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Episodes
October 16, 2026 • 18 mins
What’s it like to be a bearded, 6’4″, 250 pounc fella getting his nails done in preparation for the first crossdressing session with his wife?
Dust off your gender studies 101 textbook and find out.
Tell us about your…transgressions.Q@Savage.Love
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October 13, 2026 • 55 mins
A divorced father of adult children understood himself to be bisexual later in life. He digs men in an aromantic, casual sex kind of way. Is he obligated to tell his family? Does his connections with men fall under private sex life or public identity?
A woman went to a sex party and met a hot female bouncer who throws out misbehaving guests. The caller wants to ask her to be her dom. Should she? How?
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October 9, 2026 • 16 mins
Imogen was a seasoned Burning Man pro. But she’d never done a threeway with whippets there before…
Hear all about her dusty experience.
What have YOU done lately? Hmmmm?Write up your experience (good or bad) and send it to Q@Savage.Love.
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October 6, 2026 • 59 mins
A gay man in his 60s is perplexed about foot fetishes, and what is so damn sexy about his feet.
A man is frustrated by the concept of "false positives" when he tests for herpes. What on earth is going on here? Dan brings on the delightful and calming Dr. Ina Park to explain the whole testing situation.
On the Magnum, it's a bisexuality brawl with sex therapist Claire Perelman! Dan and Claire talk about the bisexual's plight in ...
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October 2, 2026 • 20 mins
What's in the duffel bag?
On her vacation to Bali, she hooked up with a hot, rich dude with a glass house in the jungle.
But, what tricks did he have up his sleeve?
After a bad experience at home, Julia had a re-discovery of her best sexual self.
Have a listen.
And then send us your story!
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September 29, 2026 • 58 mins
We begin the show...drunkenly. A lit lady enjoys the sensation of touching ears. Room temperature, or slightly chilled. Not too cold. But "ear porn?" Is that a thing?
A lucky fella won a three-month free entry to his local bathhouse. Whatever should he do when he's in there?
Our guest this week is Allen Sulkin, creator of the new podcast "Gerbil." He and Dan analyze the persistence of the insane sex myth that you've probably hea...
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September 25, 2026 • 15 mins
Just how polite are Canadians?
Meet Owen, a Canuck whose good manners went above and beyond when he visited the red light district in Amsterdam.
Name a lake after this guy!
Tell us your story, right away!Send it to Q@Savage.Love
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September 22, 2026 • 49 mins
Grapefruiting! It's a new sex act involving fruit! Can *any* word be verbed? Apparently!
A woman wonders how anyone can successfully fake an orgasm, when the physical contractions should be noticeably felt.
On the Magnum, Dan brings on a guest to definitively answer the question you all have: How long must you wait to masturbate after you've had a heart attack? Dr. Eugene Fan is a cardiologist with nothing but good news for ...
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September 18, 2026 • 17 mins
No words exchanged. He lying in a hotel bed. She enters and just watches. It was their first and only date.
Rachel’s story proves that scheduled sex most certainly CAN be hot.
Hear her story, get turned on.
If YOU have a delicious tale to tell, write it down and send it in to Q@Savage.Love.
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September 15, 2026 • 45 mins
Bummer! A man had just met with a male-female couple who wanted him to take part in a kinky three-way. But when he confessed that he sometimes has trouble coming, they cancelled. Can he train himself to blow a load? Need he?
Speaking of loads, a woman credits her beautiful, supple skin to the facial treatments her husband obligingly administers. Can this be true? Any dermatologists care to weigh in?
On the Magnum, Dan chats with...
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September 11, 2026 • 19 mins
Meet Tom who went on a very special vacation with his girlfriend.
Packing checklist:
Kink outfits
Consent Form
Waste bag
How did it go? You'll find out.
Send us your stories, your wonderful stories!
Q@Savage.Love
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September 8, 2026 • 57 mins
A man has been together with his boyfriend for 10 years. The caller works long hard hours and values peace and quiet when he comes home. But his boyfriend works from home all day and pounces on his husband, wanting to chat and interact. Dan was in a similar situation, but don't tell Dan's husband how he dealt with it.
A divorced woman with children has been dating a man. Both are in open relationships, and he wears a wedding ring...
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September 4, 2026 • 16 mins
Cat started a sex toy company, so she had to come out as kinky to friends and family. What she didn’t expect was the stampede of her mother’s boomer friends asking for product…
Do you have a story of something you tried that was like, so embarrassing??!!Let us hear it: Q@Savage.Love
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September 1, 2026 • 53 mins
Any military lawyers in the house? A gay man and his boyfriend, both serving active duty, want to open their relationship. But infidelity is forbidden by military law. How risky would this be?
Now that chastity play its all the rage, should we assume that a key necklace means something deeply kinky? And if so, should we knowingly wink when we see one?
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August 28, 2026 • 18 mins
Hey Everybody! Meet Jay- a pan, poly furry who, along with 15 other queer furries, met up for a "kink tasting, orgy event."
What goes on at kink cabin? We won't say here, but please know that an inflatable horse costume was involved.
Also, Dan brings a much needed Marxist interrogation to the story.
If you have a tale to share, write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love
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August 25, 2026 • 51 mins
A gay, married couple journeyed to Montreal to enjoy the services of a tantric masseur. And they REALLY enjoyed him. But did this open Pandora's box? How can they continue to have earth-shattering, mind-blowing sex when it's back to the hum-drum two of them?
A caller wonders if folks who enjoy adult baby play actually... well, actually shit themselves. The answer comes from Dan's guest, Fancy of the InTheNook podcast. The show cha...
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August 21, 2026 • 17 mins
After 22 years of marriage, well, it was just time.
Hear Trix’s story about writing, filming and performing in her “queer adoring gang bang” story.
And how she feels about the possibility of her kids stumbling across it one day.
How have YOU kept your marriage fresh? Tell us a story at Q@Savage.Love
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August 18, 2026 • 59 mins
As this is a wholesome, family-focused show, we bookend the episode with parenting questions. First, a woman's 5 year-old nephew wants to wear a padlock around his neck. He saw this on a stranger in a grocery store and thought it looked cool. Should they let him?
And last, when your five year old asks "What is sex?" What should you say?
Our guest is the incomparable Jane Don't! The break out star of Season 18 of Ru Paul's drag ...
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August 14, 2026 • 20 mins
Jade is normally a sub with her husband. But when she inserted the sounding rod into his urethra, did she really feel submissive? Really?
It’s a journey…
Tell us all about your novel erotic transgressions.Q@Savage.Love
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August 13, 2026 • 45 mins
Sex & Politics #46
Can we really change?
Welcome to Sex & Politics!For this bonus episode, Dan chatted with Benoit Denizet-Lewis, an associate professor at Emerson College, a longtime contributing writer for The New York Times Magazine, and the author, most recently, of “You’ve Changed: The Promise and Price of Self-Transformation.” He and Dan talked about the various ways people can change- how prison...
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