Dating in the Bae

Have you had your red dress moment? Kimmy can help you out with that!

In this episode of Dating in the Bae, Becca talks to dating expert, confidence coach, therapist, and stylist Kimmy Seltzer, who is also the host of The Charisma Quotient Podcast. 

Kimmy tells us the story of how she went from having a traditional picket-fence life to divorcing and rediscovering herself. She believes in working on your confidence from the outside in...

Is your subconscious sabotaging your dating life? You need to try shadow work!

In this episode of Dating in the Bae, Becca talks to Sarah Cohan, host of the Lit AF podcast, a hilarious podcast about personal growth. Sarah is super fun and fresh, plus she also lives in San Francisco! Join in and listen to Sarah and Becca’s conversation about shadow work, limiting beliefs, and how to overcome those to find a partner and call in money!...

The Washington Post’s dating and relationships reporter, Lisa Bonos, is a special guest on this week’s episode of Dating in the Bae.  Lisa shares how she landed this dream job, dishes on her current dating life in San Francisco, and shares the best advice she has ever received. Plus, she shares her favorite questions to ask when writing a story and whether being a dating reporter scares men off or lures them in! 

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Life is hard for two reasons, either because you are staying in your comfort zone or because you are leaving it. Which one do you choose?

In this episode of Dating in the Bae, our girl Becca talks to dating coach, entrepreneur, and HR at Tinder, Janel Abrahami. Janel was unemployed during the pandemic but don’t worry, it turned out to be a blessing in disguise! She pivoted her own career, got a new awesome job, and is now building h...

Would you rather be naked at work or a mile from home? Definitely neither, especially if you work in government!

On today’s episode of Dating in the Bae, Becca talks to her favorite Canadian duo, Jac and KT from 2Girls1Broadcast. The girls get up to speed on their current relationship status, and how they just bought a house together! (If that is not real friendship, we don’t know what is.) Also, they discuss what it means to be an ...

Is a gorgeous man holding his dog while promising true love too good to be true? Maybe so!

On this episode of Dating in the Bae, Becca is joined by the saucy and adventurous Michele Musy. Michele is the author of the book LoveCapades and she’s a single woman in her 70’s looking for love. Join us in this conversation and listen to Michele’s experience with online dating. Is it the same for 70-year-olds as it is for thirty or twenty-y...

In this episode of Dating in the Bae, Becca kicks it off with the week’s question, “Can someone ghost you before even meeting you?” Plus, she shares a substantive conversation with dating author Jon Birger. Jon tells us his story as a writer and how one core question pushed him from being an oil and gas journalist to diving into the love and dating world: Why do fabulous women in their late twenties, thirties, and forties have such...

It’s egg freezing week here at Dating in the Bae! In this episode, Becca talks to Fertility specialist and Board-certified OB/GYN Dr. Temeka Zore, about the world of egg freezing. What is the perfect age to freeze those eggs? What’s the process like? Will it make my hormone levels crazy? As Dr. Zore puts it, egg freezing is about giving women options after they decide to delay childbearing and making them feel cared for throughout ...

Our amazing in-house planet and star guru is back! In this episode of Dating in the Bae, we invite astrologer Tara Nichols for the third time on the show to talk about what the rest of the year has in store for us and how we can use our good vibe and alignment to move forward. Time to put our big girl pants on because there will be a LOT going on! From getting back into our bodies and grounding our energy, to extensive inner work a...

Let’ try something different! After many episodes featuring amazing guests, Becca tries something new and exciting: a solo episode. That’s right, on this episode of Dating in The Bae, our host shares her 5 golden tips for dating; everything from texting to getting to the date with a positive mindset and radiant energy. Plus, Becca’s closing dating hack; exactly what you should do when you feel like someone is going to cancel on you...

We are back! After a short Spring break in the bae, Becca is back! In this episode of Dating in the Bae, Becca chats with Hinge’s behavioral scientist, Logan Ury, about her new book, How Not To Die Alone. Plus, Logan shares all her dating knowledge through years of observing, studying and writing about love. 

What are the 3 types of daters? How many people should you date before settling down? Is love at first even sight a real thin...

Dating + Peloton: a love story for the ages! But seriously, who knew there would be so many parallels?! Dating is supposed to be fun, just like Becca’s brand new addiction to the Peloton world. It's all about that mindset and doing what makes you happy!

And since we are all about self-care, Becca is taking a much-needed three week spring break; fear not, new episodes will resume in a few short weeks!

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Spoiler alert: you’ll never regret being single. Today we’re embracing all things mindset! If  you’re single, you’re in for a treat! Gather all that you can --  new experiences, new people, new restaurants and bars and new life skills! The world is your oyster, so let’s make this whole dating journey fun and joyful for ourselves! 

In today’s episode, Becca from the Bay chats with Case Kenny from Chicago. Case is the author of “Singl...

Do you know what’s worse than being single? Finding what you want and self-sabotaging. 10/10 do not recommend. In today’s episode of Dating in the Bae, we have Michelle Russo, host of the Sunday Scaries Show and our first three-time returning guest. Join us to talk about very spooky topics: ghosts, marriage, fake people, and shooting your shot.  

Is there such a thing as a good ghost? Is Michelle’s Missouri town over a cemetery? Joi...

When dating, it is possible we’ve all been in a “pick me” mindset, and even though it is very common, life gets so much easier and enjoyable when we break free from this syndrome. In today’s episode, Becca is joined by a previous Dating in the Bae guest, Kathryn Ely, founder of Imperfect Thriving, to have an enlightening discussion around confidence, healthy boundaries and the most important pillar of self love: knowing what you wa...

Are you an absolute star in what you do? Today’s guest, Sara K. Runnels, knows exactly what it is like to be her most confident, authentic and badass self. Sara is currently living her best life in Seattle and doing what she loves most! Sara is a successful copywriter, and she’s a humor writer and meme queen machine on Twitter and Instagram!  Join Becca and Sara as they talk about their shared love for Paul Rudd and all things dati...

Are men really intimidated by successful women? How come all these Instagram people are suddenly getting engaged and pregnant during the pandemic? In today’s episode of Dating in the Bae, Becca shifts location to Philadelphia, the current home of food blogger and Ph.D. student, Sarah. Becca and Sarah chat about her experience with men as a successful woman, some crazy dating stories, and the differences between going out in DC, NY,...

Have you ever stopped to think how radical self love looks and feels like? In today’s episode, Becca is joined by Love InSight Founder, Marie Thouin, to have a juicy talk about mindful dating. If you thought mindfulness was exclusive to spirituality, think again, as you can spice up your dating life by merging it with Marie’s approach! Don’t miss this incredible episode, you will not want to miss Marie’s tips and tricks to understa...

COVID and remote dating has certainly made searching for love a little bit harder than what we’re used to, but it doesn’t have to be that way! It only takes a fresh and fun mindset to build stronger connections. In this episode, Becca sits down with Nasya Miller, coach and founder of Wide Open Spaces, to chat about the importance of replacing judgement for curiosity, the role of vulnerability, and how the right questions can light ...