Kingdom Sexuality
You’ve found the Kingdom Sexuality podcast! We are Alana, Kyle, and Tiera -- three friends who are taking Christian married couples on a journey of transforming your sex life. We tackle the questions the church forgot to answer - like: • Why did no one prepare us for this part of marriage? • How can we keep passion alive years later? • What does God think about oral sex, orgasm, and that would kind of intimacy you both want? With interviews, “sex-timonies,” listener Q+As, and real talk from our own marriages, we’re here to help you grow a thriving, fulfilling, and God-honoring sex life. Because yes - Christians can talk about sex too.
Episodes
July 21, 2025 • 36 mins
You sent the questions, and we’re going there- nothing is off the table in this spicy Q&A episode! We’re talking wedding night surprises, lingerie debates, feeling stuck in your sex life, taboo thoughts, Shibari (yup), and so much more. Let’s get into it!
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Free Stuff:
Free Spice It Up Guide - http://www.kingdomsexualityministry.com/spiceitup
Free Yes No Maybe Guide - https://www.kingdomsex...
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July 14, 2025 • 31 mins
What if the secret to a stronger marriage wasn’t another serious talk- but a round of mini golf or a spontaneous dance party in the kitchen? This episode dives into why having fun together might be the spark your marriage needs. From shared hobbies to laughter that leads to deeper intimacy- we're talking playful, powerful connection with a Kingdom twist.
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Links from today’s episode:
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July 7, 2025 • 30 mins
Is car sex off-limits for Christian couples? In this fun and practical episode, the KS team unpacks the legality, logistics, and creative possibilities of taking intimacy into the backseat. Whether you've got a sedan or a Sprinter van- we’ve got tips, laughs, and biblical encouragement to help you connect wherever the moment takes you.
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Links from today’s episode:
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June 30, 2025 • 24 mins
In this episode, the KS team is talking to the husbands who have a naturally lower sex drive, and reminding you that you’re not broken or less of a man. They unpack what healthy intimacy can look like when desire is different, and how to navigate it with confidence, communication, and grace. This one’s full of encouragement for both husbands and wives.
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Links from today’s episode:
The Higher...
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June 23, 2025 • 39 mins
We asked, you delivered! This Q&A episode is packed with your honest, hilarious, and heartfelt questions! From postpartum libido surprises and navigating temptation at work, to “Titty Pic Tuesday,” pool sex, and more, we’re diving into it all. Whether you're single, newly married, or deep in the thick of it, there's something in here for you.
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Links from today’s episode:
Prioritizing Intimacy...
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June 16, 2025 • 35 mins
Is intimacy falling to the bottom of your to-do list? In this episode, we’re diving into why connection in the bedroom actually matters- and how to make it happen (even when life is bonkers). From flirty fun to scheduling sex without the cringe, we’re sharing real talk, roadblock check-ins, and ideas to bring the spark back.
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Links from today’s episode:
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June 9, 2025 • 31 mins
Huge thank you to Dwell who sponsored today’s episode! To get the Dwell Bible App go to dwellbible.com/kingdom to get 25% off today!!
Can music really enhance your sex life? Do Christians listen to music while having sex?? Whether you're team silence, slow jams, or somewhere in between, this conversation will help you tune into deeper connection with your spouse!
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June 2, 2025 • 32 mins
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Chocolate, oysters, and… cobra blood?! We’re diving into the weird, wild world of aphrodisiacs- what works, what’s myth, and what God actually designed to boost desire. Tune in for laughs, science, and some spicy truth!
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May 26, 2025 • 39 mins
Is it okay to talk about your sex life with friends? In this episode, we explore when, why, and how to have honest, God-honoring conversations about intimacy- without crossing boundaries. Learn how vulnerability can bring freedom, connection, and growth in your marriage and friendships!!
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May 19, 2025 • 46 mins
Are there things Christian couples shouldn’t do in the bedroom? In this episode, we unpack what Scripture says about sexual boundaries, explore tricky topics with grace, and offer guidance for keeping intimacy both passionate and God-honoring.
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Links from today’s episode:
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Oral Sex episodes
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May 12, 2025 • 37 mins
Getting rejected when it comes to sex is NOT fun. So how do we handle it well? How do those conversations happen? And how do you get out of the cycle of constantly rejecting your spouse? Tune in as the KS team answers those questions- and more!
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Links from today’s episode:
6 Pillars Of Intimacy
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May 5, 2025 • 34 mins
What if your five senses were the secret to a deeper, more exciting sex life? In this episode, we’re sharing simple, creative ways to engage sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell to build connection, spark arousal, and savor intimacy the way God designed! Get ready for practical ideas you’ll actually want to try.
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Links from today’s episode:
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April 28, 2025 • 45 mins
Pornography isn’t just a “men’s issue”- and it’s time we talked about it. In this powerful episode, we sit down with a Crystal Renaud Day who shares her raw and redemptive story of overcoming porn addiction as a Christian woman. We’re diving into the stats, the shame, and the silent struggle so many women face- especially in the church.
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Links from today's episode:
SheRecovery website
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April 21, 2025 • 56 mins
DWELL Bible App: Use the link to get 25% off!
Special thanks to our lovely patron pals for coming up with all of the questions in this episode! Become a patron today and support the show!
This episode is packed with all the things our patrons have been dying to ask- intimacy routines, sex during pregnancy, navigating hormone changes, BJ awkwardness, and yes… even strawberries in the bedroom. The KS team answers the patrons' real ...
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April 14, 2025 • 33 mins
Huge thank you to Dwell for sponsoring today's episode! Go to dwellbible.com/kingdom to get it for 25% off!
Is shame from your past still showing up in your marriage? In this episode, the KS team is talking about how shame, whether from past choices, guilt, or lies from the enemy, can quietly sabotage intimacy and connection. We’ll walk through a powerful self-check quiz, explore how God offers true freedom, and share practical w...
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April 7, 2025 • 32 mins
Feeling like the only wife who wants sex more than her husband? You’re not broken - and you’re not alone. In this episode, the KS team dives deep into the heart of the higher drive wife: the identity struggles, the church silence, and the ache of rejection. We’re breaking the silence, offering real tools, and reminding you that your desire is not shameful - it’s sacred.
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March 31, 2025 • 53 mins
Big thank you to Evree for sponsoring today's episode! Use the code KINGDOM10 to get it for 10% off!
Want to keep things smooth in the bedroom? 😉 In this episode of the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast, we’re diving into the world of lubrication—both the natural kind and the many options available to enhance intimacy! From the science behind your body’s built-in moisture to the best lubes for different situations (yes, even in the showe...
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March 24, 2025 • 55 mins
Wanting to take your intimate life to the next level? Or curious as to what else you and your spouse could do to add some extra spice and fun into the bedroom?
In this episode, we will break down several things you can do in your sex life whether you find yourself in the beginner, intermediate, or advanced stage of intimacy! Tune in now!
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Links from today’s episode:
Episode 221: Fundamentals Of He...
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March 17, 2025 • 44 mins
We love recording Q&A's and you seem to love listening to them! If you have a question, email it to us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com and we’ll aim to answer it in our next Q&A!
Links from today’s episode:
Betrayal Trauma (Episode 206)
“My Husband Was Addicted To Porn” (Episode 96)
“The Impact of His Porn Addiction on Me” (Episode 97)
Sex Fasting: What Is It & Why Would You Do It? (Episode 218)
My Counselor Online: You ge...
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March 10, 2025 • 30 mins
You asked, they answer! The KS Team answers questions sent in on Instagram, and they do not hold back! Tune in now!
Links from today’s episode:
My Counselor Online (You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link!)
Unite & Ignite membership
KS Shop
180: Pregnancy and Postpartum Q&A
She Comes First
Married Dance use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! (Oralicious was mentioned in this episode)
Covenant S...
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