We Don't Deserve Men

We Don't Deserve Men

We Don't Deserve Men is a show dedicated to shifting the dynamic between men and women from competition to cooperation.

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December 18, 2025 101 mins
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In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder welcomes Laurence, the creator of The Dad Dialogue Podcast, for an in-depth conversation about his experiences as a stay-at-home dad. Laurence shares insights from his podcast, discussing its origins, purpose, and the invaluable lessons learned from engaging in deep conversations with other fathers. He reflects on the different challenges and rewards that dads face compare...

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In this episode, the host welcomes Andy Grant, an author, coach, healer, and host of the Real Man Feel podcast. Andy shares his journey of personal growth, discussing how he transitioned from traditional male stoicism to embracing emotions. He emphasizes the importance of men acknowledging their feelings and the societal challenges that hinder this process, such as cultural expectations and gender norms. The conversation covers men...

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In this episode, we explore the intersection of technology and online dating, discussing how social media, dating apps, and movies influence the dynamics between men and women. The conversation delves into the impact of online media on societal and cultural interactions, highlighting the challenges and changes in personal relationships.

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In this episode, Julio Rivera shares his journey of personal growth through Jiu-Jitsu, exploring how it serves as a metaphor for life. He discusses overcoming fear, the importance of mental health, and redefining masculinity. Julio's insights offer a unique perspective on using martial arts to navigate life's challenges and find authenticity.

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In this episode, Kayla Yoder welcomes Lane Rasberry, a seasoned Wikipedia editor and the Wikimedian in Residence at the University of Virginia's School of Data Science. Lane shares insights into his extensive experience with Wikipedia, highlighting the gender imbalan...

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In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder engages in a profound discussion with Justin Leff, a behavioral awareness coach, about men's mental health. They explore why traditional therapy is less popular among men, whether it effectively addresses men's needs, and how mental health support for men can improve without compromising their identity or masculinity. Justin shares ...
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In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' Kayla Yoder is joined by Layne and Cole, hosts of the 'For Reelz' podcast. They discuss the significant influence of movies and media on masculinity and the modern man. The conversation covers topics such as unrealistic body standards set by superhero films, the portrayal of hyper-masculine figures and clueless buffoons, and the lack of relatable ro...
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In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla welcomes back guest Devin Plowman to discuss whether the decline of marriage is hitting men harder than women. Devin, a happily married father of five, shares insights on the importance of marriage for men's success and fulfillment, and how traditional roles and modern dating dynamics are influencing commitment. The discussion covers a range of topics, including the influen...
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In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the hosts engage in an insightful conversation with multicultural traveler Giancarlo Bessa about how culture and climate influence relationships. Giancarlo shares his extensive experiences living in various countries including Brazil, Mexico, the United States, the UK, Southeast Asia, and the Netherlands. They discuss the challenges of adapting to new cultures, dealing with reverse cu...
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In the first episode of 2025, host Kayla Yoder engages in a thought-provoking discussion with Yichen, a sociologist originally from China. They delve into the topic of reverse sexism, examining how gender dynamics have evolved and how men are now experiencing sexism in today's cultural climate. Yichen shares personal stories illustrating hard and soft sexism and discusses the silent struggle...
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In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder reflects on the key takeaways from the past year's profound conversations. Highlighting the importance of emotional safe spaces for men, she discusses the experiences shared by Franco, David, Ryan, Katie, and Ghasan. The episode delves into men's need for support, the pressures they face, and the vital role women can play. It also t...
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In this deep dive conversation, the hosts discuss the pervasive issue of sexual shame and its impact on one's personal and relational life. They explore how cultural, household, and traumatic experiences contribute to deeply held shame, affecting vulnerability and intimacy. The discussion highlights the constraints of social media censorship on sex education, the transformative power of open...
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In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men', host Kayla Yoder and guest Dr. Nic Natale, an experienced relationship and sex therapist, explore the complex and often misunderstood topic of why men cheat. Dr. Nic discusses the hidden emotional needs and behaviors driving infidelity, drawing from decades of experience and recent research. The episode delves int...
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Ryan Stewman is a culture creator, greatness extractor, founder, CEO, and investor.

As the leader at Apex, he brings unparalleled expertise and passion to the stage. Ryan is a prolific contributor to top publications such as Forbes, Entrepreneur, Addicted2Success, Good Men Project, Lighter Side of Real Estate, and the Huffington Post.

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In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder interviews Dr. Larry Farwell, a Harvard-educated neuroscientist renowned for his groundbreaking work on the science of creating miracles. They delve into his pioneering research in neuroscience and quantum physics, discussing how consciousness plays a crucial role in shaping human life and the universe. Dr. Larry shares insights from his book, 'The Science of Creating...
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In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder and guest David Corsini delve into the challenging topic of false accusations and their significant impact on mental and emotional well-being. The conversation extends to broader issues such as domestic violence, the value of women's voices in society, and the crucial role of integrity and responsibility in making public allegations. They als...
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In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder sits down with Ghasan Alesayi to discuss the complex dynamics of dating and relationships in a post-MeToo world. They delve into how the movement has reshaped communication and interactions between men and women, addressing safety concerns, mixed messages, and the pressures felt by both genders. Ghasan shares his experiences and the...
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In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder interviews Raymond Kopakowski, a partner coach with a unique perspective on relationships. Ray argues that traditional relationships are flawed and promotes the concept of partnerships based on value, equality, and mutual respect. Together, they explore the importance of emotional conversations, the pitfalls of conventional relation...
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October 24, 2024 44 mins
In this enlightening episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder and Reverend Emmanuel, a master sound healer and founder of Divine Harmonics, explore the distinctions between boys and men. They discuss behaviors indicative of maturity, the importance of accountability, and emotional development. The conversation addresses societal norms, media influence on gender roles, and the role of upbringing. They emphasize the i...
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