How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast
How to Get the Girl (formerly Ask Women) is the podcast where men finally learn what actually works with women. Hosted by Your Wing Girl, Marni Kinrys, and banter coach Kristen Carney, this weekly show breaks down attraction, dating, confidence, and communication — without the guesswork, games, or outdated advice. Every week, we bring you real talk from regular women, celebrities, relationship experts, and strong, opinionated females who tell you exactly what makes them lean in… and what makes them walk away. No fluff. No theory. Just honest female insight and practical tools you can use immediately to get the girl — and keep her. New episodes every week.
Episodes
May 26, 2026 • 54 mins
A lot of men can get the first date…
But then they have absolutely no idea what to do next.
This is a rerun episode but the advice in this one is timeless.
Because what happens after the first date is usually where men either build attraction… or completely lose it.
In this episode, I sit down with Jim Wolf, author of The Attract Her and Keep Her System, to talk about how men can better understand women and recognize when a wom...
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April 23, 2026 • 41 mins
Some men resist leveling up their style.
But here is the truth.
You are hurting your chances with women if you ignore how you show up.
This is a rerun episode and it is one you should not skip.
Because style is not about being flashy or fake.
It is about presenting yourself in a way that makes you feel confident and makes women take notice.
In this episode, I bring on my Wing Girl stylist Carol to break this down for you.
We...
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April 10, 2026 • 47 mins
Shawn Haywood from ReimagineLove.com is here to share what it really means to be masculine.
This is a rerun episode but it is one you need to hear.
Because being masculine is not something you just turn on once and you are done.
It is something you have to carry through your life and your relationships.
In this conversation, Shawn breaks down how to build that masculine foundation and how to keep it consistent so women feel it ...
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What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention?
Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus — a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Lite...
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February 26, 2026 • 17 mins
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Do you know the one thing that turns a woman on… MORE than anything else? It’s NOT status, money, height or good looks. In fact, it’s NOT even confidence, sense of humor, intelligence or game.
Those are all nice. But the single biggest turn on for women is something very specific… that 99% of men are completely unaware of.
Once you know this secret, you wi...
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February 23, 2026 • 11 mins
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In this episode, Marni reveals 3 scientific reason why SIZE doesn't matter to women. It is a false belief that so many guys have that the bigger you are, the better you are in bed BUT that is 100% not true. This video shows you the truth about size and how to use what you got so you can be an amazing in the bedroom...
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February 23, 2026 • 27 mins
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Why does the same flirting move work on one woman but completely fail on another?
It's not random—it's because there are 4 distinct types of women, and each one responds to a completely different approach.
In this episode, Wing G...
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February 19, 2026 • 17 mins
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Did you know that it's possible to attract women WITHOUT saying a single word? It's true and it's doable by ANY man... YES even you ;).
In this episode, Marni reveals exactly how to attract women without saying a word using the NATURAL effects of your body language. Body Language is the quickest and easiest thing you can a...
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February 17, 2026 • 6 mins
The Ask Women Podcast is getting a little facelift. Moving forward our show will be called What Turns Women On and we’ll air 2 episodes a week.Same heart. Same purpose and same goal of helping amazing men get the women they want and become the men they’ve always want to be.Marni will be your host, your best female friend and your own personal Wing Girl. She’s heard it all before and will deliver the best of the best insider infor...
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February 3, 2026 • 77 mins
What women want is one of the most misunderstood topics in dating and this episode proves exactly why. In this throwback conversation Marni sits down with comedian Graham Elwood for a candid funny and sometimes controversial discussion about dating attraction and the stories men tell themselves about women.
They break down the biggest misconceptions that keep men confused frustrated and stuck including why common advice misses the ...
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January 27, 2026 • 81 mins
The friend zone does not get you in the end zone. In this throwback episode we break down what women actually mean when they say they want a bad boy and how to embody those traits without being arrogant cold or disrespectful.
We talk about the difference between being nice and being attractive how confidence boundaries and emotional leadership create desire and why trying to please everyone usually kills attraction.
Dating and attr...
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January 20, 2026 • 67 mins
Dun dun dunnnn. The dreaded friend zone. We have all landed there and it can feel like the Bermuda Triangle of dating. Once you are in it feels nearly impossible to get out.
In this throwback episode we break down why the friend zone happens in the first place what mistakes keep you stuck there and what actually shifts attraction so a woman starts seeing you differently. You will learn how to change the dynamic without awkward conv...
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January 13, 2026 • 26 mins
Most dating advice is generic outdated and honestly pretty cringey. In this episode Marni sits down with Dr Jennifer Berman New York Times bestselling author and renowned urologist to have an honest conversation about attraction emotional connection and what actually turns women on.
They talk about why desire starts in the mind how emotional safety impacts sexual chemistry and what men often misunderstand when it comes to intimacy....
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January 7, 2026 • 54 mins
This episode is a throwback to one of our most powerful conversations on self esteem and it is just as relevant today as ever.
Building real self esteem is not something most people are taught how to do. It feels big overwhelming and confusing which is exactly why so many people struggle with it and never fix it. In this episode we break down where self esteem actually comes from and how to start building it in a practical sustaina...
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December 23, 2025 • 33 mins
Most men think attraction is built by being polite, respectful, and safe.
But that’s exactly why so many women feel nothing, even when the guy checks all the boxes.
In this episode, Marni breaks down the biggest misunderstanding men have about attraction with Kurt who is a listener of the podcast. Why logic, effort, and approval seeking quietly kill chemistry before it ever starts. You’ll learn the difference between emotional attr...
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December 16, 2025 • 48 mins
Approaching women in public is rarer than ever, which means if you can do it well, you instantly stand out.
In this episode, Marni and Kristen break down the real “first impression” stuff that actually matters: your face, your eyes, your smile, your energy, and your tonality. You’ll learn how to fix resting “don’t talk to me” face, how to use subtle push-pull with expressions, and a simple way to practice on camera so women feel sa...
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December 9, 2025 • 58 mins
We are throwing it back to a classic conversation about what it really means to be an alpha man today. Our guest Kevin Aillaud breaks down the qualities that make a man grounded, confident, and in charge of his own life. Kevin lives what he teaches, and you can hear that in every moment of this episode. A true must listen.
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December 2, 2025 • 58 mins
Enjoy this special throwback episode where Marni sits down with seduction coach Vince Kelvin to talk about dating, attraction, confidence, and how men can naturally get better with women. Vince breaks down actionable insights, useful techniques, and surprising truths about modern dating. Listen now and learn something new.
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November 18, 2025 • 41 mins
Today’s throwback episode of the Ask Women Podcast brings on a single mother who pulls zero punches when it comes to dating past 40. She’s direct, she’s no-BS, and she’s not here to sugarcoat anything for your ego — she’s here to tell you exactly how women in her position actually think, choose, and filter men.
If you’ve ever wondered what dating looks like through the eyes of a woman balancing kids, time, self-worth, and a second...
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November 12, 2025 • 59 mins
We’re taking it way back to a classic 2016 episode! “The Relationship Doctor” himself, Bob Grant, calls in to share timeless insights on attraction, connection, and what makes relationships actually work.
Bob’s a renowned dating expert and author of multiple best-selling relationship books — and in this vintage “How to Get the Girl” episode, he drops the kind of grounded, no-nonsense wisdom that never goes out of style. Whether you...
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