Boyz Do Cry

Boyz Do Cry

Authentic and honest conversations about mental health. Hosted by two students Ram Reyes and Paulina Rodriguez-Ruiz, each week we talk about how we are feeling — how we are actually feeling — and try to make sense of the things going on in our heads. We invite guests — ranging from our personal friends or mental health professionals — to share their stories and talk about their experiences. DISCLAIMER: We are not mental health professionals. Just two open individuals talking from experience. Please seek professional help if you are in need.

Episodes

April 20, 2020 67 mins

Hey! Sorry we ghosted you but we're back with a new episode. We talk about what we've been up to since we were gone, how we've progressed with our mental health and dealing with quarantine. This was recorded the week right before the quarantine was set so no worries we were keeping safe. We hope everyone is staying healthy, physically and mentally, during this pandemic. We hope this brings you comfort and peace during its runtime.

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To love or not to love? That is the question. 16 episodes later & we're here! Where are we, you ask? Somewhere in between. We look back at our journeys, and all the twists and turns that finally led us to this moment. Ram cries, and Paulina wonders if things will ever be the same, or if they're meant to change, and wash away.

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May 16, 2019 93 mins

The ever lively Saige, from the Saige Advice Podcast, graces us with her wit and humor to talk about her journey throughout life. We touch on the effects of divorce, LGBT identity and why the hell do White boys keep punching holes in the walls?? It's probably our funniest episode ever and we are glad to have Saige as our final guest for SZN 3.

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For this episode of Boyz, we catch up with Jalen the creator of our theme song and member of Hopeless Yet Happy and Self Explanatory. We dive into the psychology of relationships and how they bring out sides of you that are not always seen.  

You can also follow Jalen on Instagram @f00d_four_th0ught or @watchusxplain. 

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May 2, 2019 76 mins

On this episode of Boyz, Devoya  a cultural broker at the Holistic Cultural & Educational Wellness Health Center, and creator of The Happy Black Girl Project joins us to talk about healing through a multicultural lens.a program seeking to empower communities of color through a multicultural lens. The HCEWC offers yoga, zumba, gardening, and sewing classes for free as a way to reach and educate communities that would otherw...

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April 25, 2019 41 mins

Ram is almost graduating with is Bachelor's is currently freaking out about the prospects after college. Paulina and Ram discuss their many revelations about their purpose and how much they have grown in face of their traumas. Sometimes, we might not know what is ahead but our energies might be best suited to just embrace the uncertainty at the moment. Being present with the challenges you face because you might face much more rout...

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April 18, 2019 90 mins

On this episode of Boyz, we talk to yoga instructor Janel and explore the mind, body, and spirit connection. Janel shares how she has been able to heal through yoga, and how her practice has evolved over the years.  We explore the way our bodies store trauma, and how yoga can facilitate release.  Janel also shares how reconnecting with her body, and her breath has allowed her to establish balance in her life. 

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April 11, 2019 40 mins

Welcome back to another check-in episode as we explore Ram and Paulina's current mental state. Ram talks about being sick and the constant in flux of just new things to deal with and will it ever end. Paulina talks about coming out to her mother and grandmother and the difficulties and mental strain of coming out. 

We hope y'all are doing alright. We all going through it, constantly grieving each passing moment, as we go throu...

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April 4, 2019 60 mins
 On this episode we explore the benefits of Reiki, an ancient Japanese form of energy healing. Reiki is a healing modality that originated in Japan in the late 1800s. It involves the transfer of universal life force energy from the practitioner's hands to the patient.  It is based on the Idea that an unseen "life force energy" flows through us and it is what causes us to be alive. If one's "life force energy" is low, then we are mo...
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March 28, 2019 46 mins
Yep, Ram's therapist went on vacation! So now he's using this podcast as therapy! We talk about what's been going on with Paulina but it's mostly Ram talking about his relationship anxieties, texting and how we overuse exclamation marks in emails! Things just keep happening and they won't stop happening!  ---- Send us a voice message on Anchor or email us at boyzdocrypod@gmail.com Please consider supporting us here on Anchor: bit.l...
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March 21, 2019 99 mins

On this episode, we talk to Jeremy Burright, professional athlete, basketball coach, podcast host of Always Loading, and Yu-Gi-Oh aficionado. He talks about the power of standing in your own truth, and the importance of creating connection. Jeremy shares how he was able to cultivate mental resilience, and how his father redefined masculinity. Jeremy believes the road to fulfillment is a long one, one that can only be achieved throu...

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March 14, 2019 62 mins

 This week we dive head first into one of the most uncomfortable topics we have tackled on this podcast yet -- Daddy Issues. That's right, Ram and Paulina opens up (a bit) about their relationships with their fathers and analyze how that has affected them over the years. We hope you examine your own relationship with a father figure of some sort or maybe even the lack of one. But yeah... Dads... They're really something...

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March 7, 2019 67 mins

On this episode, we talk to Johnny, a 19-year-old lead singer of Blackcat, a psych-rock band based out of Fresno, CA. He shares his battle with addiction, and how he was able to get sober. 

Johnny shines a light on the physical and mental tolls of Xanax, a drug that is often glorified in the media & highlights how music and a strong support system have helped him regain his life.

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February 28, 2019 53 mins

CW: Mentions of suicide/suicide ideation

Paulina discusses her panic attacks and Ram actually feels kind of okay(?) and shares what he's learned about Hinduism. 

Ask us questions! We are trying out this different format this SZN and we hope to talk to all you wonderful people. So if you have a questions please don't hesitate to email us or send us a voice message on Anchor.

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February 21, 2019 83 mins

For SZN3’s first guested episode we talk to Garr. Garr created and currently leads the Subtle Asian Mental Health Facebook group which has over 12k members. 

We talk to him about what lead to him creating the group as well as his own personal struggles with mental health growing up as a Filipino-American. Garr shares the cultural barriers that hinder mental health discussions & ability to seek resources within Asian americ...

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February 14, 2019 56 mins

Welcome to SZN 3 and Happy Valentine's Day! Ram and Paulina are back to talk about how we're feeling and we're feeling a lot coming back to the podcast. Since it's Valentine's Day, we are in the mood for LOVE and how difficult that is mixed up with past traumas. We discuss what has happened since SZN 2's finale,how Paulina is coping moving back to Long Beach and what we have in planned for SZN 3. Thanks for listening and if you see...

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January 3, 2019 98 mins
We made it again to the end of another szn! Wow! We reflect yet again on what we had learned in the time of the season. There are changes afoot, changes that we discuss. One major change is Paulina will be moving away to Long Beach. All of our podcasts up to this point has been local within Fresno -- sitting physically with our guests. We think that's the key with our intimate conversations with our guests. But with her moving, we ...
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December 27, 2018 72 mins

Fresno artist and business owner Jemimah Barba joins us this episode to talk about the pressures from life -- pressures from friends, family and the legacy of your roots. She talks about her experience moving from the Philippines to the United States at a young age and how that affects her life today with that upbringing and inter-generational pressures that we subconsciously carry everyday.

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December 20, 2018 77 mins
We sit down with Johnny Quiroz, founder of Love the Captive, a music and event management company in Fresno, CA. Quiroz has worked in the music industry for over 20 years and shares insights on how to transform your passions into careers. He shares with the Boyz the secret to longevity, and how to persevere in the midst of failure. Send us a voice message on Anchor or email us at boyzdocrypod@gmail.com Please consider supporting...
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December 13, 2018 76 mins
Masculinity. One of the reasons we named this podcast "Boyz Do Cry" is because of the common notion that boys aren't allowed to cry. We wanted to directly oppose that belief and hopefully through talking about our emotions, we can have the space for men and everyone else to let themselves be heard. With previous guests of the pod, Jason, Jorge, Tommy & Marco, we open the discussion about that big M word and discuss all shades of ma...
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