AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast)

AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast)

Danny Vega and friends read listener submissions, & pilfers from the AITA subreddit to discuss modern questions of morality, relationships, and juice (gossip). Why? To answer one simple question: am I the a**hole? Submit at reddit.com/r/aitapod

Episodes

March 23, 2026 51 mins
Our sponsor today: betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off online therapy

Folks, hope you guys had a great weekend. I'm joined by Sara for a great lil' ep. Much love!
(0:00) - Banter
(4:19) - AITA for lying to my husband about the best I ever had?
(13:07) - I've kept a secret account from my husband and it saved my marriage
(27:30) - AITA for telling mom about my sister's secret pregnancy?
(43:57) - AITA for having my own secret honey stash?



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Folks, I'm joined by Karla and Radu for this wild ride. Enjoy :) 

(0:00) - Banter 
(1:00) - Submish: AITA for asking a parent not to bring a baby into the adult pool? 
(13:02) - WIBTA if I was petty with repayment after having a limb amputated?
(31:31) - WIBTA for refusing to give money back after selling my car at a major discount to a family friend's son?
(42:12) - AI...
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Folks, I'm joined by the amazing Chandler Dean and Andy Our Brother. These guys asked me to have them on to promote their awesome show, ABOLISH EVERYTHING, a fantastic panel improv show that I think many of you will enjoy :) 
Please follow in Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abolisheverythingnyc/
And watch on Nebula: https://nebula.tv/abolish

(0:00) - Banter
(16:24) - Andy's classic game, r/improv or r/drugs
(25:37) - AITA for chang...
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Thank you for listening and a big welcome to all our new listeners! 

(0:00) - Shia la Beouf Banter 
(12:35) - AITA for wanting to split rent evenly with a couple?
(26:42) - AITA for not paying to have my GF's bday gift framed?
(40:32) - AITA for how I responded to my vday flowers? 
(51:59) - AITA for littering with fruit?

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(0:00) - Banter 
(27:31) - AITA for ruining my anniversary bc I asked to take a few selfies?
(40:30) - AITA for cancelling a second date after I saw her on a date?
(01:00:32) - AITa for declining to share my food at a restaurant?

BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/
Email - amitheahole@gmail.com 
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The sponsor today: betterhelp.com/aitapod for 10% off online therapy 
Happy mon mon hun huns. Enjoy the ep!
(0:00) - Banter
(10:14) - AITA for excluding the green texters?
(22:58) - AITA for always bumming my friends' vapes?
(34:11) - AITA for blocking my neighbor's car?
(48:31) - AITA for not washing my dish?

BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/
Email - amitheahole@gmail.com 
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I'm joined by Karla and Aaron for a fun episode! Enjoy folks <3



(0:00) - Banter
(12:43) - AITA for leaving the room whenever my boyfriend eats?
(22:08) - AITA for changing my niece's stripper name?
(31:26) - AITA for not wanting to look at my dad's bum?

BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/
Email - amitheahole@gmail.com 
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Joined today by ANDREA ALLAN. Andrea is one of my fave guests and it's wild bc i feel like this ep... we are both two grown ass adults. Happy mon mon hun huns!!!

(0:00) - Banter, lib woke stuff tbh may drag a little lol
(32:47) - My boyfriend is strangely obsessed with his cousin.
(47:32) - During sex, my GF asked me if I'd like to watch her f my friends?
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Thanks for listening and hope you enjoy the ep!!!

(0:00) - Banter
(19:33) - AITA for announcing my mom's death on facebook?
(30:13) - AITA for buying the same presents for my wife and my mom?
(42:16) - AIta for not liking polyamory?
(52:36) - AITA for taking my mask off when I knew I was sick?

BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/
Email - amitheahole@gmail.com 
Join Patreon! https://patreon.com/aitapod
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Folks, some years ago, I went to Tampa, Florida to do stand-up comedy. A listener showed up with a hand-crocheted duck, aka Ducky Vega. She said we had spoken before, that she wasn't a huge fan of my commentary regarding "replacing dogs." Yet, here she was, having driven 5 hours just to see me bomb. LIfe is fascinating like that, right? WE LOVE CAT!!!

(0:00) - Banter
(6:21) - AITA for lying to my husband that I'm selling baby items n...
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FOLKS, I am super excited for this one. I am joined by a real life, heightened interpersonal conflict WARLOCK. His name: Joe Dillon. He is the mediator for his divorce mediation company (Equitable Mediation.com) that helps folks stay out of the courts and work things out more affordably (and affably too). I was transfixed with bro's insights ngl :D. This guy deescalate...
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folks im joined by Sara for a banger ep-a-roo. A little something EXTRA for you this week :) 


(0:00) - Banter
(10:30) - AITA for taking the arm rest that was rightfully mine? (Danny story)
(15:41) - AITA for freezing chicken?
(26:35) - AITA for offering my GF a gift not to get tattoos? 
(43:25) - My 30 F best friend 27 F asked me to stop stealing her identity.
(54:18) - AITA for bringing my own bed gear? 



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Happy mon mon hun huns. Hope you enjoy this ep :)

(0:00) - Banter
(8:01) - AITA for refusing to keep my phone on silent at all times?
(18:00) - AITA for not giving my vacation day to a coworker getting married?
(28:10) - AITA for kicking my mother out of my house over games?
(39:21) - AITA for not driving back after they messed up my wife's order?

BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/
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FOLKS, it's an amazing ep with a whole gang of mfs. Enjoy and have an amazing week :) 

(0:00) - banter
(9:18) - AITA boyfriend kicked me out of shower to poop?
(22:13) - AITA cat on me during a flight?
(34:17) - AITA for speaking up at a buffet? 
(43:44) - AITA for not wanting to watch Netflix with subtitles?


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FOLKS. This is a fun little ep with Sara and I hope you enjoy it :).

(0:00) - Banter / Sara gets attacked by Dentist Threads
(13:29) - AITA for suggesting my daughter skip a Hanukkah gift this year?
(23:08) - SUBMISH: AITA for being rude and judgmental about another country I visited?
(32:12) - How do I 35f tell 50m I no longer want to be friends after he frightened me?
(42:28) - AI...
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THE SPONSOR TODAY: Betterhelp.com/aitapod 10% off online therapy :) 
AITA lawyer, Trent Turk, https://ballewlaw.com/trent-turk/
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I'm joined by Mollie for an EPIC episode. Hope ya enjoy and happy 2026

(0:00) - Banter
(7:49) - Mollie asks AITA for saying 'sorry your cat died'?
(28:25) - AITA for telling my friend to deal w the consequences of disobeying girl code?
(41:25) - AITA for frying my friend's laptop after she snooped?
(55:14) - AI...
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I'm joined by MIA, an awesome listener and even better co-host!!! We love. Happy New Year :) 

(0:00) - Banter
(10:18) - AITA for letting a kid go home with his actual parent?
(25:02) - AITA for not paying for stepson's surgery bc of what he did? 
(37:44) -  AITA for calling my boyfriend pathetic?



BEST way to Submit a sitch or comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITApod/
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I'm joined by long time friends and married gems, Ashton and Brandon Weinberger (their dogs, Crispy and Potato were also with us) for an amazing ep. And all I can really ask is that you PLEASE don't return it :D

(0:00) - Banter/AITA for returning everything to Costco?
(11:12) - AITA for giving my kids unequal wedding gifts and honestly one gift sucked?
(25:34) - AITA for refusing a child-free couple on a family tour group?
(37:53) - AI...
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Folks, I am joined by Mollie and you know, I like this episode A LOT. Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and big joy to all ye who enter here. Much love!

(0:00) - Banter
(19:32) - AITA for telling my wife she was being difficult due to a seating issue at a restaurant?
(35:03) - AITA for never eating lunch with my colleagues?
(46:44) - AITA for wanting friend's mom to pay for our uber?


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We are almost to the holidays! Hope y'all have a great week. Much love :) Thanks for listening

(0:00) - Banter 
(10:02) - I finally tried therapy with my wife and holy $hift why didn't I do this sooner?
(21:16) - Banter Part 2
(28:09) - AITA for continuing a religious debate with a co-worker?
(41:17) - AITA for refusing to do my husband a favor even if I was capable of doing it? 
(51:03) - AITA for ruining Secret Santa?


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