My Dating And Relationship Podcast With Chantal Heide - Canada's Dating Coach

Two behaviorists, Chantal Heide and CC Rice talk bluntly about power, patriarchy, and why women aren’t waiting for permission. We cover building matriarchal systems now—at home, at work, and in community—through selection, standards, and autonomy. Logic + intuition. Collaboration over competition. Action over approval.

What you’ll get:

• How to build your own “infrastructure” (work, money, safety, support)

• Selection > pers...

The patriarchy keeps women small by teaching us to budget, save, and stay quiet—while men are told to buy assets and build wealth. It’s time to flip the script.

In this episode, I talk to Mel Dorman about how women can take back power: owning buildings, practicing horizontal banking, and creating wealth that stays in our communities.

If you’ve ever been told to “just budget better,” this conversation will show you why that advice k...

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We talk about what men must unlearn to be truly safe for women t...

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I had an insightful conversation with [guest's name], a guy who’s practicing my No Kissing for 3 Months rule and the Zero-Fight Relationship approach. He shared how he’s been able to set these boundaries without facing pushback from the people around him.

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What started as a simple book recommendation request on my TikTok Live turned into a coaching session.

A woman asked for a book suggestion, but when I dug deeper, she revealed she was stuck in a toxic relationship. She felt in too deep to leave, but together, we explored why she was staying, how she could break free, and what steps she could take next.

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