How Dare You.

How Dare You.

Ross Mathews, Nikki Boyer and Mr. Malone are back and ready to help! Advice, confessions, LOL's and so much more. TheHowDareYouShow.com.

Episodes

May 6, 2025 57 mins
This week Ross sends Malone a birthday gift, Nikki reveals her religious background AND has an electrifying confession, a listener needs some advice regarding her career as a 911 operator, and Malone tells us about his Thai masseuse. This is the end of our How Dare You chapter. We hope you've enjoyed all 10 episodes. We're taking a break for now. It's not good-bye, it's see you later!
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This week we're celebrating the success of Nikki's Dying For Sex tv show and Ross' new book release. Malone Marie did not make the list. Plus, a listener confession of a mistaken pickpocketing. Watch us live on Mondays at 3pm PT / 6pm ET by subscribing to our YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/@thehowdareyoushow If you have a confession or need advice call us at 360-399-6289 or email thehowdareyoushow@gmail.com
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March 25, 2025 46 mins
This week Ross is finishing up his home renovations, and is stocked up with Coke Zero awaiting Nikki's arrival in NYC. Some iconic listener voicemails this week include bisexuality, dirty tooth brush revenge, and Meatspin.com. Plus, Shaman Shannon has some life advice we'll remember always. To watch us live on Mondays at 3pm PT / 6pm ET subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/@thehowdareyoushow If you have a confes...
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This week Ross confesses about his newest hobby, a listener voicemail stirs up some breaking news about a favorite hotel amenity, and Nikki and Malone tell us about what they used to do to their siblings as children. If you want to leave us a voicemail for next week call us at 360-399-6289. You can also email us at thehowdareyoushow@gmail.com! To watch us LIVE every Monday at 3pm PT / 6pm ET and watch the full video episodes sub...
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March 13, 2025 48 mins
This week Ross confesses what his algorithm has been serving him, Sara Sanchez warns us against bad pedicure techniques, Ross' realtor Arleen tells dental tales about "sweet air", and we give advice to a listener from Milwaukee whose one safe queer space just shut down. Watch us LIVE on YouTube every Monday at 3pm PT / 6pm ET or watch the video episode replay after! https://www.youtube.com/@thehowdareyoushow
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March 13, 2025 42 mins
This week Ross, Nikki and Mr. Malone help out a caller with RBF, receive a Urinal Richie update, and get a voicemail asking for advice on how to deal with MAGA d*ck. Subscribe to our YouTube and watch us LIVE every Monday at 3pm PT / 6pm ET or watch the video episode replay after! https://www.youtube.com/@thehowdareyoushow
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March 13, 2025 58 mins
This week Ross shares a touching memory of his mom and dad, we listen to a voicemail from Urinal Richie, and take calls from listeners trying to quit smoking and a situationship. Subscribe to our YouTube and watch us LIVE every Monday at 3pm PT / 6pm ET or watch the video episode replay after! https://www.youtube.com/@thehowdareyoushow
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This week Ross is back from Florida and smuggling eggs in his long underwear in the frosty New York weather. Malone shows off his flipper, we give advice to Buttercup and we give advice to listeners struggling with separating from their childhood blanket and recovering from a breakup. Plus, we shower Nikki with praise for her upcoming Dying For Sex limited series on FX! If you need advice or have a confession - email us at theho...
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March 13, 2025 61 mins
Join Ross Mathews, Nikki Boyer and Mister Malone as they discuss the Little House on the Prairie reboot and listen to Dare Bear confessions! Next week, we're giving you some "straight talk" and giving advice. If you need our help, leave us a voicemail by calling 360-399-6289, or emailing thehowdareyoushow@gmail.com. You can also join our zoom live during the live stream! Subscribe to our YouTube and watch us stream LIVE every...
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January 27, 2025 65 mins
Join Ross Mathews, Nikki Boyer and Mister Malone as they reunite for their new show - How Dare You. We're holding space and taking live calls, voicemails and emails for you to ask for our advice and share your deepest darkest secrets. We listen and don't judge! If you'd like to leave us a voicemail for next week, call 360-399-6289, or email thehowdareyoushow@gmail.com. Subscribe to our YouTube and watch us every Monday at 3pm PT ...
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It's been a minute! Ross & Bethie discuss Ross' new driver's license picture, the status of Bethie's elliptical machine, the future of the podcast & so much more in a brand new episode. Thank you & we'll see you at Rossipes.com.
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April 17, 2024 35 mins
Bethie got a pizza oven! Plus, Ross went to Chinese food and managed order healthy. HOW?!? Plus - what did a guy do to get out of paying for his restaurant bill?!? That and so much more (including Bethie's daughter Charlotte's surprise pizza ingredient)!
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Bethie has a new house, Ross has a new bodega in his garage and they both buy in bulk! Oh, and Ross has figured out his dream job. Can you guess what it is? Plus Bethie gets a message on her dating app live on air and Ross helps her draft her naughty reply. That and so much more!
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March 27, 2024 40 mins
Bethie's back just in time for Ross to announce his new family member! Plus, Ross brings food out of his refrigerator to scan on a new app he hates to love. What does it say about YOUR food? And Bethie went on a date?!? Get all the deets & so much more!
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Author of the new cookbook Cooking in Real Life Lidey Heuck is our guest today! A protege of The Barefoot Contessa, Lidey's new cookbook is a collection of simple, delicious recipes for all the different reasons we cook – busy weeknights, family holidays, quiet nights in, and every moment in between. Plus, Ross wants dog food Rossipes and help on his own cookbook from YOU Rossi-Peeps!
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Ross falls back into old habits and Bethie's date cancels on her. Plus, they debate the best dippin' sauces of all time and OMG chicken fingers sound soooooooo good.
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February 28, 2024 36 mins
The title of this episode is so outrageous! Ross goes to Philadelphia and is obsessed with the food. Plus, both Ross & Bethie are feeling themselves after some success with the Chins Up Challenge. How are they expressing it? You've gotta listen to find out!
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February 21, 2024 30 mins
Ross & Bethie compare freezer tips with the help of Rossi-Peeps! Also, Drew Barrymore stole Bethie's shoes?!? Hear the whole LOL story exclusively here!
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Bethie makes a brave confession while Ross shares an embarrassing story about a dive bar & a popcorn machine. Plus what did Bethie's mom eat!?!? That, corndogs & so much more!
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February 7, 2024 37 mins
Ross & Bethie get ready for the Super Bowl with Ross' tips for being able to snack for the whole game! Plus Ross tried "Marry Me Chicken" but thinks someone should invent "Hit It & Quit It Chicken" instead. And he needs help from YOU Rossi-PEEPS with picking a new freezer for his frozen food fantasies! That & so much more!
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