The Slumflower Hour
As the manosphere rises and men continue to terrorise us, how will you decide what your own happy ending looks like? Join Chidera Eggerue aka The Slumflower on her debut, much-awaited podcast The Slumflower Hour - the domain for disobedient women who date men! Is he really 'busy' or is he bored of you? Do you have the patience to practise your own boundaries? Should you follow your instincts or should you follow your impulses? Watch and listen to The Slumflower Hour every Friday! WARNING: This podcast might just be your man's worst nightmare, beware...
Episodes
July 11, 2025 • 40 mins
Was that horrible relationship worth it because you were able to write some songs about it? Do you believe you have to put yourself through pain in order to feel creative? Did that heartbreak really need to happen or are you using art as an excuse to justify being around men who don't deserve you?
In today's episode, join Chidera as she (lovingly) drags the musician girlies!
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July 4, 2025 • 65 mins
Are you too easily attached to men? Are we 'manifesting' bad treatment from men by expecting it of them? Is your rejection sensitivity making you unnecessarily empathetic to men?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses why healthy detachment from men will save your life.
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June 26, 2025 • 45 mins
Is there really such thing as 'terrible husband but a good father'? Should we starve men of sex to solve their entitlement issues? Will men ever become the 'good people' we fantasise about them becoming?
In this episode, join Chidera as she normalises hating men back.
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses male sexual violence against women
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June 20, 2025 • 36 mins
Should we be less approving of men's flirty advances, even if they are being cute? Are we making the male loneliness epidemic harder on men by being less understanding of their sexual needs? And have we explored what might actually happen if we raise the bar for men to meet us?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she justifies why she believes we need to make ourselves more romantically scarce - after all, men are not entitl...
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June 12, 2025 • 41 mins
What do you stand to lose by being the woman he can afford? Do men appreciate women more when our standards are lower? Or are we just overthinking this whole thing?!
In this episode, join Chidera for a rather hilarious and spicy chat. ;)
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June 5, 2025 • 44 mins
Are attractive men worth all the hassle? Do good-looking men deserve to be humbled? Is it a safer bet to date an 'ugly' man?
In this episode, join Chidera for a rather juicy chat!
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May 29, 2025 • 56 mins
Are desperate women sinking the ship for the rest of us? Can men tell when you're male-centred? Are low-effort dates even worth it in the name of being a 'cool and easy' girl?
In this episode, join Chidera as she highlights the dangers of male-centred women...and what we can all do to redirect the focus to ourselves!
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May 22, 2025 • 49 mins
Are you still clinging onto the hope that one day, men will finally be who we want them to be? Is feminism doing what we need it to do? Are YOU brainwashed?
The Slumflower explores it all in this episode!
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May 16, 2025 • 100 mins
Does being too empathetic make men see you as pathetic? Could there be a pattern of your behaviour that predatory men are drawn to? Are you prepared for a world where the men you're dating are leaning closer towards red pill ideologies?
In this episode, join Chidera as she raises the alarm on how close the predator is in proximity to all of us!
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May 8, 2025 • 34 mins
Do 'homewreckers' really exist? Would you date your friend's ex? Should you forgive your husband for cheating?
Hmmm...in today's episode, join Chidera as she debunks this 'homewrecker' phrase once and for - and shines the light on where it belongs: MARRIED MEN!
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May 1, 2025 • 46 mins
Is sex really casual? This is the question being pondered upon in this episode.
Join The Slumflower as she toys with the debate of whether a woman can truly benefit from 'no strings attached' sex!
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April 24, 2025 • 32 mins
Do you find yourself having to keep repeating your requests to the man in your life? Do people keep telling you that you need to 'communicate' if you want a healthy relationship (even though the person you're communicating to is not listening)? Have you found yourself feeling fatigued in your relationship?
This episode is specifically for the women who are trapped in the communication loop. There's a way out! Join Chidera as she h...
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April 17, 2025 • 42 mins
Are you a hopeless romantic? Do you believe that love conquers all? Do you live in the hope that one day, you'll fall in love and things will fall into place as they were always meant to?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she debunks the concept of being a 'hopeless romantic', while she exposes the true intentions of men who call themselves that!
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April 10, 2025 • 62 mins
Do you feel guilty about using men in a world where men created a system where women will always be commodified? Have you found yourself feeling tongue-tied when wanting to ask a man for help? Should men be of service to us?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses why we should put these men to work! ;)
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April 3, 2025 • 53 mins
Do you struggle with premature attachment to men? Do you fear you'll never stop being a lover girl? Is it really the man you're attached to or are you attached to the idea of being desired?
In this episode, join Chidera as she helps you banish the demonic spirit of unnecessary attachment to straight men!
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March 27, 2025 • 36 mins
Is that man using you as an ego boost? Is he really 'just shy' or is he waiting for you to chase him? Do men deserve our friendship?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses the ways men steal our energy for their own empowerment...
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March 20, 2025 • 56 mins
Is your loneliness starting to become obvious? Do you secretly fear that you're not going to find your person? Are you losing hope?
It's okay! Let's chill out, take a deep breath and reground ourselves.
In this episode, join Chidera as she talks you through your FOMO and debunks your fears.
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March 13, 2025 • 34 mins
Are you a strong woman who takes pride in being independent? Do you secretly wish you knew how to receive support without 'losing' your strength? Do men praise you for being 'strong'?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses why being strong doesn't mean you have to struggle! Besides, what's the man there for?
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March 7, 2025 • 75 mins
Has your poor coochie management led to your demise? Are you in denial about the ripple effect your sexual decisions have on the quality of your life? Are men onto something when they tell us sleeping with them makes us 'impure'?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the ramifications of being sexually careless - and why we all ought to step up the pussy security IMMEDIATELY!
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February 27, 2025 • 34 mins
Have you ever been accused of being 'toxic' for holding a man accountable? Do your friends consider you 'too harsh' in your dating decisions and conclusions? Is there something you enjoy in giving men a taste of their own medicine?
If so, you'll definitively enjoy this episode. Join The Slumflower, as she reclaims the term 'toxic' and flips the script once again!
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