say that on air.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
Well, I'll start, let's say school only. We'll say that's
what I mean, Like, okay, anything past it, I won't say.
Speaker 4 (29:11):
But school only, there was a time.
Speaker 3 (29:15):
We'll say it was this eighth grade found no, no,
it was eighth grade per algebra, or maybe seventh grade.
Speaker 4 (29:23):
It was your seventh or eighth grade.
Speaker 3 (29:25):
And there was a girl that sat next to me
and she just let me copy off for tests and
I guess any any time that was available. So let's
say if there was ten tests and I could have
copied ten times, I probably would have done it ten times.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
So she is the questionable one.
Speaker 3 (29:40):
Yeah, but you know what, See, I don't think because
I would do the same thing, like if I if
I had all the answers and I the person next
to me want a car, like just take them shits.
I don't care.
Speaker 1 (29:50):
About that, like because you wouldn't be afraid that you're
gonna get caught.
Speaker 4 (29:53):
Oh maybe, may you know what?
Speaker 3 (29:55):
Probably? And then I would just feel like that person
just caught. I didn't know that they were copying. I
would just feel like that they did it without.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
Me knowing, okay, without my consent.
Speaker 3 (30:03):
Yeah, I just be like I had the paper right
that I must have not even noticed. And what is
the teacher gonna be like, No, I know you.
Speaker 4 (30:08):
Let them copy, Like.
Speaker 3 (30:11):
Oh my yeah, that and that's what I'm trying to say,
like a lot of that stuff, you're forced to do
that as a kid, Like you don't have the choice
of I guess you do. You're gonna fail it, but
you don't really have a choice as a child when
it comes to school. So it's like it doesn't surprise me,
or at least for myself. I mean, I'm gonna figure out, like, hey,
how can I do this with the least amount of
work as possible. Now, if there's something where if you're
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just manipulating people for sport, yeah, like that's just what
that's just what gets you often. Okay, you have some
seriously questionable yes, like therapeutic or some type of professional
help with that, because that's not cool at all. But
if you're in a situation where you kind of have
to do that, okay, taking a test, I mean I
don't see what the big deal is. And I think,
(30:57):
isn't that like what the trend is in college anyway?
Speaker 4 (30:59):
It's just cheat. It's like everyone who's in college.
Speaker 3 (31:02):
Just says, oh, yeah, I just cheat or get the
answers from quiz lit or just what's the difference between
going on online looking them up? You're yeah, like I
feel like if you were to take a poll out
of people that are in college right now, out of
one hundred percent, I'd say about sixty to seventy percent
of them probably just figure out a way. Hey, how
can I get this answer the easiest way possible?
Speaker 1 (31:23):
Or I guess now people do chat.
Speaker 3 (31:25):
Gpizza chat exactly, chat GPS.
Speaker 2 (31:27):
Now, while we're on this subject of nursing, how about
former nurse Radonda Vot. I don't know if you remember
this story. So I believe this was in Tennessee back
in twenty twenty two.
Speaker 3 (31:45):
She oh, I think we may have talked about it.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
Yes, okay, So the Tennessee Court of Appeals denied her
licensure her license being reinstated because because of what happened
with that incident.
Speaker 3 (31:59):
So cheat it on the test more like she cheated.
Speaker 1 (32:06):
You said it.
Speaker 2 (32:06):
I was definitely thinking it, but it was unfortunately someone
else's life. Yes, so remember or maybe you don't, but
she was I believe she was. I don't know if
she was training somebody that day, but she was pretty
much extremely distracted at work.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
It was a hectic day.
Speaker 2 (32:28):
She pulled the wrong medication and instead of pulling I
believe it was.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
She pulled like a.
Speaker 1 (32:40):
Yes alec exam.
Speaker 2 (32:41):
She pulled, she pulled, uh, oh, my gosh, I can't remember, versaid,
And she was supposed to pull something else, or she
would pulled something else that she was supposed to.
Speaker 1 (32:54):
Pull, versaid. Anyways, this.
Speaker 2 (32:59):
Let me just hell, yeah, Now, I've been around nurses
at my job and they end up getting orientees like
that freaking morning upon doing their other tasks as a nurse,
and I'm like, this is not safe because anything can happen.
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The nurses are still tending to their patients while training
students or I mean it's one student, but still, yeah,
that is not okay, like double the stress. Anyways, so
she ended up being charged with or I'm sorry, convicted
of criminal neglect homicide back in twenty twenty two. And
(33:41):
so anyways, she the Tennessee like it's a court of appeals,
said no, we're gonna continue still to not have your license.
Speaker 1 (33:54):
It's revoked.
Speaker 2 (33:55):
So now do you think and now I truly believe
that it was a mistake.
Speaker 3 (34:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
Now, the thing is, though, is that that medication, the
one that killed that patient. There's literally a red top
on there like as a warning, and somehow she still administered,
and so a lot of people are like there were
so many literal signs yea that were saying like, hey,
(34:28):
it's this medication that you're giving.
Speaker 3 (34:30):
This is it was. There was multiple opportunities.
Speaker 2 (34:36):
And on top of that, with their medication system, you
have to overwrite it. I think it's the same thing
with our system as well. You overwrite it, Like you
can overwrite it in the system and it tells you
like twice that you're yeah, that you're and what's the
reason for overwriting? So there were multiple opportunities for her,
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But she was saying, like it was such a hectic day.
I was training this person or whatever. I was there
as a resourcener, so like I wasn't even supposed to
be in that area to begin with.
Speaker 3 (35:14):
If that's not her like normal, like a yeah, whatever,
that kind of speaks for itself. I mean that says
a lot more about I fel like her facility the hospital.
Speaker 4 (35:29):
That they put her in that position.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
So I'm trying to see the Oh, okay, so she
incorrectly administered veacarnium instead of verse said, so one is
a sedative, I believe, and then the other one is
like a paralytic, I think, I think, And so the
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patient pretty much ended up like suffocating to death. And
so I think the patient was supposed to be getting
a CT scan, I think, and so that's why she
wanted to be sedated, because she was nervous, and so
she ended up giving her the paralytic. I think that's
(36:18):
what it was. And so, like I said, she ended
up I think passing away maybe in the CT machine.
I think that's what happened. And so anyways, so now
do you think in this case that someone like that
deserves a second chance or their nursing career is over.
Speaker 1 (36:40):
It's and that's it.
Speaker 3 (36:42):
This is where you have like you just have to
No one knows that person's like what truly went on?
Right Obviously I'm not saying that like she intended to give.
But once you make a mistake that big, it's almost
like you're not naturally. But most people are going to
(37:02):
be start looking for reasons why they messed up.
Speaker 2 (37:06):
The who the outsiders or the person the person themselves,
meaning they're gonna they're gonna replay the day or recall
the day like went wrong.
Speaker 3 (37:16):
Oh well, there was a lot of people and I
had an orientee and I'm not even in like there
was in their mind, like there was multiple reasons like
what went wrong?
Speaker 4 (37:25):
But we don't know the.
Speaker 1 (37:26):
Truth, correct, We can only speculate.
Speaker 3 (37:29):
Or go off her. Yeah, like a series of events, right, yes,
of retelling of events.
Speaker 2 (37:35):
So and you know what, sorry, I sorry to cut
you off. What I thought was very like, wow, was
the family of the victim of the patient they forgave
her and they said, you know what, like she suffered
enough already are I think it was their mom our
mom would have forgiven her to and so yeah, they
(37:58):
chose to to forget give her, which I speak, Yeah,
so I think if they forgave her, I mean, our
opinion kind of doesn't really even matter. Now how comfortable
are you with her taking care of your parents?
Speaker 4 (38:11):
Again?
Speaker 3 (38:12):
See? This is this is the thing I have to know,
like like truthfully what happened because if there were multiple
multiple like and this, I guess we wouldn't really know
until we're in that position. But it seems like if
there were multiple instances of her catching her mistake and
she still made the mistake, then it's.
Speaker 2 (38:32):
Like what like yeah.
Speaker 3 (38:35):
Like what truly happened? Because like that it just that's
not if I was on the other end of that.
I'm the part of the victim's family. I'm not gonna
just be like, Okay, I understand like you, I guess
that would have been more or response. We're gonna have
to cut that up.
Speaker 1 (38:55):
Stop from personal pause.
Speaker 2 (38:58):
Okay, So so you you're actually talking about something very
serious and I know I'm sorry anyways, but you know
it's this Just do you think that there's any anyone
hold on?
Speaker 3 (39:19):
I've like, before you answer that, let me ask another question.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
In all seriousness, this is something I'm one thousand percent
for real right now. This is something that I am
so afraid of when I become a nurse, is doing
having a MED error. And MED errors happen all the time,
they really do. MED errors happen all the time, but
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they're usually like very minuscule, non life threatening, like oh shit,
I accidentally gave tail and all instead of ibuprofen, or
I accidentally gave like one hundred five hundred milligrams and
said of two hundred, right, something simple like that.
Speaker 1 (40:03):
This is like on a.
Speaker 2 (40:04):
Whole another level. This would haunt me for the rest
of my life. So this is something that I am
like terrified of doing because I feel like I that
could potentially be me.
Speaker 1 (40:17):
No, I'm serious, Wilbert.
Speaker 3 (40:19):
I've had med errors and I don't even past meds
at my current my current occupation.
Speaker 2 (40:24):
Oh, you mean at the other people that shall it's
so and so it's easy.
Speaker 3 (40:29):
Right, especially it's easy. It's yeah, very easy.
Speaker 2 (40:33):
Yes, especially too because you have all those patients and
there's only one of you.
Speaker 3 (40:39):
Right, thing about and I'll say this right, passing meds
is a very fankless job. And it's like one of
those it's like a mind I shouldn't say a mind fuck.
I guess it's kind of like life, right, But passing
meds always frustrate me because it's one of those things
where you're expected to do it perfectly like that. That's
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the expectation, right, the expectation that it's supposed to be
done one hundred percent correct with zero errors. Yeah, and
when it's not, it's an issue. Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (41:11):
That's definitely.
Speaker 3 (41:12):
That's like the like frustrating part. Well, that's why I
call it thankless, because it's like you're your job is
to be perfect, and when you're not perfect, it's like
a problem. And that's why it's like that's there aren't
really too many other like are do you know any occupations?
And there are where you pretty much have to be
perfect Where a pilot, yeah perfect if you're a pilot,
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I mean you do have autopilot. But let's say you're
a skydiver, like a skydiving teacher, you kind of have
to be perfect. You can't really mess up doing that
because if you mess up at somebody's life right like that,
I don't know. I feel like that's like there's probably
more of the average person passing meds than there are
skydiving teachers.
Speaker 1 (41:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (41:53):
Yeah, so it's like that's what I'm saying, Like the
average that's such like an uncommon scenario to be in
for a very common person.
Speaker 1 (42:02):
I see what you're saying.
Speaker 3 (42:03):
Why it is just frustrating because like, why the hell
am I even doing this? Like I'm only doing this
because you have nobody else to do this available to
do it.
Speaker 2 (42:11):
And not only that, but there's a ton of pressure
because people are in pain or they neither yet, so
they're like, hurry up, I need my medication, and you're
trying to get to them as soon as you physically
freaking can, and so it's like, yeah, I could see
how one would accidentally get mixed up or you know
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what I mean, because you've got a ton of pressure.
But either way, that's crazy that you've passed meds and
I've never passed meds before.
Speaker 3 (42:40):
Yeah, I And that's I always say. The train that
we got was pretty much a thirty minute training, and
that is so not The training was pretty much it's
not even like necessarily it was. I think the biggest
thing I took away from it was if a med
falls on the table, you're fine. If it falls on
the floor, then it counts as like like you it
doesn't like it's not a vallid man to get rid
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of it.
Speaker 1 (43:03):
Which I would you have to get rid of it.
Speaker 2 (43:04):
Yeah, oh okay, where you work right now, there's I'd
say they're a little notorious fords and meds being found
between the sheets.
Speaker 3 (43:15):
Really, I feel like that falls a little bit on
maybe the resident a little.
Speaker 2 (43:18):
Bit, okay, victim blamer, well, not or meds being forgotten
like on the trays because a lot of the times
and you know, again a lot of pressures on the
nurse to pass out all these meds to like thirty people.
Speaker 1 (43:33):
Yeah, and so they're like here.
Speaker 2 (43:35):
And then the patient's like, oh, I'll take it later,
or they don't even see that the meds and then it's.
Speaker 1 (43:41):
Left on their tray.
Speaker 2 (43:43):
Yeah, that's happened many times, takes the med I've thought
about it. Uh AnyWho, So I don't want to. I
feel like we're on the topic of like not so good.
So here these are the twelve the top twelve rap kings.
Speaker 3 (44:05):
Okay, first off, who's who made this list?
Speaker 1 (44:08):
The same person that who wrote this?
Speaker 3 (44:11):
So me, that's a lot that's the past, like four
or five episodes.
Speaker 1 (44:16):
Oh okay, I thought that was just for today.
Speaker 3 (44:19):
No, here, I want to know who made the list
before because that would tell me how loud or even
relevant or if I want to hear it or not.
Speaker 1 (44:25):
Is there are there are twelve rap kings.
Speaker 3 (44:28):
You're not telling me who made the list, though, and
that's my interest in wanting to hear the list. And
I don't the reason why. It's because it's a list
at the end of the day is very much subjective,
so it's like this is just somebody's opinion. It is.
Speaker 1 (44:39):
And when I'm surprised that you don't know.
Speaker 3 (44:44):
What him Drake L. J rum DMC jay z eminem Nas.
Who am I missing?
Speaker 1 (44:54):
So okay, and I know I'm missing a few.
Speaker 2 (44:59):
This is the I don't know if this or I
think it's just no, this is the order I mean
of the screenshot, but that's what I mean.
Speaker 3 (45:05):
Yeah, this is other screen shots that may have it
in different orders. Wayne forgot him me okay.
Speaker 1 (45:14):
J Drake, Biggie Pop fifty m.
Speaker 3 (45:22):
So okay, that's occupation that reminds me of it.
Speaker 2 (45:28):
That is funny. You know, I'll take care so so
I'll give you. I'll give you my true, my true
thoughts on that, okay, my. And when I seen that,
I was like, okay, now everyone like cares about his
opinion because he had said that he made that list
after about like twenty year and thirty like insane things.
So it's like, why would that list matter if the
past twenty or thirty things he said didn't matter?
Speaker 1 (45:51):
Are those things more important to you?
Speaker 3 (45:53):
Well? No, I'm just okay. So if okay, I thought.
Speaker 1 (45:56):
That that was the most interesting.
Speaker 3 (45:57):
Person okay person a right. They literally just say gibberish
for twenty statements and then they say one statement that
happens to make like a little bit of sense.
Speaker 2 (46:08):
It's like, I like that one. What do you mean
you know that makes sense? Because the other stuff I'm
just let me finish.
Speaker 3 (46:15):
I'm saying with that one statement, are we just supposed
to start listening to what this person saying now? Like
Like I'm like, if, like everything before he made that list, right,
we can make it arguments kind of irrelevant? So why
would we find his list relevant?
Speaker 1 (46:31):
I just thought that it was interesting.
Speaker 3 (46:34):
But the reason I wanted to know who made the
list and you kind of kept.
Speaker 1 (46:38):
Like because I wanted to see if you knew.
Speaker 4 (46:40):
Yeah, but that's why by.
Speaker 2 (46:42):
Me listing them? Yes, yes, but is there anyone that
you thinks should be.
Speaker 3 (46:46):
Added or takeable?
Speaker 1 (46:47):
Well, I think the bigger wanted to know.
Speaker 3 (46:49):
The bigger point should just be I would just want
to want to hear someone's opinion that kind of matters,
not not Kanye West. Come saying, No, I'm saying Kanye
West's opinion doesn't you? Does his opinion matter? As of
March twenty first, twenty twenty five, Does his opinion on
anything matter?
Speaker 2 (47:10):
I think that white teachers wtos.
Speaker 3 (47:16):
No. I'm serious though, Like, does is there anything that
Kanye could say as of March twenty first does and
five that you would.
Speaker 1 (47:22):
Be like, oh you know what, absolutely.
Speaker 3 (47:24):
No, okay, So that list would fall under that. So
that's kind of why I didn't even want to talk
about it. I want to say no with Complex, if
you were to give me a list from Complex, I
wouldn't want to talk about it. If you were to
gave me a list from Double XL, I probably wouldn't
want to talk about it. If you gave me a
list from Rolling Stone, maybe i'dn't want to talk about it.
But any big publication where it's just a writer's opinion,
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it's like, why does their opinion matter more than minor yours?
Speaker 4 (47:47):
Because we could have made that list.
Speaker 2 (47:49):
You're right, I just want to know if there's anyone
that you would move I move or at.
Speaker 3 (47:53):
I was just trying to look at the grander point
of it all of if we are going to look
at some sort of content, hopefully would be from someone's
of something that matters.
Speaker 1 (48:03):
Gotcha. Yeah, you know who George Foreman is.
Speaker 3 (48:05):
Of course he passed away rest in peace at what age?
I did not know that.
Speaker 1 (48:10):
I don't know. He definitely had to have been in
his seventies.
Speaker 3 (48:12):
Seventies. He was like the Urgian say he was, but
he kind of like the original air fryer.
Speaker 4 (48:19):
And that wasn't even a joke.
Speaker 3 (48:20):
That was like meant to be like as accurate as possible.
Speaker 4 (48:26):
Good grill. Yeah. Do you remember the the Drake and
Josh like spin off.
Speaker 1 (48:30):
Or was it not the don't tell me that he.
Speaker 4 (48:32):
Was no there? Obviously they couldn't.
Speaker 3 (48:34):
They didn't put George one, but it was the oh
Gary Coleman grill and they had Gary Coleman.
Speaker 2 (48:39):
Actually, yeah, Gary Coleary Coleman.
Speaker 1 (48:44):
Hold on, he.
Speaker 3 (48:45):
Had a grill well in the Drake and Josh universe. Okay,
obviously a spin off of you know how there's like
Mountain Fizz or Mountain what is it a Okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (48:59):
Well on old hold on.
Speaker 2 (49:01):
So there is something that I wanted to bring up
and I lost it. Let me find it, hold on,
because I was like, wow, this is actually a very
good topic. Hold on one second, let me find it
real quick. So I've been listening to the radio a
lot more often instead of serious XF or XM, and
(49:26):
because Greg and Dre shout out they have some good
topics on there. They they have the lean on the listeners. Okay,
and so I was like, Wow, what do.
Speaker 3 (49:36):
You think we need to do?
Speaker 4 (49:38):
It's surpassed them. I know, honestly, what do you think because.
Speaker 1 (49:41):
At the end of the first of all, my host
not talk shit to me.
Speaker 3 (49:49):
I'm positive Dre has made fun of Greg on multiple occasions.
So I think we'd already be at a disadvantage if
we didn't do that.
Speaker 2 (49:58):
That is, But you know what, they have such a
good relationship where like.
Speaker 3 (50:03):
They know, it's almost like they're related. It's almost like
their brother and sisters.
Speaker 2 (50:10):
They do because he talks shit to him and he
just takes it.
Speaker 1 (50:15):
Yes, but it's.
Speaker 2 (50:16):
Like he can also hold his own like they have
good bundage. Yeah, Like their total opposites and this is
like the only time where that works they agree to
disagree well, because I feel like total opposites don't really
work out in the long run.
Speaker 3 (50:32):
Yeah, yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (50:33):
But they've been working out for what like twenty years.
And then they're also very opposite because one's black and
one's white. Just like yes, So, okay, So I heard
this three days ago actually, and I heard it on
the way to school taking Olivia to school. Okay, so
lean on the listeners. Hello and good morning. I have
a quick question for you and your listeners. My husband
(50:55):
and I filed taxes jointly for the first time. I
thought I was getting a large refund. Unfortunately, and without
me knowing, we were hit with him owning owing back taxes.
It wiped out my whole refund. I feel my husband
owes me that money back. He feels because we're married,
(51:18):
that it's a joint loss. What do you and your
listeners think?
Speaker 4 (51:21):
So this is a great question, I.
Speaker 1 (51:23):
Know, isn't it.
Speaker 4 (51:23):
That's question?
Speaker 2 (51:24):
And you know that I was all riled up in
the car, So tell me what you think.
Speaker 3 (51:29):
So my honest opinion, if maybe it depends on how
much money it was, but if like in a marriage,
you kind of just have.
Speaker 1 (51:40):
To and see what I was riled up.
Speaker 3 (51:46):
And maybe this is where my lack of what being
in actual marriage like comes into play.
Speaker 4 (51:54):
But I don't know.
Speaker 3 (51:57):
I feel like that's just something where you kind from
from the man or woman, right, not just if the
man's doing it. The woman has to accept it, like
a party is going to make a dumb financial decision
or make an unideal financial decision, right like ideally you're partnering,
you would be on the same page with everything, But realistically,
(52:20):
mistakes are going to be made, and I think financial
mistakes happen to fall under that right or wrong?
Speaker 1 (52:26):
No you okay, Okay.
Speaker 3 (52:27):
So I feel like that's one of those things you
just have to accept and try to learn from or
be proactive about and not even have it get to
that point like obviously they said this to their first
time doing taxes, right, yeah, so you just yeah, if
it happened to the man, the man has to take
it on the chin. If it happens to the woman,
the woman has to take the chin for the longevity
(52:50):
the relationship. Because if you can't argue about that, you
can be like, hey, you owe me a thousand dollars
and you're just gonna argue about that for the entirety
of your until that person pays you back to me.
I mean, I don't know at there's really and this
is right, I get, let's be carefully. I don't see
(53:15):
myself or see myself being put in a position where
I have to let X amount of money like get
in between yes, and like at the end of the day,
it would just be my choice of whether I want
to continue that relationship or not, not because of the money,
but just because like the overall, like either I care
(53:38):
about the money that much or I don't.
Speaker 4 (53:39):
And I feel like in relationships, I.
Speaker 3 (53:41):
Wouldn't value that money over the person I'm with, So
I would kind of just have to take it on
the chin, you see what I'm trying to say. If not,
I would have to look at the person I'm like
in a relationship with, in a marriage with is like,
why are you fucking me over for my money? Which
why do you want to do that? Like if that's
the case, why are you even marrying that person? And
why are you gonna continue to mass And see that's
(54:02):
the thing about I guess relationships that I don't understand
is that we'll put up with a lot, right, we'll
put up with a lot of stuff that we wouldn't
normally put up put up with outside of the relationship,
but not once do we ever go, I'm just gonna leave.
And this is this is where if you are a
person in that like let's say, for her right, if
(54:25):
it bothers her that much, leave them, like leave the dude,
find another like man, But she's not gonna do that
she's gonna be upset about what's going on, just sit
in her being upset that she's gonna sit in it.
And that's where I don't understand that. And that's where
I'm like, you kind of just have to adopt that
mentality of just accepting certain things or leave the person
you're with. And I feel like I'm kind of maybe
(54:47):
as I'm saying, it's not really making much sense.
Speaker 2 (54:48):
You're making I'm waiting and ready to go to the.
Speaker 3 (54:52):
F Okay, Okay, I think just the end of to
put a ball on it, I would just have to
turn the other cheek and hope it doesn't happen again.
If that were to continue to happen, then I would
just look at the person I'm in a relationship with,
her in a marriage with, and be like, hey, either
we're going to fix this or we're not gonna work
out because I don't like I don't like the idea
of me just sitting in a cent unhappy. But you
(55:15):
can take the floor.
Speaker 2 (55:16):
No, I agree with what you said. Either you're gonna
leave or stay in what put.
Speaker 3 (55:23):
Up or try to fix it. But that's what I'm saying.
This is a first time think.
Speaker 1 (55:29):
So. Now.
Speaker 2 (55:31):
When I heard this, I was like, oh, hell no.
So I heard it as they were talking about it
live on the radio, and there were men and women
who called in, and from what I heard, from what
I gathered, a lot of people sounded like, nope, you
guys are in a marriage.
Speaker 3 (55:50):
Now you got to take.
Speaker 2 (55:53):
Yes, and you guys just have to deal with it.
It's for better for worse. Your guys' finances pretty much
belong to the each other, now, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (56:03):
Everything's together?
Speaker 2 (56:04):
And I was and so and maybe maybe it's just me,
but I was like, I don't agree with that. Oh no,
first of all, and I don't know how old this
couple is. I have no idea.
Speaker 3 (56:15):
We'll say a relatively young couple. I don't see this
as a forty or fifty me.
Speaker 2 (56:18):
Neither twenties or thirties, right, Okay, So my thing is
is that we're we're talking, we're gonna talk about finances
before we even think about getting married.
Speaker 1 (56:30):
So did they do that? I have no idea. I'm
gonna go with me. Yeah, maybe not.
Speaker 3 (56:36):
It's hard to have that foresight when you're young.
Speaker 1 (56:40):
When when you're young, yes.
Speaker 3 (56:41):
Not saying young couples don't have it right, Like, think
about it. Most people who get married young or quote
unquote in love, Yeah, yeah, by their love, and probably
they aren't thinking on like on their wedding day. Yeah,
when they get proposed, they're not like, oh shit, should
I say yes? I don't know if this person is
good at right? Right?
Speaker 2 (56:58):
Typically when you're young, when you're we'reunn near on the
younger end, and I get that now if you're in
your thirties, I feel like, you know, that's not an excuse.
Speaker 1 (57:08):
Yeah, but okay.
Speaker 2 (57:10):
So I'm just like, oh, hell no, we're talking about finances.
I need to know about yours, you need to know
about mine, We need to know how we budget our
money separately, and blah blah blah. Because that's huge. Finances
are typically the number one reason why people.
Speaker 3 (57:28):
And finances are obviously a huge issue. But even the
this specific topic is about taxes, which is even more
of a specific, very specific scenario that most people aren't
thinking of before they get married. Hey, how are we
going to handle our taxes? That's I mean, I don't
think too many people are thinking about that.
Speaker 1 (57:45):
Yeah, I feel like it's hit.
Speaker 3 (57:46):
Or missed, right, So just to go back a little bit.
She didn't get the refund she expected, or the refund
went to him.
Speaker 2 (57:55):
No, so because he owes back taxes and because now
they're money, So.
Speaker 3 (58:00):
She didn't obviously know that or he didn't explain that correct,
which is kind of like a dick moved on.
Speaker 2 (58:05):
So exactly my point. So that's where I was like, oh,
how mother fing No he knew that.
Speaker 1 (58:15):
So and so do you see the disc but this
is this is.
Speaker 3 (58:19):
Where, this is where and maybe again maybe this is
not for me to say, but do you think that
was his first time deceiving her or no? So Okay,
if you know you're in a relationship with a known deceiver,
with a known possible liar, and you still choose to
marry this person, isn't that your fault?
Speaker 2 (58:43):
I Yeah, because again back to the nurse from Tennessee,
there was multiple red flags that popped up along the
way that you chose to ignore, and now that you're
held on trial, you're like, well, what the fuck?
Speaker 4 (58:58):
Like, no, this happened, this happened, This happened.
Speaker 3 (59:01):
No, It's like you had multiple opportunities to get out
and you didn't.
Speaker 2 (59:05):
Right, Okay, Yeah, so I'm gonna say, yes, that this
isn't the first time that he's deceived her, because this
is pretty.
Speaker 3 (59:14):
And maybe this is you know, maybe he maybe he
just forgot, like Ship, perhaps I just completely forgot I
even owed all this time. Maybe he didn't know and
now some people just don't know.
Speaker 2 (59:24):
Right, So then that's a problem too, exactly what I'm saying, gotten.
Speaker 1 (59:28):
Notices in the mail.
Speaker 3 (59:30):
There really isn't any ways to justify it. And that
this kind of goes to my point, right, like we
got to be careful who we're choosing as a partner.
And do you think even even knowing, even with this lady,
knowing that this dude could have fucked up finances, she
would have left him?
Speaker 1 (59:47):
Probably probably not.
Speaker 4 (59:48):
So then what is the not the conversation?
Speaker 3 (59:51):
What is it? What does it matter that we make
these choices if we're making him and not giving the
funk while we're making them anyway, until Ship is the fan,
it's like we don't we don't care.
Speaker 2 (01:00:00):
Until Yeah, that is true. It's called being not proactive.
It's a complete opposite of it.
Speaker 3 (01:00:07):
Willingly negligence.
Speaker 4 (01:00:08):
Yeah, willingly negligently.
Speaker 1 (01:00:10):
I like that willingly negligent.
Speaker 3 (01:00:12):
You have like the evidence places like I see this,
I don't like. I see that, I like, I see
this I don't like, but I'm still going to pursue forward.
Speaker 2 (01:00:18):
It's like, Okay, that's kind of your that no, that
I completely agree with that you're not taking accountability for
your own And that's why when hits the founder, he's.
Speaker 3 (01:00:29):
Probably like not doing like good shit eating by lying.
But she had an opportunity before they got married to
kind of make that decision. She chose to still go
through with it. And that's the part about relationships. We'll
sit in relationship that we know isn't good for us
just because we don't want to be lonelier, we don't
want to be alone. But it's like, obviously that doesn't
(01:00:51):
really matter until it's like when hits the livelihood affecting him,
we want to put the victim.
Speaker 2 (01:00:57):
So somebody says, and this is a man, first of all,
you need to have a serious conversation about finances. He
needs to withhold more during the year to avoid owing taxes. Secondly,
he should have told you about his tax set. I'm
pretty sure he knew, so it was sneaky of him
(01:01:17):
to not tell you. Finally, lesson learned filed separately next year,
but all you need to share. But you all need
to share tax information because if he keeps growing tax set,
it will affect you too eventually. Good luck, and I
think that that's true. Someone says sounds like he's married
and you're single. Unfortunately he's correct. For better for worse,
(01:01:40):
that's what just happened the worst. Consider it a wash
and next year hopefully you'll be caught up and get
a refund. Don't let it ruin your marriage. Joint means together,
what's yours is his, and what's his is yours. That
goes for debt two when you join as one. Blah
blah blah. So most there's a lot of com on
(01:02:00):
comments on here. A lot of them are pretty much
like you guys should be for better or for worse.
Speaker 1 (01:02:06):
It's a joint thing.
Speaker 3 (01:02:07):
And that's why I opened it up with Either you're
gonna have taken on the chin and just be like, shit,
it happened, just move on, Or you're gonna be over
this x amount of money for the entirety of your
marriageer until you get back, or until one of you
guys even is to score like it doesn't really make it.
Speaker 2 (01:02:22):
And you know what, if I was in this position,
Let's say like we talked about finances and blah blah blah,
and everything seemed okay, right, everything seemed legit, and nothing
of the sort seemed like it would pop up in
the future. I found my taxes were a married couple,
and then all of a sudden, the irs takes my
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refund because it turns out that he owes money. I'm
gonna be like, you, mother effort, I can't believe you
like to me, that's my money that I worked for.
Speaker 1 (01:02:52):
And then I'm gonna be like, you know what, I
don't think I can trust you.
Speaker 2 (01:02:56):
I'm probably gonna start making a plan to exit yep,
because I wouldn't be able. I wouldn't have any peace.
I would have no peace because I'd be like, Okay,
what else are you lying about? What else are you
not being truthful about? What else are you being sneaky about?
And now that we're married, everything should be out in
(01:03:18):
the open. My step should be out in the open.
Your step should be out in the open. The fact
that you're not telling me about finances something that is
so important because it's crucial in our survival. You know,
what I mean, and like our livelihoods. No, I'd rather
just deal with this on my own. But I only
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got to that point to even having that kind of
a mindset because of what I went through with a
long time ago. But if I hadn't gone through that,
then i'd probably be like, oh, well, let's I forgive you,
but I'm going to be upset, but I'll forgive you.
But you know so yeah, But I was just like, oh,
(01:04:01):
hell no, because it's the principle of it, Like, you're
not even you kept it from me. I know that
you knew about owing money and you just didn't want
to say anything.
Speaker 1 (01:04:12):
And now I have.
Speaker 2 (01:04:13):
To lose because of you because of your mistakes. Oh no,
that's not coul whatsoever, to paraphrase, And yes, I want
my money or then I don't need to have anything
to do in this relationship.
Speaker 3 (01:04:25):
Yeah, well I think that would be once see this
is yeah, that's if you were to make the decision
of that marriage not being worth it anymore.
Speaker 1 (01:04:33):
Yeah, because I wouldn't have the peace of mind.
Speaker 3 (01:04:36):
I feel like, yeah, any amount of money shouldn't be
worth more than the marriage. Feel like the marriage should
be worth more than the amount of money, but if
obviously trust, if you don't have that trust in the matter.
It's like mister Abel test Face said it best off
paraphrase if he said something to the effect of, like
I can fuck my own life up eggs, which is true.
(01:04:58):
I think about that all the time. I think that,
I think about that all the time.
Speaker 1 (01:05:02):
Oh my god, I need that.
Speaker 3 (01:05:05):
I'm paraphrasing that. He didn't. He didn't just say that verbatim,
but yeah, it's just true. I can. I don't need
you for you to fuck my life. I can do
that to myself, like I don't need another person to do.
Speaker 4 (01:05:15):
That for me exactly.
Speaker 3 (01:05:17):
I think if a lot of more people kind of
took that mindset, I think you probably see a lot
more happier, probably more maybe slightly more successful people. But
at the end of the day, I mean teach their
own And like I said, I'm not married, so who
am I to speak.
Speaker 2 (01:05:31):
On and I'm not married either, But shout out to
Greg and Dre because they do have some interesting maybe
not interesting I need to figure out a different synonym,
but they have some thought provoking situations that I'm like, Okay, before.
Speaker 3 (01:05:50):
We wrap this thing up, thing on up, do you
know which two songs were released on this day, March
twenty first?
Speaker 1 (01:05:56):
Is it One Sweet Day by Mariah Carey?
Speaker 2 (01:05:58):
Possibly it came up right now and people you may know,
I swear to God that's.
Speaker 4 (01:06:11):
Not it either, and he's not it either.
Speaker 2 (01:06:15):
Uh so it's not One Sweet Day by Mariah Carey.
Speaker 3 (01:06:18):
No, what is it? So the older one will go
with the one that came out a little bit further.
Speaker 2 (01:06:25):
Is Try Again by Leah When was that like nineteen
ninety ninety No.
Speaker 3 (01:06:29):
Two thousand and one, mark twenty first two one?
Speaker 1 (01:06:32):
And how sad she passed away just a few months later?
Speaker 3 (01:06:36):
That is pretty sad. Wow, twenty five years ago?
Speaker 1 (01:06:40):
Twenty five years ago.
Speaker 3 (01:06:43):
Twenty first, two thousand, that is crazy? Do you know
what the recipes? Do you know what the other one was?
Speaker 1 (01:06:52):
That songs twenty five years which is crazy?
Speaker 3 (01:06:55):
That's almost as old as I am.
Speaker 1 (01:06:57):
What the hell? Okay?
Speaker 2 (01:07:00):
The other one, I'm gonna say something by Shania Twain close. Oh,
how did I know? It was something in the country?
Speaker 3 (01:07:08):
Well it was actually not country, I think more oh
not pop punk ska think like scop.
Speaker 1 (01:07:16):
Scop Okay, no doubt.
Speaker 2 (01:07:18):
You're actually don't speak so not don't speak, Okay, is it?
Speaker 1 (01:07:25):
I'm just a girl in the world. That's a that Okay.
Speaker 3 (01:07:30):
I think if if one of if the lead singer
of that group, went on to have a solo career,
isn't Nirvana, Well, it's still the same group. So Gwen Stefani,
if that was a rich girl a little after.
Speaker 2 (01:07:44):
That Halla Back really well like fifteen years ago.
Speaker 3 (01:07:50):
I don't know. I don't know the exactly two and six.
I think twenty five, but mark twenty.
Speaker 2 (01:07:53):
First, wow, two thousand and five, think about the ten six.
Speaker 1 (01:08:01):
That was high school?
Speaker 3 (01:08:03):
Yeah, what now? What does it mean? Hallow back girl?
Speaker 2 (01:08:06):
That's like I think it means like like hey, oh
so like like.
Speaker 3 (01:08:12):
Cat calling and she did. This is a woman that
doesn't respond to cat calls. She's not a hallow back girl.
Speaker 2 (01:08:19):
Like hold on, let me think a few times have
been around that track, so it's not just gonna happen
like that, because I.
Speaker 1 (01:08:27):
Know, howl the back girl.
Speaker 2 (01:08:28):
Okay, I think it means like right, thought, like she's
not gonna she's not the girl that's like the second
time around, Like she's only gonna like you only get
her once once and that's it. Like she's not gonna
HaLow back young and ooh, like she's not gonna be
like that. Now, you want to know what else happened
(01:08:51):
nineteen years ago that has to do with pop culture
twenty five?
Speaker 3 (01:08:56):
So hold on ty twenty five nineteen. That thousand and four,
doesn't I think a thousand and four?
Speaker 2 (01:09:01):
I think no way, I think it's two thousand and six. No,
two thousand and six, right, I don't know. Anyways, it's debut.
Actually that is a good one, but it's not now
it's still on air, but there's been so it's a
(01:09:24):
giant How do you even know what that is?
Speaker 3 (01:09:29):
His family got made fun of it.
Speaker 1 (01:09:30):
That's okay.
Speaker 2 (01:09:32):
I was gonna say, there's no way that you like
know what that is on your own? Oh my god,
it's actually the Real Housewives series. Oh just of okay, yeah,
just the whole series.
Speaker 3 (01:09:44):
This is obviously created by Bravo. Yeah, and who exactly
is the creator of this?
Speaker 1 (01:09:50):
Mmm? So that's actually a good question.
Speaker 3 (01:09:54):
So and this was inspired by like the Real World,
but if it was only wives.
Speaker 1 (01:10:01):
So I think it's more like.
Speaker 3 (01:10:03):
Or like Big Brother, but it was only Big Mothers, Big.
Speaker 1 (01:10:05):
Sisters, Big mother Trucker, Big Wives. So you know what.
Speaker 2 (01:10:11):
I feel like I should know this right because I'm
a pop culture connoisseur, But I don't remember. Now I
want to say no, not, I want to say I
know for sure. The OC the television show on Fox
that came out first, that was I believe two thousand
and three.
Speaker 3 (01:10:28):
How do the Real Housewives correlate with those?
Speaker 2 (01:10:30):
Well, because now, the The Real Housewives of the OC
was the first season of this series.
Speaker 3 (01:10:38):
We're married. These women were married to the characters in
the show, or they just married to people who happen
to be in Orange County.
Speaker 2 (01:10:45):
So the women were the housewives of the celebrities. No,
none of them are celebrities. Random, Yeah, but.
Speaker 3 (01:10:56):
The men wives happened to be desirable enough to be
put on TV.
Speaker 1 (01:10:59):
Correct.
Speaker 2 (01:11:00):
Now, obviously the men were not the focal points, right,
it was the correct So the men were like, what
else the backdrop?
Speaker 3 (01:11:09):
Correct had to exist for a wife.
Speaker 2 (01:11:10):
To exist, Yes, exactly, And so this is when it
was like in its rawness infancy.
Speaker 1 (01:11:17):
Infancy.
Speaker 2 (01:11:18):
Yes, but this is when I would say that it
was like the most authentic, the most real.
Speaker 3 (01:11:24):
Let's let's go to like pre production for a second.
So you're a thirty five year old forty forty five
year old woman in the Orange County Huntington Beach, Anaheim.
But what else those one of two like cities in
Orange County.
Speaker 2 (01:11:37):
I know, Uh, there's also like Laguna Woods or Wine Beach,
Laguna Beach.
Speaker 3 (01:11:44):
So you're a you're a significant of your wife, you're
a spouse living in one of these cities, okay, and
you just happen to be like out and like a
production assistant just happens to see you and they're just like, hey,
come on this TV show and you say yes because I.
Speaker 1 (01:11:59):
Well, why not.
Speaker 2 (01:12:00):
I'm a housewife, right, I've got nothing else to do.
I mean, I'm tired of writing on my husband's coat tail,
so why not make a name for myself. However, Vicki
gun Wilson, who was I think that was maybe the
woman that they approached first, or maybe she had like
one of the main ideas or something.
Speaker 1 (01:12:20):
She was not just a housewife.
Speaker 2 (01:12:21):
She actually had her own like insurance business Coda d'acoso
or Cosa dacado or something like that in the OC.
And so she was actually a working class house yeah,
and she had her own money. And so I want
to say that she was like kind of taking care
of her husband financially, Coda, decaso. Anyways, I think that's
(01:12:43):
what it was called. So she actually was like and
is financially yes, But the other ones I think they
were actual, like like legit like housewife if you will. Yeah,
so shout out. So what was your question?
Speaker 3 (01:13:06):
I just want to know kind of like what.
Speaker 1 (01:13:08):
What prompts you to even watch something.
Speaker 3 (01:13:10):
That prompts you even come up with the idea.
Speaker 2 (01:13:13):
I think they just wanted to show because this is
when reality TV shows like revolving families.
Speaker 3 (01:13:21):
Hogan's Hogan knows best.
Speaker 2 (01:13:23):
Remember we used to watch them obviously the Simple Life,
but they weren't like the Osborn's. Yes, they kind of
like wanted to probably expand.
Speaker 3 (01:13:35):
On that and so that we mentioned last week.
Speaker 2 (01:13:38):
Oh my gosh, ago, John, can you believe when that
aired they were in their like early thirties.
Speaker 3 (01:13:45):
Which is crazy. They look like they're in the which
is crazy.
Speaker 1 (01:13:49):
I know, John and Kate plus eight.
Speaker 3 (01:13:52):
Anyways, So okay, so before we I guess we already
I already said that, but I give you one last hurrah. Yeah,
what so out of all the housewives and all the
cities that the Housewives are in, which is like the
best city to be a housewife in.
Speaker 2 (01:14:10):
There's so many cities. Okay, there's o c There's New York.
There's Beverly Hills. There's Potomac which I never watched that,
but your mom did. There's oh my gosh, Atlanta. There
was Salt Lake City. I'm sure I'm missing some. I
(01:14:31):
think there was Dubai, but that's not a city that's
like a whole like entity. Uhh, you know, I'm gonna
Atlanta look like a lot of fun. And there were
some There were some stars on there, like Candy Burriss.
Oh my gosh, shout out to Tamron Hall. Now I
(01:14:54):
don't remember where she's from, but I would love to
see y Hall.
Speaker 1 (01:15:02):
Yes, who else? Beverly Hills.
Speaker 2 (01:15:08):
Obviously it had like actresses on like or like socialites
on like the lower Denise Richards and she was married
to yes, but now she's with some other guy. But
she's on I think the Beverly Hills season.
Speaker 1 (01:15:25):
Yeah, so.
Speaker 3 (01:15:28):
Of Mumbai, Mombi, Hey, move bit over here, bit, okay,
move bit?
Speaker 1 (01:15:40):
Oh my god? Now hold on.
Speaker 2 (01:15:42):
If there was like a real Housewives or Households of Fresno, Yes,
what well, you know, there's something called the bob house
right with.
Speaker 3 (01:15:52):
It, might as well know bop house. A BoPET in
this house, you're if you're in this house, you're a bop.
That's like BOP's only for this house. You're not allowed
here if you're not a bop.
Speaker 4 (01:16:05):
So just just be mindful of that old done.
Speaker 1 (01:16:09):
So if someone asked you, yeah, we're scouting for.
Speaker 3 (01:16:13):
Local talent, and my wife happens to be desirable enough
to be on the.
Speaker 4 (01:16:17):
Show, do you want it?
Speaker 1 (01:16:19):
And like we saw you.
Speaker 3 (01:16:21):
At Costco, like really, we really like the way you
and your wife walk together.
Speaker 2 (01:16:25):
No, Like, do you want to star as her husband.
Speaker 3 (01:16:31):
In the show?
Speaker 1 (01:16:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:16:33):
Probably not.
Speaker 3 (01:16:34):
I don't think I don't think I would do too
well on the not even the fame. I don't think
I would do too well on a TV show. You
have to have some level of like entertainment value, and
you should have about zero or whatever is like the
negative amount of entertainment. I give any sort of entertainment value,
I give that to the person that's across from me.
So it's god. Anyone who's literally just it like next
(01:16:57):
to me just automatically gains entertainment value because they're that's
how that's how unentertaining I am that the person next
to me is just that much more interesting.
Speaker 2 (01:17:06):
But just by default, Now, how entertaining do you think
I would be? I feel like, honestly, I'm not that entertaining.
I'm very boring. I have some like quits, right, but
I'm not entertaining enough.
Speaker 3 (01:17:18):
So I think on a on like the TV spectrum,
I think you would need like a like you know
how producers like just come up with like, oh, a scenario. Yes,
I think if I think if you were given a scenario,
you would be able to make it work, but they
were just like all right, like action, I think you
I don't know if you'd be able to do that,
(01:17:39):
but I think if you're given a scenario like I agree,
there's like a gas seek in this house, and we
need you to like there's there's no actual gas, but
we need you to like convince the viewers at home
that there is actually a gas lead, I think you
could be able to do that. Or like someone giving birth,
like obviously not you giving birth, but I think like
(01:18:00):
someone's water just broke, I think you'd be good at
the person like announcing that the water broke and like that.
So it would be like, you know how like on
like I Love Money or like what any I guess
reality TV show where they would have the camera like
on just two people having a conversation, and like one
of them would like would hear.
Speaker 4 (01:18:21):
Something and they'd be like, wait is that so?
Speaker 3 (01:18:24):
So you wouldn't be one of the two people, but
you'd be the person that they hear okay, And then
the camera would go to you, Like there would be
the two people having the conversation they oh, okay, like
is that Mariah, and then the camera like the scene,
it would just go to the next scene and it would.
Speaker 2 (01:18:39):
Show you, oh my gosh, oh.
Speaker 3 (01:18:42):
My god, the water just broke. The water just broke,
or there's a gas leak, or maybe maybe the water
broke while the gas is leaky, and you have to decide, oh,
can we give birth in like a we have enough
time to give birth in.
Speaker 2 (01:18:57):
A while the houses leaking? Yes, that is so funny.
Speaker 3 (01:19:04):
Yes, but we will see you guys a last episode.
I actually said I was going to release it that night,
but I didn't. I actually released it that Sunday. That's
how tired I was, so oh okay, I won't make
any promises this, Yeah, I won't make any promises.
Speaker 2 (01:19:16):
Yeah, don't don't make promises that you can't can't keep.
Speaker 3 (01:19:20):
But yeah I'll make a Yeah, I will make promises.
But everyone enjoyed themselves. Everyone enjoyed this last little bit
of March. We have left. I think we have one
besides this one, we have one more episode left in March.
Speaker 2 (01:19:31):
Hey, did you know that George Lopez is uh, he's
going to be going to the Eagle Mountain Casino. Didn't
he walk off stage or he got boot off stage?
Speaker 3 (01:19:41):
What was it?
Speaker 4 (01:19:42):
I said something?
Speaker 3 (01:19:43):
I think this is why you don't marry black black people,
said something like that. He had something about black people.
Speaker 4 (01:19:48):
I don't know, but I think he's a comedian.
Speaker 1 (01:19:51):
Did you know that he I think his whey.
Speaker 3 (01:19:55):
Cheated on his wife. That gave McKinney that extremely.
Speaker 1 (01:20:00):
Is like, yeah, what do you think about that?
Speaker 4 (01:20:02):
You know what?
Speaker 3 (01:20:02):
It doesn't surprise me that George Lopez specifically would do
that though, Like it doesn't surprise why because he doesn't
seem like the type to really like give a yeah,
like hey, I gave you this heart transplant. He just
like thinks like I needed a heart but that is
devoted to you. Yeah, I think mindset.
Speaker 2 (01:20:20):
So if you knew that your partner was like that,
would you still give them your kidney prior to like Yeah,
if you knew that your partner was like it was
like the I don't give a ship attitude, would you
still be inclined to help saving their life with your
organ my organ? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:20:37):
I think if I was dying, yes, if I was, well,
maybe not because I would think, okay, well maybe my
where my family members probably needs this organ more than
they do. But okay, if if it was a situation
where nobody else needs the ORGANI I was gonna die anyway,
Sure take it.
Speaker 2 (01:20:52):
Oh okay, but what if you saw like a lot
of life left to live, Yeah, just.
Speaker 3 (01:20:56):
Going to die without my even knowing that they wouldn't
give a if I yes, yes, you know what, I
would probably be like, you know what, I'm jealous that
you're gonna go to heaven, Like I'm jealous that you're
gonna get to experience the after life, And I'm jealous
that you're gonna get the experience to mention that none
of us here are gonna be able to see. So
I wouldn't even be so okay, just like you're gonna
move on to a different, different playing existence and I
(01:21:19):
have to wait x amount. Wow, where's my yeah that? Hey?
Speaker 1 (01:21:28):
You said it best, super Kawai.
Speaker 3 (01:21:32):
Alright, we will see you guys SA out there. Thank
you for.
Speaker 1 (01:21:39):
Keeping keep on keeping on shot.
Speaker 3 (01:21:50):
I, where's my snare? I have no snare in my headphones.
Where's my snare? M? I have no snare on my headphones.
(01:22:12):
Where's my snare?
Speaker 2 (01:22:16):
M M?
Speaker 3 (01:22:18):
I have no snare on my headphones. Where's my snare
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