I SAID NO!
Welcome to the I SAID NO! Podcast hosted by Stefanie, The Life Architect. The show aims to help you define, set, sustain, and respect healthy boundaries by learning to say "NO!" to people, places, and things that no longer serve you and are past their prime in this season of your life. We'll tackle those uncomfortable conversations that most try to sweep under the rug and avoid in a responsible audio way. Who should listen? Anyone who enjoys righteous-ratchet transparency, relatability, healthy boundary-setting solutions, truth-telling, knowledge, and fun. Press play!
Episodes
April 11, 2024 • 56 mins
Denny is back! He's thinking and I'm feeling, what could go wrong?
Earthquakes, logic vs. emotion, having babies you can't afford, and more!
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March 15, 2024 • 44 mins
If beggars can't be choosey, what can they be? Stefanie shares why the idea that something is always better than nothing, is false!
Ressa Teesa, Monique, Love Is Blind, and more...
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January 15, 2024 • 33 mins
What is healing, and do our gifts, talents, and ability to give and receive love properly depend on it? Stefanie assesses her healing indicators and more.
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December 25, 2023 • 48 mins
Stefanie closes 2023 with her unpopular opinions from follower DMs. Unpopular Opinions begin around the 8-minute mark.
Parenting, Keith Lee, family drama, friendship support, one-night stands, and so much more! Press play!
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November 26, 2023 • 40 mins
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November 9, 2023 • 59 mins
Denny joined me for a low-vibrational, ratchet discussion and storytelling session about my past encounter with a ringless whore. We also discuss former NBA player Joe Smith's wife's Only Fans violation and the Keith Lee, Atlanta debacle.
If you're uncomfortable with profanity and derogatory language used to describe a specific demographic of women, this is NOT the "I SAID NO!" episode for you.
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October 4, 2023 • 51 mins
What happens when your sister comes over for a visit? You give her a microphone and press record. The living legend herself, Hype Williamz, my big sister, and yours joined me for a kiki bout long-distance relationships, parenting, and more.
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August 31, 2023 • 29 mins
How do you know when it's time to set healthy boundaries, choose low contact, or become estranged from loved ones? In this episode on #ISNPOD, The Life Architect breaks down the who, when, when, and the how of this difficult topic. Press play!
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August 1, 2023 • 52 mins
You asked, she answered. Stefanie's answer some of her follower DMs! Get ready for that Life Artchiect advice!
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July 11, 2023 • 38 mins
I returned to the mic after a two-year hiatus. I'm a bit rusty, but I have some things to say! Press play!
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July 11, 2023 • 71 mins
On this episode of the, I SAID NO! episode, Denny Balcno and I break down the consent component in Respect, Boundaries, and Communication.
Listen, comment, and share...press play!
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January 7, 2021 • 34 mins
Before I transition, I had to drop one last gem on ya. Closure is BS, and in this episode, I tell you why! Thank you for listening!
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December 21, 2020 • 41 mins
The importance of non-sexual physical male affection - Denny Blanco is here to help me unpack this topic.
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December 10, 2020 • 68 mins
The physical and emotional violence I was bred in helped usher in the gentleness of my current self. Coffee With Curls, aka Noemi is here to help us break down gentle violence. Noemi also gives us the lowdown on Texas, is it the new promise land for black and brown people?
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November 25, 2020 • 126 mins
How do you define friendship as an adult? I'm joined by the family that I chose, my friends, to discuss all things sisterhood & friendship. Forgiveness, support, communication, and so much more!
Below is the link to the #ISNPOD 'Acquaintances, Associates, and Friends' episode I referred to during this recording.
https://soundcloud.com/isaidnopodcast/acquaintances-associates-and-friends
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November 9, 2020 • 99 mins
Is being 'The First,' the Pathfinder, the one who "made it" romanticized?
BJ, host of the Change The Subject podcast joins me to discuss the weight (expectations) does being a pioneer in any personal and professional space carries. And what are the downfalls of someone taking their whole family and community with them to 'The First' promise land?
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October 21, 2020 • 25 mins
Do You Understand The Difference Between Mercy and Grace? How Much of The Mercy and Grace That You Generously and Sexually, Give To Others Should Be Given To Yourself?
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September 6, 2020 • 39 mins
The I SAID NO! Podcast Turns 2! Thank You For Being Apart of My Audio Soul Family! I Love You For Listening.
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August 27, 2020 • 18 mins
Character Flaws, Do You Justify Yours? If So, I SAID NO! Get Into Episode 45!
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July 23, 2020 • 31 mins
I'm Ranting About Pedestals, The Co-Depedncey, And Hypocrisy Attached. And So Much More. Get Into Episode 44!
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