The Stable Living Podcast: Human Behavior, Leadership, and Real Results with Shane Jacob

The fastest way to improve your life is to change the way you speak to yourself.

In this episode, Shane explains how internal language trains the brain to expect certain outcomes and why most people unknowingly reinforce the very limits they want to break.

You will learn how intentional self-talk strengthens value beliefs, reduces internal resistance, and leads to better decisions, stronger relationships, and measurable progress.

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Most people believe love should feel natural and effortless. Then trust breaks, words land wrong, resentment builds, and love feels anything but easy.

In this episode, Shane explains why loving well requires strength, not effort, and how belief in your own value determines how you show up when relationships are strained.

This conversation reframes conflict, defensiveness, and emotional connection in a way that brings clarity instea...

Most belief change fails for one reason. Resistance. In Part 3 of the Intentional Belief Creation series, Shane explains why your brain fights new beliefs even when you want them and how to remove the internal blockers that quietly sabotage progress.

This episode walks you through a simple but powerful process that prepares your mind to accept new value beliefs without force, guilt, or frustration. When resistance is cleared, belief...

In this episode, Shane shares a personal story that led him to confront one of the most damaging beliefs people have: that their mistakes define their worth. Drawing from real experience, he breaks down why separating behavior from value is not optional, it is foundational.

This conversation challenges the quiet belief that something is “wrong” with us and explains how that belief drives addiction, conflict, self-sabotage, and disc...

The Hidden Beliefs Blocking Your Growth

Most people try to change habits, behaviors, and patterns at the surface level. They work harder, learn more, and apply new strategies, yet nothing really sticks.

In this episode, Shane breaks down why behavior change fails when deeper value beliefs go unexamined. You’ll hear how the mind protects identity, how past events quietly turn into verdicts about worth, and why the system isn’t broken,...

Feeling stuck isn’t about discipline, motivation, or a missing system. It’s about the beliefs you’ve been living inside, most of them formed without your permission.

In this episode, Shane breaks down why people stay trapped even when they “do everything right,” how beliefs shape every result you get, and where those beliefs actually come from. This is the foundation work most personal development skips and it’s where real change b...

We talk about confidence as if it’s something you either have or don’t but that belief is exactly what’s holding you back.

In this episode, we break down the critical difference between confidence and self-confidence, why confidence is rooted in your past, and why self-confidence is the skill that actually creates growth, leadership, and momentum in your life.

If you’ve ever felt stuck waiting to feel “ready,” this conversation will ...

In this episode, Shane breaks down a duty most people never think about. The duty to yourself.

He explains why your self beliefs influence every decision, why your relationship with yourself affects every relationship in your life, and why taking responsibility for your worth is the beginning of real change.

What you will discover

• The real cost of ignoring your relationship with yourself and how it quietly impacts every part of you...

Every parent has moments when they don’t want to be a parent. It doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means you’re human.

In this episode, Shane Jacob talks about why these moments show up, what they’re trying to tell you, and how to navigate those moments without guilt or shame.

What Awaits You in This Episode:

• Why it’s normal to feel like you don’t want to parent
• How to handle it with strength and honesty.
• How to Break the Shame Cycle...

Jokes and sarcasm might seem harmless, but they secretly break trust and create confusion in your relationships.

Shane Jacob shows you how to replace teasing with honesty so you can connect deeper with your kids, spouse, and friends, starting today.

What You’ll Discover:

• Why teasing destroys trust even when it feels playful
• How to catch yourself before sarcasm causes harm
• How to create relationships that feel safe and strong

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Think you can’t change your past? You will want to hear this podcast.

What happened in the past doesn’t have to hold you back today. Shane Jacob explains how the way you think about your past shapes your present and your future. Learn practical steps to rewrite your personal story and create a future with more strength and more peace.

What You Will Discover:

• The link between your current thoughts and your past experiences
• Steps to...

Discover the alarming truth about teen addiction with Shane Jacob. From drugs and alcohol to gaming, vaping, and social media, Shane explores why teenagers are struggling with addictive behaviors, the warning signs to watch for, and the serious consequences of addiction. Join Shane as he shares insights and solutions to help teens make healthier choices and build stronger self-belief.

What You Will Discover:

• How addiction starts ...

If you feel stuck, unseen, or frustrated, this episode of the Stable Parenting Podcast is for you.

Shane Jacob uncovers the hidden beliefs that shape your life and shows how recognizing your true value can unlock confidence, peace, and real results.

What you will discover in this episode:

• How We Trick Ourselves Into Feeling Small
• Why Believing in Yourself Feels Harder Than It Should
• Steps to stop diminishing yourself and start livi...

In this episode, Shane Jacob breaks down why style is far more than clothes, it’s one of the most powerful personal development tools you have. Discover how your everyday choices in how you show up directly shape your self-image, confidence, and results in life.

What You Will Discover:

• How ordinary style holds you back and extraordinary style pushes you forward
• How dressing with intention transforms both how you see yourself and h...

Procrastination isn’t laziness. It’s often fear, doubt, or overwhelm in disguise. In this episode, Shane breaks down why we put things off and how to stop delaying and follow through.

What You Will Discover:

• Why it often feels like you “can’t help it” and what’s actually happening in your brain
• The “Present You vs. Future You” problem and how to solve it
• A simple mindset shift that gets you moving without waiting for motivation

Most people don't realize this, but the key to improving your own life (and the lives of those around you) starts with your own mental and emotional well-being.

In my latest podcast episode, I break down why prioritizing yourself isn't selfish, it's actually the most powerful form of leadership.

What Awaits You in This Episode:

• How poor self-worth leads to self-sabotage and destructive behavior
• How prioritizing your own development...

Shane Jacob reveals the life-altering truth behind emotions and thoughts. Most of us chase success, security, and happiness thinking those things will finally make us feel good. But what if the feeling we're chasing is already within reach without needing to change our circumstances?

What Awaits You in This Episode:

• The hidden emotional motive behind every goal
• Why most people never learn that emotions are created internally—not ...