The Female Dating Strategy

The Female Dating Strategy

Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”. Join Diana and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most raw & real parts. Get Ready to LEVEL UP SIS. www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: @FemDatStrat Instagram: @_TheFemaleDatingStrategy

Episodes

June 18, 2025 47 mins

The Queens dissect the romantic, cultural and generational norms associated with Mother's Day and what this means for dating.

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The Queens are once again joined by renowned author and domestic abuse expert, Lundy Bancroft, whose groundbreaking work Why Does He Do That? has helped millions of women recognize the patterns of coercive control and emotional abuse in intimate relationships, to discuss toxic masculinity. 

 

Lundy Bancroft's first FDS appearance: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IH7Y0rJ8Kkw 

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The Queens sit down with the brilliant Dr. Jane Ward, author of The Tragedy of Heterosexuality to discuss why modern day heterosexual relationships often leave women feeling shortchanged. 

Check out Dr Jane's book here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Tragedy-Heterosexuality-56-Sexual-Cultures/dp/1479851558 

 

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Originally a bonus episode for our Patreon Queens, this  deep dive is now unlocked for the public! In this episode, the Bonus Queens break down the most common logical fallacies men and society at large use to dismiss women’s boundaries, dodge accountability, and manipulate the dating narrative in their favour.

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The Queens discuss how you can keep yourself safe when dating. Safety first!

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Renowned feminist Dr. Gail Dines (re) joins the Queens for another deep-dive into the devastating effects of the porn industry on modern masculinity and women. 

 

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The Queens are joined by special guest Amber Akilla to discuss the ins and outs of how to live your best life.

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Amber's Instagram: @amberakilla

Amber's Podcast: Friend Crush

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April 30, 2025 55 mins

The Queens are joined by Lisa from the AudaciTea podcast, where they serve the tea on origin stories, being a Swiftie, online trolls, male loneliness and, of course, having sky high standards.

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Check out the AudaciTea podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-audaci-tea/id1779370788 

 

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Diana is joined by joined by the ever-fabulous Fleeksie to dive into the parallels between toxic workplaces and toxic relationships.

 

Follow the Fleekazoid podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2Y8Pkk3pUZUVHCKbXbN6ef and Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/fleekazoid/id1566006317 

 

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The Queens unpack the importance of reclaiming your time, energy and sanity in a hustle-obsessed culture that glorifies burnout.

 

Savannah's appearance on the Audaci-Tea podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3SAa1bz70A&list=PLmy-GF0YwC9rHYPhGZmL4NYdIAKbLA8dH&index=4 

 

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The Queens get real about loss, legacy, and what it means to navigate life (and the dating world) after losing a father. 

 

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April 2, 2025 50 mins

The queens break down the science (and scam) behind why women keep going back to subpar partners and how to break free from the dopamine-fueled delusion. 

 

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The Roast-a-Scrote is back and this time Hollywood is on the FDS BBQ. 

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The Queens unpack the seductive pull of nostalgia and why romanticising the past is a losing game.

 

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The Queens break down audacity of male entitlement—when it’s reckless, when it’s strategic, and how women can borrow just enough of that confidence to level up their own lives. 

 

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March 5, 2025 57 mins

The Queens discuss their plans for levelling up in 2025 and how you can too.

 

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February 26, 2025 44 mins

The Queens discuss the importance of having and maintaining your boundaries.

 

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The Queens break down the myth that women must be endlessly open and emotionally available to be "worthy" of love, and practical ways to vet whether a man is emotionally safe before opening up. 

 

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The Queens dive into the natural order of courtship and discuss how you can and should get into the habit of wooing yourself. 

 

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The Queens tackle the grim reality of today’s dating landscape—what they call Doomsday Dating.

 

 

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