Together Real Bad
Together Real Bad is a queer relationship based podcast, encouraging you to communicate more freely and openly, in your own relationships, to reap the amazing benefits of uninhibited healthy communication. Join us bi-weekly as we discuss topics such as, pop culture, relationship dynamics, date night activities and maybe even a little flag football! Discover how we nurture our growing relationship with intentional acts, questions, love and service.
Episodes
What’s up yall it’s been a long weekend and we are excited to tell you about it….on Wednesday! See yall then!!
**YALL, WE ARE SO SORRY, WE DIDN'T PUBLISH THIS EPISODE TWO WEEKS AGO!! WE NEGLECTED TO UPLOAD IT HERE, BUT HERE IT IS AND IT IS ON YOUTUBE, YOU WILL HAVE 2 EPISODES THIS WEEK! ENJOY!!**
In this episode of Together Real Bad, Ace and Beautifulll get real about the ups and downs of navigating emotions in relationships. 💭❤️
We share personal stories—yes, even our little flag football tiffs 🏈—to show that your emotions are valid, e...
Location Location Location: When your partner asks for your location, is it about safety—or control?
**YALL, WE ARE SO SORRY, WE DIDN'T PUBLISH THIS EPISODE TWO WEEKS AGO!! WE NEGLECTED TO UPLOAD IT HERE, BUT HERE IT IS AND IT IS ON YOUTUBE, YOU WILL HAVE 2 EPISODES THIS WEEK! ENJOY!!**
In this week’s Together Real Bad episode, Beautifulll & Ace dive into the real question behind sharing your location with your partner: Is it about love and safety—or control and possessiveness?
From past relationships filled with sneaky Snap...
In this episode of Together Real Bad, we dive deep into what happens when exes spin the block. From an old flame asking about a “pass,” to a wild dream about becoming our baby daddy, to a surprising threesome proposal—this week brought it all.
We open up about the respectful, the messy, and the off-limits, while breaking down how queer couples navigate trust, boundaries, and unexpected interactions with people from the past.
If you...
This week, we dive deep into the messy, beautiful, and sometimes dangerous world of queer PDA (public displays of affection). From debates about what’s “appropriate” to the very real risks of holding hands in the wrong neighborhood, this episode is as raw and real as it gets.
We open up about our own experiences—navigating affection in front of kids, parents, church communities, and even at work events. How much of our hesitation i...
Life has been lifin’ ya’ll, so we will drop a new episode on Wednesday! Yay! We will be talking about Queer PDA! See y'all then!!
This is a Patreon Episode Check out our visuals and support the Pod: patreon.com/TogetherRealBad
🎙️ Episode Summary: Love, Responsibility, and Real-Life Frustrations
In this raw and vulnerable Patreon episode, Beautifulll & Ace dive deep into relationship responsibility, emotional triggers, and real-life stressors, all while keeping their signature mix of humor and honesty.
The Insurance Scam Saga-
shares a persona...
In this episode of Together Real Bad, we dive deep into how generational communication habits in Black families impact our adult relationships—both romantic and platonic.
Beautifulll and Ace share stories from their childhood, how they were raised to handle (or avoid) conflict, and what it’s like navigating communication with family as out, queer Black women. From unspoken tensions and "what happens in this house stays in this hou...
In this episode of Together Real Bad, your favorite queer couple podcast dives into what happens when you mix travel, friends, and relationship expectations. Beautifulll and Ace get vulnerable about a recent trip to New Orleans — and how a birthday vacation quickly turned into a lesson on boundaries, communication, and prioritizing your partner.
💬 They discuss:
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How to navigate travel with friends vs. travel with your girlfri...
In this episode of Together Real Bad, we’re diving into the deep end of what love, gender energy, and fluidity actually look like in our relationship. From surprise birthday letters and edible arrangements in New Orleans to unpacking who “wears the pants” at home, we're getting real about how we show up for each other in ways that break the mold.
We get personal about:
Why labels like “stud” or “femme” don't fully fit us—and how we...
This exclusive Patreon video episode gets into the real, real of what it means to build (and keep building) a long-term relationship. Beautifulll shares what it’s like to be in her longest relationship ever, and Ace reflects on lessons from two 8-year loves. The talk growth, communication, triggers, and how to stay soft when life (and your ex) tried to harden you.
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Posting your partner for the first time 😳
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In this episode of Together Real Bad, Beautifulll and Ace open up about the highs, lows, and hilarious moments of launching their new business venture together — Jem Junkies. From working the Black Boy Art Show in Chicago to building a brand that blends beauty and culture, the duo shares what it’s really like to start a business with your partner.
They talk about:
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👩🏾❤️👩🏽 The real behind mixing love and entrepreneurship
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What’s up y’all! With the long weekend, and how busy we were, we just could not fit the Podcast in the schedule. But don’t worry we are back with an episode early Wednesday morning. See you then!
Beautifulll and Ace
In this episode, we talk about what it’s like to really come out — not just once, but in layers. Inspired by a touching DM from a listener in London and a major coming out moment with family, we peel back the curtain on the fears, family dynamics, social media choices, and joy that come with showing up fully as yourself.
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Funny & frustrating bed-making battles
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A Mother's Day coming-out story (with a twist!)
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B...
In this heartfelt and hilarious episode of Together Real Bad, Beautifulll and Ace dive deep into the complexities of bisexuality, identity, and love in queer relationships — inspired by a real conversation with our incredible Airbnb guest, Demita Frazier! 🏡✨
🎙 Topics Covered:
When Beautifulll first realized her attraction to women
The struggles of reconciling bisexuality with religious upbringing
First experiences with women and ...
**Patreon Episode - Visuals*** patreon.com/c/TogetherRealBad
In this Patreon episode of Together Real Bad, Beautifulll and Ace get real about navigating blame in relationships—from late-night matcha disasters to emotional misfires and unspoken expectations.
We kick things off with a check-in on work, wellness, and that one neighbor who might just be a villain. Then we get personal about family brunches, coming out, and why settin...
In this honest and hilarious episode, Beautifulll and Ace dive deep into the question: Would you rather be right or stay in a relationship? From "I told you so" moments to the petty Olympics, they're unpacking ego, communication, and growth in a real relationship.
This episode also features:
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Their experience at a Black-owned Chicago hotel 🏨
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A pottery date gone sideways 🎨
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Piercings, tattoos, and tooth gems 💎
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A wild ta...
EXCLUSIVE CONTENT: A full video version + behind-the-scenes extras are available on Patreon! Join the Together Real Bad community on PATREON for unfiltered convos & bonus content.
🔊 Beautifulll & Ace are flipping the script on intimacy! In this episode, they’re NOT talking about sex (okay, maybe a little), but more about the deeper, everyday ways partners connect. From knowing when your person needs space to those small...
🚨 Oops! Half of this episode’s video didn’t record! 😬 But don’t worry—the full episode is available on all podcast platforms where you get your dose of Together Real Bad! 🎧
When it comes to ranking our relationships, who really comes first? In this episode, we dive deep into the balancing act of friendships, family ties,...
💡 This Episode's Visuals Are Available Exclusively on Patreon!
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It’s easy to get caught up in love, but sometimes, in the process of building a life with a partner, parts of personal identity can start to fade. In this episode of Together Real Bad, hosts Beautifulll and Ace take a deep dive into what it means to maintain individuality in a long-term relationship.
Three ...
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