The Renew Your Mind Podcast

The Renew Your Mind Podcast

The Renew Your Mind Podcast, hosted by Diana Swillinger, shares how to examine your thoughts, understand how they influence your emotions, and start managing them to better your relationships, life, and faith. Transform your life by the renewing of your mind.

Episodes

January 21, 2026 46 mins

In this episode, you'll hear a real coaching session with guest Miles Carmichael as he works through self-doubt and hesitation around stepping into his passion and joining the Renew Your Mind Institute Coach Certification Program. We talk honestly about the fears that come up when you feel called to something meaningful but your mind starts offering reasons to stay safe. This conversation shows what it looks like to gently question...

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In this episode, I'm joined by life coaches and friends Zach Spafford and Joey Mascio for an honest conversation about why they became coaches and what drew them into the mind renewal space. We talk about why we need more male coaches, especially in work that helps people understand their thoughts, emotions, and choices. Zach and Joey share how men bring clarity, steadiness, and powerful perspective to coaching in a way that deeply...

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January 6, 2026 35 mins

In this episode, I coach a client who wants to start her own career and business, but keeps getting stopped by thoughts about money, rejection, and "what if it doesn't work." You'll hear how we unpack these fears, separate real decisions from imagined outcomes, and help her move forward without needing certainty or confidence first. If your brain is holding you back while telling you it's just being realistic, ...

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December 30, 2025 19 mins

This episode is a reminder that now—not someday—is the perfect time to invest in you, because waiting for life to calm down only keeps you stuck. You'll hear why renewing your mind is the most powerful, practical way to change how you feel, how you show up, and what you create in your life, without needing a dramatic overhaul. As the new year begins, this conversation invites you to stop abandoning yourself, take responsibility for...

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December 23, 2025 11 mins

This holiday episode is your invitation to let go of managing, fixing, and performing—and simply be present this Christmas. We'll talk about releasing the pressure to make the day meaningful or perfect, and how real peace comes from allowing the moment, the people, and your emotions to be exactly as they are. If you want a calmer, more grounded holiday experience, this episode will help you choose presence over pressure.

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December 17, 2025 17 mins

As we head into the holidays, this episode is a reminder that peace doesn't come from managing conversations, situations, or people—it comes from letting go of the urge to fix. We'll talk about why fixing feels so urgent for helpers, fixers, and people pleasers, and how that urgency is often about escaping our own discomfort rather than truly caring. If you're feeling drained, over-responsible, or disconnected from yourself, this e...

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December 9, 2025 20 mins

Drama doesn't have to pull you in, and today Diana shows you how to stay centered when others get reactive or emotional. You'll learn how to be present, loving, and supportive without absorbing chaos or losing your own grounding. Walk away with a clear mindset and practical tools you can use in any challenging moment—holiday gatherings included.

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December 2, 2025 17 mins

If you've ever felt responsible for solving other people's problems, this episode is for you. Diana teaches how to stop giving unwanted advice and start offering presence, curiosity, and compassion instead. Learn how to hold space without carrying the burden of fixing anyone.

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November 25, 2025 13 mins

In this Coffee Thought, Diana reflects on what it really means to "live in the moment," especially when the past is gone, the future doesn't exist yet, and tomorrow never actually arrives. She invites you to consider the truth that the only thing we ever have is this moment—this breath, this experience, this now. And if that's true, what would change if we chose to fill each moment with gratitude...

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November 18, 2025 32 mins

In this coaching session episode, Diana helps a client unravel the fear of judgment that has been stopping her from creating YouTube videos and sharing her gifts. Together, they uncover how imagined criticism can shut down creativity and keep us playing small. Listen in as Diana guides her toward grounded confidence, self-trust, and the freedom to show up boldly—no matter what anyone else might think.

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In this real coaching session, Diana helps Erin process the deep emotions that come from not being able to see her new grandson and navigating a complicated relationship with her adult son. Together, they explore how to make sense of what doesn't make sense, release what's out of her control, and focus on what she can take responsibility for—herself. This episode offers a powerful reminder that ...

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In this coaching session, Diana helps client, Julie Shanks Howard, uncover why her confidence has been tied to the approval of others. Together, they explore how years of self-doubt and people-pleasing have shaped her sense of worth—and how her new relationship is stirring up those old patterns. Listen in as Julie begins the powerful work of creating confidence from within, learning to see her value as steady, strong, and entirely ...

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In this coaching session, I help a teacher and coaching client, Becca McBride, discover how to walk into the classroom with genuine confidence — not the kind that depends on perfect lessons or student results. We explore where real confidence comes from and how to access it no matter what's happening around you. If you ever feel like your worth comes from performance, this episode will set you free.

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Sometimes people are wrong about you — and sometimes, they're right. In this bonus episode, Diana explores what it means to stay humble and secure enough to hear truth from others without shame or defensiveness. Learn how being teachable and confident in your worth can turn even uncomfortable feedback into an opportunity for growth and deeper connection.

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When people are wrong about you, it can stir up anger, defensiveness, or deep hurt. In this bonus episode, we'll talk about how to stay grounded and peaceful even when others misunderstand or misjudge you. You'll learn how to let go of the need to prove yourself and trust the truth that you already know who you are.

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October 14, 2025 18 mins

So many women have asked me to create something to finally break free from people pleasing—and I did. In this episode, I share real stories, client emails, and a powerful testimonial that reveal why we stay stuck trying to keep everyone else happy and what it takes to stop. You'll hear the heart behind The People Pleasing Cure and how this six-week journey can help you find real peace, confidence, and freedom.

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October 7, 2025 27 mins

Many people-pleasers think they just hate conflict, but sometimes the real fear is peace itself. In this episode, Diana explores how chaos can feel familiar—and why calm can feel unsafe—when your nervous system has learned to equate busyness with safety. You'll learn how to retrain your brain and body to experience peace as something steady, safe, and deeply good.

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September 30, 2025 17 mins

I used to think I wasn't a people pleaser because I said no all the time—but I later realized I was still bending over backwards for certain people. People pleasing isn't always obvious; it can hide under good intentions, over-functioning, and quietly abandoning yourself to keep others comfortable. In this episode, I share how to spot the subtle ways it shows up and the first steps toward getting your life back!

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September 23, 2025 45 mins

In this episode, I coach Shonni through the pain of difficult family relationships and the deep emotions that come with them—grief, sadness, overwhelm, and fear. Together we uncover how her anxiety, thought patterns, and people-pleasing tendencies are shaping the way she relates to her adult daughter. You'll hear how we begin to shift her perspective toward finding confidence, bringing the love, and embodying a...

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September 17, 2025 20 mins

Being seen is a powerful human need that grounds us, heals us, and reminds us we matter. In this episode, I share how chasing approval through people pleasing leaves us invisible, and how learning to truly see ourselves changes everything. When we see ourselves first, we show up more authentically, connect more deeply, and finally feel the belonging we've been craving.

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