Bucket List

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:04):
Good evening and welcome to Unveiled, where all conversations are
safe revealing an uncuff. Tonight's show has partnered with Sage
and Soil, Gen Chavez Photography and sponsored by w SBI LLC,
your Resources for Success podcast. We are your hosts Chris
and Gen Chavez along with Carmen and Kimberly Peshi, and

(00:27):
tonight we're going to be revealing our bucket list items.
That's right, the items we want to accomplish before we
kick the bucket.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
You are a bucket before we kick the bucket.

Speaker 1 (00:45):
This is why you should ever lobby to do anything first.

Speaker 3 (00:51):
So, how is everybody?

Speaker 2 (00:53):
We are doing great? You're doing great, obviously you were
doing very well. Sir. Yes, ready to talk about kicking
the buckett?

Speaker 4 (01:03):
Is gonna say, we're just watching right in?

Speaker 3 (01:09):
All right? Well, how did we come up with the
term kick the bucket?

Speaker 2 (01:15):
You know, I don't know. I don't even know where
it came from.

Speaker 4 (01:18):
To be honest with you, somebody, we're gonna let you
over here do his research diligent.

Speaker 3 (01:26):
Thank god, thank god for Google?

Speaker 1 (01:28):
Or why why did they, hey Google, why did they
call that bucket list items?

Speaker 2 (01:33):
You should have just asked your girlfriends.

Speaker 3 (01:36):
What is that I'm mad at?

Speaker 2 (01:39):
Oh my gosh, she just goes off, will be sitting
I was like, wait a minute, what does she say?

Speaker 3 (01:48):
I disconnected my AirPod?

Speaker 5 (01:49):
Because we'd be sitting watching TV and all of a
sudden she'd be saying something.

Speaker 3 (01:52):
It's like who asked you?

Speaker 4 (01:57):
And people wonder why we keep our stuff not that
high tech?

Speaker 2 (02:02):
Yes, like for geeky as you like to think I am,
which I am not.

Speaker 6 (02:06):
No, no, no, HR bots. We don't like HR. That's
the dumbest.

Speaker 2 (02:12):
She scares me. Yeah, because she just I don't know
where it just starts talking like people and.

Speaker 1 (02:18):
We're gonna and we're gonna get to bucket list. This
this is our tangent but one. Companies out there are
starting to like, oh, we're gonna replace you know, asking
humans questions with like let's ask the HR bot or
let's ask the bot. And then these companies want to
give their bots and names. It's like, I don't care

(02:39):
about Steve the bot. I've seen Terminator. I know what
happens when cyberni system takes over.

Speaker 5 (02:46):
Yeah, well we all go back to analog in a
bunker somewhere pre sudents.

Speaker 7 (02:52):
Like series gonna be like, all right, so what's what's
the answer to It's just it's it's got a lot
of things, but it's it's just the idiom.

Speaker 5 (03:05):
Or slang term meaning to die. And there's several thousand theories,
several probably a million theories, but they're all the same things.
So it's just meaning to die. I just was looking for,
you know, kicking the bucket. It's like, it's just an
idiom and nothing really sexy about it. I was thinking
that maybe it had some some real meaning back to

(03:27):
the we can make.

Speaker 2 (03:29):
Some ship up. I mean of court's let's talk about
a bucket.

Speaker 4 (03:31):
We got Niagara fall, some guy kicks the person in
the bucket who's going over the falls.

Speaker 2 (03:36):
Look, you kick the bucket. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (03:39):
I mean just for bucket lists. It's a number of
experiences or achievements that a person hopes to have or
accomplished during their lifetime. Thank you dictionary dot Com.

Speaker 2 (03:51):
A real dictionary.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
It says the origin in English kick the bucket in
English kick bucket list, So making the trip to the
first thing on my bucket list early twenty first century
from the from the phrase kick the bucket die?

Speaker 3 (04:13):
All right, cool that.

Speaker 2 (04:14):
We're dropping dead. What do you want to do before
you drop that? That's a great.

Speaker 5 (04:21):
Before you kick the bucket, because we may be in
the process of kicking the bucket, depending on I want
to go real quick. That's the way it is, right.
I don't want to be kicking the bucket for like ears,
because then I'll be like whoa is me? But yes,
before you die, what do you want to what do
you want to accomplish? Or before you pass this earth?

Speaker 1 (04:39):
Before you well, I think I think it's like there's
actually two parts of it, two parts to it. What
have you already accomplished? And then what do you hope
to accomplish?

Speaker 8 (04:48):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (04:49):
Like that, I know, I got deep.

Speaker 1 (04:51):
Look at you must be it must be my walking
wednesdays go getting to me all that oxygen.

Speaker 4 (05:02):
Yeah, those brain cells do regenerate, Yes they do. They're
working well this morning. So what did you accomplish in
your small amount of years thus far?

Speaker 8 (05:17):
You know, the years less than mine?

Speaker 3 (05:22):
Is everybody at this table trying to find like what?

Speaker 2 (05:27):
Yeah, what are you?

Speaker 3 (05:28):
Just?

Speaker 5 (05:28):
Like?

Speaker 2 (05:28):
This is not you know, this is like actually an
easy category to talk about. But what I accomplished? Yeah, well,
not so much about what you accomplished, but what do
you want to do that you haven't I guess that's
the way to think about it, right.

Speaker 4 (05:41):
Okay, so I'm to be fair, So if I think
about what haven't I done yet? And I actually do
give this thought frequently because you just never know.

Speaker 2 (05:50):
From the minute you're born you are on your way
out the door. Let's just be realistic about it.

Speaker 4 (05:55):
So at the age of twenty something, my bucket list,
then some things are still the same, right, Like I
want to travel.

Speaker 8 (06:04):
I just told him the other day, Fiji is on
my bucket list.

Speaker 2 (06:07):
I want to go to Fiji.

Speaker 4 (06:08):
I want to be in the islands and traveling and
seeing things and experiencing all that this world has to offer.

Speaker 2 (06:18):
What more than travel do I want to do? I
don't know. You think about it. You had a kid,
not have a kid, Yeah, it wasn't on my bucket list, definitely.

Speaker 4 (06:31):
Like I didn't wait and be like what, But I
will tell you that my career wasn't on my bucket
list either.

Speaker 2 (06:39):
I didn't.

Speaker 4 (06:39):
I wasn't one of those kids that woke up and
said this is I want to be a program officer
for my life.

Speaker 2 (06:46):
Okay, you're I mean that.

Speaker 3 (06:48):
I mean it was.

Speaker 1 (06:49):
It's like I knew from a very young age, like
my goal was to be in the army or some
sort of military thing, and I didn't But honestly I
didn't know it me twenty years down the road and
retire from it.

Speaker 6 (07:05):
I mean, I accomplished one big thing in my life.

Speaker 1 (07:08):
So yeah, now, now, if it was if we were
just saying, hey, what do you want to do next?
I would love to go to Alaska. I would love
to go hunt in Alaska just to say that I
did one time.

Speaker 2 (07:23):
You know what we're doing for your fiftie I.

Speaker 6 (07:25):
Don't know that because I don't worry. I got you
all the time. I got you all the time.

Speaker 3 (07:33):
We just jumped right in there. We didn't. But you
can think about it.

Speaker 6 (07:38):
I don't know that we're going for the fiftieth.

Speaker 1 (07:39):
But you probably don't want to go because you don't
want to go out to the woods and suck.

Speaker 4 (07:46):
If you have an illness that makes your fingers turned
white because of poor circulation, do.

Speaker 2 (07:50):
You want to be in the cold. No, I don't
to care about wanting to be in Alaska. No, thank you?
What about you what's the one place you want to go?
Just say definitely when experienced like Spain, places like that,
Italy pairs. Just kind of want to get it out
of my system and and go yes, yeah, it's something

(08:15):
I've been taught thinking about for many, many years, and
you know, life gets in the way. You know, other
things come about, other accomplishments I've had that never thought
about doing. But to me, that's not an accomplishment. It's
something that I want to just experience right and time
is always of essence. I don't want to be having

(08:36):
to go to these places and have to rush back.
Oh I got to be back in a week, you know,
or two weeks. I want to go and if I
want to stay a month, I want to stay a month.
I may not come back.

Speaker 1 (08:49):
So I have I have a thing on this. But
what your what's your one thing right now? If you
had to throw it out there, well.

Speaker 5 (09:00):
You put me on the spot here, because the one
thing is that I do want to do the things
that Kimberly was not able to accomplish, like the travel
that she just talked about.

Speaker 3 (09:13):
I did travel, but.

Speaker 5 (09:14):
I would love to go back with with someone and
experience that now in my life.

Speaker 3 (09:21):
I've done prior.

Speaker 5 (09:25):
Because it's it's it's it's fun. Being being married again
is fun.

Speaker 2 (09:30):
You're right, it's yeah, being married again has probably been
the best experience I ever thought I would have in
the marriage. I've always liked being married, but when you're
not with the right person, it's no longer fun, it's
no longer exciting. It's just okay. You know, you're you're
you're connected with your piece of paper, and that's it, right.
But being able to know that we have the best

(09:54):
experiences because we're so much alike in the things that
we enjoyed doing. And yes, he has definitely done some
things that I I have not been able to do
and have not been able to experience. But when you
don't enjoy it just because you went the first time,
and then if you get a chance to enjoy it
with somebody you really truly love and care about and
they know that they're going to appreciate that, that makes

(10:14):
it much more wanting. And that's that's something I've always
wanted to do. And it's funny because like when I
think about that, that bucket list, if you want to
call it, or those experiences what we've experienced together the
simplest things of just going to the grocery store. We're
like two little kids. We love it because we just
enjoy each other's company. It's not so much because you're

(10:36):
just going down and with the shopping cart and putting
in vegetables with the shopping cart. It's just the person
that you're with that makes that experience of going to
the grocery store so much better.

Speaker 3 (10:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (10:47):
So it's like it's like going to Disney World when
you were a kid, right, It's like mm hmmm. And
but then then having a kid and being able to
do that excite It's all about, you know, I'm going
to show you what I experienced and what you can
experience because of the new stuff that was there, and

(11:08):
enjoy the things that are new to you as well
as new to them at the same time.

Speaker 3 (11:13):
Right.

Speaker 5 (11:13):
So so it's, uh, I don't know if I'm explaining
it properly, but that's there's as a satisfaction to that,
there's a newness to that, there's a there's a continual
learning type of thing. So uh, you know, that's that's
one of the things that you know, I look forward
to to do, even though I may have done it before,

(11:35):
but just to be different.

Speaker 1 (11:36):
So like we like we Jen and I we have
this conversation because Kim will will vouch for this. It's
like when you're deployed, you're either a thousand miles an
hour ago or you're a thousand miles an hour don't
go and during your don't go time, it's either some.

Speaker 6 (11:54):
People read books, some people do things.

Speaker 1 (11:56):
Mine was I enjoyed watching movies, and I think I've
watched more movies than most people have, just because it
was one of the things. But even when she hasn't
seen something, I'm like, we can watch it again. She's like, no,
you've already seen it. But it's like I always learned
something new. Like fight like a really good example like
Fight Club. If you've ever watched Fight Club and you

(12:19):
have not like figured it out what the the book
thing is that they have going on there, like give
it away.

Speaker 3 (12:26):
Well, I mean this is where where it's like.

Speaker 1 (12:29):
I'm Jim's like failing liver and then you seem like
he's like drinking all the time. There's bigger cans in
the background. It's like, oh, this is really going on,
but nobody you don't pick up on it the first time.
But I'm fine with watching doing things and watching things
even though we've done them before. And I got it, like,
you know, creating new experiences and you know, new bucket

(12:50):
list type things are always cool. But it's even I'm
with you, It's like I'm good with reliving some stuff.

Speaker 6 (12:58):
Like I've been to Germany.

Speaker 1 (13:00):
I loved every moment that I was stationed in Germany.
She's never been.

Speaker 3 (13:03):
I would love to go back, just to.

Speaker 1 (13:05):
Go walk around the the hopstrots with the main street
of Huddleberg and look at the castle and things like that.

Speaker 6 (13:11):
I think that was really it was pretty exciting.

Speaker 8 (13:13):
So you all are so deep.

Speaker 2 (13:16):
I'm just like, this is the strait. I want to
do sky diving.

Speaker 1 (13:20):
I want We tried to go skydive.

Speaker 2 (13:22):
That wasn't my thing. I want to go and swim
with the dolphins.

Speaker 4 (13:27):
I want to have these experiences just so I can
be like check that box and you know what, Yes,
let me be honest about it.

Speaker 2 (13:35):
Do I want to do it with him? Of course
I do. But if he didn't want to do it
with I still want to go.

Speaker 5 (13:40):
Right, So is it is it your you want to
get to the bucket list real quick.

Speaker 3 (13:46):
I don't know when I want to drop dead foot.

Speaker 2 (13:49):
From the bucket list.

Speaker 3 (13:50):
From the bucket list.

Speaker 5 (13:51):
I want to jump out of a plane, but I
know if I get out of it, you know that
that's that experience.

Speaker 3 (13:56):
But I know if I got up there, I wouldn't
freaking go right. Well, so maybe I'll go. Maybe I'll
go to the fly park and experience you know, free fall.

Speaker 1 (14:05):
Well okay, but yes, but like with me, okay, jumping
down airplanes in the Army is not the same as
sky diving at all. You're it's jumping down the airplanes
in the Army. Is your tethered to the aircraft and
you fall outside, fall outside this aircraft, and a shoe
gets deployed for you skydi mean they take you up,
you know, pretty dumb high and it's like, oh, we're

(14:27):
gonna we're gonna ride for a minute through the air
and then pull a shoot. It's like, oh, okay, cool,
I'm all about doing that. But somebody says, hey, let's
go out here about three miles off the ocean. Throws
could be taken on.

Speaker 6 (14:40):
Like, no, jack, I'm not getting in the water. I've
seen jows.

Speaker 2 (14:43):
I know how it works.

Speaker 5 (14:46):
No, mm, so that scenario jumping out of the plane
right free falling for like a minute before you say
deepd I gotta pull this cord right and then you're like, okay,
I've done it.

Speaker 3 (14:59):
No you haven't. You got a land and you might
break your freaking life right right. So it's like twofold
right right right, doesn't kill you right.

Speaker 2 (15:14):
Age that they say it's not I don't have a
fear of heights.

Speaker 4 (15:17):
I have a fear of falling, or I have a
feel of yes, but okay again, looking at it, do
you want to live with the notion of I might
not be here tomorrow and what do I want to
accomplish before that day comes in?

Speaker 2 (15:32):
Or I am just here for as things come.

Speaker 4 (15:36):
I have no control or say over what it is
that I want to accomplish from these.

Speaker 8 (15:40):
Points and if it happens, it happens.

Speaker 4 (15:42):
And I say that because we Chris and I know
somebody who is going through some health stuff right now
and it has been a constant, one thing after the next,
after the next, and not little things. I'm talking significant
health related issues. And this person is not old, she's
under four, and.

Speaker 6 (16:01):
She's not out of shape.

Speaker 2 (16:03):
No, she's healthy.

Speaker 4 (16:04):
As far as she takes care of herself, she eats
well the whole nine yards. And all I will say
is when I think about what she is going through
and what she has been through, I carpe dm like
I want to seize every opportunity I have, because when
is that time going to come that I'm not going
to have that opportunity. Maybe I won't be able to stand,

(16:28):
maybe I won't be able to walk, Maybe I won't
be able to strap a scuba tank to my back.

Speaker 2 (16:32):
Maybe I don't won't be able to jump out of
an airplane.

Speaker 4 (16:34):
Who knows, But as long as I have the ability to,
I want to be able to seize that opportunity, right.

Speaker 2 (16:42):
And I think a lot of times when you find
that people who are in a different scenario, you know,
when they're ill or they're interesting back thinking about what
I could have done. But then also is the opposite
side of just being able to get up every day
and breathe is what you're supposed to be thankful for,
right and realizing that there's so many people who did
not wake up today to breathe into just to be

(17:03):
around their loved ones and to experience that, you know,
sitting at the table and having the conversations that we're
even having, right, So it's it's okay. There's nothing wrong
with thinking out of the box. There's nothing wrong with
wanting to experience. But knowing that I can get up
every day and enjoy my life with the man that's
sitting across the table from me right now is probably

(17:24):
one of the best experiences because I've had such a
negative experience of not being able to enjoy those little
things in life that we.

Speaker 8 (17:35):
Truly do take for granted. Why can't happiness be a
bucket list?

Speaker 2 (17:38):
I exactly? And that most right, so along.

Speaker 1 (17:42):
Your point, like, let's use my let's use me for example,
Like fifteen years ago, you know, well maybe ten whatever.

Speaker 6 (17:50):
I mean, I was so closed off. I was.

Speaker 1 (17:54):
Essentially an alcoholic. I was suicidal, had suicidal ideations, and
I never thought I was gonna be able to experience
any type of happiness whatsoever. And now it's like I
wake up every day and being able to like look
outside my window and be like that that garden is
cool because the wife and I did it, Like that
is awesome. Like every day gets set and every time
I see a brand new flower pop up, I'm like oh,

(18:15):
look at that thing, or like you get to harvest something,
you look at that and that brings me my experience
and my happiness and my joys every day, that knowing
that I did.

Speaker 6 (18:23):
That and or continue to do that with my wife.

Speaker 1 (18:27):
So let me ask this this coming weekend.

Speaker 6 (18:32):
Actually, what month are.

Speaker 3 (18:34):
We in right now? All right, never mind we're.

Speaker 1 (18:41):
You were in August, So labor day weekend. Let's say
labor day weekends. See, some people have a three or
three days off or four days off, blah blah blah.
If you could go see one thing at no cost,
just one thing, what would it be?

Speaker 3 (18:56):
Oh god, no, one thing.

Speaker 2 (18:58):
Where in the state anywhere, no.

Speaker 3 (19:00):
Cost and no cost. Oh no, you only have one weekend.

Speaker 5 (19:06):
Gift me for a second, because I have to think
about it, because there's there's there's probably I can't think
of just one.

Speaker 2 (19:16):
Athens, you said it no cost, no cost. Me sitting
in the back of my porch and just chilling out.

Speaker 6 (19:25):
Oh good one.

Speaker 5 (19:28):
See I already thought like leaving the country, that's where
I was going.

Speaker 3 (19:34):
But it's to be at no cost, at no cost.

Speaker 2 (19:36):
I think it was.

Speaker 5 (19:39):
Clarify that, like it wouldn't cost me anything. It was
it's a free trip to Greece.

Speaker 2 (19:43):
Okay, I'm thinking not that you have a budget or
oh god, it's coming out of my says, I'm gifting
your j Jeff Pizo says, hey, I.

Speaker 3 (19:59):
Wish we go with me your bride and and let
us paint the town soon.

Speaker 5 (20:08):
I kny, buddy, right, don't get on.

Speaker 2 (20:11):
The absolutely would be like I'm out of here, ain't
coming back. Oh gosh, actually I wouldn't. I would love
to see Africa, the beauties that go to a whole
different considency, the beautiful world that we're all made of,

(20:31):
and and see the good side of it, because I'm
so tired of having the experience and see nothing but
the negativeness of what we know is not true.

Speaker 3 (20:40):
Yeah, I agree with you.

Speaker 5 (20:43):
Africa would be something that would never think of going.
But if it's free, because it's just another world and
there's just so much history to really deal there, I
just that's that's a long trip, just like Australia.

Speaker 3 (20:59):
It's a long trip. If if there was a time machine,
not a time.

Speaker 5 (21:03):
Machine, but if the transporter, the on Star Trek was available,
it can transport me there, I would say, Yeah, I would,
I would definitely definitely go there. I'll do the you know,
eight nine hours over to Europe, but you know there.
You know, however many hours thirteen to y scares the
ship out of me. And you know what, I although

(21:25):
it would be nice, it's not something that I would
I want to say, go to, but it would be
it'd be another continent.

Speaker 6 (21:33):
What about you Grand Canyon?

Speaker 5 (21:35):
Oh, never been so you need you need to.

Speaker 3 (21:40):
Do the North in the South. You gotta do the
hour Zona side. You got to do. You know, there's
that's it's beautiful, it is.

Speaker 2 (21:49):
It is absolutely beautiful. Take a donkey down. Oh no,
we are doing that. Youbody not doing that. You just
last me right there. It's so fine.

Speaker 1 (22:06):
Okay, how about how about Virginia only?

Speaker 3 (22:13):
Mmm mm hmmm.

Speaker 2 (22:14):
What would I want to do in the state of Virginia.

Speaker 1 (22:16):
Actually, let's let's do it. Let's do it this way,
Virginia only.

Speaker 6 (22:20):
But you have to answer for your spouse.

Speaker 3 (22:23):
You want to go answer meaning answer for your spouse
like you, what do you think you think.

Speaker 1 (22:29):
Kim would want to do Virginia only to see an experience?

Speaker 3 (22:34):
I know that that's that's you know, doing one of
those uh I see ye those what are you doing?
What those those glam lamp lamping right where? Yet it's
a remember that those those houses, those those domes.

Speaker 2 (22:59):
That absolutely yes.

Speaker 3 (23:04):
Like that.

Speaker 2 (23:05):
It's like tps are like the t P and then
you have the other ones too that are I know
you're talking.

Speaker 1 (23:11):
Yes, that you'd see it all like the Tennessee commercial
where it's like.

Speaker 2 (23:14):
Yes, yes, remember, yeah, okay, anyway, yes, I was going
back to the yetie, I'm like, what the hell are
you doing? Like you're going in the woods. I got
a better chance to seeing Jesus right.

Speaker 5 (23:27):
Look, I want to be in nature, but I don't
want it to be where I have to dig a
whole thing, go to the stream and test the water. Yeah,
I mean I want to be able to have some
comfort but also have the beauty around me.

Speaker 4 (23:41):
That's that's you want to be more outdoor z Yes,
but not outdoors outdoors exactly.

Speaker 5 (23:48):
I've been boy scouting. I've been I've been boy scouting.
Uh leader and uh I don't need I don't need
a whole bunch of people around me. I don't need
to to say, oh, who didn't pack this ship.

Speaker 3 (24:05):
It's like.

Speaker 5 (24:08):
I don't need to hike two miles to the campsite.
You know, I parked my car. Oh ship, I forgot
the freaking things.

Speaker 3 (24:15):
In the car.

Speaker 2 (24:17):
Listen to enough podcasts. I know that where people get eaten.

Speaker 3 (24:22):
So I want to be able to go there and
enjoy everything it has to offer from the.

Speaker 2 (24:28):
Safety with creature comfort. That's right. What about him? Where
do you want to go?

Speaker 3 (24:32):
Oh gosh, I'm difficult.

Speaker 2 (24:36):
Yes, because he has to have everything a certain way.
So I wouldn't like.

Speaker 3 (24:45):
He said.

Speaker 2 (24:46):
Oh, it's true because he's because he's so prepared. She's
the same way, but he's worse. You're you're beyond prepared.
There's certain things he would have in his car. I
wouldn't even think twice about having, right, So if we're
traveling somewhere here within even if it's around the corner,
you know, it's like, well, did you think about this.

Speaker 1 (25:08):
Somebody who had a business that he was Oh, I
know somebody.

Speaker 2 (25:12):
I've already told you how to pack up our stuff right,
get it ready? Okay, But I'm trying to think even
if I could see him, he loves the shop. So
as long as you take him to any type of
store in Virginia. In Virginia, yes, just like we could
go Green Mountain.

Speaker 5 (25:32):
That was.

Speaker 2 (25:36):
Any shopping place there, Green Top.

Speaker 5 (25:43):
No, he's talking about greenop We're talking about like a
steroids right.

Speaker 8 (25:52):
Right.

Speaker 3 (25:53):
But no, I I do like shopping. That's that's a
that's a problem.

Speaker 2 (25:57):
But that's a problem high.

Speaker 3 (26:00):
But if I could, I could go Bye, an interesting
shopping place with a quaint yes, atmospheric.

Speaker 2 (26:10):
Town like that is his thing.

Speaker 4 (26:13):
I would see you if you would asked me for you,
I would have said Richmond and short pump. You can
do your shopping, you can see the botanical gardens, you
can go to the Museum of Fine Arts. And that
is one hundred percent. Yes, have a wonderful meal.

Speaker 2 (26:25):
Yep, that is him.

Speaker 3 (26:26):
So when we went to Farmville, that was yeah. But
but when we went to La oh my god, it's
a small ass. But it was in Clifton, Clifton, Yeah,
and it's it's nice. The ride was nice.

Speaker 2 (26:44):
Forty five minutes would drive maybe an hour if.

Speaker 3 (26:46):
That I think. Clifton, Yeah, it was about it about
thirty five minutes from here.

Speaker 2 (26:52):
But you know, it was kind of awkward kind of
way to get there too, because the roads and Kirby.
But it was it was interesting. And that is that
is definitely him.

Speaker 3 (27:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (27:03):
So so you know, you know anywhere you mentioned Virginia,
but any I we do places that I haven't been to.
In Loland, Vermont, it's a beautiful place to visit. Forget Connecticut.

(27:26):
Rhode Island was interesting. You know, started at the top
and we were down there's some very very nice towns,
even going out west. So anywhere in the United States
to me is like places that I haven't been to.
You know, you think, oh, I've been to Arizona, but
I haven't been to every place. Scott Scottsdale is interesting,
you know, Tucson, Uh, Phoenix, Chandler, all these these these

(27:53):
towns and you get to see see things that you
you know, it's sometimes it's black and white, right, So
it's it's like you may go to any any town
in Virginia that's really redneck or really you know, like
I don't want to say backwards, but you know, in
time they're stuck and you go somewhere else it's very

(28:14):
very different. Like Richmond, it's got it's eclectic, it's got everything.
But you may go to a town it's now I
don't know if that.

Speaker 3 (28:25):
If you answered the question but it's really.

Speaker 5 (28:33):
Since twenty eleven and you really haven't experienced everything West.

Speaker 1 (28:40):
See where we differ because with Chris's dishes, we went
all over Virginia and we you name it, we could
source it from Virginia like we could sort like we
could source every food product from the state of Virginia.

Speaker 6 (28:58):
We could and never have to.

Speaker 2 (29:01):
We've also gone all over Virginia.

Speaker 8 (29:02):
We've been to lay which is wonderful.

Speaker 2 (29:05):
We've been yea, yeah, we went to Freeze, we.

Speaker 8 (29:09):
Went to Gaylax, gone through the Gaylax is awesome.

Speaker 4 (29:13):
Love it northern Virginia. I mean, obviously we live up here,
we've been up here, but even like the.

Speaker 2 (29:21):
Middle Neck, the lower.

Speaker 6 (29:24):
Middle Peninsula of Virginia.

Speaker 2 (29:26):
I just love Virginia.

Speaker 1 (29:28):
So I think I think for Jen want it's it's
kind of hard, but I think one place to spend
a weekend, just to.

Speaker 4 (29:35):
Go someplace we haven't been, or someplace we've been, because
someplace we've been.

Speaker 6 (29:39):
Oh and I know exactly where it would take you. Rappahannock.

Speaker 2 (29:44):
There you go too easy. Right outside in Irvington, it's seafood.

Speaker 1 (29:50):
Sorry, but I mean it is the coolest thing just
to watch the the oyster fishermen just driving up and
the like all these baskets on their boat and they're
undering all these oysters and they're cleaning them and stuff
like that. You can see a couple of chucking them
and trying them out. You're like, that's the coolest job
on the planet right there. Yeah, but it's it's but.

Speaker 3 (30:14):
The oyster for you.

Speaker 2 (30:15):
No, I'm good. I'm wanting nothing slide down my back
of my throat. Were good.

Speaker 3 (30:25):
Or bake, it doesn't matter me. It's fish. It's not
gonna happen.

Speaker 2 (30:29):
You're not gonna that same. Yeah, you want to el hunting.

Speaker 4 (30:32):
You would be perfectly content being up in the mountains
entire weekend, just hanging out by yourself, bottle of wine
or a bottle of whiskey and go hunting.

Speaker 6 (30:44):
That's all. That's something I always want to do.

Speaker 2 (30:46):
Drink a bottle of whiskey.

Speaker 4 (30:47):
Bourbon trail, Well, yeah, we had that conversation. Also, do
the bourbon trail we think in our v is going
to be in our.

Speaker 2 (30:56):
Yeah, yeah, it sounds like that.

Speaker 4 (30:58):
There's too many things that we both want to do.
I don't want retirement to hit and then stop living.
Thank You's a problem, and I think a lot of
people actually do that, like if I'm getting to not
if when it gets to that point where you know,
the duration to.

Speaker 8 (31:14):
Check those box boxes on the bucket list is now,
I've got.

Speaker 2 (31:18):
More time or we have more time.

Speaker 8 (31:21):
Let me say it that way.

Speaker 4 (31:22):
I want us to be able to do and not
think about it, right, Like you said, if you want
to go for a month, you're going for a month.
I want to be able to have that opportunity afforded
to us. So it's like, okay, so what do we
want to see? Do you, Carmen, when you get in
an RV and drive to Arizona?

Speaker 5 (31:40):
Probably now I would, Yeah, I'd bet it all depends
how big that RV is. I tried to move an
RV once in a society, you try to move it.
So it's a long story, but I'll make it really short.
My nephew was doing a class project for school. It

(32:02):
was doing a film, and he borrowed an r V
from a neighbor. He parked it in my sister's driveway
right and I was going to be moving it to
other locations. I got in and started up and said,
I'm all full of pissing vinegar.

Speaker 2 (32:19):
Now, I.

Speaker 5 (32:23):
Said, I can't because I'm going to if I crashed
this thing, I'm going to be so upset.

Speaker 2 (32:32):
How big was it?

Speaker 3 (32:33):
It was like a, well, how big is that driveway?

Speaker 6 (32:37):
It's it's how big a r V?

Speaker 3 (32:40):
Big?

Speaker 8 (32:41):
He said, class.

Speaker 3 (32:45):
I don't know what the class was. The class was.
I didn't realize how its.

Speaker 5 (32:52):
Front the problems I'd be because I didn't have the
class A license really to do that, right, But it
was a big r V.

Speaker 3 (32:58):
And the guy came and he moved it out, and
so you didn't even drive it. I did not even drive.

Speaker 5 (33:02):
I just got in a seat and I says, I
looked at the mirrors like twice. I may be able
to get it into the street, but I don't know if.
I don't know if right, you know, And at my
sister's house, those blocks are great for cars, and it's like,
I've got this was it was at least forty feet.

Speaker 1 (33:24):
But see that's but that's an experience like just doing
those sorts of things. Like the first time I ever
drove something that was an eighteen wheeler type vehicle was
in Kuwait.

Speaker 3 (33:38):
Oh.

Speaker 1 (33:38):
Yeah, so when we got when when we got ready
for the initial invasion, we were stationed in Kuwait. Everything
came off the boats and it's like, all right, pick
a vehicle and I was like, okay, I mean, I'm
a license on that one. But it had a trailer
behind it was like an eighteen wheeler. I was like,
I can do this through the desert at night.

Speaker 3 (33:58):
We can do this. Let's do this.

Speaker 1 (34:00):
Probably should never have done that, but I did it.

Speaker 3 (34:02):
I mean it was an experience.

Speaker 5 (34:05):
Yeah, So I think that if for for something like that,
I definitely if it was a hitch hitched on a car,
I'd have a problem too, because you know, backing that
stuff up and getting that into a spot is a
little bit different than just back in your car. So
to me, you know, yeah, I'll go. I'll go cross

(34:26):
country in a camp as long as someone else's driving.

Speaker 4 (34:29):
So I say it because when I was a little girl,
I was six seven, my parents had the summers off
and we loaded up the station wagon and we went
cross country. So I got to see all these amazing
things as a kid. I would love to be able
to do that with Chris.

Speaker 8 (34:45):
Just be like.

Speaker 4 (34:48):
Twenty thirty and I'm done working and take two days
to breathe and get in an RV and take down
exactly rent out the house whichever.

Speaker 2 (34:58):
I don't think you can run houses for fill with
amount of money.

Speaker 4 (35:01):
Now right, I mean, but check that bucket list, Like
I want to be able to see this entire country
and all it has to offer own. You know, you
mentioned about so many different things to see, like as
New Yorkers, everyone thinks New.

Speaker 2 (35:16):
York is just the city, and there is so much more.

Speaker 4 (35:19):
To New York, right that is not congestion and traffic
and grime, crime and sign. It is beautiful and anybody
who takes the time to.

Speaker 2 (35:28):
Go and see it you find a new appreciation for it.
Like I would love to go to Iowa.

Speaker 4 (35:34):
In my mind, I picture cornfields, rose and rose of cornfields,
and not in a bad way, in a beautiful way,
a symbolic notion like this is what our country is about,
the farmers, the agriculture. What is it that's out here
that makes this location so amazing? And as a photographer,

(35:55):
I look at it and I can I can vision
this whole image. But I would want to be able
to see that with people I love, and I'm sharing
those experiences.

Speaker 5 (36:05):
Yeah, seeing them, you know, there's people that drive a
cross country and you do it alone, and I always
say myself, Wow, it's great to experience that.

Speaker 3 (36:14):
But the best thing to do is experience with the
people you're exactly.

Speaker 5 (36:19):
So it's a it's a different thing, you know, Like
I would I would love to at one point, you know,
you know Field Dreams right in Iowa, I would have
loved to take a trip out there and just go
see that.

Speaker 1 (36:32):
The ballpark, that board wark Right, she's never seen Field
of Dreams.

Speaker 2 (36:38):
Oh you haven't. Oh okay, well there's a reason for
you to go.

Speaker 5 (36:43):
Yeah, for sure, Well there is a reason not see
the movie.

Speaker 2 (36:48):
It's an excellent Is it going to make me cry
because I don't like crying? No, it's no, it is.

Speaker 3 (36:53):
It's a feel good movie. Okay, look, you know.

Speaker 2 (36:58):
Don't say anything. Let experience lot Next Friday's movie.

Speaker 5 (37:02):
You're talking about someone who who has a whole bunch
of chick flicks in his library.

Speaker 3 (37:06):
Right, there's people.

Speaker 5 (37:10):
The people say, how come you got these chick flicks
in it? It's like, because you know, to experience life,
you have to experience all emotions. It's not just you
know John Wick one two three, right, and looking for
four right, it's not that it's it's although that's not bad,
that's great. But there's there's you know, all the other

(37:32):
things that's true, the comedy pieces, the love pieces, all
all of that stuff.

Speaker 2 (37:38):
He gets sit there for hours. He can watch more
chick flicks than I can spending reality. Yes, yes, because
it's horrible at that I can.

Speaker 3 (37:49):
And you know what you find in those things? There's
chick flicks. I'll say, you find things that you are
moved by. Yes, right, So call me a cry baby
or whatever, but I will, I will tear up the things.

Speaker 2 (38:05):
I think.

Speaker 4 (38:06):
That's wonderful that you are in touch with your emotions,
that you can appreciate that I can't suspend reality.

Speaker 2 (38:11):
I'm like, why didn't they look out back? What a
fucking idiot? Why are you turning left instead of right?

Speaker 3 (38:17):
Have another goblet of wine.

Speaker 2 (38:20):
We will need a goblet like the size of that.
Decore phil It give me a swizzle straw and I
should be.

Speaker 8 (38:30):
Although I do have to say we had Margarita's Last
We need.

Speaker 5 (38:34):
We need, we need to put one of these topics
as you know, best films of all time, you know, everybody,
and we have to categorize them because there's so many crime.

Speaker 2 (38:50):
But you know that's a good one.

Speaker 4 (38:51):
Yes, yes, down, we're gonna make pop and we're going
to have that conversation. Well not to chew into the mic,
but I can't guarantee it.

Speaker 2 (39:02):
Well, you know, it's funny because there was a time
where I would actually sit down and watch a movie
videotape myself watching the movie and be the critic throughout
the whole movie and have my popcorn sitting in front
of me. No, seriously, if I have videos out there
doing that, it's just so much fun, the one the popcorn,
and I'd just be sitting like what No, I mean,

(39:25):
it was just so much fun to do just to
be your personal critic of the movie that you're watching.
So we definitely need to do that. Oh my god.
We have such a great time, you know, because you're right,
it's just those experiences and he is that person. He
truly takes everything in.

Speaker 1 (39:41):
So along those lines, could you see yourself sharing your
bucket bucketless items or would you want to sharing with
him sharing because of this, you know, this world that
we live in of everything being on social media. From
your point of view, would you want to share it
with somebody.

Speaker 2 (40:02):
It doesn't really matter to me one way or the other.
I guess because I've shared so much already in my
personal life that one more thing wouldn't hurt respective. I mean,
you know, I've written books about being you know, domestic
abuse relationships. So if you can't get any more personal
than that, I don't know what else to tell you.

Speaker 8 (40:19):
Right, I would love to video, like what is it
vlog a trip in most country.

Speaker 4 (40:26):
I think that would be fun because you see all
the kids and I use the term kids like Gabby
Patilla Patillo and the guy and he ends up killing her.

Speaker 3 (40:35):
Yeah, all right, let's go. Let's let's.

Speaker 4 (40:39):
People that are still here that you hear about these
twenty some odd year olds and they go on these
trips and they're not intimately aware what happens. Yes, I
left him in Grand Canyon with the donkey that you
won't ride. That one's just gonna get you down. There's
the other one's gonna leave with you. But seriously, like you,

(41:02):
you see all these young kids doing this, why can't
we What is the difference between twenty some odd year old.

Speaker 5 (41:08):
It's a different And you know, it's really nice about
that idea is it's a totally different perspective than from
the eyes of a twenty year old life or even
even you know, those family because we have this notion
or I have this notion of say, wait, but those
people that vlog like that, they're all kids. Yes, they're
all kids, and from an adult perspective, you don't at

(41:32):
least I don't see that, right somebody there.

Speaker 2 (41:34):
There are many people are ages that are the blog
all the time. I think sometimes there's things that you
shouldn't be blogging about and talking about, and I think
there're definitely be curled back. But there's many many people
out who do this and actually do it for a living.
This is what people that's how they make their life

(41:55):
more interesting for them. Whether it's for you or not,
I think it's really about that person. Like just something
as simple as when you're doing your videos. I did
my video about skincare product line, you know, and it's
and it's just my experience about that and why I
think it's important that you should support the person, no
different than when you're doing your walking videos, you know.

(42:17):
So it's it's all the same. You're still vlogging, you're
just flogging in a different world. And I actually did
mini series of something as simple as how do you
put together a dining room table? I've got tons of
videos out there like that, if just teaching people how
to utilize what they already have, and or if you're
buying something you don't have to overbuy in order to
make your area look better. So it's and it was

(42:42):
perspective of, in my opinion, an adult, right right, an adult,
not a child, but an adult.

Speaker 1 (42:49):
Yeah, And going along those lines, I think it like
we take here from a different perspective of like we're
not out here trying to like ooh like get all
the likes and everything like that. We're like we're trying
trying to give it the the experience, Like this is
something that people don't.

Speaker 6 (43:06):
Even really know.

Speaker 1 (43:06):
Like the other day, we were in the office and
we're talking and somebody mentioned Deltaville, Virginia, and I picked
my head around and I'm like, oh, that place is
really cool.

Speaker 3 (43:16):
We've been there.

Speaker 1 (43:17):
And I was like, people don't even know where this
place is at in Virginia, but it is the kayak
capital of the world, and it says it right on
their side. And please believe I've never seen so many
kayaks or people kayaking in my life, but it's never
a little place.

Speaker 4 (43:33):
So it will be a fun weekend if you get
an airbnbu down in Irvington in the Middle Peninsula.

Speaker 1 (43:40):
Not just people don't need to experience the You don't
need to experience the flashy things. You need to experience
those things that are there, the injective.

Speaker 5 (43:52):
The tranquil things, the mundane things that not I don't
want to say the mundane. I'm just saying that they're
they're not. They're not like we're driving a Formula one car, right.

Speaker 1 (44:03):
Well, yeah, so like the Irvington, Virginia. It's this cute
little town and we stumbled a crossed at one time
because we were coming back from the Eastern Shore and
they had a really good winery that we always loved
going to every time we went through there. And then
finally one time we're like, hey, we're just gonna stop
here and hang out for a weekend. We we ran
into Airbnb. Literally in on the main street, no stop signs,

(44:28):
know nothing. They had one gas station, but when you
walked in the gas station, I mean they did have
gas in there, but you're like, this is such a
cute little model, and it was it was too it
was freaking cute. But the one thing that really got
us is every time we went through this little town,
we saw this one place and it said the bistro

(44:50):
I think that's what it was called. But the outside
of it had two columns, there were giant toothbrushes. We're like,
what is to deal with this place? So finally, when
we decided to spend the weekend there, we went in
there and we decided like, hey, it's like eight o'clock,
let's go hang out, get an adult beverage, and have

(45:11):
something to bite to eat. And we got to talk
to the bartender. She's like, yeah, the town has an
ordinance that you're not allowed to change the outside of
any building ever, and there's no change.

Speaker 6 (45:20):
There's no chain restaurants or anything like that around here.

Speaker 2 (45:22):
Ever.

Speaker 1 (45:23):
We're like what she's say, Yeah, for example, this place
this used to be a dentist's office. We're like, that
explains to toothbrush is outside.

Speaker 6 (45:33):
That's pretty cool.

Speaker 1 (45:34):
So and it also has one of the one of
like I think it's five or ten five star hotels
in Virginia.

Speaker 6 (45:44):
And then yeah, wow, it's.

Speaker 4 (45:47):
Pretty what else is sitting on your bucket. Any food
you want to try eating before.

Speaker 8 (45:53):
I cuisines, as long as it's nut fish or uh so,
no blowfish for you.

Speaker 3 (46:02):
No, No, I think I'm good with no.

Speaker 5 (46:06):
No, you.

Speaker 3 (46:09):
Stay away from good Stay away from all those exotic things.

Speaker 1 (46:15):
Gater exotic. It's a big giant lizard.

Speaker 3 (46:17):
It's a big giant lizard. But I don't want to
eat a snake. Let's fry that sucker.

Speaker 2 (46:22):
Yeah, it does.

Speaker 6 (46:23):
Not taste that chicken. Well it kind of does.

Speaker 2 (46:26):
We're good, We're good. Snake in you there?

Speaker 3 (46:31):
I know I also squirrel, squirrel, but you know it
tastes like chicken.

Speaker 2 (46:37):
So tell me something that doesn't taste like chicken. That's
what everybody says about anything like frog legs. Frogs, they
tastes like chicken. Frogs legs.

Speaker 5 (46:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (46:47):
Out. When I was a kid, my grandmother, would you
know she'd have during the holidays. You didn't see a
raccoon or frog legs or But you know, because I'm grown,
I and I don't have to eat dish like I'm good.
Your grandma cooked a raccoon? Yeah for real? Yeah, yeah,
holidays it was a big thing in the holid. You
only once a year.

Speaker 1 (47:07):
I'll tell you somebody who's really been in the raccoon
bo Jackson.

Speaker 3 (47:11):
I mean, who know him?

Speaker 6 (47:13):
Bo Jackson?

Speaker 2 (47:14):
Oh the athlete. Yeah, he actually likes a year.

Speaker 1 (47:18):
Catches them, catches him and smokes him.

Speaker 2 (47:20):
This is Kim.

Speaker 8 (47:22):
Kim will have an oyster go down in the back
of her throat.

Speaker 2 (47:24):
But she ate raccoon was a pretty cool I was.
I was like, you know, hey, you have no choices,
like here, try some of this well, working on how
she cooked it. I think she baked it. I don't know.

Speaker 3 (47:33):
Alright, fogus food carments.

Speaker 2 (47:36):
Like nothing anymore.

Speaker 9 (47:38):
I ain't ask my mom because he was you know,
slung or chicken, He's good all types of MACARONI.

Speaker 1 (47:48):
Wait, wait, wait, wait, hold on you you don't want
to be adventurous at all and tries something different.

Speaker 3 (48:00):
Try anything different than it's all.

Speaker 2 (48:02):
I just saying me, like, what whatef?

Speaker 5 (48:05):
Or there you go?

Speaker 1 (48:08):
Okay that after I'm aress, okay, so beef? So you know, no, really,
no baby cows.

Speaker 3 (48:22):
What do you mean? Oh heel? Yeah, sorry, yeah, you
know what you said? I said eel. I said no, no, no, yel,
like you know what it's it? We always used to
have deal colors right when they.

Speaker 5 (48:34):
Were like a dollar ninety nine pounds, And my father says,
as soon as it got to like two ninety nine
is like.

Speaker 3 (48:39):
I get the chicken collars. It's like and and I
haven't had a other than when I go out to you,
I'll have you know, different chase or something like that.
Feel yes, okay, so yeah, and every.

Speaker 2 (48:54):
Now you do lamb, but not very often. I love
a good lamp. I have good lambs.

Speaker 3 (48:59):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (49:00):
I think I think the question should have been more like,
if you're going to have something food experience, what kind
of food experience would you want? Or where like me,
I have two I would so eat my way through
France in Italy.

Speaker 10 (49:17):
They were out of France, and I would not allow
to have you because, let me tell you something, what
you know about Italian food here is not It's just
totally different there, and it's so much fucking nice.

Speaker 5 (49:31):
I know.

Speaker 2 (49:32):
That's why I want to go.

Speaker 3 (49:33):
It's not only the presentation, but it's the taste and
the freshness and the freshness of it. Right France.

Speaker 1 (49:41):
France was a little uh, don't please, don't.

Speaker 2 (49:46):
It was different.

Speaker 3 (49:47):
It was different, It was it was enjoyable. But I
want to tell you something, going from going from.

Speaker 5 (49:53):
South to north of Italy completely different, unbelievable, like unbelievable.

Speaker 2 (49:59):
I would love I didn't you see what chicken parmesan
is here?

Speaker 3 (50:04):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (50:05):
Oh no, and I can believe it like I will go,
I will like France. Let me tell you, I would
love to go to Champagne. Start there and every single
packery eat a piece of what.

Speaker 2 (50:17):
Okay and cheep and everyone who will have to stop.
Sounds like you know when you're going through were going
to eat your way through that, That's right.

Speaker 3 (50:27):
I would.

Speaker 5 (50:28):
I would definitely trip if for the for the bucket list,
is is Italy? And and do specific places?

Speaker 3 (50:37):
You know in Italy? You know, Rome is nice.

Speaker 5 (50:39):
But after a while I was fortunate to work for
a company that had on your sixty year anniversary with them,
you have twelve weeks paid vacation.

Speaker 3 (50:47):
I took six weeks of vacation, and three and a
half of those weeks I was in Europe. Nice, so
it was very nice.

Speaker 5 (50:54):
I spent a lot of time in Italy and drove
south and then came back north and then you know,
but no.

Speaker 1 (51:05):
I'm sorry, what you're saying but see, like you just
said it yourself, Like Rome, You're like, okay, room is nice.

Speaker 6 (51:09):
Yeah, I got it.

Speaker 1 (51:09):
Tracking But like taking it from the other person's perspective,
the older crowd, it's like, we don't want to be
where all the tourists are. We want to go into
the wilderness, into the into the into the you know, country,
and like I want to like, but you have to
do those No, no, no, it's true, but you don't
have to spend your whole time there.

Speaker 2 (51:28):
No.

Speaker 5 (51:28):
No.

Speaker 1 (51:29):
I knew a guy he went to Italy and then
but he rented an Airbnb and I was like, I
did first move uh huh right smart And he had
like if you come in, they did a whole pizza class.

Speaker 3 (51:44):
Oh yeah, do that? So yes, yeah, all right soon, So.

Speaker 2 (51:53):
So we're doing that absolutely.

Speaker 6 (51:55):
What's your food experience?

Speaker 1 (51:58):
That's one food experience you want and I know I
got it what I can do.

Speaker 6 (52:01):
So what's your one for the experience?

Speaker 2 (52:03):
You want to do? Authentic Asian? Mm hmmmm. I want
to eat my way through Asia?

Speaker 8 (52:10):
There you go.

Speaker 4 (52:11):
I don't want it not American Chinese food, I know,
I want to eat my way through Asia or the
Middle East.

Speaker 2 (52:18):
One of the two. Okay, yep, I'm good with either.
I would like to have some real, true, authentic Mexican food.
MD love O good one. Absolutely, it's good Mexican food,
you know, real because here you get such a mixture

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because there's so many different nationalities within the Mexican culture.
So I would I would love to.

Speaker 3 (52:45):
Have that experience.

Speaker 2 (52:46):
That's a good one. Now you know what You're gonna
get it for her birthday?

Speaker 6 (52:50):
Yeah, Mexican cook.

Speaker 1 (52:58):
Okay, it's the last one, right, you have to wrap it.

Speaker 2 (53:02):
Let's wrap it up.

Speaker 6 (53:03):
Last one.

Speaker 1 (53:05):
What is one thing you have never told your significant
other that's on your bucket list.

Speaker 3 (53:16):
I don't think I've excluded anything.

Speaker 1 (53:18):
Really, nobody's ever excluded anything to be like, No, I
think this is done. I don't think really, what haven't.

Speaker 2 (53:25):
You told me?

Speaker 3 (53:27):
See you're going to start fighting this question.

Speaker 2 (53:29):
Yeah, I was like, I'm trying to think.

Speaker 1 (53:31):
Actually, there's probably one thing that I would really love.

Speaker 6 (53:34):
To do that I know you would never do.

Speaker 2 (53:37):
Does it involve me going on a boat? No, I'm not.
That's him, ye, cruise, So he won't do a cruise.
He won't do well. I like, I like what I
would see I think that, but you've done one. Oh absolutely,
that would be another.

Speaker 1 (53:52):
I think I would love to do a cruise, but
it have to be on a smaller vessel like one
of those like Viking things like.

Speaker 6 (54:00):
That tall and have so many people, not like.

Speaker 3 (54:02):
Those four thousands people I did.

Speaker 2 (54:05):
If I do something else right and you have urine
and but it's work. The thing I like about the
cruises is that you can go to so many different
places in such a short period of time and get
to experience, you know, everything you may not be able
to experience by just flying over there and hanging out.
And I think that was the thing I enjoyed and

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and for me, I wanted to do a cruise because
being in the Navy and being on ships most of
the time I was in the military, I had to
work on them. I couldn't enjoy it right, So that
was an experience for me just to be able to get.
I'm won't forcing him on that because he really does
not want I.

Speaker 3 (54:41):
Would do it. I would. I would work up to it,
you know, do it, you know, three day cruise and
that's the.

Speaker 2 (54:47):
Best way to do is they had.

Speaker 1 (54:50):
The smaller ones nowadays where it's like go do the
rivers in Europe or whatever, thing like that.

Speaker 6 (54:56):
But they're only like that big. Yeah, I put on
my pinky for an example.

Speaker 2 (55:00):
So what is the one thing you ever told me
you wanted to do?

Speaker 5 (55:03):
I love, I don't remember.

Speaker 1 (55:05):
I guess we got talking about creases and stuff.

Speaker 2 (55:08):
I think that one thing that I haven't really talked
to about I would love to do is a train
ride where they have those beautiful train rides that you
go across.

Speaker 3 (55:15):
They have them here in Virginia.

Speaker 2 (55:16):
Yeah, I've never done that. I would love to do that.

Speaker 3 (55:19):
I would love to do that.

Speaker 2 (55:21):
In the winter. Maybe not in the winter during snow,
but beautiful.

Speaker 1 (55:28):
Granted she's not getting off the train, but it definitely
like to take a drive on sixty six all the
way west.

Speaker 3 (55:35):
Oh, that's a good one.

Speaker 6 (55:38):
Drive across Canaday.

Speaker 2 (55:39):
There's another, there's another. That's the one thing I hadn't
really talk about, but I've always have seen it, you know,
or or going out to was it California? You do
the wine one when you have the train. I would
love to have that experience.

Speaker 6 (55:51):
Actually, I changed my mind.

Speaker 3 (55:52):
I know, I know what it is.

Speaker 6 (55:53):
I've never told you all what to do.

Speaker 1 (55:55):
I want to go yes, go back to Alaska or
go to Alaska.

Speaker 6 (55:58):
I know, but I would love just to go to
go well watching.

Speaker 4 (56:06):
Yes, because I've been well watching in Massachusetts. And then
we got into the whole conversation of Martha's Vineyard and
Nantucket and the island and where to stay and to
go well watching. And we also had the conversation of
well watching off of California.

Speaker 2 (56:19):
When I was little with my parents.

Speaker 1 (56:20):
I mean I went well watching in California too.

Speaker 2 (56:23):
There were wells. It was the Pacific. So all right, Well,
now that we all know what we our last experiences
are so bucket lists, I think everybody can kind of
decide for the last as we wrap this up, what

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is your real truth thought about the meaning of a bucket.

Speaker 4 (56:46):
List activity or experience to be held with somebody prior
to your demise.

Speaker 2 (56:57):
Okay, Chris, I.

Speaker 1 (57:02):
Think it's sharing sharing experiences, whether it's and it doesn't.
It doesn't have to be traveling. It can be something
like get a group of friends together, you're you know,
and how chef cooks a great meal.

Speaker 6 (57:18):
And then that's.

Speaker 2 (57:23):
Just I love how Kim's pointing to get on it,
make it happen.

Speaker 1 (57:26):
Cappy skills need to for a little bit. No, Yeah,
I think an experience with among friends, Yeah, I would agree.

Speaker 2 (57:34):
I think everything that we just you guys just said
and then we'll let close out. But absolutely, the experience
of being around the people you love, to me is
the best part of anybody's bucket list. Doesn't matter where
you go, because family could be considered anybody, anywhere, anytime.
It's those connections that you make, and that that would

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be my bucket list.

Speaker 3 (58:00):
Ah, what about you father my bucket list? I I
everybody sentiments, I resonate all that I think that it
is best shared.

Speaker 5 (58:13):
Experience is best shared with friends, family, some some are
needed alone.

Speaker 3 (58:20):
But you know, I find to have.

Speaker 5 (58:23):
More joy in sharing my experiences with the people I love.
And that's I guess will lead me into my synopsis here.
So what I could say is think about what you've

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heard in this podcast. Think about what you may like
or dislike, or even if you'd never even give you
a thought, depending on the age you are or or
where you are in your life. You know, seize the
opportunity to do things when the whim or situation arises,
is what I say. You may not be able to
do it financially at the moment, but work towards it.

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If it's something you really want to do, don't dismiss
it because time just clicks away, and then other priorities
happen and sideline those, so you could spend an inorder
amount of time, which which is not good, thinking about
it and pushing it and kicking that can down the

(59:27):
road instead of the bucket, and then all of a sudden,
your bucket time comes right. So it don't give up,
don't don't seize the opportunity and make it happen. Is
the best thing I could tell anybody there. Don't look
at it at something or a situation that may present
itself as I'll do it later, or or it'll.

Speaker 3 (59:48):
Happen next time, or I'll do it as I get
older in life. Don't do that. Don't wait that, because
you will get old and not do it.

Speaker 5 (59:56):
Basically, I'm really thankful for the any of the experiences
I did have, and so so happy to be able
to enjoy those things to come. That's whether they be
things that I've already done and experiencing now with Kim,
or experiencing with friends at this table. So in the

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future I do see a joint trip with a vlog somehow,
somehow in the works. So that's that's something to look
forward to, it is. And with that this this is
a good experience talking about those things, because it was
virtually today that we decided to spin.

Speaker 2 (01:00:39):
This topic absolutely and to look at the near future
of where we're all going together. All right, all right,
so you know again we thank you all all these
wonderful all our wonderful hosts here together again this evening
talking about our experiences talking about the bucket list. But

(01:01:00):
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