Sorry For Asking with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor

Sorry For Asking with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor

"Sorry For Asking" brings together longtime friends and award-winning gay adult film performers, Cole Conner and Adam Ramzi, to ask all the questions (and they mean that literally). From talking shop to sharing stories about their experiences in porn, "Sorry For Asking" podcast will give you a behind-the-scenes look at the life and reflections of queer adult content creators. Between their conversations and the parade of guests that will join them, "Sorry For Asking" will ask all the sexy questions you were too afraid to ask. "Sorry For Asking" will make you not sorry for tuning in! Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/sorryforasking/support Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor--5773495/support.

Episodes

Odds Are Good! THE FINALE!

November 5, 2025 • 50 mins
Well, this is it, folks! Adam and Cole deliver the final episode of Sorry For Asking, in which they reflect on the past four years of bringing you frank discussions and a diverse group of guests, the laughs and the stories, and the overall mission statement behind this project - to humanize and destigmatize your favorite adult content creators, and share the ins and outs, the whys and hows. We're sorry, but... when you know, you kn...
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Grapes Into Wine, featuring Hayden Harding

October 22, 2025 • 45 mins
And this time, Adam and Cole welcome the whirlwind that is the very studly Hayden Harding to the pod. Hayden jumped into the scene via a steady stream of scenes with the renowned Sean Cody studio, breaking expectations by bringing some meat and fuzz to the mix, as Sean Cody is usually known for its smooth boy next door aesthetic. He tells stories of growing up in Southern California in a very conservative Catholic family, and findi...
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The Inked Pig

October 8, 2025 • 51 mins
Make yourself decent and get the sling ready, folks, we’ve got company. This week, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by their good friend James, known to the gay adult film world as the Inked Pig (sometimes as Jimmy Ink). James gives us a deep download of his upbringing in the Bronx growing up with macho Italian values and breaking free from them his own unique way.

Sometimes being shamed is a perfect recipe for becoming an uninhibited...
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Teachable Moments and Triples Abroad

September 24, 2025 • 43 mins
Welcome back, y’all! Just the boys again this time. Adam and Cole have a little catch up about what they’re up to as summer comes to a close, including creative endeavors, recent shoots, and upcoming travels, plans, and hopes for the fall. They also speak on some moments of folly that we all could learn from (you’re welcome!)

Also, before resuming having guests, Adam and Cole try another hand at last episode’s format of reviewing ea...
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There's Always A First Time

September 10, 2025 • 46 mins
In this episode, Adam and Cole go deep into their memory banks to give you the full experience by reliving the first time either of them did a studio scene. The assignment: Each of them will watch the other's scene, comment and review, and ask questions. What it was like, what happened, how it happened, and all surrounding circumstances. Simple, right? Of course, nothing is ever simple on set, especially when you've never done it b...
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Situps For Satan, featuring Michael Boston

August 27, 2025 • 48 mins
Welcome back, listeners. We have a guest this week, so get ready for some chaos because Adam and Cole are paid a visit by none other than Michael Boston! He’s won multiple awards, including the XBiz Gay Performer of the Year, and the Grabby for Best Butt, and Michael reminisces with the boys about winning the latter in the presence of his mother. He grew up Mormon in Utah, and shares what it was like growing up very much himself wh...
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Summer Curmudgeons

August 13, 2025 • 43 mins
Harrumph! Welcome to the summer grumps! In this episode, Adam and Cole do their best Waldorf and Statler as they catch up about recent things they’ve been up to in the heat of these summer days. Adam shares about his wild experience in Germany, from the techno stages of Whole Festival to Pride weekend at the legendary Berlin nightclub scene. Cole tells stories of a recent visitor at his home that didn’t go quite according to plan. ...
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Good Health is a Flexible Tongue, featuring Taylor Stilson

July 30, 2025 • 50 mins
We love a multi-hyphenate in the industry. And boy, do we have a good one today. Adam and Cole welcome Taylor Stilson to the show, who has so many qualifications under his belt that it’s hard to keep track. Having worked with Taylor on respective collabs, using his adult content moniker Jameson Taylor, Adam and Cole have seen Taylor around town at the parties rocking some fierce looks blending all sorts of fashion trends that play ...
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Summer of Shake-ups: Testing the Waters

July 16, 2025 • 43 mins
Right on the heels of a busy 4th of July weekend, Adam and Cole dive head first into a brand new studio set up for the podcast! It’s summer 2025, things are changing everywhere, and the boys have a one on one catch up about the various things this season that are keeping them on their toes. From improv shows to party venue pivots, upcoming trips and festivals, recent Pride festivities to reasons for nostalgia, the boys even have ti...
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Big Booty Judy, featuring Judas King

July 2, 2025 • 51 mins
Summer is here officially, and to ring it in, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by LA nightlife fixture and sexy content creator, Judas King. Having made a connection while working the Hot Dog Sunday parties in LA together, Adam invited Judas to share his origin story of growing up in Northern California with an adoptive Mormon family, and the bumpy road that lead to his unique place in the queer zeitgeist. From the early days of Guys...
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Read the Signals

June 18, 2025 • 48 mins
On the eve of Cole’s birthday, Adam and Cole get together in this episode to chat about some shoots that didn’t go quite according to plan and what it takes to pivot when things get a little shaky. Especially if we are having problems with the money shot. Studios and performers all have their tricks to get a climax on camera, and the boys have some stories to tell, with surprisingly overlapping details. Cole also tells of his recen...
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The Finest Wine, featuring Landon Conrad

June 4, 2025 • 49 mins
Icon Alert! Adam and Cole are paid an in-studio visit by none other than the multiple award-winning Landon Conrad, for many of us, a blueprint of post-Y2K gay adult fantasies. With his Viking build, blue eyes, and always with the perfect hair, Landon made his mark in the industry effortlessly and tells us some stories of how he got there. We also get into what it’s like to have been part of the DVD era of adult films, only to take ...
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Three Year Plan, featuring Heath Halo

May 21, 2025 • 40 mins
Feast your eyes and ears on this week’s guest, the very sexy and sultry Heath Halo! Heath joins Adam and Cole via Zoom to talk about his intention to make a quick mark in the industry, starting with a podcast that ended up turning into a profitably spicy social media presence, to becoming one of Falcon’s biggest stars. Having grown up around a heap of Texan masculinity and participating in a unique family set up as a sometimes stay...
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Kiss and Tell

May 7, 2025 • 46 mins
Welcome back, folks. This time, it’s just our boys, Adam and Cole, and this time, they have some stories to tell. As spring continues to bring out our spicy sides, the boys decide to take some turns sharing about some recent fun they’ve had with gentlemen, on as well as off camera. First, some stories about cats, because why not? Then Cole tells of an upcoming shoot that is Severance-themed, while Adam reminisces about a stepbrothe...
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Walking Contradictions, with Daniel Gainsbrook

April 23, 2025 • 47 mins
We have another last minute guest addition this week, in the form of the very handsome Daniel Gainsbrook! Daniel joins Adam and Cole in the studio to share stories and perspectives on what it’s like to be an adult content creator with a Punjabi background, having grown up in Pakistan and even having been at one point married, with children. Daniel moved to Canada and took the reins of his life and pivoted into the gay adult film la...
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Yes, And! Derek Kage, the Sequel!

April 9, 2025 • 52 mins
He’s back, folks! Two years after his first visit to the studio, Derek Kage returns to chat with Adam and Cole for a very well earned catch up. In the two years since his appearance, he’s risen in stardom, and in wisdom and experience in the industry, and tells us a lot of what’s happened. With several awards and starring vehicles under his belt, Derek shares about how success in the industry isn’t slowing him down at all. In fact,...
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Fugitive Industry Survival Guide, with Logan Stevens

March 26, 2025 • 54 mins
This week, Adam and Cole get paid a visit by the very sexy and smart Logan Stevens, a true “multi-hyphenate” in the industry! Logan shares candidly about his path from being an only child in Wisconsin more concerned with nature documentaries than cartoons, and hanging out with trees instead of people, to getting an education in anthropology that led to international jobs and internships in government. Feeling unfulfilled by this ca...
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The Slow March, featuring Emil Jameson

March 12, 2025 • 43 mins
Season 4 gets its first guest in the form of the beautiful, talented, and incredibly smart Emil Jameson! Emil visits Cole and Adam in the studio to talk about his past and present, and his three-year journey as an adult content creator. Emil details his beginnings as a midwestern kid who moved around all over the world from childhood to graduate school as a linguistics master's degree holder. He also shares with the boys how his ve...
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Charm Vs Cringe

February 26, 2025 • 43 mins
Aaaaand we’re back! Season 4 of Sorry For Asking begins with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor catching up over the best things about the holidays, how they navigated the week of the LA fires, Adam’s trip to Costa Rica, Cole’s multiple trips to Florida, some recent shoots, upcoming opportunities, and the hopes they share for the upcoming year. Adam has entered his reading glasses era while he continues headfirst into his relationship, as ...
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What We Do In The Hot Tubs, Season 3 Finale!

December 18, 2024 • 40 mins
And that’s a wrap on season 3, folks! To close out the chaotic and crazy year that was 2024, eavesdrop on Adam and Cole as they catch up at the beginning of this holiday season, sharing about holiday plans, some scene work, recent creative endeavors, competition in their fields… What kind of energy do we wish to bring in to the new year? Adam’s new home and Cole’s upcoming creative redirect are two examples of how switching things ...
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