The Unapologetic Man Podcast

One of the primary reasons why men struggle with women is because we use logic to try and appeal to them. Surely by giving her everything she wants and being a good boy, she’s going to fall in love with me, right?

Nothing could be further from the truth, when you over-supplicate and confirm to a woman, she ends up losing both respect and attraction for you. All you will do is turn into someone you are not and end up miserable for i...

As a Neuro-Linguistic Programming Specialist, Mark is the only dating coach who’s able to systematically eliminate negative meta-programs, archetypes, and schemas that are preventing you from reaching your full potential both in life and with women.

But NLP is not a commonly used technique among dating coaches which sparks a lot of curiosity from people who want to understand how this whole thing really works.

So in today’s special...

We’ve all experienced that moment of crippling self-doubt before approaching a woman. What if she laughs at me? What if her friends laugh at me? What if Channel 4 news broadcasts a story on how badly I embarrassed myself in front of a beautiful woman?

The reality is that approach anxiety is hardwired into our DNA as a protection mechanism. But by understanding where anxiety comes from and what it means, you can demystify and actual...

There is an intrinsic link between core masculine virtues and having women find you attractive.

No matter how much game you study, or how many pickup lines you memorize, if you are not fundamentally a masculine man, women aren’t going to feel that base-level desire to be near you.

This is a fundamental that so many guys miss, they study game before having grown into a truly masculine man. So to set the record straight, Mark’s takin...

A lot of time is spent on the Unapologetic Man Podcast teaching you to how handle women while they try to test and frame-check you.

But something you’re also going to have to deal with out in the nightclubs and bars is other men trying to out-Alpha you. They’re going to try and flex up on you to look superior and get women's attention.

But you’re an Unapologetic Man, you’re not going to stand for that, you need to put these would-b...

During any interaction with a woman, the burden of performance is on you to keep yourself in the masculine position.

Many guys relinquish this position without even realizing it by submitting to women's requests. While a woman asking for a favor is not necessarily an implicit frame test, being too quick to perform favors at a woman's request will make her think she’s got control over you.

But you can’t just simply refuse to do favo...

Something you MUST learn to deal with if you want to become good with women is frame checks.

These are essentially a way for women to test how secure you are as a man. They’ll make comments about your clothes, question why you are doing something, or give you small, seemingly unnecessary criticisms.

Most women aren’t even aware they do this, but it’s part of their biological wiring to test for cracks in your armor to see if you are...

The importance of simply feeling good as you move through life cannot be overstated. Maintaining good energy, or good vibrations, will permeate out into every aspect of your day and objectively improve almost every facet of your life. Especially when it comes to your interactions with women!

But, life’s hard sometimes, there’s no way around it. So it’s not always easy to maintain good vibrations amidst the inevitable downturns life...

In the early stages of talking to a woman, you’re probably trying to make a connection, get her into her emotions, and to open up with you.

While these are all good things, a common trap guys find themselves stuck in is becoming the person she uses to complain and download all her issues onto.

Not only is it miserable to hang out with someone who constantly complains, but if you become her emotional tampon she’s going to associate ...

While we’re all working hard to increase our value as men and learn the skill set required to attract the hottest women possible, it’s all too easy to fall into the trap of thinking that just because a woman isn’t literal perfection, you should blow her out and try to get someone better.

The reality is we’re humans, and just as you are not perfect, no woman is ever going to be completely perfect either. We have to strike a balance ...

While theory, game, and pickup tips are great topics to learn about, they will only get you so far. This causes many guys get stuck in this limbo where they endlessly educate themselves without putting everything into practice and getting that real-world experience.

To effectively get good with women, which is a pre-requisite to getting the girl of your dreams, you need to take ACTION.

That’s why in today’s episode Mark’s going to ...

Guys sometimes find themselves getting blown out by women and they just can’t figure why. They were charismatic and funny, they implemented all the highly effective attraction-building techniques taught on The Unapologetic Man Podcast such as push/pull and the 80/100 rule, but to no avail. What gives?

While it is true that your behavior and frame are the biggest factors in building attraction, you still need to meet the basic requi...

The female mind is a complex and multifaceted machine that observes everything about your behavior including tonality, body language, and confidence which is then used to calculate whether you are attractive or not.

Women don’t consciously think about this, it’s just in their nature to observe and assess how much of an alpha you are. It’s our job as men to make sure we demonstrate, in as many ways as possible, that we are champions...

The importance of exercise, building muscle, and maintaining healthy body fat levels cannot be overstated. The benefits are insurmountable, from increasing your lifespan and testosterone levels to improving your mood and emotional wellbeing. PLUS, we all know women strongly desire a man with an incredible body.

But with so much fluff and broscience out there from fitness influencers, it’s easy to get lost in the sea of contradictor...

It’s only natural that women have some wariness and apprehension when a dashing unapologetic silverback such as yourself approaches them. They want to make sure they are safe and can be comfortable around you.

The problem is most guys lack that ability to power through her initial coldness and present themselves as so relaxed and likable that she can’t help but get attracted to you.

The good news is Mark has a bulletproof technique...

Life is not about always being perfect; it's about the evolution from someone who is imperfect and highly flawed into someone who operates from virtue and love.

Many of us, at one time or another, have been takers, only looking at what we can get out of a situation. And this is okay. Addressing our egoic idiot behavior and embracing love and compassion is part of the journey and isn't something to be sidestepped.

In today's episode...

For women, being labeled as promiscuous can have huge ramifications on their reputation and social status. As such most women will try to avoid such stigma by employing their ‘slut defense mechanism’ in which they will try to resist or downplay their sexual desire for you.

Less experienced men might misinterpret this as her not being into you, but nothing could be further from the truth. It’s simply your job to make her feel comfor...

There’s no singular trick you can learn to get women, it’s a multi-faceted approach of needing social intelligence, game, and frame control, all of which is underpinned by absolute confidence in yourself and truly believing you are a champion.

Today’s mind-bending episode delves into the realm of quantum physics and how simply choosing to perceive yourself in a particular way will actually affect your reality in real-time, also kno...

Heartbreak is one of the worst feelings men can suffer. The person who was once your entire world now seems to not care at all and you don’t even fully understand why she suddenly changed on you.

Your instincts are probably to beg for her back. Maybe by sending her 500 messages a day telling her that you can’t live without her, she’s surely going to realize you’re the one for her, right?

Sorry brother, it doesn’t work like that, an...