Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman
It’s time for a messy kiki about relationships, love, and sex! Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the kiki as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.
Episodes
Clinical psychologist and Black Mental Health advocate Dr. Raquel Martin is back for a one-on-one conversation with Brandon in a special episode of Ask Messy Mom & Dr. Martin. After a game of Smash or Pass, they dive into listener questions, including topics like judging ones self on sexual prowess or being trapped in an emotionally abusive relationship.
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Actress and producer, Trace Lysette, joins to play our second-ever game of Real or Faking. Then, she and Brandon dive into having sex outdoors, channeling your sexy avatar, and what it means to redefine how your life plan looks.
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Champion of books, podcaster and Brandon's close friend, Traci Thomas, joins to share some messy stories as a fellow messy mom. After a game of F*ck, Marry, Block, Brandon and Traci read some mail and dive into interracial relationships that come with the pressure of having people talk behind their backs.
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Legendary superstars and fellow podcasters Cody Rigsby and Andrew Chapelle join Brandon for a whole lot of mess. Both Cody and Andrew share their messy stories (and a few extras) before getting into a discussion about what it means to be vers in today's dating world.
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Comedian John-Michael Bond joins Brandon to share multiple messy stories after a game of smash or pass. Then, Brandon and John-Michael delve into growing up bisexual in the South, being in a hetero-presenting relationship, and talking about polyamory with parents.
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In our first solo episode, Brandon reads and answers Messy submissions from patrons, including questions about mental health, or a shocking story of a DP with no lube.
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Actor, podcaster, author & wig-wearing YouTuber, Willam, joins Brandon for a tea-spilling episode before diving deep into self-love and self-image. But first, a mess-filled game of smash or pass and some hilarious stories set the stage.
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Actor, writer and comedian Joel Kim Booster discusses his triple name and shares a PLETHORA of messy stories. Plus, Brandon and Joel Kim Booster dig into messy mail which leads to discussion on some funny findings on monogamy.
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Writer, director and actor, Clark Moore, shares a mysterious messy story filled with twists, turns, and a little potential revenge. Then, Clark and Brandon discuss the stigma against sides, living life "out of order" and the idea of queer temporality, all before coming full circle and solving the mystery.
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Filmmaker, author and podcaster Liz Goldwyn dives right into the deep stuff with Brandon as they talk ex's, healing from being hurt, and of course, a healthy dose of revenge. Plus, some of the wildest submissions of Messy Mail yet!
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Actress and comedienne Liza Treyger joins Brandon to do a deep dive into Messy Mail focused around getting into trouble and the complicated nature of friendship. Plus, some much-needed Real Housewives talk and a game of F*ck, Marry, Block.
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DB, aka Danielle Bezalel, shares her vast knowledge of sex toys and informative stories that nobody ever got in sex education classes in school. Brandon and DB discuss de-stigmatizing kinks and masturbation, plus the very important difference between Plan-B and abortion pills, all with a healthy side of messy stories.
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Brandon gushes over one of their idols as Therapist and influencer Shahem Mclaurin joins to deep dive into cheating. But first, a game of F*ck, Marry, Block and some messy stories about people who aren't really your "friends."
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Actor and social media personality, Ian Paget, joins Brandon for a full-on kiki including everything from sex parties to Sex And The City. Ian shares a story of a sexual experience that left him in a vulnerable position, then he and Brandon differentiate between f*ck buddies and hookups.
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Famed comedian and podcaster, Kid Fury, shares his journey of finding out what pleasure means for him through self sex-ploration. Brandon and Kid play a game of Smash or Pass and read more Messy Mail than ever before. Get ready!
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Alex Hall, chef, producer, sex ed activist and creator of The Bottom's Digest joins Brandon to share some top secret insights into bottoming. But(t) first, they play a game of Smash or Pass and share some literally Messy stories.
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Actor, musician and advocate ER Fightmaster shares an absolutely unforgettable Messy Story and some gems during Smash or Pass. Then, Brandon and ER explore what it means to be attracted to energy versus genitals, and non-binary sexuality during Messy Mail.
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LGBTQIA+ rights advocate, actor and producer Johnny Sibilly shares some deep fantasies during his Messy Story and a game of F*ck, Marry or Block. Plus, Messy Mail highlights the emphasis on growth and communication, which prompts Johnny and Brandon to break down what it means to love yourself.
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Close friend, writer and actor Griffin Matthews joins Brandon to share a hilarious and incredibly odd Messy story. A round of F*ck, Marry or Block and then a deeper discussion on what it means to accept who you are makes for a heartwarming episode.
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Famed author and sex educator, Emily Nagoski, joins the show to break down some deep messages about love and self acceptance that causes Brandon to say, "I want to live like that on my best day." But don't worry, there are plenty of messy moments shared to fill the conversation with laughter as well!
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