The Female Dating Strategy
Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”. Join Patricia and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most raw & real parts. Get Ready to LEVEL UP SIS. Talk to us at: contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com
Episodes
Rose checks in with an update: summer break is in session! Patricia and Rose will be back in August with new episodes and guest hosts! Stay tuned!
Patricia shares a useful metaphor to an open heart, but only partially open. That is until a visitor earns access to the full treasures of the secret bodega. No scrotes allowed.
Why online dating is weird, and why the same strategies apply
What does it mean to be a woman - an FDS queen - in the era of the internet? How do we date and approach online dating as a strategy? What approaches do we take and what are the means by which we vet and protect ourselves? Patricia and Rose host a freewheeling discussion of life, love, and FDS tactics online and on the ground!
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What to do in situations that are not outright violent, that fall under the umbrella of plausible deniability, but that leave you feeling uncertain or fearful? Patricia and Rose discuss the four F's: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn, and how we can learn to say "no" with our whole chest.
"Isolate, Inebriate, Intimidate, Repeat": article link from the Journal of Interpersonal Violence
Thich Nhat Hanh youtube video on helping hungry ghos...
Sometimes the best dating strategy is not dating at all. Here are 3 introspection questions you can ask yourself to figure out how that looks for you.
We loved getting all the episode ideas as well as co-hosting offers from you! It will take us a moment to get back to everyone
Let us know what you think via Spotify comments or email as at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com
Love you queens!
Scrotes die mad
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love u, see you next week
FDS OG Podcast Queen Savannah makes an appearance to offer her insights on pretty privilege and challenge the narrative. Is it really a privilege? Savannah and Rose discuss lesser-known facets of what pretty privileges signify for both the pretty and the plain.
If you would like to be featured on the show to share your dating or level-up lessons with the community, please shoot us an email at: contact@thefemaledatingstrategy...
Ladies, never date a philosopher - unless you want a masterclass in whataboutism, sealioning, gas lighting, and debates about your needs and boundaries!
Want your dating lessons to be featured on the show? Submit your Roast-a-Scrote to: contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com
In this episode, Patricia & Rose examine shame as a tool that shapes social norms and etiquette, and its usefulness in particular situations, often those involving men and male entitlement. Do we need to bring back shame as a social consequence? Is a Shame Renaissance on the horizon? Can or should FDS Queens embrace shame as a necessary behavioral corrective in dating and courtship?
Share your thoughts in the comments belo...
Join us today as we embark on a journey to men's emotional regulation, or lack thereof.
Scrotes die mad but it's actually tragic
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Also, apologies for missing a week. Life happens sometimes, but we are here and aim to keep the consistency ♡♡♡
Picking up on an ongoing conversation the previous FDS queens began - please revisit the classic recording, "We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to Lie" (May 5, 2021) - Patricia and Rose delve into the joys of sex and intimacy. They touch on the role of social media, the influence of porn, and the importance of sexual education in advocating for one's own pleasure.
In this episode, the Queens discuss how Rose's commitment to sobriety dovetailed with her discovery of FDS.
Correction: Rose is coming up on 3 YEARS of sobriety in March/April 2026
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Rose and Patricia delve into the timeless question: should you play games? In the ensuing discussion, they find answers that underline how important FDS principles are in ensuring a healthy approach to dating and life.
Would you like to share a Queen Level-Up Story? Or a roast-a-scrote tale? Write us at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com
Welcome back, queens! We are hyped and honored to kick-start the new era of FDS, and we hope to bring back the liveliness and zest of the OG days. We shall do our best
Buckle up for the first episode of the year. We are going to publish every other week and make sure we are consistent before getting back to weekly episodes, and ultimately open the subscriber-only content back up.
As we shared on Savanna's Swan Song (last pod), ...
Join the FDS hosts as they fete and say a bittersweet goodbye to the GOAT: Savannah, OG FDS Queen! We discuss her plans, the State of the Pod, and the goals for FDS in 2026!
Originally released as bonus content for our Patreon queens, the Bonus Queens dive deeper into the manipulative tactics commonly used in debates about dating, relationships, and gender dynamics.
🎙️ Episode Resources & Links
📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
👉 Download here
Originally released as bonus content for our Patreon baddies, we're bringing this one out of the vault just in time for summer. In this episode, the Queens break down what it really means to have a Hot Girl Summer FDS style.
🎙️ Episode Resources & Links
📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
👉 Download here
The Queens unpack emotional maturity, why it’s the core of any functional relationship and how to recognise it (or the lack of it).
🎙️ Episode Resources & Links
📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
👉 Download here
💖 Support the Podcast
Want more FDS content? Join us on our NEW and IMPROVED Patreon!
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Rose is joined by Sarah from Lainey Gossip to dissect the deeply embedded inequalities in the filmmaking and film criticism industries.
🎙️ Episode Resources & Links
📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
👉 Download here
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The Queens dissect the romantic, cultural and generational norms associated with Mother's Day and what this means for dating.
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Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
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