Finding Solace
Finding Solace is a show that connects people to the real world around them through actionable insights for everyday people. No fluff, no signaling, just talking. From dating, to clean eating, masculinity, and finance, I cover the things that every 18-34 year old guy needs to know.
Episodes
In today's episode, I dive into the idea that dating is supposed to be fun, and that modern dating sucks because we take ourselves too seriously all the time. I end the episode by talking about ways to improve your dating life by slowing down and enjoying the process.
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Everyone knows about the rise of AI slop, but have you ever thought about how AI slop shapes our culture and the physical world around us? In today's episode, I talk about how AI is degrading human creativity and communication skills, how AI art is devaluing real art, and how to fight back.
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In today's episode, I talk about the art of "endeavoring" and how most people haven't ever truly tried to achieve their goals. I talk about how to focus on a goal, to learn a new skill, or embark on a new adventure without burning out, and how to spot the difference between endeavoring and "grinding".
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In today's episode, I give an extended compilation of some of my more recent conversations, starting with the Philosophy of Alan Watts, and diving into topics like dating, consumerism, and mindfulness. Enjoy this extended episode :)
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In today's episode, I talk about how old Minecraft forces you to focus, enhances your creativity, and improves your attention span. As the game has evolved, Mojang has continuously added more content to keep players engaged, but the most engaging way to play the game is still found in old versions.
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In today's episode, I talk about how September and October can be a catalyst to reach your goals and improve your life throughout the rest of the year. I debunk the idea of a New Year's Resolution, talk about doing things to the best of your ability, and how taking the easy route sets you up for failure in the end.
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The internet used to feel like a "place". Somewhere that you had to manually log into and interact with and that you checked out of at the end of the day. In 2026, it doesn't feel like that anymore. In today's episode, I talk about how you can recreate the beauty of the early internet by creating your own virtual third places.
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Today, I talk about my three month journey of stepping away from social media, how to end your social media addiciton, how to make the real world a more interesting place and why social media is destroying the social fabric of our real world.
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Today I talk about the art of spending money, how we are irrational creatures, how budgeting doesn't bring joy and fulfillment in life, and how you can use your money to improve your life and create meaning.
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Today's episode is the ultimate deep dive into the world of dating in 2026. We talk about the problems with modern dating, how to be more comfortable socially, how to talk to strangers, how to meet women, how to get a girl's number, how to plan first, second, and third dates and how to ask her to be your girlfriend.
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In this episode I'm talking about the fear of being average, and why wanting a normal life with a regular job, a few friends, and some hobbies that don't make money has somehow become embarrassing. I break down the two types of guys this pressure creates: the grindset guy filming every second of his hustle, and the checked-out basement guy who's decided the whole game is rigged. They look like opposites, but I explain why they're b...
In today's episode, I talk about how easy it is to fall into a doomer trap, how to have hope in a hopeless society, the beauty and humanity of the world around you, and how everything will be okay if you slow down and pay attention to what's happening in your life.
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In today's episode, I talk about why you feel empty, bored, and unfulfilled through the lens of Alan Watts and his discussions on the different models of the universe. This video dives into Alan Watts' ceramic, fully automatic, and dramatic models of the universe, how to find meaning in the world, and much more!
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In today's episode, I go through 1+ hour of dating advice, from dealing with rejection to addressing the problems with the modern dating scene. This is a compilation of previous uploads that are focused on dating and dating advice.
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In today's episode, I talk about the burnout and frustration that so many of us feel when caught in the relentless cycle of modern adult life and the corporate grind. I explore how our society indoctrinates us to constantly live for the future: climbing the ladder, increasing our spending, and hyper-optimizing our day, which robs us of the simple joys we used to effortlessly experience as kids.
Instead of constantly stressing over ...
If you are above the age of 18 and still don't feel like an adult, there's a good reason for that. In today's episode, I talk about the rite of passage that comes with adulthood, the increase in responsibilities, and how to grow up properly and take control of your life.
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In today's episode, I talk about the spectacle of modern dating: how dating apps have destroyed people's brains, the commodification of romance, the social media spectacle and how to take charge of your dating life in 2026.
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The world is designed to steal your spirit and push you down. How can you prevent the world from stealing your spirit? In today's episode, I talk about asking questions, playing, and having hope for a better future.
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In today's episode, I talk about why the modern obsession with treating summer as a 90-day productivity bootcamp is completely ruining the most magical time of the year. It's so easy to fall into the trap of using the summer months strictly to optimize your future by endlessly grinding on a business or side hustle, but those aren't the summers you'll look back on fondly. Instead, I outline the formula for a renaissance summer and f...
In today's episode, I talk about why doing things with half effort is the quickest way to end up going absolutely nowhere. Instead of falling into the toxic self-improvement trap of trying to juggle a million different "priorities" at once, I explain why you need to pick a singular focus and go all in. We explore the core lesson from the book Essentialism about preserving your energy for what actually matters, and draw inspiration ...
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