We're Having Gay Sex

We're Having Gay Sex

After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4 Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy

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September 1, 2025 68 mins
This episode answers an age-old queer question, listener! Kimia Behpoornia is a comedian, actor, and improv MASTER that has been cracking you up on hit shows like Dropout and Abbott Elementary, but today she’s in the apartment to take a crack at the classic sapphic conundrum: what do you do when your in love with your BFF?! We discuss courting, dating, and eventually marrying your childhood best friend; the painful process of comin...
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This episode is in a bold new era, listener! Hilarious stand-up comedian and fan-favorite Ali Kolbert RETURNS to the apartment for a duo episode, but this is the only girl-on-girl action she’s gettin’ because she is in her “straight girl” era! We discuss embracing the benefits that come with being newly single, strapping for the first time, exploring threesomes with women (and men), the Hunting Wives, and we debut the inaugural WHG...
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This episode is a BIG ONE, listener! G Flip is an award-winning singer, songwriter, multi-instrumentalist, and one of your favorite working queer musicians, but today they’re in the apartment to become one of your favorite LOVERS! We discuss having yearly weddings with your life partner, getting started in music, writing songs from a queer perspective, and dreaming about your teeth falling out. Ashley wants to be abused. Lizzy is w...
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This episode is informative & hilarious, listener! Queer & trans sex educator Eva Bloom RETURNS to the apartment after many years to blow our minds with some knowledge, because we needed a break from blowin’ LOADS. We discuss late bloomers & coming out later in life, how to make moves on your crush, queer line dancing, and your girlfriend going to the emergency room after eating glass in her tofu. Ashley witnesses an epic rejection...
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This episode is relentlessly smooching, listener! Hilarious stand up comedian Robin Tran RETURNS to the podcast, and this time she’s in the apartment to teach us the most intense and freaky kink that exists in the bedroom: LOVE! We discuss kissing & intimacy kink, discovering your pansexuality, the ease of making positive changes in your life, and Asian earwax. Ashley finds the fire in her loins. Maddie’s rabbit comes out as bisexu...
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This episode is gossip-filled, listener! It’s a catch-up today as beloved actor, content creator, and friend Breanne Williamson returns to the apartment, and in typical WHGS fashion, we go in-depth into the most popular queer reality TV show a month after everyone already forgot about it! We gossip about the newest season of The Ultimatum: Queer Love, making art, finding validation in the modern media landscape, and getting dunked ...
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This episode is gettin’ wet, listener! Actor, comedian, and content creator Georgia Bridgers returns to the podcast for the 5TH TIME, and today she’s in the apartment to tell us the tale of a petulant little SQUIRT, if you catch our drift! We discuss comphet, finding your orgasm, going to the doctor after mistaking your squirting for a kidney issue, and how pilates is for the people. Ashley is caught messing around in 4k. Maddie is...
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This episode is challenging gender, listener! Brenna Jordan is an ICONIC trans content creator and comedian making her return to the internet, but today she’s making a return to the apartment to get wet and loose! We discuss adjusting to life a few years into transitioning, finding meaning beyond your trans identity, dating men safely in a world filled with gross fetishists, and the most trans thing ever: the Meisner Technique. Ash...
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This episode is disabled and proud, listener! Tina Friml (Comedy Central, The Tonight Show) is an incredible stand up comedian and writer with cerebral palsy that has been taking the internet by storm, but today she’s in the apartment GIVING the internet some TIPS on banging in the world of disabilities! We discuss dating with disabilities and its in’s and out’s, managing social anxieties around your disability, how male gaze affec...
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This episode is chaos, listener! We have the return of fan-favorite Steph Tolev, one of today's best working stand-ups and actors with a NEW Netflix special out, “Filth Queen,” but today she’s in the apartment to undo her straight conversion therapy! We discuss being sucked out of the lesbian dating pool by a gorgeous man, maintaining a positive body image in the internet age, living life as a boy-girl, and freaking out at your gir...
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GET LIZZY TO 10K, LISTENER! It’s free and it actually really helps her career: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/. You’ve been asking, so we’re delivering… It’s a FAMILY EPISODE today, listener, and our dear co-hosts and stand up comedians Maddie Wiener and Lizzy Cassidy are coming together to drive this apartment to RIFF CITY! It’s the gay virgin and the bi-with-a-boyfriend CLASHING, and we may not survive the collision of th...
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This episode is thriving after chaos, listener! Fan-favorite Ali Kolbert is a fantastic stand up comedian, writer, actress, and dear friend of the show, and today she’s coming back onto it to tell us about life after one of the CRAZIEST breakups that you’ve ever heard. It’s a DUO episode today because all co-hosts were on tour, and we discuss Ali’s insane breakup, untangling your mind after gaslighting, reclaiming your agency, and ...
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This episode is a lady killer, listener! Jared Freid is an amazing stand-up comedian, podcaster, and certified bachelor, and today he’s in the apartment for some gay-straight cultural exchange to give you tips for dating women that only a straight man could know! In addition, hilarious stand-up comedian Lizzy Cassidy joins us as temporary co-host while Maddie is out of town! We discuss the secrets to pursuit, how to plan a perfect ...
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This episode is an ALL-TIMER, gamers! Ashly Burch is an amazing writer and voice actor who has voiced some of your favorite video game characters, but today we are in the apartment NOT having sex with ANYBODY because this episode is all about playing video games! We discuss queer representation in video games, growing up as a gamer, the absolutely sickening specifics of Final Fantasy, and knowing about all of these topics intimatel...
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This episode is bustin’ a move, listener! Josh Sharp is an iconic actor, writer, and comedian behind A24’s hit movie “Dicks: The Musical,” but today he’s in the apartment for a no-pants dance! In addition, hilarious stand-up comedian Lizzy Cassidy joins us as temporary co-host while Maddie is out of town! We discuss the phenomenon of line dancing in the sapphic world, why it has become so popular, the joys it brings, and the reject...
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This episode is bisexual as heck, listener! Emily Wilson is an amazing comedian, writer, and actor who was nominated for “Best Newcomer” at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, but today she’s in the apartment to be nominated for “Best CUMMER” with the LADIES! In addition, we are joined by the hilarious and whip-smart comedian Lizzy Cassidy while Maddie is out sick. We discuss maintaining your bisexuality in a long-term cishet relationsh...
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This episode is confident, listener! Jared Goldstein (Black Mirror, The Unicorn, JFL) is a one-of-a-kind comedian, actor, and podcaster that will have you rolling around on the floor laughing, but today he’s in the apartment to roll around UNDER THE SHEETS! In addition, we are joined by comedian and queerbaiting girlie Yvette Segan as temporary co-host while Maddie is on tour! We discuss getting nervous in queer flirting, creative ...
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This episode is discovering itself, listener! Alaire Thomas is your favorite queer content creator that has been taking the internet by STORM, but today she’s in the apartment to do some taking of your GAY VIRGINITY! We discuss compulsory heterosexuality and its effects on the coming out process, building confidence to hit on women, leather jackets and their effect on getting you laid, and if it's remotely possible to be polyamorou...
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(TW // racism/domestic violence; skip 33:46 - 35:17 & 53:18 - 55:26 to avoid) This episode is a dialogue, listener! Sienna Hubert-Ross is a hilarious stand up comedian, content creator, actor, and writer who you’ve seen all over your TikTok feed, but today she’s in the apartment to be all over your BODY! In a unique episode, we are also joined by her best friend, comedy club manager, and secret lover Mae Neil in lieu of a co host. ...
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(TW // SA; skip 43:05 - 56:40 to avoid) This episode is QUESTIONING, listener! Yvette Segan is a hilarious stand up comedian, content creator, and producer who performs in comedy clubs across the U.S., but today she’s in the apartment because she’s having some “performance anxiety” around women, IF YOU CATCH OUR DRIFT! We discuss questioning if you’re bisexual despite all signs suggesting that you definitely are, sexual trauma and ...
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