Who Even Are We?

Who Even Are We?

After millions of downloads and years of oversharing on Am I A Bad Mum?, Katie Mattin and Rachel Thaiday are introducing Who Even Are We. Who Even Are We? is a twice-weekly podcast about identity shifts, friendships, parenting teens (or nearly teens), marriage, confidence, chaos, and all the things no one prepares you for. From honest confessions to ridiculous stories and conversations that swing from hilarious to heartfelt, nothing is off limits and nothing is polished! It’s real life, real friendship, and real talk for anyone who’s ever looked around and thought… who even are we now?

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May 19, 2026 9 mins

In this bonus episode of Who Even Are We, we take on one of life’s most unexpectedly divisive topics: picking up after your dog. From proud poo-bag swingers to community Facebook vigilantes and the awkward moment your dog chooses the worst possible place to go!

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In this episode we get honest about the never-ending world of beauty maintenance. From Botox, brows and box dye to laser, nails, nose hair and the guilt of spending money on yourself, we unpack the things women feel pressured to do, the treatments we swear by, and the beauty trends we just don’t understand. 

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May 12, 2026 21 mins

In this episode we get honest about aging, beauty standards, plastic surgery, grey hairs, sagging skin, social media filters and the pressure to “age gracefully.” From nose jobs and boob jobs to skincare, sea moss and the things we obsess over in the mirror, but wanting to feel confident while also learning to be kinder to ourselves.

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In this episode we talk about the strange, emotional and sometimes freeing stage of life when kids start to leave home. After years of being needed, organising everyone and building life around the family, what happens when the house gets quieter? We unpack identity, purpose, guilt, freedom, relationships and the big question so many parents face: who am I now?

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May 5, 2026 10 mins

Why is it that as we get older we don't enjoy going as much or being in large groups? Once upon a time we loved to socialise and now we like to be at home!

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May 3, 2026 26 mins

In this episode we talk about our 20-year-old selves and how, although we wish we looked like we did back then, it's taken a long time to realise our self-worth. Katie admits she feels sad for her 20-year-old self and reveals something she never thought she would share.

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April 28, 2026 9 mins

Katie decided to take her kids on a day out in the city to ride Lime scooters, but it didn't quite go to plan!

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April 26, 2026 27 mins

In this episode we chat about the things we worry about - which, as females and Mum's feels like EVERYTHING! There are techniques we use that we want to share to help our fellow worryers! 

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April 21, 2026 14 mins

In this episode Katie has researched Cortisol and has some interesting information to share around fasting and how we should be eating as women in our 40's.

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In this episode we chat about the work we need to do on our own self esteem to equip us with parenting teenagers because it's a wild ride that can do terrible things for our confidence! From being a team to feeling like the odd one out in the household and always the bad guy struggling to get through, we get really honest.

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In this episode we discuss 3 different acts of kindness and how Katie made hers more about herself!

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April 12, 2026 22 mins

As Mum's we tend to carry the mental load but is it because our brains are wired differently?? And why do we feel guilt over asking for help? In this episode we chat what we do v what we should be doing!

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In this episode we chat about the jobs that could soon be taken by AI. Katie has 2 examples of using AI instead of going to the GP but Rach is NOT convinced!

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March 31, 2026 16 mins

We've both watched the show and have our own takes on the controversial Louis Theroux: Inside the Manosphere show on Netflix! Why we think the men are nothing but salesmen and our concern for the girls.

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In this episode we are Joined from Los Angeles by Evidential / psychic / trance medium Barbra Banner to chat about connecting with spirits, the messages that come through and how to trust the signs.

You can connect with Barbra at www.bannermedium.com 

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March 24, 2026 19 mins

Rach spends a lot of time researching what we do and don't need, and Katie wastes a lot of money on what she sees on Instagram that she thinks she needs. So what should we be taking that won't break the bank??

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March 22, 2026 32 mins

In this episode we chat about jobs and Rach changing her career in her 40's. Also when you lose your job, who are you left with? We unpack identity loss, Katie’s “fallen star” moment after radio, and the harsh reality of fair-weather friends when the spotlight fades.

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March 17, 2026 21 mins

We’ve all had moments we don’t talk about, and in this episode Katie opens up about a time when she didn't even have the money to buy her kids school uniforms. The shame she carried and the showing up like everything was ok.

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March 15, 2026 29 mins

In this episode we chat money, money, money! From comparison with others, our money blocks, anxiety, and the shame around it.

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March 10, 2026 13 mins

In this episode we address the story that's dominating Australian headlines - what's going on with Kyle & Jackie O??? After working in radio for 17 years Katie has some thoughts on what's actually going on....

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