Why Aren't You Over This By Now?

Why Aren't You Over This By Now?

“I should be over the things that happened to me.” “I am to blame.” “It has to be my fault, why else would it have happened?” These are just a few of the statements many clients have said over the years. The truth is that we all have things happen in our lives. We all have stuff. Dr. James was abused as a child, abused in her marriage, and abused by the legal system and struggled to get over it. She kept searching for anything that would help her feel better; to not feel the way she had felt for so long. Finally, she found a way to heal her past in order to love her future. As co-author of the book, Why Aren’t You Over This By Now? How Trauma Messes You Up and What To Do About It, Dr. James shares how events in life have negatively affected individuals as a way to help eliminate self-blame, guilt, shame, and negative self-talk. Dr. James has over two decades of experience in the mental health field focusing on how trauma affects you from a neurobiological, body based perspective intermingled with quantum physics.

Episodes

September 14, 2021 57 mins
Dr. Kelly James will be discussing intimate partner abuse and sharing her personal story of abuse.
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Dr. Kelly James and Dr. Natalie Feinblatt talk about her new book, The First 90 Days of Sobriety: Recovering from Alcoholism: A Guided Journal and her nearly 20 years of experience in addiction treatment.
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Dr. Kelly James and guest Lisa Ruoff will be talking about how she lives an unconventional, adventurous life.
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Dr. Kelly James and guest Lisa Ruoff will be talking about how she lives an unconventional, adventurous life.
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Dr. Kelly James and guest Wendy Hutchinson talk about how to change your story at any time to live your best life, impact, and change.
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Dr. Kelly James and guest Jocelyn Pettit talk about Emotion and Body Code, Psych K and how to heal your life.
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Dr. Kelly James and guest Daniel Hodges discuss his new book, From Felonies to Freedom, the 180 Degree Ministry, and getting free from any type of addiction.
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Dr. Kelly James and guest Daniel Hodges discuss his new book, From Felonies to Freedom, the 180 Ministry, and getting free from any type of addiction.
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Dr. Kelly James and guest Sara Haag talk about the evolution of online dating and dating apps.
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Dr. Kelly James and guest Amber Eidem, founder of The Precious Legacy, talk about this important organization serving children of military service members who gave their lives.
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Dr. Kelly James and guest Dr. Robert McBain will talk about his story with depression and discuss how the church can play a vital role in helping those suffering with this affliction, find acceptance, and support.
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Dr. Kelly James and guest Dr. Robert McBain will talk about his story with depression and discuss how the church can play a vital role in helping those suffering with this affliction, find acceptance, and support.
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Dr. Kelly James and guest Kevin Doncaster, founder of WarHawk PTSD Service Dogs talk about how the service dogs help veterans and first responders
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Dr. Kelly James and founder, Kevin Doncaster talk about the exciting things happening with the 501c3 WarHawkPTSD Service Dogs.
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Dr. Kelly James and guest Alina Garbuz, LPC will be having an honest conversation about suicide, part 2. Suicide Hotline 1-800-273-8255, Suicide.org
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Dr. Kelly James and guest Alina Garbuz, LPC will be having an honest conversation about suicide. Suicide Hotline 1-800-273-8255, Suicide.org
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Dr. Kelly James and Alina Garbuz, LPC, discuss her recent trip to Cameroon, Africa where she participated in a five-day trauma training for local counselors, teachers, and pastors.
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Dr. Kelly James and guest, Joanna Majka, LPC, have a more in-depth discussion about the Enneagram numbers in this third interview.
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