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In this episode, Modern Mind therapist Tess Hochberger talks with fellow therapist Yaron Schwartzman about divorce, conscious uncoupling, and co-parenting through a thoughtful, humane lens. Drawing on both professional and personal experience, they explore why divorce is often seen as failure, how conflict can escalate, and what it looks like to slow things down and lead with care, especially for the sake of children. This episode ...

In this episode, our newest Modern Mind therapist, Niké Dixon, sits down with Modern Mind therapist Lydia Duquette to take over the LOVELINK podcast to explore the question: “What shapes how we show up in love and relationships?”

Niké has a strong interest in how people relate to one another and how social and cultural influences quietly shape the ways we think, feel, and connect.

Her therapeutic approach integrates psychodynamic, co...

Fred Wistow has spent a lifetime listening, guiding, and helping people see themselves more clearly. Writers, artists, and executives have turned to him again and again for his rare blend of honesty, humor, and care. In this reflective conversation, he shares what he’s learned about listening deeply, showing up for others, and the simple power of human connection.

LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. Signe Simon a...

In this moving conversation, we speak with Alisha, a therapist and Korean adoptee, about her lifelong search for identity and home. She shares the story of being adopted from Korea as an infant, growing up in a small Midwestern town, reuniting with her birth mother in her thirties, and navigating motherhood herself. We explore the myths of adoption, the grief that lives in the body, and what it means to come into community and cons...

Jean Kilbourne joins us to discuss the damaging messages media and advertising send about women’s bodies, the impact of social media, and how older women are rendered invisible in our culture. She reflects on decades of advocacy, shares what’s changed and what hasn’t, and offers hope for a future where women are valued for more than their appearance. For more information about Jean Kilbourne and her work, please visit her website  ...

Guest host Lydia Duquette welcomes Modern Mind therapist Chloé Bringmann for a lively Lovelink episode on how weaving friendship into daily life revives play, desire, and genuine connection in long-term relationships. Grounded in research, clinical insight, and pop culture references, they reveal why a diversified intimacy portfolio is the secret rhythm section of lasting romance.

LOVELINK is hosted by Brooklyn-based therapists Dr. ...

This week, we're excited to share one of our favorite episodes from way back in the LOVELINK archives: a conversation with the world-renowned love guru and couples psychotherapist Esther Perel. Perel poignantly describes the realities of romance, including infidelity and complacency in relationships. Why do we cheat even when we're in happy relationships? Can relationships be repaired after an affair? How do we maintain rom...

In this provocative and deeply insightful episode, we sit down with psychologist and couples therapist Dr. Annabelle Seife to explore the complex world of kink and BDSM. Together, we unpack what kink really means—beyond stereotypes and sensationalism—and why so many people are drawn to erotic experiences that play with power, control, and surrender. 

Dr. Seife guides us through a psychodynamic lens, offering a compassionate and nuan...

Bestselling author and psychologist Mary Pipher, PhD, joins us for a heartfelt conversation about what it means to age well as women. From redefining identity beyond beauty to embracing friendship, presence, and purpose, Mary shares wisdom for navigating life’s later chapters. Though centered on aging, her insights resonate across generations, offering guidance and inspiration for women at every stage of life. As two women approach...

In this powerful and eye-opening episode, we sit down with therapist Rebecca Stone, a specialist in infidelity and affair recovery. Together, we explore the complex and often misunderstood world of affairs—why people cheat, what it means for both the betrayed and the one who strayed, and how couples can navigate the emotional wreckage left behind.

Rebecca shares her insights on when relationships can survive an affair and when it ma...

In this episode, Dr. Simone Humphrey sits down with the expert team of therapists from Modern Mind to discuss the unique challenges and excitement of dating in New York City. The conversation explores how dating culture in the city has been shaped by the rise of dating apps and the impact they’ve had on how people connect. The therapists offer valuable insights on how to navigate the fast-paced dating scene, manage burnout, and pro...

In this episode, we talk with career coach Pippi Kessler and financial coach Hadassah Damien about navigating career and financial shifts to create a more fulfilling life. We explore expanding your sense of possibility, embracing change, and breaking the myth that work only counts if it’s a grind. If you’re feeling stuck and ready for a change, Pippi and Hadassah offer insightful, practical advice delivered with warmth and humor. F...

Michael Sloyer is a leadership and organizational coach at Upbuild. He helps people understand how their ego influences their actions, discover their true selves, and make choices from a more authentic place. As a former Managing Director at Goldman Sachs, Michael knows the pressures and ego-driven challenges often found in the workplace. In this interview, he explains what coaching is and how his spiritual background shapes the wa...

In this episode, we are thrilled to welcome the newest member to our Modern Mind Team—Chloé Bringmann! We dive into the topic of career changes and transitions, exploring why people decide to leave their old jobs and how to determine what they truly want in their next chapter. We discuss the importance of self-reflection and clarity when considering a career change and the steps to take to move forward with confidence. We also disc...

In this insightful episode, we sit down with Dr. Gillian O’Shea Brown, a renowned trauma specialist, to explore the intricate world of complex trauma. Dr. Brown explains what complex trauma is, its origins, and how it differs from other types of trauma. She breaks down how early childhood experiences, prolonged stress, and relational dysfunctions can contribute to long-lasting emotional and psychological impacts.

Dr. Brown also pro...

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of overthinking—how it manifests in men, the negative impact it can have on mental health, relationships, and productivity, and most importantly, strategies to break free from its grip. Dr. Jett Stone, a clinical psychologist who specializes in the psychology of men, discusses his new book “Quiet Your Mind: A Men’s Guide.” We explore the psychological roots of overthinking, from societal...

Sarah Bren, PhD, is a clinical psychologist with a passion for helping parents navigate the ups and downs of raising kids. In her practice, Dr. Bren guides parents through emotional challenges, helping them build trust and confidently support their child’s growth. She also hosts Securely Attached, a go-to podcast for all things parenting, with over 250 episodes and fresh insights twice a week. In this episode, Dr. Bren discusses ho...

This week’s episode is a little different. Instead of an interview, four couples therapists from our group practice came together to answer YOUR questions on romantic relationships. We discussed the biggest mistakes you can make in a relationship, red flags to watch for at each developmental stage, and how to head into a new romantic relationship without losing yourself. The discussion was so much fun and there was so much to talk ...

Lydia Duquette, LMSW, is a Modern Mind therapist specializing in grief and loss. In this episode, Lydia unpacks the concept of grief and how we can better understand this complex emotion. She discusses the non-linear nature of the grieving process and emphasizes the importance of making space for all the emotions that emerge. We explore how grief manifests in different contexts, such as death and breakups. Strategies for navigating...