The Openlove101 Show
This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we’re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.
Episodes
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they discuss the journey from curiosity to confidence in open relationships and the swinger lifestyle. Drawing from their 20+ years of experience running colette Swingers Clubs, they share valuable insights on how couples navigate their first steps into consensual non-monogamy.
In this episode, John shares a powerful paragliding analogy about overcoming fear through action, while Jackie discuss...
In this heartfelt episode, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive deep into the emotional side of open relationships—exploring the joys, challenges, and growth that come from forming emotional connections beyond a primary partner.
They share how maintaining friendships, embracing vulnerability, and communicating openly can actually strengthen the bond between partners. Jackie discusses how love isn't finite, and John reflects o...
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they dive into the fascinating world of consensual non-monogamy and explore why there's no standard set of rules in the lifestyle. In this eye-opening discussion, they break down how boundaries differ from couple to couple and why respecting those differences is crucial to positive experiences in the swinger community.
🔑 Key Topics Covered:
- 00:00 - Introd...
In this powerful episode, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com open up about the challenges of living authentically in a world that often stigmatizes non-traditional relationships. Reflecting on their experiences in the swinger and open relationship community, they address the pressures to hide one's identity due to societal norms, family expectations, and professional consequences.
They draw thoughtful parallels to other visibili...
In this intimate and revealing episode of the Open Love 101 podcast, hosts John and Jackie Melfi discuss a pivotal milestone in consensual non-monogamy relationships: the moment of realizing you're comfortable seeing your partner with someone else. Jackie shares her surprising journey from traditional monogamy to embracing open relationships, including her unexpected reaction to first seeing John with another person through a video...
In this candid episode, John and Jackie shift the conversation to something couples don’t always talk about openly: the challenges of swinging and open relationships. While many episodes highlight the benefits, this one explores the obstacles—and wh...
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi of OpenLove101 as they discuss how they've broken traditional boundaries in non-monogamous relationships! In this candid episode, they share their experiences being "out and proud" about their lifestyle, how openness creates unexpected connections, and why their approach to relationships with play partners differs from typical swinger dynamics.
🎙️ Episode Highlights:
• 00:00 - Intro to the Open L...
Fear and jealousy are natural—but how you handle them can make or break your relationship. In this heartfelt video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com explore the emotional challenges that can arise in the swinging lifestyle and how honest communication and vulnerability can turn those moments into opportunities for deeper trust and connection. Drawing from personal stories, they show how facing insecurities together strengthens ...
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they explore the often overlooked non-sexual benefits of consensual non-monogamous relationships! After receiving feedback that a previous video focused too much on the sexual aspects, they dedicate this episode to discussing how open relationships have strengthened their bond beyond the bedroom.
Discover how open communication, deep trust, and radical honesty have created a foundation for their...
How do you set healthy boundaries in a swinger or open relationship? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share practical advice for navigating boundaries—especially for newcomers exploring the lifestyle.
They discuss why observing before participating can be helpful, how boundaries should evolve over time, and the importance of not using them to control your partner. With a focus on open communication, mutual respe...
In this enlightening episode of the OpenLove101 podcast, hosts John and Jackie Melfi address a thought-provoking question from a viewer about managing emotions as an external play partner in an open relationship. With their 20+ years of combined experience in open relationships, they offer valuable insights on maintaining boundaries while acknowledging natural human emotions.
The hosts discuss the challenges of a play partner who ...
How Swinging Strengthened Our Trust & Emotional Connection | John & Jackie | OpenLove101
Can swinging lead to more emotional intimacy? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share how their open relationship has created a deeper sense of honesty, trust, and personal growth.
Unlike traditional monogamous relationships where conversations about outside attraction are often avoided, John and Jackie embrace openness—crea...
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind Colette Swingers Clubs and the award-winning blog OpenLove101.com, as they discuss common misconceptions about consensual non-monogamy. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, John and Jackie tackle the judgmental statements and questions they hear repeatedly.
In this episode, they address myths like "that is disgusting," ...
Being in the lifestyle doesn’t mean consent is automatic. In this important video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive deep into the vital role of consent within the swinging community—especially in environments like swinger clubs and parties.
They address common misconceptions, share real experiences, and emphasize that clear communication, mutual respect, and the ability to say “no” at any time are essential. From using sa...
Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi from openlove101.com as they discuss common misconceptions about consensual non-monogamy and the stigmas they face as a swinger couple. In this enlightening conversation, they address the funny and sometimes frustrating questions they receive from "vanilla" friends, from concerns about hitting on partners to fears of association.
The Melfis share their experiences of educating curious strangers, d...
Can emotional connections exist without threatening your primary relationship? In this thought-provoking video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com explore the emotional side of swinging—and how trust, communication, and an open mindset can make all the difference.
They share personal experiences, debunk common fears, and discuss how societal norms around monogamy shape our views on love, attachment, and fidelity. Whether you swi...
In this playful and eye-opening episode, John and Jackie dive into the world of fantasy roleplay — a powerful tool for connection, communication, and confidence within relationships. Whether you’re new to consensual non-monogamy or simply looking to spice up your intimacy, roleplay offers a safe, creative space to explore fantasies together.
From costumes and card games to themed nights at clubs like colette, John and Jackie reveal...
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In this candid and compassionate episode, hosts John and Jackie explore how couples in consensual non-monogamous relationships can navigate major fights and moments of emotional turbulence. They answer a viewer’s heartfelt question about whether a serious fight means the lifestyle “isn’t right” for them — and reveal why the opposite is often true.
Drawing from over two decades of experience, John and Jackie explain that conflict i...
How to Create a Great Profile on Adult Social Sites | John & Jackie | OpenLove101
Looking to connect with like-minded people in the open or swinging lifestyle? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share their top tips for creating an honest, attractive, and successful profile on adult social sites like SDC, SLS, and Cassidy.
They cover everything from choosing the right photos and being clear about your desires to ...
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