So Here's The Thang

Welcome byke, ya'll! The SHTT crew has created an impactful episode we hope you'll enjoy. 

We start with announcements about changes to the show to lay the foundation for your listening ears in the new season of SHTT. We always say life is about swift and consistent transition, which often means change, so we're hopeful you'll enjoy growing with us this season. 

We introduced our first new segment, Wellness Check, w...

That's a wrap! Thank ya'll for another fantastic season. We appreciate you being a part of our community.

In our season finale, we listened to Donnie's Honesty Hour responses and provided commentary alongside our perspectives. We also have some News You Can Use with colorful banter included. Donnie's book club information is below if you are reading along with us.

Happy holidays in whatever way you celebrate, and ...

We're byke with another "Happy Hour" episode for ya'll. We've been away for a minute, and baby my, how things have changed. We're discussing a new marriage, new relationships (aggressively single where), and community.

We had so much SHTT to catch up on that we didn't get deep into News You Can Use; however, we definitely touched on a couple of polarizing news topics since we've been gone. Thanks ...

This is an episode about nothing. We turned on the mics and started chit-chatting with liquor in our cups. It was a time. You should've been there, but you can listen in. Enjoy the show!

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Sometimes in life, you have to call the manufacturer and tune in for a depiction of that illustrated by Donnie. In this episode, we also discuss influencer and entertainment news you can use featuring RaeShanda and that wife.

Additionally, we discuss SkeeYee Queen Sexyy Red via a conversation about aging.

Finally, we dive head-first into our conversation about grief and the interconnectivity of self-compassion, relationships, and...

Hey, ya'll! Welcome byke! We hop right in, catching up on what's been happening with us. We're all experiencing life via transitions, events, etc. We talk about Jasmine's relocation, and her adult son joins us! Donnie's moment of self-awareness via "going straight home" instead of what he agreed to, and Corey J's perspective on the journey to getting married while bringing two communities together ...

Welcome byke! We are celebrating the 50th anniversary of hip-hop, and it's providing the soundtrack for this episode. We catch up and talk about tons of music and a few eventful recent topics since we've been gone. Enjoy the show!

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Hey, Ya'll! It's our anniversary! We appreciate a fantastic three years of consistent listenership. We couldn't do it without you. *insert heart hand emoji*

As far as this episode? It's an assortment in there...sex, mamas, travel, music, booty cheeks, pegs, cooch, food, booty licking, Jesus, all of the things! A conversation was had. Enjoy the show!

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So, we take it back to where it all started. The sexual liberation of the 1960s, as we address the attack on black women from other black women. Crazy right? Additionally, we finish our conversation on early relationship dynamics, and our crew catch up and news you can use. Enjoy the show!

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In this episode, we discussed being in a polyamorous relationship and all the other SHTT we usually discuss. Enjoy the show!

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Welcome to summer! In this episode, we have an extensive conversation in our News You Can Use segment as we discuss what you'll discuss on the Twit. We have Donnie's honest hour question, and we reach into our nostalgia of experiencing summer growing up in different regions of the world. We round the episode with a spirited conversation about relationship attachment styles based on the academic theory of Nawal Mustafa, M.A....

Welcome byke! So, in this episode, Donnie and Jasmine tussle the entire time, and Corey J goes off about the made-up concept of emasculation, all while we have a special guest and friend to the show, Anitra, present. It was a time! We had a lively conversation about the gay community mirroring heterosexual normalities in relationships that led down a rabbit hole of religious and internalized homophobia mess. Then we discussed relat...

Honestly, it's complete chaos on the other side of the play button. The tequila was pouring, and the conversation was flowing. All of your favorite segments are there, including Donnie's Honesty Hour. Welcome back, and enjoy!

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In this episode, you are covered with the crew catch-up, news you can use, listener questions, and responses. Then we pick up where we left off last show by having a conversation asking if it is a red flag if a relationship is ALL work. Eventually, we arrived at an answer. Kinda.

Corey J also announced his new venture, and you can check out the work he will be doing on his website haveconversation.com

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Hey, ya'll! We are back with another eppy where we share our latest life updates and the listener's responses to Donnie's question, "What's hard about dating you?" While we did let ya'll have it a few times, we also share what is complex about dating each of us. Other than that, we're sitting around the table talking our SHTT per usual. Enjoy!

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Ya'll still there?! We've made it byke! Welcome to season 4! Can ya'll tell how excited we are by the use of all these exclamations? The crew is back with a guest host from season 1, Sabrina (aka to Corey as Pal), and it's a wang dang doodle. There's an extended crew catch-up this episode, and then we get into a conversation on masculinity and feminity from our personal experiences. There's also some science related to being born o...

Shout out to everybody; we had a good time! 

Get into our last episode of 2022 with the crew digging into some News You Can Use where a pastor tells a woman to wait for a man who she claims to be her husband; however, the man is in a whole relationship. Whole. 

Also, the Monopoly board game has come to kill, steal and destroy, and we'll explain more inside the episode. We recap our top 2022 episodes and revisit some of ou...

What's this episode about, you ask? Sex, drugs, lies, and vulnerability. Enjoy the show! 

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Hey, ya'll! If you like a splash of News, You Can Use mixed with a deep dive into relationship dynamics in the course of dating, then listen. We hope you all enjoy a great Thanksgiving with your friends and families. 

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