The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
Stepfamilies and blended families are very challenging. With a failure rate of over 70%, it's clear that blended families need help. Nacho Kids founders and blended family coaches, Lori and David Sims, are here to help blended families save their sanity and relationships. You'll hear the hosts and guests discuss the struggles and successes of blended family life and learn how the Nacho Kids Method is changing lives and saving relationships around the world.
Episodes
In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David Sims address a post from their Facebook group about stepkids taking food and personal items, like mouthwash, that aren't theirs. They discuss practical, relationship-saving solutions, like lockboxes or separate fridges, clear communication with your partner, and non-confrontational ways to set household boundaries. The hosts share personal anecdotes...
Is It Still Their Home?
In this episode, Lori and David Sims discuss boundaries when it comes to the home. If the stepkid is there every other weekend, is it still considered their home? Are they able to come and get things without having to text or call first?
Lori and David kick things off with a lighthearted look at gifting the Nacho Kids book and workbook for holidays, and joke about trick-or-treaters gettin...
In this episode, Lori and David tackle a listener question about handling resentment from biological children when stepchildren follow different rules. They explain that this is common in blended families and share personal stories showing that different rules for different kids are sometimes necessary because of age, responsibility, and individual circumstances.
The hosts stress the importance of honest, ...
Are you struggling with jealousy, boundaries, or feeling left out as a stepparent?
In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, we dive deep into the real-life challenges of stepkid jealousy, whether it's your spouse always answering their kid's calls on vacation or gifts and attention feeling unfairly divided.
Learn why "Nachoing" works (and what it really means), the importance of healthy boundaries, a...
In this episode, Lori and David Sims reflect on their blended family journey, sharing personal stories about the unique challenges and evolving relationships with their stepkids. Listeners get a special inside look through an in-depth interview with Branson, one of the triplets, who opens up about his experience as a stepchild. Branson discusses the emotional rollercoaster of accepting a stepparent, from i...
In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David discuss the challenges and benefits of stepsibling relationships in blended families. They share personal experiences navigating concerns about stepkids being a "bad influence" or bullying bio kids, and how parental intervention (or lack thereof) can impact sibling bonding. Lori notes the importance of letting kids work through their own conflicts, ...
In this episode, Lori and David Sims discuss the powerful principle that "what you focus on will grow," especially within blended families. Through candid and humorous anecdotes, ranging from household chores to navigating stepfamily dynamics, they explore how focusing on the negatives (like dirty dishes or annoying habits) can cause frustration and resentment, while choosing to see the positives fosters a...
In this episode, we discuss the sensitive topic of cosleeping with stepkids in blended families. A key theme that emerged was the differing comfort levels and emotional reactions between bio parents and stepparents regarding children in their personal space or bed. The discussion explored feelings of unfairness when stepchildren are excluded from privileges allowed to biological children, as well as concer...
In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David discuss communication challenges between stepparents and bio parents, especially regarding parenting decisions and stepkids. The hosts share personal anecdotes about feeling defensive when their children are criticized, emphasizing that wording and approach make a significant difference in how such conversations are received.
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On this podcast, we discuss the challenges and humorous realities of planning family events in a blended and extended family setting. A key theme that emerged was the complexity of scheduling birthdays and gatherings to accommodate multiple family members, including ex-spouses, in-laws, and stepchildren, highlighting the potential for awkwardness, misunderstandings, and unintentional hurt feelings
<...In this episode, the Nacho Kids team discusses the upcoming release of the Nacho Kids book, available for Kindle pre-order and set to launch on September 16th - Stepfamily Day. The hosts highlight a moving story from their Nacho group about a stepparent who transformed her relationship with her stepkids using the Nacho Method, underscoring the importance of putting knowledge into action.
The conversation s...
In this episode, Lori and David share an inspiring success story from their Facebook group, highlighting how the Nacho Kids method helped transform a strained stepmom-stepdaughter relationship into a loving bond resulting in being asked to stand as "mother of the bride" at the stepdaughter's wedding. They discuss the importance of letting relationships develop naturally, utilizing strategies like the "gray...
In this episode, we discuss the complexities of blended families, emphasizing the unique challenges stepfamilies face compared to nuclear families. One concept discussed was the pressure for stepfamilies to function like traditional nuclear families, and how letting go of that expectation can relieve stress and improve dynamics. A key theme that emerged was the importance of the "soothing presence", an adu...
Lori and David dive into the unique challenges stepparents face in expressing honest feelings, especially compared to what's acceptable for biological parents. They share how phrases like "I need a break from my stepkids" or "sometimes I don't even like my stepkid" can spark criticism, even though similar comments about one's own kids are met with empathy. The conversation highlights double standards, soci...
In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David discuss a dilemma from their Facebook group about whether to include a troubled stepchild in a previously planned family cruise. The conversation explores the emotional, financial, and relational complexities of stepfamily vacations. Topics covered include the consequences of excluding the stepchild, potential resentment, whether vacations should be...
In this heartfelt episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori Sims welcomes guest Donna Kendrick, who shares her deeply personal story of loss, resilience, and blending families. Raised in Philadelphia, Donna Kendrick describes her journey from being married to a Philadelphia police officer, living abroad as a family, and navigating the aftermath of her husband's tragic taking of his own life after their retur...
In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David broadcast live from the beach, sharing personal stories and hard-learned lessons about stepfamily vacations. They discuss the logistical and emotional challenges of blending five boys with different interests, from budgeting for group activities to navigating restaurant seating. The hosts reflect on the importance of flexibility, managing expectatio...
This episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast dives into the realities of publishing the upcoming Nacho Kids book and unpacks common misconceptions about the Nacho Parenting method. The conversation focuses on the emotional journey behind writing and editing, clarifies what "nacho" means in step-parenting, and discusses the nuanced paths toward building healthier relationships within blended families. Listeners w...
In this heartfelt episode, Lori talks with California Stepmom, who shares her decade-long journey as a stepmom in a blend with no biological or "ours" kids of her own, but with plenty of lessons learned and emotional ups and downs. California Stepmom discusses her initial excitement entering stepfamily life, the unexpected challenges she faced, particularly from toxic ex-spouse dynamics and loyalty binds, ...
In this heartfelt episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, David Sims and Lori Sims are joined by Erin and Jason Mencer to share their remarkable journey as a blended family. Married, divorced, and then remarried, Erin and Jason open up about the realities of stepfamily life, including challenges, personal growth, and what it truly takes to make a blended family work.
Hear how expectations, family dynamics, and ...
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