The Messy Inbetween

The Messy Inbetween

Hosts - Murugi Munyi and Lydia K.M. This is a podcast about life as it is. Messy. In love, work, money, relationships, friendships and everything in between. But we’re figuring it out and we’d love you to come along on the journey. #tmipodcastke #themessyinbetween #itsmessedup Instagram handles - @tmipodcast_ @_lydiakm @murugi.munyi Get in touch with us - tmipodcastke@gmail.com

Episodes

October 16, 2026 • 72 mins

Happy episode day Inbetweeners🎙️❤️

Can money complicate friendships? And when your friend can afford a lifestyle you can't, what does navigating that difference look like? This week, we're talking friendship, money from the trending conversation around Savannah James and April McDaniel. We’re unpacking where generosity ends, entitlement begins, and whether friendship has to look the same when our pockets don't.

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Hot, rich and obsessed with you. That was the standard. 😂 But somewhere between our 20s and now, the list got a serious rewrite. In this episode, we get into the things we used to think made a good man, what we value now and the things we have simply outgrown.

So Inbetweeners, tell us what made the cut for you, what got crossed off and what you absolutely cannot compromise on anymore.

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Happy Friday, Inbetweeners! Today’s agenda: a little brain dump.

Think of this episode as one big extended intro. We just sat down and talked about all the things that have been popping into our minds lately. The value of individualism, cars and the things we take for granted, love, and a whole lot more. And because apparently we had A LOT to say, this ended up being one of our longest episodes, We yapped for about an hour and...

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September 25, 2026 • 79 mins

We’re always asking you guys to comment and share your thoughts on our episodes, and today, we’re getting back to them! An Inbetweener once said… and we read your comments from past episodes and reacted to them.

Now, let’s settle this: When is it appropriate to fart openly in a relationship? We spent almost 25 minutes diving deep into this topic!🤣🤣 Would you rather hold in a fart during sex or excuse yours...

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September 18, 2026 • 59 mins

Hey Inbetweeners! How’s your Friday going?

Thank you for tuning in once again! In today’s episode, we’re talking about relationship timelines. Is there actually an appropriate time for different milestones in a relationship? When should you or your partner say “I love you”? When is it okay to have access to your partner’s account? When should you move in together, have sex, talk about your salary ...

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It’s Friday🤩! And you know we’re back with another fire episode🔥

On today’s episode, we’re discussing the sex hills we’re willing to die on😂 And guys, please let us know… are we exaggerating?😭 Someone on the podcast said their perfect sex song is “Bandana” by Asake, and apparently THAT is the ...

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Happy new month, Inbetweeners. May your September be filled with love, kindness, positivity, peace of mind, laughter, healing, and plenty of good days.

Today’s episode is all about those things that are working perfectly fine in your relationship, but according to social media, y’all should have broken up already. We put this question up on our Instagram stories and the responses were quite interesting. Someone said, &ld...

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August 28, 2026 • 62 mins

What’s good, Inbetweeners? Happy episode day!

Thank you for all the love on our last episode. We appreciate every like, comment and share❤️.

We’re back with another episode of dilemmas, but this time, we’re switching things up a little. These aren’t your usual “My boyfriend has been cheating on me, what should I do?” dilemmas😂.These ones are a little more… interesting, and we get to share e...

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Another Friday, another mess to unpack 👀 And today’s mess is your dilemmas. Oufff, they were HEAVY😭

We went through some of the dilemmas you sent us via DMs on TikTok and Instagram, and Kenyan male celebrities, y’all are NOT safe! 🤣 Girls are out here doing some crazy things! Some of the dilemmas we covered included: feeling like you're in competition with your boyfriend's ex fling, domestic violence, your man who sai...

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Happy Friday Inbetweeners!🎙️

We have guests on today’s episode! The talented Sarah Hassan and Brian Kabugi, who play Salma and Biko in the movie Tides, joined us for a conversation about the money mistakes we’ve made in the name of love.

In Tides, Salma is a musician who works hard and gives all the money she makes to Biko, trusting him to &l...

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Happy new month, Inbetweeners!✨

Wishing you nothing but great wins this August❤️.

Now... today's episode😭...A lot of us can relate to this one because, at some point, we've all made sex mistakes in the name of love. Sextakes such as: Focusing only on his pleasure because "if he finishes, that's enough." Not using lube because you...

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Happy Friday! How are you all doing? We hope you're doing great wherever you're tuning in from.

Hee... Messy Mondays! You guys are messyyyyyy. If you're new here, Messy Mondays is our weekly segment where Inbetweeners confess the wild, funny, awkward, and downright questionable things they did (or that happened to them) over the weekend. We react to some of your stories and... whew.

Y'all are actually living lives, but remember, you ...

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It's Friday🤩! And you know we're back with another fire episode.

First, thank you for all the love on the last one. We appreciate you so much❤️🥰.

So... is your group chat ruining your relationships?

When you're dating or married, does your partner know everything you're saying (complaining)about them in the group chat? Are your friends helping you become a better partner, or is the chat just one long partner roast session? And when ...

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Your ribs will be aching after this episode. It's that funny🤣🤣

Happy Friday, Inbetweeners! Hope your day is going great.

Today's episode is all about Hot or Cringe? Sex Edition. Is being called "my bitch" during sex hot or an instant turn off?Let's just say...the team did not agree😭👀. What about mirror sex, lights on, bondage, and mo...

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TMI is FIVE 🥹🤩❤️

5 years of The Messy Inbetween, honest conversations, and a community that's become home. Our Inbetweeners, we appreciate you so much, thank you for loving and supporting this thing we built.

Singles, come to the front right now 😭 you know those things people say that sound supportive but are actually so annoying? "Maybe you should smile more." "It'll happen when you least expect it." "You're too picky." That's ex...

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Happy New Month, Inbetweeners! You made it to July 🎉

May this new month bring you peace, love, comfort and so much happiness.

Today's episode is all about opposite gender friendships, how to navigate them, and the do's and don'ts.

We had very differing views on this one and honestly the discussion got interesting. We get into the boundaries that need to be in place for a platonic relationship between opposite genders to actually flou...

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Happy Friday Inbetweeners! 🎙️

We promised you guys a dilemma episode every so often and we're keeping that promise.

This one had everything: getting bored of your partner after a month, deadbeat partners, guns, betrayal etc.

Thank you to everyone who sent in a dilemma, we see you and we'll be covering more in the next one. Keep them coming (you can share a dilemma by sending us a DM on Instagram)🩷

Enjoy the episode!

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It's Episode Friday Inbetweeners🖤

We're back with one of your most loved episodes — An Inbetweener Once Said. This time we went through your comments from our previous episodes and... yeah, you guys do not hold back 😭

Would we still be friends if TMI never happened? Being too available for your man. Decentering men.

We got into ALL of it.

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Happy Friday! How are you all doing? We hope you're doing great wherever you're tuning in from.

We're back with another one, and this episode is really everything TMI stands for. Honest, unfiltered, a little messy. Today we're talking about the things people secretly google about masturbation and sex.

Is it demonic? Can you do it while you're in ...

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Happy TMI Friday Inbetweeners! 🎉

Before we get into it, we have some EXCITING news. We just launched the TMI x Enkata Galaxy Collection and we are so obsessed with how the watches turned out. They are absolutely beautiful and we could not be more excited about this partnership. You can shop the full collection using the link below 🔗

Ok now let's get into it because this episode is a FUNNY one fr 😭 At some point one of us literally...

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