Get Your Sexy Back
Get Your Sexy Back ~ for Couples is the podcast for intimate partners who are ready to reclaim the passion, power, and deep soulful connection they know is possible...but haven’t quite known how to access… until now. Hosted by Intimacy, Relationship, and Tantra teacher Kim Coffin and her partner Roberto, this show is an unfiltered, heart-led exploration of sacred sexuality, conscious communication, emotional safety, and the alchemy of modern relationships. Together, they bring both the feminine and masculine lens...bridging trauma healing and nervous system wisdom with the raw, playful, and deeply embodied tools of Tantra. You’ll hear real conversations about: * Navigating sex and intimacy without shame or performance * Creating polarity and chemistry in long-term partnership * What it actually takes to feel seen, heard, and deeply connected * How to fight, repair, and grow without breaking your bond * Embodying your full sexual expression...and supporting your partner’s * Building sacred union, one practice at a time Whether you’re healing together, growing together, or just starting to explore sacred intimacy, this podcast is your permission slip to show up as your full self...in and out of the bedroom. Let’s take your relationship from functional…to phenomenal.
Episodes
You know that feeling when a simple conversation spirals into the same fight you’ve had a hundred times before.
It’s not about the dishes or the money. It’s about safety, disconnection, and your nervous system trying to protect you.
In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we open up about how to recognize when your nervous systems are running the show and how to repair and reconnect when it happens.
What Yo...
Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Stress takes over. And without even noticing, intimacy fades, sex feels functional, and play disappears.
In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we unpack why pleasure and play aren’t indulgences and why they’re the medicine your relationship needs to thrive.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
✨ Why pleasure is not a luxury and how it’s foundational for intimacy...
You love each other, share a life together, maybe even still laugh sometimes… but if you’re honest, the spark is gone. Intimacy feels flat, and you’re more like roommates than lovers.
In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why the “roommate phase” happens, what it really costs, and how to shift back into passion, play, and deep intimacy.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
- How couples silen...
If sex feels disconnected, mechanical, or just not happening, then the real block might not be desire… it might be safety.
In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why emotional safety is the foundation of intimacy and how it creates the conditions for passion, polarity, and lasting connection.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
- What emotional safety really means and why “not fighti...
Every couple knows the ache of mismatched desire — when one of you is longing for more intimacy, while the other feels pulled back or pressured.
In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share how to reframe desire mismatch from a source of conflict into an opportunity for deeper connection, presence, and intimacy.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
- Why mismatched desires don’t mean your relationsh...
So many of us were told that passion fades with age and that once you’re in your 40s, 50s, or beyond, intimacy is over.
We’re here to call bullsh!t on that story.
In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why intimacy can actually deepen with age and how to reignite the spark in your relationship, no matter where you are on the journey.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
- Busting the myth that...
You’d think retreat leaders wouldn’t “need” a retreat themselves… but the truth is, we’ll never be done learning, deepening, and choosing each other.
In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why we said yes to flying across the world for a couples mastermind and retreat — and what it gave us as partners, lovers, and leaders.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
- Why we signed up for a six-mont...
Do you ever feel like you and your partner have become more like roommates than lovers? The truth is… your spark isn’t gone. It’s waiting to be remembered.
In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share how presence, polarity, and sacred intimacy can bring back desire—without starting from scratch.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
- Why your spark isn’t gone and it’s buried under stress, routine, and disc...
In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share how the natural dance between the masculine and feminine can transform your intimacy, trust, and erotic connection. Whether you’re new to polarity or deep in your practice, this conversation offers insight, lived experience, and tangible steps to bring more presence and passion into your relationship.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
- Why the feminine opens ...
What if sacred sexuality started with eye contact, breath, and truth-telling? This is what Tantra really looks like, and for couples who are ready to feel more.
In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we debunk the biggest myths surrounding Tantra and explore how it can become a living, embodied practice that fosters presence, trust, and sacred connection.
💫 What you’ll hear in this episode:
• Why Tantra isn...
In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we guide you through the experience of a private couples retreat, revealing what happens behind the scenes — from intention-setting to integration. If you’ve ever wondered what it’s really like to do this work in a sacred, supported container… this one’s for you.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
- What makes a private retreat different from group work
- How to set powerf...
In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we unpack the dynamics of sacred polarity and share how presence, safety, and honest communication create the foundation for deep, lasting intimacy.
💫 What you’ll hear in this episode:
- Why emotional safety is the foundation for feminine surrender
- What grounded masculine leadership looks and feels like
- How to lead with presence instead of pressure and why it changes eve...
From the sacred fire of Phoenix Rising Retreats… comes the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast. In this week’s episode, we open up about one of the most tender edges in a relationship: how to invite your partner into deeper intimacy, without nagging, pushing, or trying to fix him. We unpack real examples from our journey and offer grounded, heart-led tools you can start using today.
✨ Here’s what we cover:
- The shift from “I wish he would...
Even after years of tantra, pleasure work, and healing, you can still find yourself having disconnected sex, obligation sex, or even “Let’s just get it over with” sex.
And you’re not broken for that.
In this episode, Pleasure Is a Practice: Why Good Sex Doesn’t Just Happen, we pull back the curtain on our own sexual evolution, what we used to believe was “good sex” (think: drunk, performative, porn-scripted), and how it’s now becom...
Real talk… Most couples wait until they’re hanging on by a thread before they even think about going to a retreat. We get it—we’ve been there. But what if we told you that waiting until things hit rock bottom is one of the biggest mistakes you can make for your relationship?
In this episode, we dive into a raw and honest conversation about..
- Why do most couples wait too long before going on a retreat
- How can you shift from crisi...
Let’s talk about blowjobs.
Not the performative, porn-scripted kind. And not the kind you give just to “get it over with.” We’re talking about the ones that are offered from genuine turn-on, deep connection, and sovereign choice.
In this week’s episode, we open up about a very real part of our journey- how something that used to feel like a chore (for Kim) became a space of embodied pleasure, sacred play, and deep trust between us.
An...
Desire isn’t something you chase. It’s something you create together. We used to think desire was about how we looked, the outfit, the hair, and the moment. But now, after everything we’ve navigated together, we know it’s so much deeper than that.
In this episode, we share…
- What desire truly means to us now as a couple who’s done the healing, unlearning, and re-embodying
- How our ideas of desire have changed over the years
- What a...
And we are back with another episode! This time, let’s talk about something that holds the key to deeper intimacy — communication.
Because when you create a space of safety and presence, you not only open the door to better communication… you unlock the full potential of love, joy, and sexy connection in your relationship.
In this week’s episode, we explored…
- How many of us (yes, both women and men) have been conditioned to hold...
We’re Kim and Roberto, and we’re thrilled to be co-hosting this journey together, both on podcasts and in life ❤️We're excited to bring a fresh perspective on certain topics and offer a unique view on various aspects as a couple.
In this episode, we will share about…
- How our relationship evolved from early “can’t-believe-this-is-happening” moments to launching Phoenix Rising Retreats up on our lakeside sanctuary
- Transitioning fr...
There’s a sacred shift that happens when a woman stops trying to do it all and starts asking, “What would it look like to actually live in balance?” Bliss isn’t a destination—it’s a frequency you can embody daily.
In this episode, Danite and I go deep about...
- What happens when the life you built no longer fits the woman you’ve become?
- Could bliss be something you tune into, not chase after?
- Are you leading with your mind... or yo...
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