EMBody Radio

I'm so excited to share part one of my conversation with psychologist Ekaterina Amirkhanova, who specializes in working with high achievers and ambitious founders. We dig into why so much psychology content treats ambitious women as something to fix, how growing up in an entrepreneurial family in Siberia shaped her work, and whether ambition is really a trauma response. Ekaterina shares her take on what the research d...

I've been talking a lot lately about the winning season I'm in right now, and it's easy to look at that and assume it's always been this way. And GWORL… it hasn't. This episode is the chapter before the chapter. The years I got sick from breast implant illness and gained 70+ pounds, the 2022-2024 stretch where our business had months bringing in less than $30K and I wasn't paying myself so I could pay my team. ...

We needed a palate cleanser. After a stretch of some pretty intense, deep-diving episodes the last few months, I put Chris back on the mic for a lil break room energy. Rapid-fire questions, zombie apocalypse survival predictions, an impression battle, and a big life update we haven't formally announced anywhere else yet- Chris is officially the new owner-operator of Kollective's North Austin location - huge, and I'm s...

Perfectionism is one of the sneakiest traps I coach high-achieving, high-responsibility women through, and today I'm breaking down exactly why. We're going three levels deep: the top-level story and behavior, the mid-level symptoms, and then the deeper truth underneath all of it, which isn't actually "fear of failure" like a lot of us would say or think.

It's that perfectionism is an unconscious permiss...

Four years ago, this pace of life would have flatlined me. Today I've doubled my coaching team since the start of the year, maintained the leanest and healthiest physique I've had in over five years, gotten married, healed a partial meniscus tear, and I'm handling more stress than ever. Not because I have less on my plate, but because I've fundamentally changed how I operate at a physical, mental/emotional, and relati...

I don't believe in fluffy self-love, and I don't believe in motivating yourself through self-hatred, because both crash and burn eventually. In this episode I'm breaking down the old script most high achievers are running vs. the new script you NEED to build.

Standards and discipline: the old script, where you only stay disciplined if you hate your body enough, where work is armor against feeling worthle...

I'm not here to coddle you today (am I ever? lol) I'm here to have the hard conversation most coaches are too afraid to have. After 10+ years working with women, especially high achievers, I keep seeing the same sticky, unsexy patterns sabotaging fitness results: the "I can't" mindset that becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, skipping meals all day and overeating at night, staying in toxic relationships that keep your ...

I've climbed out of burnout before and found myself in that space where I was scared of pushing myself because, "what if I burn out again." In this episode I'm breaking down the real, practical tools I've collected over 10+ years as an entrepreneur (and lifelong fitness/movement enthusiast) for pursuing bigger goals without losing yourself in the process: building systems you can actually lean on, embracing more suppo...

After last week's episode on the traps keeping high-achieving women stuck in their bodies, I'm flipping the script and sharing the six mindset shifts that have actually bulletproofed me (in my fitness, my business) and my life over the last 14+ years. We're covering radical ownership even when something genuinely isn't your fault, why the biggest goals require the most support (not the least), why I actively seek out ...

If you're the woman who has her career, her relationships, and her life together on paper but still feels completely betrayed by her body, this one's for you. I'm breaking down the five most common (and most undersung) traps I see high-achieving, go-getter women fall into again and again after coaching women through this for over a decade: perfectionism and all-or-nothing thinking, vague fitness strategies that feel l...

Confidence isn't something you think your way into, it's something you build through evidence, one kept promise to yourself at a time. In this episode of Embody Radio, I'm breaking down the real, unglamorous habits behind my own grounded, embodied confidence: committing to hard goals and actually seeing them through, learning to be more bite than bark, having the hard conversations I used to avoid, unmasking the perfo...

SkinnyTok is here, GLP-1s are everywhere, and those of us who grew up in the original Y2K era know how this story ends. In this episode of Embody Radio, I'm going back to when I was 8: the year my ballet teacher wrote across my report card that I'd never be a professional dancer because I didn't have "a dancer's body," to unpack not so much why ultra-thin culture keeps finding its way back into the mainstream, but how...

Last week I made the case that self-love culture accidentally made us weaker. This week is the other half — the actual upgrade. It was never a choice between softness and standards. Standards are care with a backbone: not punishment, not "you're not enough until," but the most sophisticated form of self-love there is. I break down exactly how to build them, one kept promise at a time.

For the high...

For the last five to seven years we've been swimming in self-love and self-help culture — and I think it accidentally made us weaker. In this episode I break down how a correction we genuinely needed overcorrected into something that keeps us stuck, why protection and care are not the same thing, and how the most loving-sounding ideas of the last few years have a shadow side nobody wants to talk about.

I'm recording this episode from inside the thing I'm about to describe, and I think that's exactly why it needed to be recorded today. This episode is about the female burnout pipeline: the specific, under-discussed sequence that takes high-achieving women from ambitious and driven to depleted and disconnected, often so gradually and so disguised as ambition that we don't see it coming until we're already deep in it. ...

We're talking business today, and more specifically, the mistakes I'm most grateful I made. We're in a real growth season right now, and I've been doing a lot of reflecting on what it took to get here: the lessons that were hard to learn, the seasons that almost broke me, and the realizations I wish I'd had years earlier. In this episode I'm sharing 10 of my favorite mistakes from almost a decade of building… f...

If you've ever said "I'm so disciplined in my career, I just don't have it in me for fitness," this episode is for you.

I'm breaking down a client archetype I've never spoken to directly on the show, the rebel: the high-achieving woman who knows exactly what to do, has the coach and the plan, and still acts against her own self-interest. Swaps different movements in than what's in her programmed session ...

Last week we made the case for why you're not only allowed, but encouraged, to raise your standards for yourself, especially when it comes to your body. This week we build the practice. Because a philosophy you can't live isn't a philosophy, it's just a nice idea or a cute Instagram pist. In this episode, we're getting into what low standards actually look like in daily life. Not the obvious version, but the subtle, s...

I'm going to say something most people in this space won't: people listen to more attractive people. That's not an opinion, it's psychology. And pretending otherwise doesn't make you more evolved. It just makes you less effective. In this episode, I'm making the case that for a woman with a mission, taking care of how you look and feel isn't vanity. It's stewardship. It's one of the most strategic, impactful, and fran...