Become More Compelling Radio

Become More Compelling Radio

Become More Compelling Radio is a podcast where I (Jeff Callahan) have conversations with charisma and people skill experts. My goal with each conversation is to deconstruct what makes them fantastic at what they do, and pass that glorious information along to you on a silver platter so that you can craft a more compelling social life. To learn more about maximizing your social skills and charisma using behavior and psychology head over to www.becomemorecompelling.com

Episodes

June 18, 2022 52 mins

Do you want to make more friends, build your network, and throw parties that make people say “I can’t WAIT for the next one!”? 

My guest Nick Gray is here to show you how! 

He’s sharing secrets straight from his book The 2-Hour Cocktail Party. In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How throwing a cocktail party will expand your network.
  • How to get 90% attendance at your party.
  • When/how to send out reminders.
  • Why guest name tags are...
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Note: Video version of this episode is on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/331eiJKvKIc 

Look, we’ve ALL been in social situations where we feel a little nervous.

Maybe we want to make a good first impression, be more charismatic and charming, or just have a good interaction. In this episode, we’ll look at 5 ways to be charming even when you’re nervous.

And we’ll look at none other than the Batman himself, Robert Pattinson.

We’ll brea...

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December 18, 2020 14 mins
 
Wonder Woman has...
  • Super strength.
  • Super speed.
  • A Super lasso.
Gal Gadot has a superpower too: super charisma.
 
In this video, I'll breakdown 5 ways Gal Gadot displays charisma and how you can adapt them for your own personal charisma.
 
Hop in your invisible jet, grab your lasso of truth and enjoy...
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I used to think time travel would be awesome...until I read an 1883 etiquette book.
 
Life in the 1880s:
  • 17 drinks before breakfast.
  • Waiting for the automobile to be invented.
  • Some light assault of service people.
  • More drinking.
 
Grab your powdered wig, dust off your top hat, get in your horse and buggy and let’s learn some Victorian-era etiquette!
 

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Have you ever wondered how to not be boring in a conversation?

Maybe you really want to be more interesting, but you don't know how, maybe you KNOW deep down that you’re not boring, but you just need some pointers.

In part 2 of this series, we're going to cover 4 ways you can be less boring and more interesting in a conversation.

NEXT STEP:

QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report...

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September 25, 2020 12 mins

Building the skill of being witty in conversation is super important. When you meet a new person at work, for example, and you're able to crack a joke, it demonstrates that you don't take yourself too seriously, have a good sense of humor, and are socially skilled.

All good things!

If you've ever wondered how to be witty in conversation, this episode will fix you up!

We'll look at three clips of Will Ferre...

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It's been two YEARS since I've done a Q&A show.
 
That's far too long!
 
Today, we're going to cover three questions:
 
1. How can you make conversation with the company CEO in the elevator?
 
2. Should you skip small talk and jump right to big talk?
 
3. How can you feel comfortable around new people?
 
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Building the SKILL of talking to anyone with confidence is SO important.

If you're not able to  communicate with confidence, it'll be more difficult to advance in your career, lead/inspire your team at work, or be confident in a social situation.

In this episode (video here on YouTube), I'll show you 5 ways to talk to anyone with confidence.

You'll want to stick around till the end of the episode because I'll outline the biggest ...

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If you've ever wondered how to network with people, you're not alone.
 
When someone says "Networking" it makes me think of American Psycho where a bunch of yuppies sit around comparing business cards.
 
"MY GOD...IT EVEN HAS A WATERMARK."
 
Networking doesn't have to feel that way!
 
And in 2020, most networking is sending a DM or email.
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Have you ever wondered how to not be boring in a conversation?
 
Maybe you really want to be more interesting, but you don't know how, maybe you KNOW deep down that you’re not boring, but you just need some pointers.
 
This episode is for you.
 
I'll cover 6 ways you can be less boring and more interesting in conversation.
 

NEXT STEP:

QUI...

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How To Be A Great Storyteller.

Having the skill of telling a few good stories is a really important people skill.

Pulling out a great story can be a fantastic way of entertaining people, providing information or even persuading others. 

In this episode, I'm going to break down a story by Bill Hader and walk you through 4 tips on how to tell a great story.

You'll be able to use these storytelling tips in your next Zoom meeting f...

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In this episode, I'll share 5 tips to help you stop being shy.
 
I spent YEARS being shy, and it was really hard, because I knew that I had so much that I wanted to contribute in social situations.
 
These tips will help you break the shyness cycle and be less quiet in your next social interaction.
 

NEXT STEP:

QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style i...

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Look, if you have a habit of people-pleasing, you probably get requests like ...
 
"Can you hop on this Zoom Meeting?"
 
"Hey, can you drive me to the Airport on Friday?"
 
"Hey, can you petsit my Egyptian Pharaoh Hound? He requires constant fanning with a palm leaf."
 
People pleasers tend to say "Yes!" too much. And it comes with a cost!<...

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"Just fake it until you make it!"

This is popular advice-especially if you're trying to improve your people skills.

Should you fake it until you make it?

The more we take action and do something, the more our identity moves to align with the version of us that does that new thing.

Our thoughts FOLLOW our actions.

In this episode, I'll walk you through a couple of tips that will help you make it, (and not fake it.)

NEXT STEP:

Q...

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Should you care what other people think?

There’s a lot of advice floating around telling us to not care what other people think. (Sometimes in more...colorful language than that.)

I’ve never liked the concept of NGAF.

But the reality is, caring less about the outcome of any given social interaction can massively help your people skills.

In this episode, I’ll walk you through a couple of exercises that will help you declare “out...

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If you've ever looked around the room and thought...
 
"I'm an imposter! What am I DOING here?!"
 
Then you've experienced imposter syndrome.
 
In this episode, we'll drop-kick imposter syndrome and also teach you how to use your ego as a tool.
 
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People mentioned:
 
Scott Adams
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Most people hesitate socially.
 
"Should I say this or that?"
 
"I don't want to rock the boat!"
 
It's time to get BOLD.
 
In this episode, we'll talk about how to be socially bold.
 
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Be sure to go to Become More Compelling and get your free 56-minute audio guide on joining & enjoying group conv...
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The intent you carry into any social situation matters!
 
If you're not thinking about the right things, it can make having great social outcomes MUCH harder.
 
In this episode, we'll talk about social intent and what you can do before your next Zoom meeting, first date, or dinner party. (After COVID-19 quarantines clear)
 
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Be sure to go to Become More Co...
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Look-real talk: Socially awkward moments happen.

For most of us, an awkward moment can ruin a conversation, first date, or am important meeting.

Not anymore.

In this episode: How to bounce back from awkward moments.

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Be sure to go to Become More Compelling and get your free 56-minute audio guide on joining & enjoying group conversations.

(You'll also get articles, podcasts, videos and much more to help you supercharge...

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Have you ever been talking to someone and it seems like they already know what they’re going to say, and they’re just waiting for you to stop talking so they can say what they want?

I call this the “spring-loaded response trap” and it signals to the other person that you’ve checked out of the conversation.

(Not a good look if you want to have better interactions with other people.)

Often, this happens because people lock on to some...

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