The Weekly Hot Spot

The Weekly Hot Spot

The Weekly Hot Spot is a podcast hosted by Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika, with fabulous guests.. These women are active in the real-life fetish scene and do Distance Domination on the phone. Hear candid conversations about sex, fetish, BDSM, kink, phone sex, and even vanilla erotic pleasure. The show airs every Monday at 1 pm eastern. Check out our blog: www.weeklyhotspot.com

Episodes

July 28, 2025 43 mins
Sissy Pageant recap: Questions we love include: What are your greatest challenges of feminization? Role of your Femdom Mistress? Sissy play and your life. 

Many people answered that self-acceptance can be a challenge and that having a Mistress and a supportive community has made all the difference in the world.

Other comments touch on:

Motivation for consistent sissy training or being femmeFeminine style and who gets to decide how som...
Mark as Played
Lainie Speiser is a legend in the adult industry. She’s worked with all the biggest porn stars and knows the industry from a unique point of view.

Today, Lainie answers your questions:
Do adult entertainers really enjoy what they do?

Does sex ever become mundane for a porn star?
Do porn stars worry about cock size or other performance issues?
Penis size, porn and an unusual issue for huge cocks.
Are any performers in gay porn actually s...
Mark as Played
July 14, 2025 33 mins
Why does a man want to wear panties?
There are a lot of misconceptions around this and it makes for a perfect opportunity for some BDSM or kink education.
 
Topics include:

How does panty wearing start?
Why would a heterosexual cis man wear panties?
Is it always about sex or kink?
Can wearing women’s lingerie help a man be more comfortable with expressing his female side?
Does wearing panties mean you’re gay, bi or trans?

Why does a Femdo...
Mark as Played
Today’s episode is about myths about sex work, sex workers and the people who enjoy our company.

Both hosts have never done Femdom phone sex or distance domination before coming to LDW Group so this is a perfect opportunity to talk about perception and reality around these fascinating aspects of human behavior.

Is phone sex always about sex?

Does every session ‘need’ to end with an orgasm?
Why does someone call an online Mistress?

Your ...
Mark as Played
Today’s episode is all about ruined orgasms. What is a ruined orgasm? How is it different from a full orgasm? Why would a Femdom Mistress want to ruin an orgasm? There are so many aspects to discuss.

In this episode you’ll hear:

The experiences of others who have had ruined orgasms by accident or on purpose.
Why does a ruined orgasm leave you crazy horny?
How does a Femdom Mistress use a ruined orgasm as part of cock control, tease and...
Mark as Played
Is pain play a hard limit for you?
If you say yes, then you might be like the person that inspired today’s episode. Our friend didn’t have any desire to explore pain play until one day he said, well okay maybe we can try it a little bit. Wait until you hear what happened next!

You’ll hear from a number of submissives who enjoy BDSM pain play:


** Why would someone want to experience pain as part of sexual arousal?

** How can a Femdom M...
Mark as Played
How much do you know about sex?

There won’t be a quiz after this podcast episode, but maybe there should be!

Normally, we focus on BDSM education, kink topics, feminization and the role of a Femdom Mistress in the lives of submissives … not today. Today, we highlight sex facts that catch our attention and tickle our funny bones.

Does more thrusting automatically equal more fun?

Are sex dreams only for horny young men?
Who stars in the...
Mark as Played
When we do a Sissy Pageant, we all have tons of fun!

This event isn’t JUST for sissies. It’s for anyone into feminization or male submissives under orders from Mistress. We’re calling it a Sissy Pageant simply because we can’t fit this in a title: Trans woman, crossdresser, femmeboi, sissy and some male subs Pageant. See? That title is bulky.


This episode is about how to enter the Sissy Pageant, tips for your photos, advice and so m...
Mark as Played
June 2, 2025 32 mins
Imagine that you have three very sexy career counselors who are also Femdoms. The Mistress trio of Mistress Olivia, Mistress Erika and Goddess Demi team up to create The Ultimate Sissy Slut Resume.

Today’s episode is all about how we will create your sissy slut resume. Goddess Demi came up with a very pretty sample resume. That is what you will get at the end, and like most things, it’s all about the journey. Our sissy slut resume j...
Mark as Played
Today’s episode was inspired by someone who called Mistress Erika asking for “discipline.” 

That person was talking about spanking and while paddling a bare bottom certainly can be part of BDSM correction protocols, the term discipline means a lot more than spanking or punishment.

In fact, BDSM is a general term that encompasses a wide range of behaviors and mindsets for both the Femdom and the submissive. 

Today’s episode includes:

...
Mark as Played
Where or how did you get your female or sissy name?”

That’s the question posed by Veronica in Lipstick to the members of our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.


Today’s episode is all about gender, identity, feminine names and what those names represent.


Topics include:

Does a sissy Mistress always choose the femme name?
How does a Femdom feel about being asked to pick the feminine name for a submissive?
How does feminizatio...
Mark as Played
Our celebration of Masturbation Month continues with questions from listeners who want to know about our Mistress masturbation. Yes, your lovely Femdom hosts thoroughly enjoy self-love all the time, not just in Masturbation May. Duh! 

In this episode we answer questions like:


What are your favorite topics or themes you get off to?     
   Dominating men? Women? Straight sex? Prior hot encounters? Switching?
FOLLOW UP to that question: ...
Mark as Played
Have you had a sissygasm?
If you haven’t, then let’s make having a sissygasm your goal for this Masturbation May.

In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about self-love while feminized or en femme:
What is a sissygasm?
How does a p-spot, prostate, or anal orgasm feel and how do you know you’re having one?

Topics include:

Subspace aka femme-space
Role of submission in your feminine journey
Mistress guidance or control to enhance your sis...
Mark as Played
Are you ready for Masturbation May?

It’s the month-long celebration of all things involving self-love.

Your Femdom hosts certainly don’t need permission to extol the pleasures of masturbation, but we do think this month is special because everyone ELSE is talking about flying solo. 

Mistress Olivia starts off asking about masturbation habits: 

Are there studies?
How much do people masturbate?
What is normal?
Why is there something calle...
Mark as Played
What do you think of when you hear the term cock control? Mistress Erika says there are very few things more powerful than a man’s biological directive. She’s right and this episode is all about Femdoms who enjoy controlling a man by controlling his orgasm (or lack thereof).

But, we’ve had questions asking if cock control automatically means chastity. Short answer, no, but the longer answer is much more fun!

Let’s talk cock control:

...
Mark as Played
BDSM: Are you a switch?   

Are you a switch?

In BDSM, what exactly ‘is’ a switch? 
What is the difference between power exchange in a Dominant/submissive relationship and someone who is a Top or a bottom. 

A chance comment by a podcast listener inspired this episode.
Since Ms. Olivia and Ms. Erika are Femdoms - Dominant only and don't switch - we needed to have a guest who ‘does’ switch. Meet Miss Eden. She’s a switch and we have a gre...
Mark as Played
In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about one of the most popular roleplay fantasies: the tricked, trapped, and transformed sissy fantasy. There are a variety of scenarios and options in this feminization fantasy and that’s what makes it so fun.

(( There's a blooper that we hope will make you laugh as hard as we did. ))

Today’s points include:

What Ms Erika did on a Saturday night - hint, it’s not what you might think.
What happens...
Mark as Played
Today’s episode is inspired by someone who is new to phone sex and stumbled across the LDW Enchantrix Empire of adult sites. He sent an email to Ms Erika asking if he can still do a call if he’s not submissive. 

That’s a great question! 


It’s true that most of the LDW sites have a Femdom focus. The Weekly Hot Spot podcast concentrates on BDSM, kink, feminization, and things like sissy training. 

But, do you have to be submissive to ca...
Mark as Played
Mistress Demi joins us today to talk about some of the things you might not think about when you serve a Mistress, Femdom and/or Goddess.

What does the submissive get out of the D/s relationship?


In previous episodes, we’ve talked a lot about the physical benefits of BDSM: stress relief, relaxation after subspace, endorphin release from pain play, etc.  Today, we switch things up to have a conversation about benefits you might not ha...
Mark as Played
Are you an alpha male for much of your life - in charge at work and/or home - but you have a secret you can’t share with any of THOSE people? 
Are you, perhaps, sexually submissive and feminization helps with that submissive feeling?
Are you a sissy, crossdresser or even wondering if you might be trans?

These questions inspired today’s episode we talk about power dynamics, power exchange and feminization by a Dominant Woman.  


Topics ...
Mark as Played

Popular Podcasts

    If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.

    The Joe Rogan Experience

    The official podcast of comedian Joe Rogan.

    Dateline NBC

    Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Special Summer Offer: Exclusively on Apple Podcasts, try our Dateline Premium subscription completely free for one month! With Dateline Premium, you get every episode ad-free plus exclusive bonus content.

    The Bobby Bones Show

    Listen to 'The Bobby Bones Show' by downloading the daily full replay.

    24/7 News: The Latest

    The latest news in 4 minutes updated every hour, every day.

Advertise With Us
Music, radio and podcasts, all free. Listen online or download the iHeart App.

Connect

© 2025 iHeartMedia, Inc.