What I Love About Sex

In this episode, I’m calling out the misguided advice telling men to quit masturbating to be better lovers. The truth? Cutting off self-pleasure without understanding it is wrecking your confidence and your performance.

✅ Cutting off masturbation kills sexual confidence
When you label self-pleasure as “wrong,” you wire guilt into your arousal—and that guilt follows you into the bedroom.

✅ You master your sex life by know...

If you want your woman to give you head more often—and actually enjoy doing it—it comes down to one thing: how you speak to her during and after. This episode is about leadership, not pressure.

✅ Generic compliments don’t cut it
“Damn, that feels good” is surface-level. “Your lips look so sexy around my cock” is precise, personal, and unforgettable. That’s the difference.

✅ Post-sex remarks build the foundation for next ...

Blowjobs shouldn’t feel like a chor. And if they do, it’s likely because she’s not aroused when you ask. In this episode, I’ll break down how to change that.

✅ Foreplay first. Don’t surprise her with the ask. Get her turned on before—so her body is ready and the experience is pleasurable.
✅ Turn her on during. Engage her. Make her feel sexy with your touch and words—so giving you head feels good for her, too.
✅ Don’...

This episode tackles one of the most asked—and misunderstood—questions men ask me: Is it okay to come on her face? 

You’ll hear the full breakdown of how to bring up this request with confidence, without shame, and without assuming her answer before you even ask.

✅ Don’t lead with shame — If you introduce your desire like it’s gross or wrong, you train her to see it that way too.
✅ Every woman is different — Her openness...

Some men think it’s just about dominance or kink. But there’s more to it.

In this episode, I break down why so many men feel deeply drawn to the act of a woman swallowing during oral sex—and how this desire ties into emotional intimacy, connection, and trust.

✅ Swallowing is symbolic — For many men, it's not just physical. It's a visceral expression of being fully accepted and desired.
✅ Kink requires trust — You can’t f...

Most men treat sex like it’s all the same—just showing up and getting it done.
But there’s a difference between simply having sex... and mastering the art of sexual communication.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the difference between dirty talk and sexy talk—and why most women want both. If you’ve ever found yourself fumbling for words in bed or wondering if your partner even likes the things you say (or don’t say), ...

Most guys are told the same recycled tips when it comes to lasting longer in bed—“breathe deeply,” “edge,” “think about baseball.” Yes, those work, but you’re not here for the basics. You want next-level tools that actually shift your performance and deepen your sexual leadership.

In this episode, I share three techniques that I’ve used with hundreds of men to help them take control in the bedroom—with real results.

✅ Learn ...

What you will learn in this episode:
✅ Reframe the definition of control—it's not just about staying hard or lasting longer, it’s about how you respond to emotional tension
✅ Discover how your reactions (not her behavior) drive the cycle you're stuck in
✅ Learn the role emotional regulation plays in building a sex life that actually feels free

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What you'll learn in this episode:

✅ How to interpret rejection from a secure place
✅ How to respond to rejection from a secure place
✅ How to talk about rejection with your woman

Rejection is feedback. Get curious about why you’re getting the feedback you're getting so you can understand, instead of taking offense and going to a low point every time it happens. You don't have to :)

If you’re having a hard time not bei...