Self-Love Society

Self-Love Society

Welcome to The Self-Love Society podcast – a space where healing, growth, and candid conversation come together. Hosted by licensed therapist Tony Gillon Jr. M.Ed., LPC, and life coach Nkiru the Love Guru, this dynamic duo brings you an insightful and engaging weekly discussion that tackles the issues and topics that matter most to the Black community. In every episode, Tony and Nkiru explore the complexities of mental health, personal growth, relationships, and self-love, offering valuable perspectives and actionable advice. They engage in open, unfiltered conversations about how to navigate life's challenges, from the everyday pressures of modern life to the deeper, more intricate issues facing Black men and women. Their mission is to encourage healing, build mental resilience, and foster emotional wellness for listeners, with a unique focus on both the Black male and female experience. Whether you're looking for practical tools to maintain a healthy mindset, seeking guidance on overcoming personal obstacles, or simply in need of inspiration to keep moving forward, The Self-Love Society has something for you. This podcast is more than just words – it's a movement. It’s about embracing self-love, prioritizing mental well-being, and supporting each other in our shared journey of growth. Tune in each week for thought-provoking discussions, empowering messages, and a collective call to elevate the practice of self-love and personal development. Join the Self-Love Society today – where growth is encouraged, self-love is celebrated, and every voice is heard.

Episodes

June 20, 2021 131 mins

Nkiru and Tony are back again and this time we are discussing Father's Day and Juneteenth! We celebrate a historical weekend and dive into dialogue about how both of these days impact the Black Community as a whole. Recap last week's and Present new Affirmations and Journal Prompts. Come on in for a good conversation.

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Tony and Nkiru discuss Purity culture and how it effects women and men in todays age. We discuss random memories from childhood and conversational topics on Facebook. We debate the bonnet and recap our affirmations and journal prompt from last week. We give new weekly prompts affirmations and journal prompts for this week. Come on in and laugh with us.

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Nkiru and Tony get into a candid conversation about things that are on their minds both spirituality and current events. We recap our weekly journal prompt and affirmations from two weeks ago and bring new ones for this week. We discuss the importance of carving out space for your mental health and where we should draw the boundary lines. This conversation is a flow you don't want to miss. Press play and lets start the show.

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Hey Family Welcome back! Tony and Nkiru talk about the concept of crabs in the bucket in the black community. We unravel this phenomenon and get to the root of this issue. We recap the affirmations and journal prompt from last week and give new ones for this one. Come on in and listen to us talk about all of this and some current events as well. I promise its a good time. Let's starts the show.

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Nkiru and Tony are back again for another self-love Sunday with the society. They discuss current events that are taking place at their alma mater Rockwood School District. Being graduates of a Desegregation program in 21st century has its pros and cons let talk about it. We have new weekly affirmations and journal prompt for our self work.

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Tony and Nkiru are back again for another self-love Sunday with the society. They discuss current events and dialogue about the black male voice. Is it censored? over policed? undervalued? Taking account of some influential black men and their POV on topics that we all experience. We have new weekly affirmations and journal promo for our self work.

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May 2, 2021 85 mins

Nkiru and Tony discuss the concept of taking things on your plate that are edifying or not to your mental soul. We check in with each other and recap thoughts on last week's affirmations and journal prompt. New weekly check ins are given in the form of journal prompts and affirmations.

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April 25, 2021 100 mins

Whew, what a start to 2021! Every now and then you just have to take a step back. Tony and Nkiru catch up and discuss all of the events that have taken place in the first quarter of 2021. New Journal Prompt and Affirmations

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January 3, 2021 105 mins

Happy New Year! Welcome to Season Two of the Self Love Society Podcast! Tony and Nkiru are back again with conversations about resolutions, current events and our personal definitions of what "fairly attractive" is. Brand new Affirmations and Journal prompts are back for the new year along with a lot of laughs and banter.

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December 13, 2020 130 mins

Nkiru and Tony discuss what the experience of being a first generation college student was like. They answer some hard hitting questions on the matter while giving advice to those who are about to embark on this journey. New Journal prompt and Affirmations are given for this week.

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December 6, 2020 109 mins

Tony and Nkiru talk about the concept of shooting your shot. All of the aspects that going to shooting a good shot and how to properly rebound a missed shot. Brand new helpful affirmations and journal prompt for the week.

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November 29, 2020 117 mins

Nkiru and Tony talk about the dynamics of food in the African- American culture. What its like being a vegetarian or a vegan during the holidays. And strategies to cope with making a different lifestyle choice that deviates from family traditions. Brand new helpful affirmations and journal prompt for the week.

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November 22, 2020 85 mins

Tony and Nkiru discuss some things that are triggering. What it means to be triggered and what to do when you are in a triggering state. Brand new helpful affirmations and Journal prompts for the week.

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November 15, 2020 114 mins

Tony and Nkiru discuss the expectations that can be placed on a person, by others and yourself. They discuss how they can be helpful or harmful. New Journal Prompt and Affirmations to push us to the next week. Welcome Self-Lovers, the session is in!

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November 11, 2020 97 mins

Nkiru and Tony discusses resilience and the ability to cope with difficult situations. We give new affirmations and journal prompt to help you guys with exercising good resilience practices.

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November 1, 2020 66 mins

Tony and Nkiru discusses the complexities of voting and the importance of The Black Vote.

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