Raising Teens with Collett Smart
When it comes to raising little ones, we often feel as though we have a small village around us – in morning play groups, meeting other parents at tots’ birthday parties, or on the sides of sports fields. It can feel like we have it (mostly) under control. Until our child gradually emerges into their teen years and so much changes! It is a unique time for both you and your child. Sometimes, everything you thought you knew goes out the window and you’re struggling to keep up. You look around and the village seems to have diminished. Raising Teens will be part of your support system – your village! There will be something here for everyone who cares for teens. Most importantly, this is your resource, so we want to hear from you – your challenges, your suggestions – you are part of this community. For more information, expert advice or to ask Collett a question, visit raisingteens.au. The information provided on this podcast is for general educational purposes only and does not take into account your personal situation. It is not a substitute for professional advice. We recommend you seek a medical or healthcare professional if you are seeking advice, diagnosis or treatment. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via the Hope website, Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram.
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Key Takeaways:
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Embrace the busy and often unpredictable nature of the festive season with a mindset of self-compassion and adaptability.
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Family traditions may evolve over time, and it’s okay for things to look different year to year.
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Practicing mindfulness and taking time for personal reflection can be crucial for mental health during busy times.
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Asking for help and setting boundaries can mitigate overwhelming fee...
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Key Takeaways:
I CARE Framework: Learn how to Identify changes in behavior, show compassion, Access mental health experts, Revitalise social engagement, and the importance of Exercise.
Engaging Teen Boys: Effective ways to engage young men in mental health conversations through shared activities and subtle inquiries.
Self-Care for Carers: The importance of carers maintaining their own vitality, intimacy, and prosperity to provide e...
Key Takeaways:
Influence of Self Talk: The constant internal chatter significantly impacts our emotions, behaviors, and overall well-being, with both positive and negative aspects.
Parental Responsibility: The manner in which parents talk to their children can shape their children’s inner voices, underlining the importance of mindful and compassionate communication.
Recognition and Awareness: Encouraging teens to recognize and arti...
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Key Takeaways:
Open Communication: Essential for integrating tracking apps harmoniously within the family. Parents should discuss and agree with their teens on how and why apps are used.
Modelling Healthy Tech Use: Parents should exemplify balanced, respectful tech habits, reinforcing mutual trust in the family.
Evaluate Pros and Cons: Weigh the benefits and concerns of tracking apps with your teens to ensure their comfort and priv...
Key Takeaways:
Importance of Grandparents: Grandparents provide emotional stability, a sense of continuity, and resilience-building for grandchildren.
Building Relationships: Key strategies include discovering the grandchild's interests, participating in their milestone events, and documenting family histories.
Respect and Boundaries: Grandparents must respect the parenting styles and boundaries set by parents to avoid conflicts.
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Key Takeaways:
Gratitude's Impact on Well-Being: Practicing gratitude can significantly improve happiness, optimism, and even physical health. Collett references research showing that people who focus on gratitude feel better about their lives and visit the doctor less frequently.
Empathy and Mirror Neurons: Empathy is crucial for fostering caring relationships and is neurologically wired into our brains through mirror neurons. Lea...
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Key Takeaways:
Integrating GEM Thoughts: Practicing Gratitude, Empathy, and Mindfulness can significantly improve mental well-being and resilience.
Parental Involvement: Engaged parenting and modeling resilience can positively influence children’s ability to handle life’s challenges.
Importance of Structure: Establi...
Key Takeaways:
Safety: Create a safe physical and emotional space for your child to feel comfortable discussing trauma.
Trustworthiness: Build a trusting relationship with a gentle approach, clear communication, and respect for privacy.
Choice: Allow your child to have a say in when and how they discuss their trauma and the steps they take.
Collaboration: Work alongside your child, letting them be part of the process in seeking hel...
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Trauma Awareness: Understand the distinction between Big T trauma (life-threatening events) and Little t trauma (non-life-threatening but emotionally distressing events).
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Trauma Responses: Familiarize with the five F's of trauma responses: Fight, Flight, Free...
Key Takeaways:
Definition and Importance of Mental Health Carers: Understanding the critical role of a mental health carer and the importance of recognizing yourself as one.
Self-Care for Carers: Emphasizing that self-care isn't selfish but necessary for effective support.
VIP Framework: Applying the VIP framework—Vitality, Intimacy, Prosperity—to ensure holistic well-being.
Support Strategies: Practical advice for offering encoura...
Collett is back! Recording is underway, so do take this opportunity to send in your questions, thoughts and requests of all things Raising Teens! We have lots of great topics to share with you so we cannot wait to let you in on it!
Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice.
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