Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex and relationship questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savage.love and get yourself a subscription.

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August 21, 2026 17 mins
After 22 years of marriage, well, it was just time. Hear Trix’s story about writing, filming and performing in her “queer adoring gang bang” story. And how she feels about the possibility of her kids stumbling across it one day. How have YOU kept your marriage fresh? Tell us a story at Q@Savage.Love This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn mor...
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As this is a wholesome, family-focused show, we bookend the episode with parenting questions. First, a woman's 5 year-old nephew wants to wear a padlock around his neck. He saw this on a stranger in a grocery store and thought it looked cool. Should they let him? And last, when your five year old asks "What is sex?" What should you say? Our guest is the incomparable Jane Don't! The break out star of Season 18 of Ru Paul's drag ...
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August 14, 2026 20 mins
Jade is normally a sub with her husband. But when she inserted the sounding rod into his urethra, did she really feel submissive? Really? It’s a journey… Tell us all about your novel erotic transgressions.Q@Savage.Love This episode is brought to you by Lean- a weight loss supplement that works by lowering blood sugar and reducing appetite.If you have 10 or more pounds to lose, get started with 20% off and free rus...
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August 13, 2026 45 mins
Sex & Politics #46 Can we really change? Welcome to Sex & Politics!For this bonus episode, Dan chatted with Benoit Denizet-Lewis, an associate professor at Emerson College, a longtime contributing writer for The New York Times Magazine, and the author, most recently, of “You’ve Changed: The Promise and Price of Self-Transformation.” He and Dan talked about the various ways people can change- how prison...
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August 11, 2026 51 mins
A woman in her 60s has a husband who is into feet. She's planning to get a professional foot massage. Can he come along and watch if he promises to hide his boner? A woman has a boyfriend who provides financial security and perfectly fine sex. But she finds him so very dull. Is a comfortable but boring relationship enough? On the Magnum, meet comedian, filmmaker and avowed cuck queen Edy Modica. She and Dan talk about her brill...
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August 7, 2026 15 mins
What’s it like for a trans man at a gay leather convention?Listen and you will find out… Tell us about your brave excursion. Write about your experience and send it to Dan: Q@Savage.Love This episode  is brought to you by Feeld- the dating app that so many Lovecast listeners are already using. Try Feeld’s new feature “Reflections” now by visiting ⁠feeld.co/reflections⁠ or by...
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August 4, 2026 52 mins
Her friend's new girlfriend stinks to high heaven. Is this intentional? Is it a kink? What would be the polite way to ask her to wash up? A woman with super-high libido is trying to convince her husband to have a three-way with another woman. But he doesn't wanna. How can she convince him to do the thing that many straight men would kill for? On the Magnum, a woman is being drawn in to more and more extreme porn. Now she needs t...
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July 31, 2026 16 mins
“He had a kiddy pool set up by the time we were there…” Meet Abe, who finally got to *immerse* himself in the world of gunge.You haven’t heard of gunge, you say? Simply press play. If you had a sexual experience that called for a LOT of logistics, write about it and send us the details toQ@Savage.Love. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn m...
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July 28, 2026 52 mins
An intersex man had his urethra operated on when he was a toddler. Now he wants to try sounding but his doctors advise against it. He is suspicious of doctors after his non-consensual surgeries. Should he ignore them and pursue his pleasure? A 66 year-old woman loves to give blow jobs to her lucky husband. But sometimes she gets a bit too enthusiastic and ends up with bruises on her lip. Will people see them and know how she got...
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July 24, 2026 18 mins
Monica is a tried and true, old school Magnum sub. With Dan’s advice in her head, she applied to join a “foot night” where men pay to play…with women’s feet. Did Monica have a good time?What did she wear?And exactly how much money did she make? All is revealed. If you have an experience you enjoyed or endured, write about it, and send it to us at Q@Savage.Love. This episode is brought to ...
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July 21, 2026 53 mins
Ouch! A woman has been fisting her boyfriend to both of their delight. But guess what hurts: Her hand! How can she get in there comfortably? A woman is trying to convince both her conspiracy-minded friend and her wife that ultra rich people are not really eating babies. Because...they aren't...right? On the Magnum, Dan chats with Stephen Dubner - host of Freakonomics Radio. His new show, Better in Person, explores how conversat...
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July 17, 2026 16 mins
In one of the more graphic After Action Reports we’ve had the pleasure to relay, hear Mary’s story not of getting peed ON, but getting peed IN. Don’t worry. She has a “robust vagina.” Do YOU have anything robust about you?Send us the details to Q@Savage.Love. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and So...
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July 14, 2026 54 mins
A lesbian with a pregnant wife is confounded and disgruntled at the way Pride celebrations can be a little too sex positive, especially if you have a little kid. Should Pride parades put on a straight-laced appearance, or go full bacchanal? It's an old, old debate. A woman needs her lovers to tell her she's hot and generally praise her during sex. Like, a lot. Is this a kink? On the Magnum, Dan meets his witty, homosexual m...
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July 10, 2026 14 mins
Have you ever bitten a dick? Like really hard?NO YOU HAVE NOT.She did. And he liked it. Listen in. If you’ve done something…shocking, and you want to tell us about it, send the details to Q@Savage.Love. This episode  is brought to you by Feeld- the dating app that so many Lovecast listeners are already using. Try Feeld’s new feature “Reflections” now by visiting feeld.co/reflections&...
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July 7, 2026 57 mins
A man in a poly relationship is worried that his penis smells like his girlfriend's vagina despite his meticulous hygiene practices. This doesn't bother him. But when he eventually convinces someone else to go down on him, will they notice? Is there a "special soap" he could use? In Paris, in the year 1911, an employee of the Louvre made off with the Mona Lisa. Fast forward to the year 2024. A woman "acquired" an explicit eroti...
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July 3, 2026 17 mins
Did you know that they have bathhouses in Canada? They do!Meet Jay, married to his husband for 10 years, and ready for adventure.Even though he was nervous and his glasses kept fogging up, he persevered. Hear all about it. If you have a story to share, write to us at Q@Savage.Love. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking W...
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June 30, 2026 56 mins
A woman's hot boyfriend is being harassed by his upstairs neighbor who has come up with a novel way to summon him to his door. Our first guest is GI physician and friend of the show Dr. Carlton Thomas. He is on to answer a question about NEW DOUCHING TECHNOLOGY. On the Magnum, a newly single woman is howling at the moon with insatiably high libido. She's annoyed with apps and parties and wonders if she should just hire a sex wo...
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June 26, 2026 22 mins
Meet Maxon. Ho hum. Just your typical non-binary, exhibitionist, pre-op sub who has worn a titanium cock-cage constantly for over 850 days. If this sounds rather dull to you, remember as Maxon says: "Everyone's chastity journey is different." BUT THAT ISN'T EVEN WHAT THIS AFTER ACTION REPORT IS ABOUT. Do you like to play bingo? Then think hard before you press play. Because with this episode in your head, the game will never be...
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June 23, 2026 57 mins
A woman discovers her recently deceased father had a foot-tickling fetish and doesn't know how to process this new view of her dad. Speaking of kinks, a man with a diaper fetish is feeling resentful that his kink so severely limits his dating prospects. On the Magnum, Dan chats with hunky clinical psychologist Dr. Thomas Whitfield about dating closet cases, sex education, masc for masc and why the common use of therapy terms li...
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June 19, 2026 13 mins
Becca just needed to relax. So she thought she’d be like the gays and try poppers. How did it go? Listen and then you’ll know. If you’ve recently tried a new product or ingested a substance to improve your sex life, we want to know about it. Write your story and send it to us at Q@Savage.Love. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more abou...
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