The Slumflower Hour
As the manosphere rises and men continue to terrorise us, how will you decide what your own happy ending looks like? Join Chidera Eggerue aka The Slumflower on her debut, much-awaited podcast The Slumflower Hour - the domain for disobedient women who date men! Is he really 'busy' or is he bored of you? Do you have the patience to practise your own boundaries? Should you follow your instincts or should you follow your impulses? Watch and listen to The Slumflower Hour every Friday! WARNING: This podcast might just be your man's worst nightmare, beware...
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June 19, 2026 • 67 mins
*TRIGGER WARNING*: R*pe is discussed in this episode where we talk about why men value leverage over us, how they siphon our souls and health through osmosis, and why it's important to start giving men PTSD back.
Prepare yourself to hear some horrific stories from women who have survived developing life-changing illnesses and disabilities from being partnered with men.
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June 12, 2026 • 37 mins
Do you feel inclined to self-sabotage in a healthy relationship? If so, what does that sabotage look like? How about balance? Would you consider yourself a secure skeptic? Or are you prepared to jump into love with both feet?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses the importance of keeping the upper hand even when you're happy!
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June 4, 2026 • 36 mins
Scared the next girl will get a better version of him? Worried that all your hard work sent building him will be enjoyed by another woman? Paranoid that the next girl will be so amazing that she will transform him?
In this episode, join Chidera as she debunks the myth that 'the next girl' will have the best experience being with him!
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May 28, 2026 • 45 mins
Is your boyfriend a good boy? Should we train him? Or is it time for him to be handed to the dog home for someone else to take him on as a problem?
In this episode, join Chidera as she talks about the importance of the black cat-golden retriever dynamic, and why women should consider leaning into ethical narcissism.
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May 21, 2026 • 43 mins
Do you feel self-conscious about having a sexual history? Have men tried to make you feel shame for having been 'ran thru'? Should we start judging men for their sexual pasts in the same way they judge us?
In this episode, join Chidera as she talks about why your past has nothing to do with how worthy you are of love - and how you should be using your sexual past to shape the future you want with a man!
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May 14, 2026 • 27 mins
Are you the hot girlfriend? Do you find that men try to chip away at your confidence? Has a man ever tried to out-shine you?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses the plight of the hot girl - and why we should never be afraid to turn up the heat some more!
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May 7, 2026 • 48 mins
Have you been victimised by a prideful man? This episode may be for you!
Join Chidera as she recounts her experiences with prideful men - and why we all need to guard and protect ourselves from men who are too weak to resist competing with women...
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April 30, 2026 • 54 mins
Does the idea of 'dating to marry' resonate with you? Are men using 'wifey material' as a way to lure you in? What even is 'husband material'?
In this episode, join Chidera as she disassembles this whole 'wife material' phrase and reminds us all of why we should be dubious of it!
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April 23, 2026 • 43 mins
How can we explore rebellion in a way that keeps us safe and aligned with our standards?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the importance of rebelling against the rules men have assigned us - and why collecting money from men is a form of rebellion!
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April 16, 2026 • 35 mins
Is it time to step away from him?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the cons of breaking up with him - and why frequent breakups might not be the worst thing in the world...
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April 9, 2026 • 56 mins
They say men love the chase but women love being chased too!
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she talks about the ways women can leverage the chase - and why we should be more selective of the validation we give men.
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April 2, 2026 • 33 mins
So you finally let it rip on him...I guess he deserved it!
In this rather validating episode, join Chidera as she talks about why crashouts can sometimes be beneficial for you - and why every man deserves the wrath that comes from provoking a bleeding woman!
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March 26, 2026 • 34 mins
Has a man ever called you his muse? If so, did you know you may be entitled to compensation?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the invisible cost of being a man's muse - and why women deserve money when men use us as their artistic inspiration!
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March 19, 2026 • 44 mins
Have you found yourself trapped in his sob story? Has that broke man got you going 50/50 as a way to 'ease his load'? Does your desire to save men come from a place of procrastination?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she talks about why we need to leave men to figure it out - no matter how much it hurts us to watch them struggle!
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March 13, 2026 • 61 mins
Does falling in love tend to have you forgetting yourself?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the reasons we must always prioritise ourselves as women - no matter how much the lovebombing is beginning to work!
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March 6, 2026 • 45 mins
Should we bring back the 90 days period of 'waiting'? Should we start making men audition for our affection? Are men better partners when we put them through probation first?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she talks about why it's still important to make him wait - and how you can effectively use his pride and ego to your benefit while he proves his intentions to you!
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February 27, 2026 • 50 mins
Does the 'girls girl' really exist?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the complexity of female empowerment, expectations placed on women to like each other within feminism - and enjoy a juicy storytime of a situation where a woman tried to 'steal' a guy she was dating...on national TV!
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February 20, 2026 • 48 mins
Should women be bitter? Is bitterness an emotion we can alchemise? Should we reclaim the word 'bitter'?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses what pushes a woman to become bitter - and why men weaponise the word against us.
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February 13, 2026 • 30 mins
Should you go through a man's phone? Is there a silver lining to catching a man cheating? Are you prepared to walk away or would you prefer to punish him?
In this short and sweet episode, join Chidera as she discusses her opinion on whether you should look in that man's phone, and why as a woman it's always important to remain a few steps ahead emotionally!
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February 6, 2026 • 67 mins
Is the club really the place to find love? Should we be charging men to talk to us in the club? How do we keep safe and vigilant in the function?
Join Chidera for a funny episode where she discusses the tactics of using your looks, your wit and your discernment to have fun without losing yourself!
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