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Please do listening to Morning Drive withChristy live on demand. It's six four
on eighties plus and one oh threepoint seven. If you are singing and
dancing in the car, this musicit's just, you know, get you
in your soul. I understand.My name's Christie. Producer Karina is here
and thank you for letting us comealong for your morning drive. I needed
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some advice, so I figured Imight ask you this morning, because you're
always you know, we're friends herein the morning, you always usually give
great advice. So I went toone of my best friend's house for a
dinner. I was a good houseguest. Brought a four pack of alcohol
and one of those like on therocks bottles, you know, the pre
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mixed cocktails. Okay, but atthe end of dinner I noticed that nobody
drank anything. Some of it okay, but there was a few left right.
I was like, let me goahead and take this with me.
And I'm just wondering, is thatrude? Because when I when I got
into the car, I was like, is that rude? I mean,
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I did bring it as a goodhouse guess, but since nobody drank it,
is it fair game to take itwith you. That is the question.
I just wanted to ask a littlebit little etiquette question this morning because
I don't want to be rude.Yeah, what do you think? One
eight sixty six nine hundred one ohthree seven Or tap the red microphone if
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you happen to be listening on ouriHeartRadio app. It's super easy. Just
hold it down and you can recordyour thoughts and please give some advice this
morning. Yeah, Christy, youknow, I'm the queen of bringing my
alcohol in and taking it back homewith me, especially knowing that they're not
going to drink it, Like Iwill be at the party with my private
bottle well and not share. Youbring your own bottle not for the party
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though? Yeah? Do you justbring your own bottle and keep it in
your person? You hide it?That's different. Yeah, I'm like,
there's anything wrong with it? Didthey say anything to you about taking the
bottle back? Or there were justim not really caring? No, they
didn't say anything. I can seehow you might have fought a little bit
rude about doing that. You justwonder like, oh is that is that
good etiquette? Or somebody brought somethingto your house and then you didn't drink
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it because that happens all the timewith wine. And then I'm like,
you're not gonna drink that wine.I'm gonna bring it back home because you
know that's expensive. I'm bringing alittle cheap bottle. Okay, what do
you think? One ain't sixty sixnine hundred and one oh three seven.
Just want to get your thoughts thismorning, got the outfield and the Goo
goo dolls to put the plus ineighties plus at one oh three point seven
on the way Christie Live. Isit rude to bring something to someone's house
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and then take it back when youleave? Talking about alcohol this morning?
It's specifically Sadie's plus and one othree point seven. Thanks for listening.
So I went to dinner at myfriend's house the other day and brought alcohol
with me, but nobody drank it, so I took it back home with
me. Is that rude? Amanda? Thanks for calling. I think that's
pretty tacky. I mean, youknow, like even if you're just bringing
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those fancy four packs, you knowthe tall boys that are like fancy,
and you're like, damn it,you know this didn't they didn't drink this,
and you want to bring it homeyou don't. Why not, though
you brought it, it's rude.That's bad guest behavior. Well I guess
then I'm just a bad guest.Thank you for the call, Amanda,
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Craig, Thank you for checking infrom San Jose. What do you think
is it rude to bring something tosomeone's house and then if no one drinks
it or eats it, take itback home with you? Uh? No,
No, thank you, Craig.I would have done the same thing.
You know, you bring something toa party, and it's sort of
like, you know, bring yourown beer or bring your own drinks,
and who knows if it would evenget drank, you know what I mean?
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Like, it's better to take ithome and drink it for yourself than
somebody not drinking it and having tothrow it away. I like that.
I like that attitude. Thank youso much, Craig. Appreciate you jumping
in this morning. Have a fabulousday. Always love to hear your thoughts.
You can always jump in and jointhe fun anytime by tapping the red
microphone on our iHeartRadio app and recordinga talk back. It comes straight to
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the studio, or just pick upthe phone one eight sixty six nine hundred
and one oh three seven Simple Mindson the way. It's time for the
Crazy Trainer on Morning Drives with ChristieLive heading over to the seven oh seven.
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Today, the Crazy Train is rollingout to producer Karina's hood and I
do mean hood layo to the Chipotleon Admiral Callahan Lane. I don't know
if you've seen this video that hasgone viral, but three furious Chipotle customers
I guess, did not get theappropriate portion size in their burrito bowls and
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decided to flip the beep out atChipotle. This food fight has made TMZ
front page news across the nation.They entered into Chipotlet wanted to get a
little food. Something went all theway wrong and they hopped up on the
counter started grabbing balls, just stompingon rice and everything, throwing them at
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the cashier. People at fast foodrestaurants have been losing their minds lately.
Yeah, and it could be theavocado. Maybe they skipped on the wacamola
or something, but maybe they chargedextra. I can't believe that makes you
mad, it does. I can'tbelieve this happened at the chipot Land Villa.
I mean, like I can,but I would never think I'm going
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to jump up on a fast foodcounter and lose my mind. Like whoa.
These women are literally picking up thingswhatever they can find, throwing things
at the employees and shout out tothese employees because they didn't lose it.
Yeah, they kept calm that.This one guy's just trying to, you
know, keep everybody in the restaurantsafe. We'll post the video. If
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you haven't seen this video of thecrazy people losing their minds in balletjo at
Chipotle on our socials, just searcheighties plus radio. Keep it real,
Koreina. Look, I'm not gonnasay anything. I like to read the
f I was not involved in thischeap botlet fight. Maybe I was in
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the crowd. That is your Thatis your daily crazy news story. You
can ride the crazy train every weekdid seven ten and around nine forty and
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Live on eighties plus at one ohthree point seven, It's time for the
Great damn debate. Money in relationships. It's always a point of contention unless
you're dating me, in which caseI usually end up paying for everything.
But that's a different story. Today. Our great debate is being brought by
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mister anonymous. I promised you Iwouldn't share your name, So what is
going on? I have a greatdebate for you. Let's say you and
your spouse. First, you arethe primary. You're the head income,
right, you make the bulk amountto pay the rent or what have you?
Okay, okay, Now if yourspouse all of a sudden starts making
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a bit more than you do,you begin to split the bills evenly that
you usually always took care of.Or do you maintain paying that same big
amount that you were paying without letup? Because I recently had a situation like
that, that is a really goodquestion. What do you think he should
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do? He was making money andwas the bread winner and paying all the
bills, but now his wife hasgotten a better job. Should she have
to start kicking down more cash?I think she should. I mean,
come on, now, you helpedout for all that time. Why not
step up and help out? It'sa relationship, right, Thank you very
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much, Producer Krina. What doyou think it needs to be fifty to
fifty. Just tell her, look, now you're making more money, let's
put the bills or get out orno on account. We will put it
out there for you missed. Anonymous. One eight sixty six nine hundred and
one three seven is the phone numberto join this morning's Great Debate. You
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can also tap the red microphone onour iHeartRadio app and send us a message.
I can't wait to hear it.Hey, thanks very much. You
have a great one eighty plus numberone by a Great Debate eighties plus at
one oh three point seven. MisterAnonymous, I said I wouldn't say his
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name called for this morning's debate.And he was the primary breadwinner for his
household, and now that his wifeis working again, he's like, why
do I have to continue to payfor everything? Shouldn't she have to step
up and pay for some money,you know, towards the bills and whatnot?
Is it wrong to ask her?That is the question? Archie.
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Thank you so much for calling aweigh in on the Great Debate. What's
up? I just heard something andthere was a huge red flag. They
went up in my mind. Thesepeople are married and they have separate accounts,
like I think that's the digger concern. Like when we got married,
my wife and I combined everything intoone account and that's where the bills get
paid from. And that's our money, that's our family's money. What are
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these guys doing married with separate accounts? Something's going on there? Why is
he trying to keep his money?Isn't that his family's money? Like I'm
at a loss right now. Wow, Okay, I like to see I
like that style. I like tobe able to access everyone's money. It's
fine, Like yeah, like mywife has always made more money to me
as granted, Like, but wehave a joint account that every bill get
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paid for that both of our paychecksgo into and the bills are always saved.
Like I like that. That's areally petty kind of mindset where it's
like, well you should be payingWell that's your wife, bro. Oh
like y'all y'alls to be paying thedamn bills. Yeah, and I mean
girl, girlfriend and boyfriend, that'sone thing, but your wife that you
inted to holy matrimony with, Like, come on, give me a break,
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have a great day. Thank youso much, Archie, Good morning,
Darwin. What do you think Iwouldn't say it's time for you to
pay bills or whatever. It wouldbe like, hey, now that you're
going to work, maybe we couldcome up with a plan so that we
both contributed. So if you're afraidto talk about money, then you have
a lot more problems than who's payingthe bills fifty to fifty. I mean,
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it's not like you guys are roommates. It's a paperhder have your own
personal account, but there should bea joint checking account to have to do
with all the bills. They bothhave access to, and they put in
the mouth that they feel is fairbased on how much they make. That's
kind of what Archie was saying.Thank you so much, Darwin, appreciate
the call. Oh you're getting flamedright now, mister anonymous by your fellow
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brethren. What do you think heshould do? That is the question for
this morning's great debate. A gentlemancalled in. He was making money,
he was the primary breadwinner, payingfor everything, and now that his wife
is making money, he's like,should she have to kick down some cash
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or do I need to keep payingfor everything? One eight sixty six nine
hundred and one three seven. Youcan always call and jump into the Great
Debate or tap the red microphone ifyou're listening on our iHeartRadio app and send
a talkback. Always love to hearyour thoughts. Back to the Great Debate
eighties plus at one oh three pointseven. Oh man, we got a
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heater today? What oh? Imean? It is hot right now?
You know, mister anonymous call.He wanted me to put his name out
there. He was making a lotmore money in the relationship with his wife
and now she's making more money,and he's like, well, should she
have to pay more bills because Iwas paying bills, big bills when I
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was making more money. Lena,thank you so much for calling about the
Great Debate this morning. I amI have to call in today. Okay,
thank you. I appreciate it.So what do you think? So
I was like, No, I'vebeen in the situation before on the other
side where I made more money andI was the bread winner, and the
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same thing happened. And by theway, we're no longer together. No,
now that she's making equal end ormore than him, No, she
got to kick down. I justheard these men going off on him.
No, he does not have todo that, and they don't have to
have join account. Please. No, Okay, that's a red flag that
she wouldn't kick down. You know, I'm a fan of everything being fair,
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and especially if she's making more moneynow for me, I would be
happy to help contribute. I'd belike, you know what, here,
thanks for holding me down this wholetime. I got your back now,
you know what I mean exactly.The fact that he's even having to ask
this questions that is a huge redflag. So yeah, his brethren that's
going off on him. No,they're wrong. She needs to kick down,
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all right. Thank you so much, Lena. Take care, Love
you guys, Love, thank you. Good morning, Angel, thanks for
calling away in on the great debate. What do you think about this family
finance issue? So me and myhusband, we've always had separate account so
he has his own money. Ihave my own kneed, but we do
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talk about the bills, so wehave since he's earning more, he gets
the big ticketed items, you knowwhat I'm saying, Like he pays for
the mortgage or the car or whatever. Like with me, I take the
utilities, groceries, so stuff likethat, so proportionate to what we're earning,
and it worked for us for likeI don't know twenty seven and something.
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Oh well, if it ain't broke, don't fix it. Thank you
for the call. Angel. Goodmorning, Carolyn. Where do you stand
on the great debate? This morning? Mister Anonymous was making more money than
his wife and paying all the bigbills, and now she's making more money
and he's like, should she haveto pay more? He's definitely being a
jerk. I have been in thesituation on both ends. At one point
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I was making more money than myhusband. He was my boyfriend at the
time we were living together. Hewas out of work. And now my
husband makes more money than me.But never have we ever said, well,
I'm paying more for this, butyou need to do it like you're
you're a unit, you're a team. You can't tell someone I make more
money, should you need to domore? It's like you need to be
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able, you need to be aworking partnership. All right, Thank you
for the call, Carolyn. Wewill note your vote. Got to talk
back here from our app morning.Everyone, It's Stina from Minneapolis. How
about one of you keeps paying thebills, but the other one invests in
the family future by putting the newmoney into the family savings account, toward
college education, or toward the retirementfor both of you guys. That way,
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everybody's contributing to the health and futureof the family. Thanks. That
was such a nice pleasant I likethat. She's like, hey, guys,
calm down. Let me tell you. When it comes to money,
man, people are very passionate.Yes, money, especially in relationships.
Yes, that we know nothing aboutevery single single ever been married. All
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right, the whole conversation, enoughof our Where do people stand this morning
on the Great Debate Christy? Themajority of people say, have the conversation
and then find a way to kindof split it evenly. Have the convo,
find a way to split it orput it in some savings for the
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both of you. I think onlyone person said that. Everybody else was
like, bro, you're tripping getit. Split it, but you know,
split the bills. You gotta befair. You know what's interesting.
The women were saying, hey,do your part, and the men were
like, it should be equal.Yeah, it wouldn't necessarily be what you
would think, but you gotta lovethe Bay Area. Thank you to everybody
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who called to weigh in. Wedo the Great Debate every Monday, Wednesday
and Friday. Back to the musicat thirty seconds. Eighties Plus at one
oh three point seven, Time toplay, Give me five, Christie Live,
Michelle is in the house. Let'ssee if you can take down Tim,
and Richmond shout out to his familyof ten. He's the champ.
But if you can give me fivethings in ten seconds, you will take
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over. Okay, clock starts whenI say go play along. If you're
listening, give me five John Travoltamovies, Go Greed, It's a funny
cair oh Man, there was Hairspray, Saturday Night Fever, pulp fiction.
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At first, the category seems hard, but there are so many John Travolta
movies that you actually know. Faceoff, raise your Hannick. You remember
the Boy in the Plastic Bubble.Whoa, that's a classic. I do
appreciate that you shouted out the punisherthough, Urban Cowboy. Thank you so
much for calling to play. Thoughtomorrow you'll have a chance to try and
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take down Tim. He is stillthe reigning champion. Coming up, we're
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