Stable Parenting Podcast

Procrastination isn’t laziness. It’s often fear, doubt, or overwhelm in disguise. In this episode, Shane breaks down why we put things off and how to stop delaying and follow through.

What You Will Discover:

• Why it often feels like you “can’t help it” and what’s actually happening in your brain
• The “Present You vs. Future You” problem and how to solve it
• A simple mindset shift that gets you moving without waiting for motivation

Most people don't realize this, but the key to improving your own life (and the lives of those around you) starts with your own mental and emotional well-being.

In my latest podcast episode, I break down why prioritizing yourself isn't selfish, it's actually the most powerful form of leadership.

What Awaits You in This Episode:

• How poor self-worth leads to self-sabotage and destructive behavior
• How prioritizing your own development...

Shane Jacob reveals the life-altering truth behind emotions and thoughts. Most of us chase success, security, and happiness thinking those things will finally make us feel good. But what if the feeling we're chasing is already within reach without needing to change our circumstances?

What Awaits You in This Episode:

• The hidden emotional motive behind every goal
• Why most people never learn that emotions are created internally—not ...

In this episode, Shane Jacob challenges the cultural identity debate and flips the script. It's not about gender, animals, or pronouns, it's about how you choose to see yourself. If you’re living by default settings, this is your wake-up call to take the reins and start living on purpose.

What You’ll Discover:

• Why teens are ahead of adults when it comes to identity (and why that matters).
• The single biggest reason your results are...

When someone says something rude, offensive, or hurtful, you might feel attacked, but what if the real problem isn’t their words, but your thoughts about them? In this episode, I’ll break down how you can stop being emotionally hijacked by what others say and start owning your reactions instead. If you’re tired of feeling powerless, this one’s for you.

What You Will Discover:

• Why your brain creates meaning from words, and how to ...

In this episode, Shane breaks down how silence is never neutral. Whether with horses, kids, or adults, failing to communicate clearly teaches others how to treat you, and it’s usually not the lesson you intended.

What You’ll Discover (Podcast Bullets):

• Why your silence may be encouraging the exact behavior you hate
• How horses mirror what we unintentionally teach them
• The real reason you feel disrespected or taken for granted

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In this episode, Shane breaks down how your relationships are shaping your identity, and what to do when the people around you are dragging you down.

Learn the 3 simple steps to take control of your input and build a circle that lifts you up.

What You Will Discover:

• Why default relationships (even family) might be limiting your potential
• How to audit your time and connections without guilt or drama
• What to do if you feel “stuck” wi...

In this episode, Shane dives deep into the one belief that has the power to completely change your life. Learn why what you think about yourself matters more than anything else and how to start rewriting the story you tell yourself.

What you will discover:

• The hidden beliefs driving your actions, feelings, and results.
• Why changing your beliefs about yourself changes your entire life.
• Practical steps to start developing your own se...

Rules and routines are helpful, but what truly impacts your child’s growth and compliance is who you are and how you show up as a parent. In this week’s video, Shane dives into why your example carries more weight than any parenting system and how to focus on becoming a parent worth following.

What you will discover

• Why focusing on your own growth is the most impactful thing you can do for your kids.
• Practical ways to align your d...

Discover a bold approach to stop beating yourself up over mistakes. In this episode, Shane shares a relatable story of frustration, guilt, and eventual growth, showing how to turn moments of imperfection into powerful opportunities for progress. With a simple 3-step system, you’ll learn how to reframe your mindset, align with your core values, and take real, actionable steps toward a better version of yourself.

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In this episode, we dive into why life coaching is a game-changer for parents and teens. You’ll hear personal stories and learn how coaching helps you break cycles, build confidence, and find peace amidst the chaos of parenting. Whether you’re striving for excellence or dealing with a family crisis, this episode provides actionable insights to create positive change.

What Awaits You in This Episode:

• How to break patterns from you...

Why do so many of us downplay our successes, dim our light, and shy away from owning our worth?

In this episode, Shane dives into the societal conditioning that keeps us small and shares powerful steps to break free. Learn how to embrace positive self-talk, redefine humility, and model confidence for your family and community.

What you will discover:

• Why society conditions us to downplay our achievements.
• How minimizing yourself i...

Being a parent isn’t easy, but here’s the truth, you’re doing better than you realize. In this episode, Shane highlights the incredible efforts parents make every day, even when it doesn’t feel like enough. Learn how to recognize your strengths, build confidence, and create a positive environment by shifting your focus to what’s going right.

What You’ll Discover:

• Tools to reinforce positive self-talk and boost confidence.
• How cele...

In this episode, Shane Jacob unpacks why kids act out and why it doesn't mean you're failing as a parent. Discover how to respond with confidence, understanding, and purpose, and why recognizing your own awesomeness is key to changing the cycle.

What you will discover:

• How shame erodes connection and leads to negative cycles.
• Practical steps to move from reaction to intentional parenting.
• The impact of your self-talk on your child’...

Overwhelm isn’t about your to-do list—it’s about your mindset. In this episode, Shane breaks down why parents of teens get stuck in overwhelm and how to stop feeling frozen. You’ll learn how indecision fuels stress, why confidence is the key to action, and what you can do today to move forward.

What you will discover:

• The real reason we avoid making decisions
• Why buffering (like drinking, overeating, or scrolling) makes overwhelm ...

Is your teen struggling to make friends or feeling left out? In this episode, learn expert-backed strategies to help them build confidence, navigate peer relationships, and form lasting friendships. Discover why parenting as leadership (not friendship) is the key to raising socially strong and resilient teens.

What You Will Discover:

• The biggest mistake parents make when trying to help their teen build friendships
• How self-confide...