Conversations with Toi

In Episode 2 we discuss the real of where I really am. We talk about mirrors in relationships; no entanglements. Also what about one way relationships? Does childhood trauma green light bad behavior?

Last episode we talked about mental health but what if they won't receive help? Who is responsible for personal mental help and happiness? Who's in charge? A happy wife is a happy life but what if the wife is just miserable?

Wedding Anniversary is this weekend and the tidbits learned has been empowering. Tamar is setting the record straight and holding onto to her premise that she wants to get out under the drama of reality television. Checking in-ways to get to the real issue and manage stress

We recap the week. We had a flood to our house this week. Life gets interesting. Home school on the horizon and helping parents through ad prep. Anniversary behavior was on a thousand.

We all have made excuses for our bad behavior one way or another. With that being said we talk about Tommcus Walker, husband of Letoya Luckett-Walker, Selah daughter of Lauryn Hill, and of our course where I have gone wrong in the past. Who should bear the brunt of our bad behavior?

How to stop and manage guilty feelings of cutting access to others who don't mean us well. We also talk about social media stories of Lil Boosie begging for his Instagram account, Tim Norman murder for hire plot, Kanye being Kanye...

We all have had times where we have had to work that job that didn't serve us. Although the job market is deplorable right now, leaving a job may not be in your best interest. I talk about the regret I felt not leaving a job sooner. Being loyal to a fault will cause a broader disrespect to yourself.

September is Self Improvement Month. We all have so much to get better at in every area. Owning it and being an active participator matters. We deal with relationships and what we attract. No sugar coating-call a spade, a spade.

Gaslighting often occurs when we trust individuals to protect the space in our lives.

We also remember September 11th may we continue to uphold those in our hearts.

Season 1 Finale. We will be back for Season 2 on Friday October 2!

We are Back for Season 2! We catch up on what's been happening the last two weeks. We talk about comparing ourselves to others. Its an awful way to live. Should I have squared up with ole girl or take the lesson and walk away?

A candid conversation about navigating your mental health. How do you deal when others know about your mental health issues or have used your mental health issues against you...

As promised I brought in my husband for a little he said/she said candid conversation on all things love and relationships. We talk about surviving Covid-19. We talk all things on relationships and learning about one another

In a world where self-care has become a multimillion dollar market, can you fail at it? Is working from a full cup more expensive or is it more expensive not to operate at your best capacity. Self care and mental health go together!

As we grow and mature we find ourselves at points where what we once wanted no longer serves us. Would you apologize to the ice-cream truck that there are no more tacos at Taco Bell? No?! Stop apologizing to folks who can't bring us joy or not meant for us!

I was paying attention long enough to buy toilet paper and not enough to know that a potential lock down is on the full horizon. I have had more panic attacks than a little bit

Social media round up-where do the miserable nap? Somebody grab they Pastor....John Gray out here apololizing (I spelled it correctly) again,

Celebrating 6 years of blogging and I talk about staying in my lane.

Thanksgiving is being served with a dose of Lockdown 2.0. The way in which we here in Philadelphia will be eating smaller meals as we aren't able to get together with loved ones.

We also talk about comedian Mo'Nique who says that the real reason she calls her husband "daddy" is because he is raising her

Anxiety Triggered this week and I am not sure if it had to do with the lockdown or just normal feelings all over the place.

Who starts Thanksgiving with Therapy? I do. It was helpful and necessary. I don't let any one shame me in needing therapy etc. So if you need it you better get it. We talk about the actual social distant day as well as the weekend plans to shop small, local, and minority owned.

Happy Thanksgiving and enjoy the weekend and time

Watched Iyanla Vanzant episode with Lisa Raye and I share my thoughts. What is the concept of Proverbs 31 woman is it just to be a stay at home wife or mother? Also holiday traditions and expectations....

We extend season 2 to support others during the start of seasonal depression. We talk about therapy and how vital it is to healing.

How would you deal with abandonment from your mother?