Anatomy of Us
A podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.
Episodes
June 12, 2024 • 16 mins
Welcome back to Anatomy of Us! 🎙️ Today, Melanie Studley is flying solo to dive deep into a hot topic: triggers. Ever feel like you're constantly on edge, blaming others for how you react? This episode's insightful discussion is for you! 🙌
Here's what you'll learn:
Redefining Triggers: Melanie breaks down why the term "trigger" is overused and often misapplied. Discover what really constitutes a legitimate trigger.
Personal I...
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June 6, 2024 • 11 mins
🎙️ Welcome to Anatomy of Us! 🎙️
In today’s special mini-episode, Melanie takes the reins solo to share some transformative insights that have been floating around in her mind. 💭 She dives deep into the empowering concept of Taking Life by the Horns and how you can direct your path with intention and strength.
🔹 Empowerment through Choice: Learn how to make deliberate choices about your reactions, instead of letting life push ...
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May 29, 2024 • 13 mins
👋 Welcome to Anatomy of Us! Today Melanie Studley is flying solo to dive into a topic that's been on her mind: Inherited Anxiety. 🌟
In this episode, Melanie explores how we often unknowingly inherit anxieties and fears from our families and claim them as our own. 😲
Join Mel as she breaks down the importance of examining and distinguishing between inherited anxieties and our own true feelings. This concept doesn't just apply to a...
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May 15, 2024 • 67 mins
Welcome to the latest episode of the Anatomy of Us podcast, where Melanie Studley and Seth Studley are joined by special guest and friend, Dr. John Delony, for an enlightening discussion on his new book "Building a Non-Anxious Life." This episode kicks off with a laid-back conversation featuring personal anecdotes and even some pet stories, setting a relatable tone for what follows. Dr. Delony, drawing from his experience as a ther...
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In today's episode, we sit down with Dan Peterson, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor & Parenting Coach, to discuss what to do when your kid is out of control! 😩 😵💫 😭
Meet Dan, the Founder of The Compass 4 Life, who brings years of expertise in clinical psychology and the Nurtured Heart Approach™ (NHA) to the table. 🌟 With a Masters degree from Benedictine University and personal training from NHA founder Howard Glasse...
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March 21, 2024 • 35 mins
Today, we share a behind-the-scenes look at Melanie's all new Prayer Planner + Journal! Melanie created this planner/journal to master her ADHD, Dyslexia, and the chaos of being a business owner and a busy mom of three!
Melanie explains the components of the planner, how she uses it each day, and where you can get your own so that you can master YOUR LIFE!
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March 13, 2024 • 31 mins
In this insightful episode, Melanie and Seth Studley discuss the challenges of navigating personal growth disparities within relationships. Inspired by a listener's question about what to do when your partner isn't interested in personal development or marriage growth, they share their own experiences and offer practical advice on how to handle situations where one partner is less interested in personal development.
Melanie (Speake...
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March 6, 2024 • 35 mins
Today, we're diving into a super important topic: erectile dysfunction in a sexless marriage.
We've got a listener question asking how to bring up this sensitive issue with her husband as well as addressing the issue of a sexless marriage for many years.
From spotting the signs to starting the talk, we've got your back with practical advice and a sprinkle of humor. We'll chat about fostering understanding, seeking support, and k...
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February 28, 2024 • 55 mins
🔍 Ever wondered how to navigate emotional support in your marriage like a pro? Look no further! In this episode of the Anatomy Of Us Podcast, hosts Seth and Melanie Studley break down the essential dos and don'ts to master the art of emotional support in your relationship.
🎯 Whether you're a newlywed or a seasoned couple, these insightful tips will help you deepen your connection and foster a stronger bond with your partner.
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February 21, 2024 • 42 mins
In this episode, we're spilling the tea ☕ on essential strategies for keeping harmony alive in your household. From chore wars to decision-making dilemmas, we've got you covered! 💪
DO:
✅ Communicate openly about who's the laundry pro and who's the dishwashing master.
✅ Fairly divide tasks based on skills, availability, and interests (because, let's face it, nobody likes cleaning toilets).
✅ Keep things flexible by adjusting respo...
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February 14, 2024 • 52 mins
Description: 🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of The Anatomy Of Us Podcast, where we delve into the crucial elements of conflict resolution in marriage. Join us as we discuss 'The 5 Dos and Don'ts of Conflict Resolution in Marriage', a guide to nurturing a stronger, healthier relationship with your significant other. This episode is a part of our DO THIS, NOT THAT series for February!
🔹 About This Episode: Conflict resolution s...
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February 7, 2024 • 42 mins
🎙️ Welcome to the latest episode of The Anatomy Of Us Podcast, where we delve into the crucial elements of effective communication in marriage. Join us as we discuss 'The Six Dos and Don’ts of Effective Communication in Marriage', a guide to nurturing a stronger, healthier relationship with your significant other. This episode is a part of our DO THIS, NOT THAT series for February!
🔹 About This Episode: Effective Communication i...
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January 31, 2024 • 71 mins
Welcome back to the Best of AOU series! Today we call up Bryan Ward of the Dad Up Podcast and talk about what it takes to show up fully for your kiddos! Bryan shares his personal background, reflecting on the impact of his parents' less-involved approach during his childhood and his commitment to being an actively engaged father.
This discussion delves into the significance of open-ended questions in effective communication with ch...
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January 11, 2024 • 40 mins
Welcome back to the Best of AOU series! Today we have another insightful episode of Anatomy of Sex: "HELP! We've Only Had Sex 3 Times in the Last 4 Years!" 🎙️ In this candid discussion, we tackle a pressing listener question: "HELP! We've Only Had Sex 3 Times in the Last 4 Years!" 😱 Join us as we delve into the emotional and practical aspects of a sexless marriage lasting nearly 40 years.
🔍 In this video, we explore:
Strategies...
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January 5, 2024 • 60 mins
We are giving you the Best of AOU, a short series giving you our most popular episodes to date!
Today, we revisit a discussion about the power of Triangulation in families. Triangulation is partially defined as one person (often unconsciously) involving a third person to ease tension, gain support, or manipulate a situation. Triangulation can occur in various relationships, such as among family members, friends, colleagues, marriag...
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December 20, 2023 • 59 mins
Today, we share an excellent episode that Melanie recorded with Steven Murphy of The Nook Podcast, all about her faith journey, her time leading worship at Mars Hill Church, Coaching with her husband, and so much more.
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Power Couple Planner: https://anatomyofus.com/power-couple-planner
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December 13, 2023 • 29 mins
Today, we answer a listener question about a wife and her ANGRY HUSBAND! What should she do about it? Can she stop it? What does HE need to do about his anger?!
We help the wife with communication tools, encourage her to create a community of supportive people around her, and see if she can think of a man her husband admires to help him listen to reason.
Send your questions into hello@anatomyofus.com and get them answered on th...
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December 6, 2023 • 34 mins
Today, we help a listener by sharing 5 ways to connect with his wife after realizing that they live more like roommates rather than a happily married couple!
LISTENER QUESTION: My wife and I have drifted apart and are starting to feel more like roommates; what do I do?
Here are our top tips!
1. SHAKE IT UP TO BREAK IT UP
2. GET CURIOUS
3. VISION BOARD TOGETHER
4. PRACTICE GRATITUDE
5. BUY THE POWER COUPLE PLANNER!!
(It has all of...
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November 29, 2023 • 23 mins
Today, we hear from a listener who shares a common observation experienced by people on a personal development journey: no longer being able to identify with what family and friends think about, talk about, and feel. This completely normal phenomenon can be jarring and confusing when first encountered, so Seth and I share how we have worked through this in our own relationships.
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November 23, 2023 • 43 mins
Today, we are sharing a concept we use with our High-Performance Marriage Coaching Clients called the Straight and Narrow Path. This idea helps couples identify a marriage goal and then (the most critical part) create a straight and narrow path to help them reach their goal! The Straight and Narrow Path reduces decision fatigue and gives couples clarity on how to have relationship success each and every day! This is also a game-cha...
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