The New Man
Advice for Men to Align Career, Sex, Relationships, and Money
Episodes
Why does trying to be a “real man” scream insecurity?
Why do so many guys turn into neutered, “yes dear” pushovers?
And could all this talk about masculine and feminine energy be a big distraction?
Today Alyson and I break it down. What do people really mean when they talk about masculine and feminine energy? Why do some swear it’s the secret to passion, polarity, and purpose? And what if the whole thing is missing the bigger po...
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September 24, 2025 • 35 mins
Do you know what needs to be done but fail to follow through?
Does life constantly feel like there’s just too much to do?
And are you waiting for everything to be done before you can really enjoy your life?
Today Alyson and I share a simple way to look at our mindset and understand why we make life harder than it needs to be. Whether it’s our inner visionary, manager, or soldier, chances are if you’re struggling to make progress...
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September 9, 2025 • 37 mins
Do you have someone in your life that, no matter what you do, it’s always your fault?
Do you often walk on eggshells, worried the next thing you say will set them off?
And at what point does “difficult” cross the line into a personality disorder?
Today, Alyson and I dive into one of the toughest, most confusing topics in relationships: personality disorders. Borderline, narcissistic, and other disorders can be hard to spot, unti...
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August 26, 2025 • 38 mins
Have you ever hit a big win…and felt nothing?
Have you chased success, only to realize it was shallow or meaningless?
And what happens when we finally start living in alignment with our soul instead of our ego?
Today, Alyson and I dive into success, comparisons, and the art of getting over yourself. We talk about who we are underneath the urge to protect, please, and prove, and why it’s actually a gift when our wins feel empty.
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August 12, 2025 • 46 mins
Do you have a voice in your head telling you what you should and shouldn’t do?
Why does this “tyranny of should” drain our aliveness, passion, and connection?
And how might your life change if you weren’t afraid to be who you truly are?
Today, Alyson and I talk about how we all “should” on ourselves and each other. We explore how this can leave us feeling trapped and emotionally constipated—and what life can feel like when we lo...
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Do you treat the pizza delivery guy with more kindness than your partner?
Do you frequently bicker or cut each other down with biting humor?
And how is this disrespectful behavior killing your aliveness, connection, and sexual spontaneity?
Today Alyson and I discuss the all too common problem of disrespect, resentment, and contempt in relationships. We explore how we can ditch the sniping and bickering and instead learn how to k...
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July 15, 2025 • 52 mins
Do you feel like you keep getting stuck in the same old arguments?
What drains our aliveness more than work?
And what if the thing killing your sex life had nothing to do with sex?
Today Alyson and I reveal one of — if not the — biggest killers of aliveness, intimacy, and trust. It’s the drama triangle. We explore what it truly is, how it keeps us from finding solutions, and what you can do to pull yourself from its trap.
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July 1, 2025 • 43 mins
Do you ever feel stuck about what to do with your life, relationship, or career?
What’s really going on when we say, “I don’t know what to do”?
And how do we move forward without a clear vision or plan?
Today, Alyson and I discuss feeling stuck and uncertain about what to do next. We explore what fuels anxiety, why comfort is different than peace, as well as some ways we can move from uncertainty into clarity.
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June 17, 2025 • 38 mins
Do you talk to AI like it’s your therapist?
Is it wrong to prefer interactions with a machine over a human?
And how is our pursuit of comfort killing our sense of confidence and meaning?
Today, Alyson and I discuss the rise of AI as a substitute for friendships and emotional support. We explore why people are forming real bonds with artificial companions, how these tools can actually help, and what we risk when we forget the val...
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Why do some guys crave women who aren’t good for them?
Is the “nice girl” always boring — and the “bad girl” more fun?
And do we really need to put on an act just to make a relationship work?
Today, Alyson and I talk about something a lot of people wrestle with — feeling torn between who we’re attracted to and who’s actually a better fit. We explore why we often contort ourselves to be accepted, how that shapes attraction, and w...
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May 21, 2025 • 54 mins
Do you get drained by small talk?
Does it feel like no one else likes to talk about the things you love?
And how can you have deeper conversations even if you don’t see eye to eye?
Today Alyson and I discuss some ways to have deeper and more meaningful conversations — even when interests don’t align. Whether you’re chatting with strangers or deepening bonds in a long-term relationship, we share a few key ideas that’ll help you g...
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May 6, 2025 • 44 mins
Should you settle in your relationship?
Do you ever wonder if there’s someone out there who’s a better fit?
And could raising the bar too high leave you alone forever?
Today, Alyson and I dig into the idea of “settling” in relationships. We talk about what it really means to raise your standards, how we sabotage relationships, and why it’s tempting to focus on someone else’s flaws instead of facing our own fears.
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April 22, 2025 • 45 mins
Do you ever fantasize about escaping your current life?
Is fear the one setting your goals and expectations?
And do you have any idea what would truly bring you peace of mind?
Today, Alyson and I try to help a listener who is tired of the grind and wants to hit the eject button. We discuss how to know if you’re on the right track, why we pile on the pressure to succeed, and accessing our deeper selves to find peace of mind.
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April 8, 2025 • 36 mins
Is it easier to do a cold plunge than to deal with your partner’s emotions?
If your partner’s in a bad mood, should you just be their punching bag?
And do you spend more time focusing on solutions or who’s to blame?
Today Alyson and I explore navigating big emotions in a partnership. We explore how to deal with intensity while also setting boundaries against aggression and good old-fashioned drama.
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March 25, 2025 • 44 mins
What does it mean to 10X your life?
Why are we so afraid to go “backwards” financially?
And what’s really driving our desire for more, more, more?
Today, Alyson and I talk about developing a healthy high achiever mindset. We explore scarcity, motivation, and what really drives us to be “set for life.”
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March 11, 2025 • 34 mins
If your partner cheats on you, can the relationship be repaired?
Is it your fault if your partner cheats?
And how do men respond differently to being cheated on?
Adam Nisenson is the author of A Man’s Guide to Partner Betrayal — a book specifically for men whose partners have cheated on them. We discuss why he calls infidelity a “death experience,” why it’s such a blow to our self esteem, and what not to do if you find out your ...
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February 25, 2025 • 59 mins
Is sex a source of frustration with your partner?
Do you feel sexually rejected by them?
And if you don’t push for sex, will your partner ever initiate it?
Many folks — too many folks — are unsatisfied with their sex lives. This can be a huge source of frustration and resentment between partners, which can ultimately lead to affairs or divorce.
But does it have to be this way?
Ruth Ramsay is a sex educator, coach, and creator ...
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February 11, 2025 • 46 mins
Do you struggle with spirituality?
If you stay off the naughty list, does the Universe give you what you want like Santa Claus?
And why can spirituality feel so threatening to some folks?
Today Alyson and I discuss some of the ways folks relate to the unseen, mysterious world of spirituality. We explore how this relates to our fear of uncertainty, our need for control, and why some people — including me — struggle with spiritual...
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January 27, 2025 • 62 mins
Do you believe you need alcohol or some other crutch to function at your best?
Do fears like imposter syndrome or stage fright ever completely go away?
And is it still worthwhile to be generous and kind?
Randy Blythe is best known as the vocalist for the metal band, lamb of god. He’s spent decades making records and playing to massive audiences all around the world. He’s also just another guy you might see surfing. That’s ho...
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January 13, 2025 • 45 mins
Is there a voice in your head that says you need to make a change?
Do you experience scarcity if you’re not always making more money?
And what can you do if the things that used to light you up feel empty now?
Today Alyson and I discuss what we can do when we feel out of alignment with our lives. We talk about why we don’t need to beat ourselves up, what really holds us back from making a change, and why feeling “not enough” is ...
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