How Married Are You?

How Married Are You?

You may know Glen from Beleaf in Fatherhood where he gives a real life perspective of life as a stay at home parent. This podcast is an extension of his youtube series, where he & Yvette sit down on a weekly basis to share their parenting and marriage experiences as a unit.

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June 23, 2026 59 mins

How do you keep fighting for a marriage when it feels like you're the only one trying?In this episode, we talk about emotional neglect, vulnerability, communication, and why a lack of intimacy is often a symptom not the root issue. We also share our thoughts on the emotional weight of raising Black children in today's climate and how recent events have impacted our family.Patreon AftershowAfter the main episode, we have a much more...

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"My faith says trust God. My reality says I'm exhausted."A listener approaching her 29th birthday writes in with a question that many believers quietly wrestle with:What do you do when your faith and your reality seem to be telling two different stories?After years of investing in her career, serving faithfully in church, pursuing creative dreams, navigating racism in Christian spaces, and watching others move forward while she fee...

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A listener writes in with an urgent dilemma.After years of financial hardship, layoffs, relocation, and navigating life as a stay-at-home mom, she discovers she's unexpectedly pregnant with baby number two. While she and her fiancé always wanted more children, they planned to wait until life felt more secure.Now they're wrestling with difficult questions:Can you afford to have another child when money is already tight?How much shou...

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This week on How Married Are You?!, we respond to a follow-up email from a wife trying to rebuild connection in her marriage while navigating exhaustion, cultural expectations, difficult in-law dynamics, and the weight of carrying too much for too long.

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We dive into a powerful listener message from a wife and mother walking through a difficult season in marriage, financial pressure, and the challenge of waiting on God when the next step isn’t clear.

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May 5, 2026 69 mins

We discuss our relationship with church.

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After leaving a 7-year toxic relationship, she did the work to heal, grow, and become more secure in herself. Then she met a man who seemed like everything she prayed for. He’s consistent, grounded in faith, emotionally present, and makes her feel safe in ways she’s never experienced before. Their connection feels deep, intentional, and healing. But there’s one problem… He still won’t commit.Resources...

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A wife writes in feeling overwhelmed, unsupported, and unsure if her marriage is even worth saving anymore. Two kids. Financial pressure. Emotional exhaustion. And a husband who… won’t step up.Resources & LinksEmber mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍https://bit.ly/4lfn38iMentor Couple Wait List 🫂🖤https://forms.gle/VcUDRgf6km9kHWEK7Buy Girl Scout Cookies from Anaya 🍪💛https://digitalcookie.girlscouts.org/scout/anaya778725Rele...

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How do you keep your past from ruining your present?In this episode,,we respond to a newlywed wrestling with a real question: How do you not project what you saw growing up onto your marriage?And the truth is… you probably will.We talk about:Why projection is almost unavoidable in relationshipsHow to recognize when it’s happeningThe difference between your partner’s behavior vs. your past woundsWhy therapy, mento...

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How many chances is too many?In this conversation, we unpack what real repentance actually looks like, how to tell the difference between healing and just covering things up, the warning signs you shouldn’t ignore, and how to know when it’s time to stay—or walk away.Patreon Segment: The real behind-the-scenes of life on the road—plumbing issues, locked doors, unexpected breakdowns, and the mental load that c...

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She said, “This is the best relationship I’ve ever had…”No drama. No toxicity. Just peace.But his family depends on him for everything.Now she’s wondering…Am I building a future with him or inheriting a responsibility I’m not ready for?Real question:Can love grow when pressure is already this heavy?

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In this video, we respond to a real question from a woman whose boyfriend, a church leader, told her he couldn't marry someone who drinks alcohol, even occasionally.Should she give up something she doesn’t personally believe is wrong in order to honor the man she loves and hopes to marry?Or is that the kind of change that must come from personal conviction, not relationship pressure?If you’ve ever wrestled with differen...

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In episode 282 of @howmarriedareyou, a 30-year-old listener shares how @Beleafmel and @MrsMelanin helped her believe marriage was possible, after growing up surrounded by divorce and broken relationships. She did the work. Therapy. Self-help. Healing her anxious attachment. She became secure, confident, grounded.Then she met a man who felt “too good to be true.”Two and a half years later, after phone secrecy, dating app...

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What do you do when you and your spouse want the same outcome… but you can’t agree on the way to get there? 😩🤍

In Episode 281, a newlywed writes in with a marriage tension that feels small at first… until it affects everything: perfection vs progress.

She’s the type who believes action brings clarity. Even a “no” teaches you what you need for the next attempt. Her husband is the type who wants ...

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What do you do when you’re rebuilding your life after divorce… and wondering if you should do it alone? 💔➡️🏗️❤️

In Episode 280, a recently divorced listener writes in asking a vulnerable question: should he focus entirely on rebuilding himself — financially, emotionally, and spiritually — or should he actively pursue a relationship with someone who can help him build his life alongside him? 🤔

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What do you do when your partner’s “boundaries” start feeling like control?

In Episode 279, a listener writes in about being engaged to a woman who reacts strongly anytime other women are around. On a group trip, she told him to keep his distance from one woman she believed was staring at him. When that same woman ended up sitting next to him in an Uber, his fiancée texted him to move his legs away from her. Later,...

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