Who Gets Love?? (Hosted by: Christal Clear & BJ)

The Outcry (Rough Draft 2) speaks about the softness of two people in a relationship. As well as how those soft sides can mislead your partner, based on how THEY perceive softness. There are many parallels to this idea...so WGL decided to discuss it openly. Typically, when we experience softness most is in the bedroom. And whether you know it or not, there are acts in the bedroom that act as examples to the very things people desir...

Here we have a conversation built around the discovery of Christal's intuitive abilities to see the undetected traits of people around her. And what she has noticed is the methods people are using to express the needs they currently have. In this conversation, titled The Outcry, we break down what a need sounds like today. The details that you now see when an expectation is made known. And how the actions we see from men and wo...

Today is the finale of Why Can't You Hit Your Target. Christal and BJ discuss updating. Which has a duality to the average serial dater. Most commonly it means to reach higher than your current status or dealings. But almost never does it mean reevaluate yourself during and after each experience you have. Here we discuss how important updating is to nailing the targets you've been aiming at.

Think of dating as a resume. The...

Have you ever considered the possibility of having too many options being the reason you can't make a choice? We examine the idea, as well as question the listener about whether or not you've solidified your standards. These, among other things, could be the reason that you can't hit what you are aiming at. This draft focuses on the discipline, decisiveness, and devotion you have to your personal wants and needs. Tune i...

Rough Draft 2 of Why Can't You Hit Your Target deals with your aim and accuracy when it comes to hitting your mark. We subtitle this conversation From First Love to First Love...which discusses the vast changes that occur from when you were introduced to your first love. As well as how much of a different person you are by the time you fall in love as an adult. Do you account for all the changes you have made for yourself when proc...

Have you ever considered the possibility that the reason why love seems to suck so much is because you really don't know what you like? Today's draft examines this possibility. Titled Why Can't You Hit your Target?, Christal and BJ discuss the issues with adults making informed and concise decisions in who they pick. Are your standards based on who you truly find attractive? Or are you going for the opposite of who hurt you? Listen...

We are finally here at the finale for Push The Button. Here we discuss the support you give for the friend who looks crazy, stupid, or plain dumb based on your standards, when it comes to cheating or betrayal. We don't see support often being shown in moments where our own beliefs don't align with the choices being made. So we discuss what it looks like to support someone for something you disagree with.

Christal is more willing to...

Rough Draft 2 of Push The Button deals with the emotions involved in choosing to stay with someone who has wronged you. The power in the choice you make can truly make or break you. Simply because it doesn't guarantee a change in behavior in the one who has cheated. Should there be consequences to the actions that serve as punishment? BJ thinks so. But Christal believes that there has to be another approach to fixing this issue.

Li...

Who Gets Love is introducing their newest conversation titled Push The Button. This conversation is a very interesting approach to dealing with infidelity. Christal is at the forefront of this conversation delving into the ideas of how important confrontation is to the growth of the cheater and cheated on. BJ, on the other hand, feels that it's a great sign of disrespect to be stepped out on in such a way. So now, in order to get s...

The final draft of Smell the Rain Coming has arrived. The final draft speaks about self-inventory and accountability. The possibility of one being their own storm in life. Is it possible to be the cause and effect of your own love life? Thats what we discuss today.

BJ and Christal discuss what it's like to smell yourself...which in the old days meant to be full of yourself. It is very possible to become that when you feel you shoul...

Rough Draft 3 is our new draft that discusses your perception of storms you've yet to experience in life. Far too often we live vicariously through those we are close to. And without realizing it, we rob ourselves of our own personal experiences. We want to bring light to how good a teacher our personal experiences can be to the development of our love languages. 

The subtitle of this conversation is called Weather Proofing Yo...

Rough Draft 2 of Smell The Rain Coming deals with the beginning signs of storms that often go unnoticed. There are plenty of indications that serve as tell tales that go completely over our heads. And oftentimes we become upset with ourselves for what we've allowed, that we've seen all along. Which although we may have been wronged, we are still at fault for. 

This draft discusses The Lawn You Don't Water , which serves as a s...

Who Gets Love bring a brand new conversation that deals with our instincts and intuitions. Titled Smell The Rain Coming, Christal and BJ discuss how are senses can assist in being proactive to our issues in relationships. There was a time when many believe to have had the ability to smell a storm in the air. Some of us still can smell the weather changes ahead just by getting a whiff of the outside air. But what about the air you b...

This week's draft continues the conversation of topic, Wrong and Unsafe. This conversation intends on establishing grounds for people in question to find comfort in their realities. We discuss the responsibility it takes to become aware. As well as what has to happen for the people involved to be completely honest with one another. Which isn't always an easy task. Take a listen to this conversation and let us know what you think. R...

How important is honesty to you in today's world? Is it imperative that those around you keep it real with you?

Those are questions that NOW we question to even matter at this day and age. Considering the fact that living a lie is such a real thing today. Today, Who Gets Love is discussing the position of being insecure in yourself. And in the discussion, we dissect how incorrect our feelings and beliefs are to concepts (not necess...

Today is the release of the Final Draft of Handsome Devil. This is a difficult conversation to have with yourself, and your partner. That conversation is when two people play a part in the current issues but can't defend their position at all. Normally, this happens when circumstances have reached a point of no return. How long do you continue to fight your demons before they kill you? That's primarily the question this conversatio...

Today's draft follows up on the conversation in Rough Draft 1, where BJ asked Christal..."how do you let a man know his promise, or potential, despite him not being the one you choose?'

We discuss how hard it is to stay energized in dating, with little to no encouragement or context from the person on the other side of the table. And for men, the complex responses from women often leave us feeling like failures when we can't g...